093: 5 Steps to Get Everything You Want

The Affluent Creative

As a designer, you might find yourself stuck in old patterns and beliefs that are preventing you from reaching your goals. You may think you aren’t good enough to be published. You may believe that you have to always say “yes” to every single prospect, regardless if it’s an ideal project or not. These types of patterns and beliefs don’t just affect your business, but your personal life as well. In this episode, you will learn about the transformative power of identity shifts and how they can help you achieve everything you want, in business and personal life. I am sharing the five steps you need to implement in order to shift your identity and see profound changes in your life.

THE POWER OF THE “I AM” STATEMENT

Understanding the power of identity is crucial for professional and personal growth. Your “I am” statements define your self-perception and guide your actions. Whether you say, “I am a runner” or “I am a workaholic,” each statement reflects your commitment to specific behaviors and actions you take. Changing your identity involves aligning your actions with the person you aspire to become. Overcoming limiting beliefs and adopting new habits can lead to transformative shifts. By intentionally shaping our identities and consistently taking steps toward our goals, you empower yourself to get everything you want.

WHO DO YOU WANT TO BE?

Take some time to think about the person you aspire to become. What qualities define this ideal version of yourself? Write down these qualities and values as a guidepost. For inspiration, look for someone who is real and relatable, such as friends, peers, or fellow designers. Study their journey and the actions they took to achieve their goals. By understanding their journey, you can gain insights that may help you shape your own path.

After actively seeking out 1 to 3 individuals who inspire you, the next step is to deliberately emulate their actions and behaviors. Don’t just copy and do what they do. After all, they may not have the same exact goals that you do. This process is more about embodying their mindset and approach. As you immerse yourself in similar practices, you will start to mold yourself into the person you envision.

EMBODY AND CELEBRATE YOUR NEW IDENTITY

As you become more committed to this change, you need to embody your new identity. It’s not just about going through the motions, it’s about internalizing these actions until they become second nature. Act as if you are already the person you aspire to be. This shift from doing to being is transformative. To reinforce this transformation, it’s critical that you celebrate your progress along the way. When you find yourself aligning your actions with your new identity, you need to stop and appreciate those moments. Acknowledge and reward yourself for the steps you are taking towards your growth. This positive reinforcement strengthens your commitment and motivates you to keep moving forward.

SELF-COMPASSION ALONG THE WAY

While celebrating your progress is critical, it’s equally as important to show yourself compassion when you falter on your journey. Journeys include setbacks and you will make mistakes along the way. When these setbacks occur, reflect on how the new version of you would respond. Instead of dwelling on failure, give yourself grace and learn from the experience. The new version of you would not give up in the face of challenges. They would choose to learn and grow. By embracing this mindset, you empower yourself to navigate obstacles with resilience and determination.

It’s time to embrace change, get out of your comfort zone, and become the person who achieves everything they set their heart on.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL HEAR:

• (1:35) Figuring out your “I am” statements

• (5:45) Examples of limiting beliefs designers hold

• (9:50) Why taking action without shifting your identity is self-sabotage

• (12:45) The power of changing your identity with intention

• (20:05) The five steps to shifting your identity

• (34:45) Why comfort zones are not actually comfortable

• (36:30) The question you need to ask yourself at the start of the day