5: Transforming Divorce Conflict Into Collaboration With "Team Us"

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In this episode of "I'll Meet You There," I have an enlightening conversation with Scott Levin, an experienced mediator known for his peaceful approach to divorce and conflict resolution. Scott, who has been helping couples navigate the complexities of separation without court battles, shares his insights on fostering teamwork and finding creative solutions during mediation.

The discussion delves into the importance of keeping all parties in the same room during mediation to ensure direct communication and more equitable solutions. Scott emphasizes the power of teamwork in conflict resolution, where the focus is on solving issues together rather than working against each other.

He also shares personal anecdotes and professional experiences that highlight the transformative impact of mediation on individuals' lives, advocating for a cooperative and compassionate approach to resolving disputes.

What We Explored This Episode

02:58 - Scott's Background and Interest in Law

04:25 - Early Influences and Deciding on a Career Path

06:00 - Transition from Law School to Mediation

09:49 - Starting a Startup and Shifting to Mediation

12:44 - Impactful Mediation Case and Learning from Experience

21:04 - Learning and Growing in the Field of Mediation

25:02 - Building Momentum and Handling Emotions in Mediation

31:36 - Importance of Continuous Engagement and Building Trust

38:42 - Handling Personal Emotions and Staying Neutral

40:30 - Financial Aspects and Challenges in Relationships

44:04 - The Role of Empathy and Understanding in Mediation

48:24 - Reflections on Divorce and Its Impact

51:15 - The Role of Curiosity and Understanding in Conflict Resolution

54:01 - The Origin of "Chief Peacekeeper" and Its Significance

58:12 - Surprising Outcomes and Positive Aspects of Mediation

Memorable Quotes

On Mediation and Teamwork:

"We form a team. We're on team us. The issues are the problem, not us against each other."

On the Impact of Mediation:

"In mediation, you can make an impact on people's lives. It doesn't change society as a whole, but you can really have an impact on people and their kids and their futures."

On the Importance of Financial Transparency in Relationships:

"A lot of people that get divorced are not sharing money... I encourage people to create a shared financial situation. It leads to a stronger team dynamic."

On the Emotional Aspects of Mediation:

"I see a lot of generosity in what I do. People show each other more generosity than you might expect. They often want to set each other up for success, not defeat each other."

On Personal Growth Through Divorce:

"I see people who are so proud of themselves for the career success they've achieved after their divorce. They've taken responsibility and really changed their situation from fear of the unknown to a new reality."

Resources Mentioned

Second Saturday - A workshop that provides people with information about their divorce options. It features various professionals, including attorneys and financial analysts, to educate on divorce processes. https://www.secondsaturday.com/

Woody Mosten - Mentioned as a go-to for mediation training, Woody Mosten is a well-known figure in the mediation community. https://www.mostenmediation.com/

Arthur Ashe and Donald Dell - Mentioned in the context of Scott Levin's early interest in becoming a sports attorney. Arthur Ashe was a professional tennis player, and Donald Dell is a sports agent.

University of Virginia - Mentioned as the university where Scott Levin attended law school. https://www.virginia.edu/

MiraCosta College - Mentioned as the location where the Second Saturday workshops are held in San Diego. https://www.miracosta.edu/

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Connect with Scott

San Diego Divorce Mediation & Family Law - This is the firm founded by Scott Levin, known for its approach to peaceful divorce and co-parenting solutions. https://sandiegofamilylawyer.net/

Scott's Podcast, Doing Divorce Right By Chief PeaceKeeper™ - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/doing-divorce-right-by-chief-peacekeeper/id1706047619

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ChiefPeaceKeeper/

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/levinscott/

Instagram - https://instagram.com/sandiegodivorcemediation

Connect with Paige

Website - https://paigenolan.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/paigenolanwrite

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/paigenolanwriter

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/paige-nolan-0932751/

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Music by Boyd McDonnell

Cover art photography by Innis Casey

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