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BRIDE PRICE | EP 8 | BLACK AND WHITE THINKING PODCAST

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Would you pay your spouse's family to marry them?

Not going to lie, we thought this would be a quick discussion but introducing someone to your culture & traditions, especially when there can be negative connotations means sometimes you need to come back to certain conversations.

Will G pay a bride price? Will Chik find a happy compromise?

Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday.

In this episode:

01:32 This weeks topic: Bride Price

03:11 How does it work?

06:21 Bride Price = Selling their daughter to a man for an agreed price

12:19 How it feels as a woman when they say this is your worth

24:58 Should you get rid of the tradition in this day and age?

29:32 Would you adapt the concept if it was outside of your cultural traditions?

41:43 As an African daughter your work is never done so how can we feel safer setting up a man with a home who might switch up on us?

Relevant links:

Chik & G Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lifebychikandg/

Chik & G Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@lifebychikandg

Chikumo’s Instagram https://www.instagram.com/chikumof/

Chikumo’s Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@chikumof

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Would you pay your spouse's family to marry them?

Not going to lie, we thought this would be a quick discussion but introducing someone to your culture & traditions, especially when there can be negative connotations means sometimes you need to come back to certain conversations.

Will G pay a bride price? Will Chik find a happy compromise?

Subscribe for new episodes every other Thursday.

In this episode:

01:32 This weeks topic: Bride Price

03:11 How does it work?

06:21 Bride Price = Selling their daughter to a man for an agreed price

12:19 How it feels as a woman when they say this is your worth

24:58 Should you get rid of the tradition in this day and age?

29:32 Would you adapt the concept if it was outside of your cultural traditions?

41:43 As an African daughter your work is never done so how can we feel safer setting up a man with a home who might switch up on us?

Relevant links:

Chik & G Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lifebychikandg/

Chik & G Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@lifebychikandg

Chikumo’s Instagram https://www.instagram.com/chikumof/

Chikumo’s Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@chikumof

  continue reading

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