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17: "I hate my spouse!"

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In this episode, we dive into the hard-to-admit but common feeling of "hating" your spouse. What does it really mean when those emotions surface, and where do they come from? We'll explore the dysfunctional communication patterns—like criticism, contempt, and defensiveness—that often fuel resentment and emotional distance in relationships. More importantly, we’ll break down how unmet needs can drive those patterns and offer practical ways to interrupt the cycle, rebuild trust, and reconnect with your partner. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a negative dynamic, this episode is for you. Tune in to discover how to shift from conflict to collaboration, and start healing the disconnect.

Resources:

Stop Fighting! (without stuffing your feelings or sacrificing your needs) 8-Week Private Coaching Program for Couples: https://www.alimillercoaching.com/stopfighting

Free Feelings and Needs lists: https://www.alimillercoaching.com/feelingsandneeds

The 4 Steps to Stop Any Fight without Giving In: Free Mini-Course: https://www.alimillercoaching.com/feelingsandneeds

Book a call! www.calendly.com/alimillercoaching/45

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Manage episode 439056699 series 3563008
Content provided by Ali Miller. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Ali Miller or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://player.fm/legal.

In this episode, we dive into the hard-to-admit but common feeling of "hating" your spouse. What does it really mean when those emotions surface, and where do they come from? We'll explore the dysfunctional communication patterns—like criticism, contempt, and defensiveness—that often fuel resentment and emotional distance in relationships. More importantly, we’ll break down how unmet needs can drive those patterns and offer practical ways to interrupt the cycle, rebuild trust, and reconnect with your partner. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a negative dynamic, this episode is for you. Tune in to discover how to shift from conflict to collaboration, and start healing the disconnect.

Resources:

Stop Fighting! (without stuffing your feelings or sacrificing your needs) 8-Week Private Coaching Program for Couples: https://www.alimillercoaching.com/stopfighting

Free Feelings and Needs lists: https://www.alimillercoaching.com/feelingsandneeds

The 4 Steps to Stop Any Fight without Giving In: Free Mini-Course: https://www.alimillercoaching.com/feelingsandneeds

Book a call! www.calendly.com/alimillercoaching/45

  continue reading

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