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17: reclaiming the erotic

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Today we are redefining and reimagining the Erotic. What is it, why is it so powerful, and how can we bring more of it into our lives? We will hear clips from Audre Lordeā€™s seminal essay, The Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power, as well as words of wisdom from adrienne maree brown, and Esther Perel. I hope this makes you feel enlivened, and invites more Erotic experiences into your life. I dream of a society rooted in aliveness instead of death, especially of the most marginalized. Let's dream together.

ADVICE COLUMN:

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šŸ“© OR WRITE IN an advice question anonymously at the ā ā ASK Ayanda formā  hereā .

šŸŽ„: Watch the VIDEO of this episode on Spotify or YouTube.

Key quote from episode:

ā€œWhat makes you feel alive? Keep a note on your phone of moments, experiences, people, that enliven you"

Time stamps:

(00:00): Intro to The Erotic

(07:09): Intro to Audre Lorde

(13:33): Esther Perel on the Erotic

(17:17): What makes you feel alive?

(19:10): Public parks as Erotic spaces

(22:11): adrienne maree brown on Audre Lordeā€™s Uses of the Erotic

(22:55): Love & The Erotic ft. bell hooks

(33:66): Audre Lorde on how the Erotic functions in her life

(36:30): Closing

Sources mentioned:

Essay: Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power by Audre Lorde

Essay reading: Audre Lorde reads Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic As Power

Website: Adrienne maree brown

Book: Emergent Strategy by adrienne maree brown

Book: Pleasure Activism by adrienne maree brown

Book: All About Love by bell hooks

YouTube: What is Erotic Intelligence? (Mindvalley Talks) by Esther Perel

TED Talk: Rethinking infidelity by Esther Perel

Discussion: Reimagining Desire post on my Substack

Essays on porn by adrienne maree brown: Liberating Desire & The Pleasure Dome

TikTok: Follow Misako Envela @MisakoEnvela on YouTube and @misako_envela on TikTok

Join the community:

ayandastood.substack.com please join me here!

Follow me at @ayandastood on TikTok and @ayandastood on IG.

Next Showing Up Together Event: August 6, 10am-1pm EST | RSVP here

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Today we are redefining and reimagining the Erotic. What is it, why is it so powerful, and how can we bring more of it into our lives? We will hear clips from Audre Lordeā€™s seminal essay, The Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power, as well as words of wisdom from adrienne maree brown, and Esther Perel. I hope this makes you feel enlivened, and invites more Erotic experiences into your life. I dream of a society rooted in aliveness instead of death, especially of the most marginalized. Let's dream together.

ADVICE COLUMN:

ā˜Žļø seeking advice and want to PHONE IN with a question? ā ā ā ā submit a voicemail hereā ā ā ā .

šŸ“© OR WRITE IN an advice question anonymously at the ā ā ASK Ayanda formā  hereā .

šŸŽ„: Watch the VIDEO of this episode on Spotify or YouTube.

Key quote from episode:

ā€œWhat makes you feel alive? Keep a note on your phone of moments, experiences, people, that enliven you"

Time stamps:

(00:00): Intro to The Erotic

(07:09): Intro to Audre Lorde

(13:33): Esther Perel on the Erotic

(17:17): What makes you feel alive?

(19:10): Public parks as Erotic spaces

(22:11): adrienne maree brown on Audre Lordeā€™s Uses of the Erotic

(22:55): Love & The Erotic ft. bell hooks

(33:66): Audre Lorde on how the Erotic functions in her life

(36:30): Closing

Sources mentioned:

Essay: Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power by Audre Lorde

Essay reading: Audre Lorde reads Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic As Power

Website: Adrienne maree brown

Book: Emergent Strategy by adrienne maree brown

Book: Pleasure Activism by adrienne maree brown

Book: All About Love by bell hooks

YouTube: What is Erotic Intelligence? (Mindvalley Talks) by Esther Perel

TED Talk: Rethinking infidelity by Esther Perel

Discussion: Reimagining Desire post on my Substack

Essays on porn by adrienne maree brown: Liberating Desire & The Pleasure Dome

TikTok: Follow Misako Envela @MisakoEnvela on YouTube and @misako_envela on TikTok

Join the community:

ayandastood.substack.com please join me here!

Follow me at @ayandastood on TikTok and @ayandastood on IG.

Next Showing Up Together Event: August 6, 10am-1pm EST | RSVP here

--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ayandastood/support
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