Episode 53: Terrible Boyfriend But Great Husband with Jake Porter

The BizDad Podcast

“I really believe that as leaders, the organizations we lead eventually become a mirror of us, especially once we've been there long enough." —Jake Porter

In this episode, Dr. Jake Porter, a psychotherapist and former pastor, shares his incredible journey from pastoral work to counseling, specializing in addiction and trauma. Dr. Porter discusses his pivotal life transformation in 2017, the complexities of marriage, and the significance of secure attachments in parenting. He provides practical advice for raising emotionally healthy children while balancing a demanding career and explores the parallels between parenting and leading a business, emphasizing self-awareness and long-term relational investments. This engaging episode is packed with valuable takeaways for anyone trying to juggle professional and personal challenges.

Takeaways:

- Pastoral work includes business management and spiritual guidance.

- Secure attachment figures aid self-regulation in relationships.

- Repairing relationship ruptures builds secure attachments.

- Owning mistakes and showing vulnerability is key in parenting.

- Faith can aid personal transformation and secure attachments.

- Attachment theory helps in healthy relationships and parenting.

- Validation of children's emotions is essential, even without agreement.

- Self-awareness breaks negative childhood patterns for better parenting.

- Parenting parallels business: long-term investment and self-reflection.

- Every day shapes the parent-child relationship.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

02:04 Counseling Practice Specializations

07:05 Family's Influence on Career

34:30 Faith's Role in Transformation

37:21 Secure Attachments through Repair

43:43 Self-Regulation and Co-Regulation

54:59 Modeling Vulnerability in Parenting

01:00:27 Attachment Theory Insights

01:06:23 Repairing Relationships and Emotions

01:07:59 Validation vs Agreement

01:11:37 Breaking Negative Patterns

01:19:11 Parenting and Business Parallels

01:25:37 Investing in Relationships and Team

01:30:55 Intentional Parenting Awareness

Connect with Dr. Jake Porter:

http://instagram.com/drjakeporter

http://facebook.com/drjakeporter

http://youtube.com/@drjakeporter

http://linkedin.com/in/drjakeporter

http://drjakeporter.com

___

👉ATR 2100 Microphone I use: https://amzn.to/4c6IZwU

👉Mic Mount: https://amzn.to/3VAbzzD

👉My boom: https://amzn.to/4eA3xPW

⭐ ⭐ ⭐ Audio Podcast is currently on your favorite platforms:

🎧ApplePodcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-bizdad-podcast/id1692797876

✅Important Links to Follow

🔗Connect with Adam La Barr on Minnect!

https://app.minnect.com/expert/AdamLaBarr

✅ Stay Connected With Me/Us.

👉Facebook (The BizDad Podcast): https://www.facebook.com/thebizdad

👉Facebook (Adam La Barr): https://www.facebook.com/adam.antium.92

👉Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adamlabarr

👉Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-la-barr

📩 For Business Inquiries: [e-mail]

=============================

🎬 Recommended Playlists

👉 Real Estate Investment

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VeC2gQLwBlk&list=PLegxqjNSX5ZK0HYGQa3Tn7FY_N9PKFvmx&pp=iAQB

👉 Episodes Preview of The BizDad

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5eYQJKCTSFw&list=PLegxqjNSX5ZLvJ2pT_tVbodETwg7T6uwZ&pp=iAQB

🎬 WATCH MY OTHER VIDEOS:

👉 Episode 52: Episode 52: Service, Sacrifice, and Sweet Ventures with Aaron Hale

https://youtu.be/fxEF2jhtJ5Q?si=ChwhrykH8PyGg7Qx

👉 Episode 51: Creating a Lasting Legacy—Matt Eyre on Entrepreneurship and Fatherhood

https://youtu.be/We41Q032afI?si=Jfdq90_zJZou5s-I

👉 Episode 50: Shaping a Business Mindset—Josh Notes on Risk, Innovation, and Family

https://youtu.be/ImbjuaOW8Fg?si=wNgLVUIOMs8469bd

👉 Ep. 49 From Troubled Past to Successful Present: Aligning Family Values with Business Decisions

https://youtu.be/D1IGg-aLfu0?si=1T6147Ullz1j8k72