Episode 53: Terrible Boyfriend But Great Husband with Jake Porter
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“I really believe that as leaders, the organizations we lead eventually become a mirror of us, especially once we've been there long enough." —Jake Porter
In this episode, Dr. Jake Porter, a psychotherapist and former pastor, shares his incredible journey from pastoral work to counseling, specializing in addiction and trauma. Dr. Porter discusses his pivotal life transformation in 2017, the complexities of marriage, and the significance of secure attachments in parenting. He provides practical advice for raising emotionally healthy children while balancing a demanding career and explores the parallels between parenting and leading a business, emphasizing self-awareness and long-term relational investments. This engaging episode is packed with valuable takeaways for anyone trying to juggle professional and personal challenges.
Takeaways:
- Pastoral work includes business management and spiritual guidance.
- Secure attachment figures aid self-regulation in relationships.
- Repairing relationship ruptures builds secure attachments.
- Owning mistakes and showing vulnerability is key in parenting.
- Faith can aid personal transformation and secure attachments.
- Attachment theory helps in healthy relationships and parenting.
- Validation of children's emotions is essential, even without agreement.
- Self-awareness breaks negative childhood patterns for better parenting.
- Parenting parallels business: long-term investment and self-reflection.
- Every day shapes the parent-child relationship.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Background
02:04 Counseling Practice Specializations
07:05 Family's Influence on Career
34:30 Faith's Role in Transformation
37:21 Secure Attachments through Repair
43:43 Self-Regulation and Co-Regulation
54:59 Modeling Vulnerability in Parenting
01:00:27 Attachment Theory Insights
01:06:23 Repairing Relationships and Emotions
01:07:59 Validation vs Agreement
01:11:37 Breaking Negative Patterns
01:19:11 Parenting and Business Parallels
01:25:37 Investing in Relationships and Team
01:30:55 Intentional Parenting Awareness
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