People pleasing & being authentically you with Dr. Amanda Tambuyser
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In this episode of the Body Love Binge podcast, I interview Dr. Amanda Tambuisa, an integrative transformational specialist who helps women overcome people-pleasing tendencies and step into their power. We discuss the roots of people pleasing, tips for setting boundaries, and practical steps listeners can take to stop playing small and start advocating for themselves.
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Main Discussion Points:
- The origins of Amanda's people-pleasing tendencies stemming from childhood emotional neglect and lack of self-worth
- Learning to identify and reframe negative self-talk and core beliefs
- The importance of self-connection through check-ins with your body and emotions
- Saying "no" as an experiment rather than an absolute to build confidence
- Tangible tips for listeners to begin being more authentic
Key Quotes:
"Little did I know, of course, but that required to be as some sort of a perfect person, you know, that would do something either extravagant or exquisite or, you know, unique." [00:13:32]
"The amount of personal development that I've done, the amount of psychological work that I've done, nothing has put me there together." [00:17:05]
"Think of it as an experiment. Let's see what happens, you know?" [00:45:46]
Connect with Dr Amanda:
Free Support Group: https://amandatambuyser.com/freesupportgroup
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