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Ep. 4 - Parenting Fails: What to do when nothing seems to be working // Marni Love
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We’ve all had those times when your parenting isn’t what you want it to be, your kids are struggling, and your don’t know how to help your kid (or yourself). You might resort to yelling, crying yourself to sleep, or just feeling really low about your parenting. And above all you’re desperate for help. In this episode, you’ll find hope when you feel like you’re not the parent you want to be.
Build A Homeschool That Does Right By Your Kids: https://christy-faith.com/pages/thrive
Find Marni Love at https://www.marnilove.com/ for parent coaching help.
Use my Homeschool Success Framework: https://christy-faith.com/pages/thrive#r-1681759143216
It’s time to defeat homeschool doubt and second-guessing forever.
Take my FREE 5-Minute Homeschool Style Finder: https://christy-faith.com/pages/christy-faiths-5-minute-homeschool-style-finder
Preorder my NEW book!
Homeschool Rising: Shattering Myths, Finding Courage, and Opting Out of the School System
https://christy-faith.com/pages/homeschool-rising-book
Links & Free:
https://christy-faith.com/pages/links
Work with Christy-Faith:
https://christy-faith.com/pages/contact
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-SHOW SPONSORS-
CTC Math - Get 50% off my favorite online math curriculum
https://ctcmath.com/how-it-works/home-school
Thrive Homeschool Community - Create a homeschool that’s better than any public or private school option
https://christy-faith.com/pages/thrive
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-SHOW NOTES-
- 00:00 Parenting can be influenced by various pressures, but it’s important to unite parents, lean into their strengths, and create a positive family culture.
- 09:02 Foundation work is key in parenting, including replacing toxic beliefs with grace-filled truths, transforming our own thinking, and not comparing ourselves to others on social media, and addressing the child's needs.
- 19:42 When parents practice self-care and connect with their kids, they’re able to create a close-knit family.
- 25:56 Creating a safe and non-judgmental environment for children, building trust and connection, and avoiding shaming and criticism are key in parenting.
- 32:17 Praising effort over outcome, focusing on growth and responsibility, empathizing with emotions, and understanding underlying issues are important in parenting, especially when dealing with challenging behavior.
- 39:02 Key to seek balance in parenting and avoiding judging others.
- 45:58 Spanking can lead to kids feeling untrustworthy, so it's important to foster connection and trust, discipline alongside kids, teach conflict resolution, seek support, and prioritize self-care in parenting.
- 53:22 No need to feel guilty in parenting; it’s a journey.
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-FIND ME HERE-
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christy_faith
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/christy_faith_homeschool
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@christy-faith
Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ChristyFaithHomeschooling
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChristyFaithHomeschool
Threads: https://www.threads.net/@christy_faith_homeschool
X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/Christy_Faith_1
28 episodes
Manage episode 396808945 series 3528287
We’ve all had those times when your parenting isn’t what you want it to be, your kids are struggling, and your don’t know how to help your kid (or yourself). You might resort to yelling, crying yourself to sleep, or just feeling really low about your parenting. And above all you’re desperate for help. In this episode, you’ll find hope when you feel like you’re not the parent you want to be.
Build A Homeschool That Does Right By Your Kids: https://christy-faith.com/pages/thrive
Find Marni Love at https://www.marnilove.com/ for parent coaching help.
Use my Homeschool Success Framework: https://christy-faith.com/pages/thrive#r-1681759143216
It’s time to defeat homeschool doubt and second-guessing forever.
Take my FREE 5-Minute Homeschool Style Finder: https://christy-faith.com/pages/christy-faiths-5-minute-homeschool-style-finder
Preorder my NEW book!
Homeschool Rising: Shattering Myths, Finding Courage, and Opting Out of the School System
https://christy-faith.com/pages/homeschool-rising-book
Links & Free:
https://christy-faith.com/pages/links
Work with Christy-Faith:
https://christy-faith.com/pages/contact
*******************************************
-SHOW SPONSORS-
CTC Math - Get 50% off my favorite online math curriculum
https://ctcmath.com/how-it-works/home-school
Thrive Homeschool Community - Create a homeschool that’s better than any public or private school option
https://christy-faith.com/pages/thrive
*******************************************
-SHOW NOTES-
- 00:00 Parenting can be influenced by various pressures, but it’s important to unite parents, lean into their strengths, and create a positive family culture.
- 09:02 Foundation work is key in parenting, including replacing toxic beliefs with grace-filled truths, transforming our own thinking, and not comparing ourselves to others on social media, and addressing the child's needs.
- 19:42 When parents practice self-care and connect with their kids, they’re able to create a close-knit family.
- 25:56 Creating a safe and non-judgmental environment for children, building trust and connection, and avoiding shaming and criticism are key in parenting.
- 32:17 Praising effort over outcome, focusing on growth and responsibility, empathizing with emotions, and understanding underlying issues are important in parenting, especially when dealing with challenging behavior.
- 39:02 Key to seek balance in parenting and avoiding judging others.
- 45:58 Spanking can lead to kids feeling untrustworthy, so it's important to foster connection and trust, discipline alongside kids, teach conflict resolution, seek support, and prioritize self-care in parenting.
- 53:22 No need to feel guilty in parenting; it’s a journey.
*******************************************
-FIND ME HERE-
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christy_faith
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/christy_faith_homeschool
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@christy-faith
Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ChristyFaithHomeschooling
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChristyFaithHomeschool
Threads: https://www.threads.net/@christy_faith_homeschool
X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/Christy_Faith_1
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