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Lost, Betrayed, and Heartbroken - Fridays with Ferne: Episode #18
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Have you ever been betrayed by the people you love most in the world? Have you ever been left alone and heartbroken?
That’s exactly what happened to Alex. Alex and Boris had been best friends since they were six years old, and twenty years later, they are still as close as ever. Boris was there from the very beginning of Alex’s relationship with Amanda, from “I have a crush on this girl” to “I think I’m in love with her”. For three years, Alex told Boris everything. Then, one weekend, Alex invited both Boris and Amanda to a small gathering at his family cottage.
At the cottage, Alex couldn’t find either Boris or Amanda, so he went to look for them. He searched all over the house and all the way around it, when he finally entered his parent’s room. There, he finds Boris and Amanda cheating on his parent’s bed… Alex is devastated; he doesn’t understand how he could have been betrayed by the only two people he ever loved that weren’t family.
My advice to Alex is to move on. Of course, it’s a lot easier said than done, but these people do not deserve his time or attention. He needs to cut both Boris and Amanda out of his life and take time to recover. He needs to come to a place of internal peace where he does not blame himself for the actions of others.
What would YOU do if you were in Alex’s position?
Click here to listen to this new episode of The Frame of Mind Coaching™ Podcast!
https://www.frameofmindcoaching.com/the-frame-of-mind-coaching-podcast
Read this episode’s transcript here:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/1252997/episodes/9364901
Have you ever been cheated on? Have you felt that kind of devastation? Do you have an interesting case you’d like to share? Let’s talk! If you want to share your experiences and/or thoughts on this episode or the show, please reach out to us!
279 episodes
Manage episode 304697963 series 2884115
Have you ever been betrayed by the people you love most in the world? Have you ever been left alone and heartbroken?
That’s exactly what happened to Alex. Alex and Boris had been best friends since they were six years old, and twenty years later, they are still as close as ever. Boris was there from the very beginning of Alex’s relationship with Amanda, from “I have a crush on this girl” to “I think I’m in love with her”. For three years, Alex told Boris everything. Then, one weekend, Alex invited both Boris and Amanda to a small gathering at his family cottage.
At the cottage, Alex couldn’t find either Boris or Amanda, so he went to look for them. He searched all over the house and all the way around it, when he finally entered his parent’s room. There, he finds Boris and Amanda cheating on his parent’s bed… Alex is devastated; he doesn’t understand how he could have been betrayed by the only two people he ever loved that weren’t family.
My advice to Alex is to move on. Of course, it’s a lot easier said than done, but these people do not deserve his time or attention. He needs to cut both Boris and Amanda out of his life and take time to recover. He needs to come to a place of internal peace where he does not blame himself for the actions of others.
What would YOU do if you were in Alex’s position?
Click here to listen to this new episode of The Frame of Mind Coaching™ Podcast!
https://www.frameofmindcoaching.com/the-frame-of-mind-coaching-podcast
Read this episode’s transcript here:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/1252997/episodes/9364901
Have you ever been cheated on? Have you felt that kind of devastation? Do you have an interesting case you’d like to share? Let’s talk! If you want to share your experiences and/or thoughts on this episode or the show, please reach out to us!
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