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E180// What goes on in the mind of a covert narcissist? What does the bible say about submission, oppression and abuse? w. Annette Oltmanns (Part 2)

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In this week’s episode, I continue my conversation with Annette Otlmans. Annette takes us into the mind of a chronic abuser and gives us the 4 pillars of emotional abuse which are:

Ridgid thinking in these areas:

  • Entitlement
  • Image management
  • Faulty belief system
  • Lower emotional IQ

Annette and I also discuss what the bible says about submission, oppression, and abuse as it relates to being a biblical wife. We talk about toxic masculinity but also acknowledge the ways in which the patriarchy can be benevolent.

Lastly, Annette gives us resources and steps to take if we realize we’re in an abusive relationship but aren’t able to or choose not to leave.

If this episode resonated with you or you think may apply to someone you know, please share it!

If you want to learn more about the Mend Project, please visit https://themendproject.com/ or follow them on IG: https://www.instagram.com/themendproject/?hl=en

Here are the other resources she mentioned:

Website: Natalie Hoffman https://www.flyingfreenow.com/

Book: The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by: Leslie Burnick

Book: Dating loving and leaving a narcissist by: Dr. Jamie Zuckerman

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In this week’s episode, I continue my conversation with Annette Otlmans. Annette takes us into the mind of a chronic abuser and gives us the 4 pillars of emotional abuse which are:

Ridgid thinking in these areas:

  • Entitlement
  • Image management
  • Faulty belief system
  • Lower emotional IQ

Annette and I also discuss what the bible says about submission, oppression, and abuse as it relates to being a biblical wife. We talk about toxic masculinity but also acknowledge the ways in which the patriarchy can be benevolent.

Lastly, Annette gives us resources and steps to take if we realize we’re in an abusive relationship but aren’t able to or choose not to leave.

If this episode resonated with you or you think may apply to someone you know, please share it!

If you want to learn more about the Mend Project, please visit https://themendproject.com/ or follow them on IG: https://www.instagram.com/themendproject/?hl=en

Here are the other resources she mentioned:

Website: Natalie Hoffman https://www.flyingfreenow.com/

Book: The Emotionally Destructive Marriage by: Leslie Burnick

Book: Dating loving and leaving a narcissist by: Dr. Jamie Zuckerman

Wait!!! Before you go!

Here are some ways you can work with me or become a part of my community!

Work with me:

Not ready to work with me yet? These are some ways to learn about me for free.

  continue reading

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