#6 - Duey Freeman: The Human Attachment & Development Wizard, Lessons from 80,000 Client Hours

The Human Experience

After 74 years on Earth, 50 years as a therapist, and accumulating over 80,000 client hours, our guest, Duey Freeman, has a lot to say. In a world where we aren't taught how to be in a relationship or navigate life’s challenges, the wisdom Duey shares with us is absolutely essential.
Expect to learn:
- What attachment is
- How to create intimacy with others
- How and why most people never fully grow up
- How human development is stunted
- Why so many people struggle with shame
- The key to dissolving shame
- How humans lost our instincts
- Why we are scared of being scared
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Timecodes:
0:00 Intro
3:13 Duey’s Origin Story
10:30 Duey’s Big Realization on Attachment
13:08 Grieving the Loss of a Parent
17:14 Duey’s Definition of Attachment
19:08 I-Thou-We Relationship
21:45 Original Attachment
27:20 Normalizing Attachment Issues
32:40 What it Means to Make Contact with Another
37:47 The Different Stages of Human Development
42:20 We Go Back to Earlier Stages of Development During Tough Times
48:15 Dissolving Shame
52:40 The Importance of “I Love you, and…”
58:48 Where did Humans Lose Touch with Our Instincts?
1:05:18 The Big Break in Humans
1:11:28 “We Are Scared of Being Scared”.
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Duey is a sought-after teacher, trainer, licensed therapist, and equine professional worldwide.
He has taught worldwide and developed a practical attachment theory and human development theory taught to thousands of university students.
He has nearly 80,000 direct client hours and co-founded the Gestalt Equine Institute and the Gestalt Institute of the Rockies.
Connect with Duey
https://www.dueyfreeman.org/
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Links to all episodes on audio...
Spotify/ https://open.spotify.com/show/34PKMtorb7RIrOzoMNLRFP
Apple Pod/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-human-experience/id1751347188
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Chapters

1. Intro (00:00:00)

2. Duey's Origin Story (00:03:13)

3. Duey's Big Attachment Realization (00:10:13)

4. Grieving the Loss of a Parent (00:13:08)

5. Duey's Definition of Attachment (00:17:14)

6. I-Thou-We Relationship (00:19:08)

7. Original Attachment (00:21:45)

8. Normalizing Attachment Issues (00:27:20)

9. What it Means to Make Contact with Another (00:32:40)

10. The Different Stages of Human Development (00:37:47)

11. We Go Back to Earlier Stages of Development During Tough Times (00:42:20)

12. Dissolving Shame (00:48:15)

13. The Importance of “I Love You, and…” (00:52:40)

14. Where did Humans Lose Touch with Our Instincts? (00:58:48)

15. The Big Break in Humans (01:05:18)

16. “We Are Scared of Being Scared” (01:11:28)