#20 Topaz Adizes on Deep Listening, Storytelling, and Cultivating Intimate Connections

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Summary

In this conversation with Topaz Adizes, a visionary filmmaker and experienced designer, the focus is on human connection and the power of intimate conversations. Topaz shares how his childhood experiences shaped his hunger for connection and how he uses film and other mediums to bridge the gap between people. The concept of creating emotionally safe spaces for conversations is explored, along with the importance of discomfort and safety. Topaz also discusses the art of deep listening and the transformation from being a film director to a story breaker. The conversation concludes with insights on asking better questions to facilitate personal growth and connection. In this conversation, Topaz and Brett discuss the power of asking meaningful questions to explore personal growth, maintain intimacy in relationships, and break free from unconscious boundaries. They delve into the concept of 'what's next' and how to navigate overwhelming feelings of uncertainty. Topaz emphasizes the importance of redirecting the mind with well-constructed questions and the role of discomfort in personal growth. They also explore the impact of technology on relationships and share insights on maintaining connection. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the challenges of authoring the book and the future of cathartic conversations.

Takeaways

• Asking well-constructed questions can lead to personal growth and breakthroughs in relationships.
• Redirecting the mind with powerful questions can help overcome feelings of uncertainty and overwhelm.
• Creating space for cathartic conversations is essential for maintaining intimacy in relationships.
• Living beyond unconscious boundaries opens up new possibilities and enriches the human experience.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to Topaz Adizes

01:33
The Start of Topaz's Interest in Human Connection

03:16
The Power of Intimate Conversations

08:33
Creating an Emotionally Safe Space

09:25
The Importance of Discomfort and Safety

12:10
Creating a Safe Space for Conversations

17:30
The Art of Deep Listening

21:52
The Transformation from Film Director to Story Breaker

29:05
The Desire for Connection and Depth

36:08
The Process of Transformation

38:35
Asking Better Questions

40:53
Exploring the Question of 'What's Next?'

45:16
Redirecting the Mind with Powerful Questions

49:16
Maintaining Intimacy in Relationships Despite Technology

53:54
The Power of Well-Constructed Questions

56:38
Challenges in Authoring the Book

01:00:23
Living Beyond Unconscious Boundaries

01:03:54
The Future of Cathartic Conversations

01:05:15
Advice for Those Starting Their Journey

01:06:10
Closing Remarks

Connect with Topaz Adizes:

• The Youtube Video we Discuss | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEttmcKYhfs&t=602s
• {THE AND} Card Games | https://shop.theskindeep.com/collections/the-and-relationship-card-game
• Buy 12 Questions for Love | https://www.topazadizes.com/book
• Topaz Adizes Website | https://www.topazadizes.com/
• Topaz Adizes Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/topazadizes/
• The Skin Deep Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/the_skindeep/
• The Skin Deep Youtube | https://www.youtube.com/@TheSkinDeep

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