#20 Topaz Adizes on Deep Listening, Storytelling, and Cultivating Intimate Connections
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Summary
In this conversation with Topaz Adizes, a visionary filmmaker and experienced designer, the focus is on human connection and the power of intimate conversations. Topaz shares how his childhood experiences shaped his hunger for connection and how he uses film and other mediums to bridge the gap between people. The concept of creating emotionally safe spaces for conversations is explored, along with the importance of discomfort and safety. Topaz also discusses the art of deep listening and the transformation from being a film director to a story breaker. The conversation concludes with insights on asking better questions to facilitate personal growth and connection. In this conversation, Topaz and Brett discuss the power of asking meaningful questions to explore personal growth, maintain intimacy in relationships, and break free from unconscious boundaries. They delve into the concept of 'what's next' and how to navigate overwhelming feelings of uncertainty. Topaz emphasizes the importance of redirecting the mind with well-constructed questions and the role of discomfort in personal growth. They also explore the impact of technology on relationships and share insights on maintaining connection. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the challenges of authoring the book and the future of cathartic conversations.
Takeaways
- Asking well-constructed questions can lead to personal growth and breakthroughs in relationships.
- Redirecting the mind with powerful questions can help overcome feelings of uncertainty and overwhelm.
- Creating space for cathartic conversations is essential for maintaining intimacy in relationships.
- Living beyond unconscious boundaries opens up new possibilities and enriches the human experience.
Chapters
00:00
Introduction to Topaz Adizes
01:33
The Start of Topaz's Interest in Human Connection
03:16
The Power of Intimate Conversations
08:33
Creating an Emotionally Safe Space
09:25
The Importance of Discomfort and Safety
12:10
Creating a Safe Space for Conversations
17:30
The Art of Deep Listening
21:52
The Transformation from Film Director to Story Breaker
29:05
The Desire for Connection and Depth
36:08
The Process of Transformation
38:35
Asking Better Questions
40:53
Exploring the Question of 'What's Next?'
45:16
Redirecting the Mind with Powerful Questions
49:16
Maintaining Intimacy in Relationships Despite Technology
53:54
The Power of Well-Constructed Questions
56:38
Challenges in Authoring the Book
01:00:23
Living Beyond Unconscious Boundaries
01:03:54
The Future of Cathartic Conversations
01:05:15
Advice for Those Starting Their Journey
01:06:10
Closing Remarks
Connect with Topaz Adizes:
- The Youtube Video we Discuss | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEttmcKYhfs&t=602s
- {THE AND} Card Games | https://shop.theskindeep.com/collections/the-and-relationship-card-game
- Buy 12 Questions for Love | https://www.topazadizes.com/book
- Topaz Adizes Website | https://www.topazadizes.com/
- Topaz Adizes Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/topazadizes/
- The Skin Deep Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/the_skindeep/
- The Skin Deep Youtube | https://www.youtube.com/@TheSkinDeep
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