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The Surrogate Partner Therapy Episode 2
Manage episode 372693797 series 2965418
Why do some people pay others to teach them how to be sexual and intimate? Surrogate partners work with clients to learn their bodies and how to have consensual, boundaried, erotic contact with others. Brandon of AmpersandIntimacy expands on our previous episode about surrogate partner therapy, and the benefits and barriers to these treatments.
3:00 gaming and play, kink and sex
6:00 previously he was a clinician
9:00 on people who aren’t listening to my boundaries
13:00 who his clients typically are
16:00 on why people pay for sexual touch
22:00 not being distracted or disturbed
24:00 hygiene requests
27:00 scheduled sex for couples
29:00 on over-regulation
33:00 client-rejection
37:00 being mean to push me away
41:00 sex therapy is historically for white hetero men
46:00 what is Upnegotiating and how to avoid it?
48:00 some people test things
52:00 tell me your boundaries PLZ
58:00 sex tips
View our guest at ampersandintimacy.com
Write to Elle about the show theytalksex@protonmail.com
Don’t sleep in the wet spot! Use code ELLE for 10% off GETTHELAYER.COM
Sponsored by JoliQuiz.com - for smarter relationship-opening
See my $1 subscriber material Patreon.com/strangebedfellows
Please rate and review this podcast :)
82 episodes
Manage episode 372693797 series 2965418
Why do some people pay others to teach them how to be sexual and intimate? Surrogate partners work with clients to learn their bodies and how to have consensual, boundaried, erotic contact with others. Brandon of AmpersandIntimacy expands on our previous episode about surrogate partner therapy, and the benefits and barriers to these treatments.
3:00 gaming and play, kink and sex
6:00 previously he was a clinician
9:00 on people who aren’t listening to my boundaries
13:00 who his clients typically are
16:00 on why people pay for sexual touch
22:00 not being distracted or disturbed
24:00 hygiene requests
27:00 scheduled sex for couples
29:00 on over-regulation
33:00 client-rejection
37:00 being mean to push me away
41:00 sex therapy is historically for white hetero men
46:00 what is Upnegotiating and how to avoid it?
48:00 some people test things
52:00 tell me your boundaries PLZ
58:00 sex tips
View our guest at ampersandintimacy.com
Write to Elle about the show theytalksex@protonmail.com
Don’t sleep in the wet spot! Use code ELLE for 10% off GETTHELAYER.COM
Sponsored by JoliQuiz.com - for smarter relationship-opening
See my $1 subscriber material Patreon.com/strangebedfellows
Please rate and review this podcast :)
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