Pod 33 Better not bitter 2

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Recognize when you're being attacked. It may come from people that you care about. Base what you say and do off of Truth and facts and not negative emotion. Some people may try to intentionally hurt you and get you to respond in a negative way but in most cases the best thing to do is respond logically without negative emotion ask yourself if there's any truth to what someone's saying and anything you can learn from. Sometimes it pays to ignore situations were people are intentionally trying to hurt you. Most people that are attacking you want you to respond they want you to get mad. Look for the truth in what people say and something you can learn and you can work off of that. Sometimes we need to admit that we could do things better when we see that we can and if it doesn't have any validity and the person cannot respect that then sometimes it's best just to ignore and move on some people you will never change. Sometimes where it's appropriate what you can do is ask someone to show you where you're wrong. You may actually feel that you're in a submissive state but really you're not you're looking for truth. A really important thing to realize is when you see something that you can change and someone points that out sometimes it's best to acknowledge that and say you know what that might be something that I can work on. Don't run away from the truth try to be always in truth and facts.

Sometimes I look at things just from one side. That is how can I be better? When you're in a conversation in business or personal look for the solutions not just the argument. So many times people look for the argument and they just want to argue. So many times the people that are attacking you they just want to get a response from you they want to get you angry. Look at things through the lens of Truth and facts is there anything I can learn about this situation that can make me better what solutions can I find that will help this. If you admit your faults and you become better you've learned something from this situation. Another thing I try to do is point out what I agree with and then point out what I don't agree with and then you can ask somebody to explain. People want to point out something without explaining it. When both of you are working to find the truth you can come up with better solutions better answers but when one person is just trying to state things it's an inaccurate to prove a point what they say breaks down when they have to prove it and you ask them to prove it in a logical way without emotion. Then you point out what you agree with that they may be right on and then you point out the things that they may not be right on that you don't agree with.