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The Vertical Relationship Show: Relationship Goals, Healing Trauma, Biblical Counseling, Dating Advice & Christian Marriage

Melia Diana- Christian Counselor. Biblical Therapist. Relationship & Dating Coach for HSP’s. Best-Selling Author. Inner Healing Facilitator. Spiritual Warfare Specialist. Prophetic Ministry Founder & Mentor

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***Top 1.0% Global Podcast*** Need GODLY relationship advice? Are their areas of your life that need authentic HEALING from trauma? Struggling with sensitive EMOTIONS and FEELING as an HSP? Desire to have a stronger Vertical Relationship with JESUS? And fed-up of living in bondage of the enemy? I get it! I went from a hot mess to totally blessed. Truth… We all have hidden wounds that lie deep within our wounded soul. These soul wounds have to be purged, removed, and cleansed with GOD in orde ...
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Do you deeply fear being alone? Are you struggling with a lack of boundaries due to your people-pleasing tendencies? Do you have a hard time trusting people? Are you afraid of being stuck in a negative pattern of unhealthy relationships? I am so honored that you’re here! This podcast will help you heal from unhealthy relationship patterns, find confidence in Christ, and walk in the purpose God has created you for so you can be ready for a healthy, Godly marriage. Hey, I’m Dani! A Christian l ...
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Hi beautiful! What if I told you, you're the reason he's not committing to you? 👀 Have you been in a relationship for years and wonder why it's not progressing forward? Do you fall in love with these men that 'don't want anything serious right now' or are afraid to make the relationship official? Are you fed up with settling for these boys!? In tod…
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Facing challenges in discernment? Without the Holy Spirit guiding us to God's truth, no discernment is dispersed! Too many Christians are not testing the spirit (See 1 John 4:1) because they don't spend time with Jesus or study their Bible to know the difference between a spirit of truth (Holy Spirit) verses a spirit of deception (Satan). Nobody, i…
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Hi beautiful! Do you feel stuck with whatheck you should be doing to actually heal those emotional wounds? Are you ready to finally heal from heartbreak and embody the confident woman of God you want to be? Do you want to break free from the limiting beliefs and intrusive thoughts holding you back? Join me for a live clip into the Heartbreak to Hea…
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Hi beautiful! If you've ended things with your ex but still feel drawn to him, and you're trying to be strong enough not to go back... Or if you've found yourself caught in a cycle with him, but deep down you want to be free... Here are the five steps to finally break free from him emotionally AND spiritually! We're talking all things soul ties (fr…
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Christians who are following and in agreement with false prophets, fall under God's judgment! False prophets and those who seek their guidance will all be punished for their sins. (Ezekiel 14:4-10). False prophets and leaders are only after your money, selfish ambitions, high status, vain imaginations, and loads of followers ... Unfortunately, fals…
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Sis... we aren't picking up that phone, okay? If you feel this draw or longing to go back to your ex but you know he is absolutely NOT the one God has for you... Listen to today's bonus episode! You may be feeling strong emotions late at night - lonliness, fear of being alone forever, or just this desire to be loved (even if it's a toxic love). You…
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Hi beautiful! If you feel confused, lost, or hopeless when it comes to moving on from your toxic relationship, I want to share 10 psychological reasons why. I want to help you identify which you're being impacted by so you stop suffering in silence and use the authority you have in Jesus Christ to rebuke the enemy and heal those deep wounds. Whethe…
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Did you know that many people, including Christians, can function quite well in their dysfunction? Many times, people operating in unhealed trauma have no idea anything is wrong because it's their normal. But, it's not someone else's. Perhaps, yelling and screaming was an ordinary occurrence in your family? Or promoting promiscuous or hateful behav…
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Hi beautiful! Hate what you see in the mirror? Do you keep tearing yourself down with your words? Feel like you're so far from loving who you see in the mirror? You know you're made in the image of God but it's still not helping the way you feel about yourself. You wonder how you can be so mean to yourself but you just can't help it. Please don't g…
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Just because you're a Christian and in an equally yoked marriage, does not mean your life will be hunky dory. Although, God tells us to not team up with unbelievers, truth is, you're a target for Satan, now! "Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers" (2 Corinthians 6:14). My husband and I chat about real struggles and how to "die to self…
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Hi beautiful! Have you been feeling weak when it comes to letting go of your ex? Are you struggling with moving on because you feel like you NEED him? Do you want to learn how to break free from a biblical perspective? In today's episode, I'm giving you the 8 reasons why you feel like you can't live without him so you can understand what's going on…
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Healing in not linear or what you think! Many people think they know what they need healing from, but don’t. For example, your focus is about your husband or wife, yet God might be wanting to heal a deeper problem within you, that's been buried for years. You are dating and can't seem to attract the right partner, but a traumatic event you experien…
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Hi beautiful! MANNNNN. Talk about faith being built. Trust being restored. Dreams being revived. All the things! Today's episode is a bit different than usual. I wanted to share a BONUS episode for this week to share how God has been moving in my life personally and what He revealed to me while I was serving at a student conference. I went there fe…
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Hi beautiful! Have you gotten to a place where you realize you're carrying some toxic patterns and red flags because of your past relationship experiences? Do you feel lost with what to do after you gain that self-awareness? Not sure how to set healthy boundaries for yourself or stop self sabotaging? Well sister, in this episode I share the five th…
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Many will never understand what a pure prophet, not compromised with evil, goes through on a daily basis! The high cost to follow God wholeheartedly coincides with severe demonic attacks, constant tears, Astro projection, witchcraft, and endless spiritual warfare battles. God says, "Many are called but only few are chosen" (Matthew 22:14). While th…
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Did you know our loved ones, family, and friends can be operating under witchcraft? Many times, the deceptive nature of evil, that's rooted in witchcraft, has a greater potential for curses to be placed on individuals without them even knowing it! Witchcraft is used by the enemy to attack our relationships by using manipulation, intimidation, and c…
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It's finally here... Melia's self-paced trauma program just for you! “Heal my Soul Wounds” is not your typical trauma recovery program. It's a powerful 7-step trauma purification process: Inner Healing & Deliverance "God's Way" for wounded souls. This metamorphic program is based on God’s Word, biblical principles, powerful prayer, godly counsel, h…
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Hi beautiful! Are you struggling to love yourself again after a hard breakup? Do you feel like you're not good enough? Have you been speaking down on yourself... low-key feeling like you hate the body you're in or the person you are? Listen sister, you are so loved and so worthy! I need you to join me for today's episode where I share the one most …
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Many times, a spirt of infirmity, is at the root of your pain. Truth is, many disregard the spiritual realm as a myth buster and only believe what their naked eye can see. Therefore, only the physical dimension is witnessed to many wounded souls. Can God heal you from chronic pain and suffering? God is God. You must come to realize the battles are …
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Hi beautiful! Are you stuck in a rut or standstill, unsure how to move in the direction God has for you? Do you wish so badly that you could finally heal and become this better version of yourself? Do you feel like you've lost yourself since your last relationship and don't know how to out of the funk you're in? Today is all about setting new inten…
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Judgment is coming! The Lord is crying out for His sons and daughters to get right with Him... God is sounding the alarm for broken covenants; an agreement with God, a promise to forgive our sins and restore fellowship with those who turn their heart towards Him. Jesus is the mediator of the new covenant. Yet, many Christians are not abiding and co…
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Hi beautiful! Do you feel super lonely when you watch all your friends around you start getting married and starting families? Are you questioning if being a wife and mom will ever be your reality? Having a hard time trusting God through this waiting period? Maybe you're even... feeling a bit hopeless? In this episode, I share three things you can …
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No matter if your single or married... You have a responsibility to heal your soul wounds if you desire to have thriving relationships upon your life. Unhealed trauma is an open door for the devil to cause havoc in your relationships and health. Let's not forget that unhealed trauma will also stunt your healing progression causing discord in every …
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When you think of Rahab, you most likely think of the prostitute who helped hide the Israelite spies from the enemy. (See Joshua 2). But that is not the Rahab I’m talking about … The Lord revealed a water spirit named Rahab; hovering over cities, countries, states, and nations, affecting people worldwide! Rahab is a prideful, quarrelsome, arrogant …
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Feeling stuck in the pain after a breakup? Wondering why it's so hard to move on, even though you know you deserve better? Tired of the spiraling thoughts that keep you relieving the pain and from feeling happy again? In this episode, we dive into the top 3 things you must NOT do if you want to truly heal and move forward. Whether you're feeling fr…
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Hi beautiful! Ever wonder how to heal from past trauma and prepare yourself for a healthy & godly relationship? Struggling to let go of the pain and fully trust again? Searching for ways to heal that align with your Christian faith? I share practical, biblical-based steps to overcome trauma and prepare your heart for a godly relationship. Whether y…
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Listen up .... God's Chosen Ones! Our Lord and Savior takes witchcraft very seriously. Point blank- it's forbidden. (See Deuteronomy 18:10-12). Friends, we can't be half in the world and half in Christianity and think the Lord is going to bless and protect us for being disobedient to His Commandments. Especially, His chosen ones who He has called t…
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Let's be honest... Healing trauma hurts! Nobody loves to have their weaknesses and strongholds exposed to the light for correction. Being convicted in your spirit is not fun, but the truth is what will free your soul from the bondage of the enemy! Remember: All Scripture is inspired by God for correction and to teach us His truth so we can realize …
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Hi beautiful! A little birdie told me you've been feeling weighed down by shame and regret lately... Have you been overwhelmed by regret and shame from your past? Do you constantly criticize yourself for past mistakes? Are you praying but feel like the things you did are too bad for God to forgive? Today is all about accepting forgiveness and how t…
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Truth be told, if you call yourself a Christian, you should NOT be messing around with the Enneagram! Yet, it's commonly being used worldwide in churches, Christian counseling services, business events, and Kingdom conferences. Even popular Christian book publishers are promoting this New Age tool. Be careful, my friends! The Enneagram is dangerous…
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Hi beautiful! Do you find yourself in a cycle of unhealthy relationships, desperately wanting to stop? Are you afraid of ending up in a relationship like your parents? Still unsure how to not let your past trauma affect your future relationships? You want to stop the negative relationship cycles so you don't pass it down to the next generation. The…
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Join me on my back patio for a punchy episode on the five ways the fear of getting hurt is blocking love from your life. I share how hardened hearts, emotional walls, and self-sabotage can keep us from experiencing true, God-centered love. How do I know? I've been there, sis! I share how to identify these signs, why they block love from your life, …
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A worldwide shaking is happening ... this nation is under the consequences of disobedience to God. The Lord's anger is fierce, and He expresses great frustration with false prophets, pseudo teachings, the worshipping of other gods, disobedience to His Word, and the prevalence of treachery in the world. Melia emphasizes the need for repentance and f…
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Ever felt too lost in the busyness of life to be able to hear from God? If you're wrestling with the mystery of how to hear from God, know that you're not alone! Today, I share the ONE thing that helps me hear from God every single time (even when I feel distant from Him). Whether you're a new believer or have been walking with God for some time, t…
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Just as trees requires clean and properly soiled roots to bear good fruit, we must examine our own rooting system, if we want to become a replica of Jesus Christ. We must ask ourselves: Are we rooted in God or the things of this world? Don't settle for surface-level Christianity! Just like tree roots go deep into the ground to obtain water and nutr…
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Hey, beauty! Struggling with past hurts and looking for a way out of the cycle? Well, you're in the right place! In today’s episode, we're skipping the self-help aisle and diving straight into healing with a good dose of soul-searching and some solid support from friends and faith. I'm not only sharing what caused my 'wake-up call' to start healing…
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Is it hard for you to forgive someone who betrayed you? Double-crossed you? Cheated on you? Lied to you? I bet! Who really feels like forgiving someone who did us wrong... But, did you know that unforgiveness leads to bitterness and resentment? These unhealthy emotions will turn in bitter poison for our soul without healing and truly forgiving some…
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Ever find yourself drowning in the whispers of "you're not enough"? If that's ringing painfully true, you're not alone! Today, we're diving deep into my three no-fail confidence boosters to shake off those shadows of doubt and step into the light of your true worth. Whether you're feeling stuck in a cycle of negativity, striving to heal from past t…
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No doubt... and form of narcissism is emotional abuse! Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. Narcissist men and women see everything from a question, “how does this affect me” perspective? This deeply hurts others and lacks genuine empathy. Underneath …
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God is testing your character. Testing your obedience. Testing your faithfulness. Testing your heart ... Just because you’re a chosen one, a prophet of the Lord, a Christian leader; does not mean you’re saved from persecution or suffering. In fact, you will suffer more for being a mouthpiece of the Lord. The Lord is weeding out the pure and impure.…
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Back in December of 2023 the Lord started giving me prophetic dreams and messages about vineyards! Vineyards represent the nation of Israel and exists to glorify God and point people back to Him. I started to "see" and "hear" His timely Word as a repetitive confirmation. When the Lord confirms; it's a prophet’s job to go forth and tell people what …
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Understanding the role of a prophetic watchman is vital for our nation! A watchman is a chosen prophetic vessel picked and appointed by God to guard, guide, warn, and protect people. Prophetic watchmen are called to sounds the alarm, blast the trumpet, and cut off evil intrudes from getting inside the heavenly gates. Watchmen have keen discernment,…
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Are you an easy target for gaslighters? Gaslighting techniques can easily slide into your relationships ... thinking you're the crazy one! These psychological tactics undermines one's perception of reality, causing confusion and self-doubt. These kind of behavior patterns deeply affect your personal and professional relationships, targeting your se…
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Striking our ego does not come from a thumbs up, smiley face, or heart on social media. Truth be told, for true healing to take precedent in our lives; internal healing must be initiated. Healing your wounded soul takes internal work, not superficial pictures of you flexing in the mirror. Yikes! It's more than external beauty. It's our inner beauty…
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It's a CHOICE to Believe God is HEALING you! Your faith must be activated, it must supersede head knowledge or any naysayer throwing doubt your way. The enemy's desire is to have you focus on your symptoms rather than your emotional and physical healing. Unfortunately, this kind of negative thinking only takes your focus off God! You must trust God…
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Many walk around oblivious that the spiritual realm is no big deal−a myth buster. I've been hearing the Lord whisper to me about deaf and dumb spirits blocking people's ears and eyes; an invisible veil over many minds and hearts. Yes, even Christians! Essentially, the veil that covers our mind and heart needs to be removed when dealing with the spi…
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The Lord revealed two high-ranking territorial spirits affecting our nations! While both slithery serpents seem innocent and genuine ... underneath their scaly surface is deception and pride. Furthermore, Melia unpacks the global epidemic of demonic influence, particularly in Christian leadership, and its negative impact on marriages, ministries, a…
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Ever wondered about the heavenly realms? Many scholars believe there are three heavens; I believe this to be true as well. The very first sentence in the Bible mentioned the word heavens. “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth” (Genesis 1:1). We must understand God’s Kingdom is highly structured. Satan’s kingdom is the sphere of de…
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The devil is trying to cut off our communication with others ... Put us more in isolation and cast a spirit of fear upon our lives! Covid worked for a bit, and now testing the waters again, with total isolation from our loved ones. The Lord gave me many prophetic dreams about the weather; hurricanes, flooding, and specifically 4 tornadas in Florida…
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Is Jezebel after your marriage, engagement or affecting your dating life? Be heedful, my friends! This demonic spirit desperately wants to take over your ministry and business, too! Let's not be surprised that this controlling spirit has a sneaky agenda to seek, kill, and destroy our personal and professional relationships. (See John 10:10). Jezebe…
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