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The Jealousy and Monogamy Episode
Manage episode 342857130 series 2965418
No matter what your current relationship structure-of-choice is, conflict and communication around trust and jealousy can be challenging. I asked one of my favorite therapists Yana Tallon-Hicks to offer advice from her new book, Hot and Un-bothered.
2:00 meet your guest
6:00 parenting is “the kid project”
9:00 non/monogamy isn’t so different regarding conflict
13:00 is my jealousy rooted in reality, or my past?
16:00 on feeling tricked
20:00 “explicit permission”
23:00 lie-inviting behavior
27:00 “name it to tame it”
31:00 authentic, honest responses w/o punishment
34:00 making yourself busy is a flight response
36:00 professional jealousy
39:00 if they are violent, GTFO
42:00 how to awkwardly flirt
45:00 trust is experience built over time
50:00 book recommendations
56:00 talk about sex when you’re not naked
Find your host on ellestanger.com
Find your host on Twitter.com/ellestanger
Follow your host on Patreon.com/strangebedfellows for just $1 a month
Find our guest at YanaTallonHicks.com
90 episodes
Manage episode 342857130 series 2965418
No matter what your current relationship structure-of-choice is, conflict and communication around trust and jealousy can be challenging. I asked one of my favorite therapists Yana Tallon-Hicks to offer advice from her new book, Hot and Un-bothered.
2:00 meet your guest
6:00 parenting is “the kid project”
9:00 non/monogamy isn’t so different regarding conflict
13:00 is my jealousy rooted in reality, or my past?
16:00 on feeling tricked
20:00 “explicit permission”
23:00 lie-inviting behavior
27:00 “name it to tame it”
31:00 authentic, honest responses w/o punishment
34:00 making yourself busy is a flight response
36:00 professional jealousy
39:00 if they are violent, GTFO
42:00 how to awkwardly flirt
45:00 trust is experience built over time
50:00 book recommendations
56:00 talk about sex when you’re not naked
Find your host on ellestanger.com
Find your host on Twitter.com/ellestanger
Follow your host on Patreon.com/strangebedfellows for just $1 a month
Find our guest at YanaTallonHicks.com
90 episodes
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