Balance is Overrated | Ep. 8

Strong & Awake

Episode 8 | "Your job is not to get rid of fear. Your job is to learn how to dance with it."

In this episode of Strong & Awake, Dane and Mitch explore the transformative power of tension and discomfort. They discuss how the pursuit of balance often masks a deeper desire for relief from life's pressures, and why embracing tension is crucial for genuine growth. Drawing on insights from Seth Godin and personal anecdotes, they highlight the importance of leveraging fear and stress as tools for strength and awakening. This conversation challenges listeners to redefine their relationship with discomfort and to see tension as a pathway to becoming their most authentic selves. Join Dane and Mitch as they explore the dynamics of voluntary discomfort as the unlikely path to true comfort.

Chapters:

• 00:00 Introduction
• 01:12 The Gift of Tension
• 03:19 Dancing with Fear
• 07:42 Craving Relief, Not Balance
• 08:49 Painting the Bullseye Around the Dart
• 11:29 Becoming the Genuine Article
• 15:04 Individual vs. Collective Growth

Mentions:

• Seth Godin: Mentioned for his insights on fear and the importance of learning to "dance with it" instead of trying to eliminate it.
• 75 Hard: Referenced in the context of tension and growth, highlighting the importance of sustained effort and challenge.
• Searching for Bobby Fischer: Mentioned in a story about chess and the development of skills, illustrating the value of early training and community support.
• Adam Grant's Hidden Possibilities: Mentioned regarding cultural norms and inequalities, emphasizing the role of community and opportunity in personal growth.

Anchor Actions:

• Embrace Tension: Identify areas in your life where you feel discomfort or stress and view them as opportunities for growth. Instead of seeking relief, lean into these tensions and use them as training grounds to develop resilience and strength.
• Dance with Fear: Recognize that fear is a constant companion. Rather than trying to eliminate it, learn to work with it. Find ways to create productive tension with your fears, using them as pivot points to achieve your goals and enhance your personal growth.
• Be Honest: Commit to integrity. Avoid shortcuts and the temptation to "paint the bullseye around the dart." Start with recognizing that you might be "cheating" and in the process cheating yourself from the growth that starts with that radical candor.

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