EP039 - How to Get the Most Out of Life with Faisal Khokhar and Ian Luckett

Be Your Best In Business with Ian Luckett

Today’s guest is none other than Faisal Khokhar, a trained international speaker and life coach and In today’s episode of the Be Your Best in Business podcast we delve deeper into the Personal Development section of the DRIVE for Business Programme. In this episode we talk about some useful tips and tricks to understand yourself better – both as an individual and as an entrepreneur businessman/woman The major topic that we are covering today with Faisal is self-awareness. He also shares that whatever is happening in your personal life also happens in your business life, they are intertwined in a way. He also talked about communication as a key to deeper relationships. Faisal explained that everything is energy, everything is vibrating at an energy level. We tackled one’s inner masculinity and femininity regardless of sex, what they are, and how each can affect your attitude and behaviour.

He shared the key differences between the masculine and the feminine energies. They are:

1. That masculine energy is a task-based, it just wants to get things done.
2. The feminine energy is about being – it is about feeling and connecting. It is creative.

Faisal talks that being able to understand both energies mean being able to work out which one of them is needed in any given situation. In this episode Faisal also shares the most common mistake that people commit while trying to improve their self-awareness, and that is OVERTHINKING. Faisal shared his top balanced feminine traits, and they are:

1. Compassion
2. Interception
3. Flow
4. Wisdom
5. Intuition

When you have insufficient feminine traits, it leads to smothering, very rigid, and overthinking. When you have too much of the feminine energy, you tend to become depressed, spacey, confusion, stagnant, and needy. A balanced masculine traits shows the following:

1. Assertion
2. Directional
3. Methodical Thinking
4. Action
5. Giving
6. Consciousness

If your masculine energy is insufficient, you tend to become fearful, withdrawn, spineless, lost, hopeless, and stagnant. And if you have too much of the energy, you tend to lean towards domination, controlling, rigid mental constructs, anxiety, forcing, and distance. Golden Nugget Round Question 1 – What would you tell your 18 Year Old Self? Let me read out something I wrote for my kids. Live a fearless life on your terms. Be bold, be brave. Live with an open heart where your voice has no fear, no regrets – only love. Your life needs no approval, just as your actions do not need to be approved by others. Move through life unapologetically and from the heart. Keep growing, be humble and stay grounded. Your true purpose in life is to be kind. This will bring you all you need, you want, and you desire to be. Question 2 – What would you lecture at University today? I would like to have my own lecture about two things that we are seeking in life, freedom and connection. Question 3 – What was your biggest investment or financial decision? Invest in seminars, talk, trainings, and coaches. Guest Details To contact Faisal, feel free to contact via his website: http://faisk.com/ Links and Resources http://faisk.com/ Quotes Everything is energy – the chair you’re sitting on, the table, the floor – everything is vibrating at an energy level. –Faisal Khokhar What happens in your personal life is also what happens in your business life. –Faisal Khokhar People buy people. –Faisal Khokhar