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Ep. 71 - Evolving Desires: Navigating Growth and Change in the Lifestyle
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode, we dive into the journey of personal and relational growth within the lifestyle, exploring how desires and dynamics evolve over time. We'll discuss the importance of self-reflection and personal evolution, as well as strategies for adapting to your partner’s changing needs. Effective communication is key, so…
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Ep. 70 - “Daddy Knows Best” How to Navigating Fatherhood and BDSM
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode of the Kinkist Podcast, we explore the unique intersection of fatherhood and BDSM, focusing on the challenges, benefits, and the special qualities that make Daddy Doms so desirable. We address societal stigma and misconceptions, highlight the nurturing and guiding traits fathers bring to kink dynamics, and di…
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Ep. 69 - The Yin and Yang of 69: Balancing Pleasure and Connection
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Send us a Text Message. Join us for a fascinating deep dive into the history and cultural significance of the 69 position. We'll explore its ancient origins, tracing back to historic texts and art from various cultures, and discuss how different societies view mutual oral pleasure. Learn practical tips for achieving comfort and balance, understandi…
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Ep. 68 - Don’t Be That Bull: How NOT to Approach a Hotwife Couple
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode, we delve into the common mistakes and pitfalls when navigating intimate encounters, especially within the dynamic of hotwife couples. Learn how to avoid missteps such as assuming clear communication, disregarding boundaries, neglecting emotional connections, and ignoring non-verbal cues. Discover the importa…
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Send us a Text Message. In Episode 65: Part 1 of our podcast, titled "What the Cuck!," we are joined by a special guest, JJ from Sexie Show, who offers unique perspectives on this intriguing relationship dynamic. Together, we embark on a deep dive into the intricacies and evolution of cuckolding within intimate partnerships. Join us as JJ shares th…
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Send us a Text Message. In Episode 66: Part 2 of our podcast, titled "What the Cuck!," we are joined by a special guest, JJ from Sexie Show, who offers unique perspectives on this intriguing relationship dynamic. Together, we embark on a deep dive into the intricacies and evolution of cuckolding within intimate partnerships. Join us as JJ shares th…
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Send us a Text Message. In Episode 67: Part 3 of our podcast, titled "What the Cuck!," we are joined by a special guest, JJ from Sexie Show, who offers unique perspectives on this intriguing relationship dynamic. Together, we embark on a deep dive into the intricacies and evolution of cuckolding within intimate partnerships. Join us as JJ shares th…
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Send us a Text Message. Explore a spectrum of tantalizing tips and tricks in Episode 64/65: "Getting Kinky with It." Dive into a world of sexual exploration as we unravel inventive and spicy ideas to elevate your intimacy. From utilizing mirrors for a voyeuristic experience to engaging in daring and inventive dirty talk, this episode offers a playf…
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Ep. 63 - Kink and Coffee: Brewing Connections before the bedroom
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Send us a Text Message. Embark on a journey of establishing meaningful connections in the realm of kink with Episode 63: "Kink and Coffee." Join us as we explore the art of building non-sexual connections during initial encounters with kinky individuals or couples. Discover insightful tips, including meeting in neutral settings, communicating expec…
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Send us a Text Message. Delve into the intricate world of polyamorous relationships and the ever-present specter of jealousy in Episode 62. Jealousy, a natural human emotion, takes center stage as we explore its manifestations and impact in polyamorous dynamics. Join us as we share personal experiences, unravel misconceptions surrounding jealousy i…
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Ep. 61 - Virtual Submission: Bondage Beyond Borders: Kink at a Distance
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Send us a Text Message. Dive into the world of long-distance kink relationships in this episode. We explore the digital playground, discussing how technology fosters connection through video calls, messaging apps, and online platforms. Uncover the essential cornerstones of trust and communication, crucial for maintaining intimacy in these relations…
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Ep. 60 - 'F**k Your Burn': The Battle Cry of Burning Man
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Send us a Text Message. Burning Man, the iconic festival in the Nevada desert, is known for its radical self-expression, art installations, and a culture that challenges societal norms. In this episode, we delve into the unique intersection of kink and alternative lifestyles at Burning Man. We explore how these communities express themselves, the p…
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Ep. 59 - Forgive me Daddy for I have Sinned | Religion and Kink
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Send us a Text Message. Episode 59 of our podcast, "Forgive me Daddy for I have Sinned | Religion and Kink," delves into the intricate journey of transitioning from religious backgrounds to embracing the world of kink. We candidly explore pivotal moments, moral compass realignments, and the challenges faced during this transformation. The episode n…
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Ep. 58 - Oh S#it !: Accidents Happen - Navigating Unexpected Moments in Sexual Play
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Send us a Text Message. In Episode 58 of the Kinkist Podcast, we delve into the topic of unexpected moments in sexual play with the theme "Oh S#it !: Accidents Happen." We aim to destigmatize and normalize body fluids encountered during sexual experiences, discussing saliva, sweat, natural lubrication, tears, blood, and excreations. We provide prac…
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Ep. 57 - Beyond Fifty Shades: The Realities of D/S Relationships
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Send us a Text Message. In Episode 57 of our podcast, we explore the realities of Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationships, going beyond the misconceptions perpetuated by mainstream media. We address common stereotypes and shed light on the true nature of power exchange dynamics. Emphasizing the foundational elements of consent, communication, and t…
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Ep. 56 - Tops, bottoms, doms, and subs what's the difference?
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Send us a Text Message. Join us for an enlightening journey in Episode 56 of The Kinkist Podcast as we explore the distinctions and nuances between tops, bottoms, dominants, and submissives in the realm of BDSM. In this episode, we delve into the fundamental differences, characteristics, and psychological aspects of each role, as well as their uniq…
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Ep. 55 - Navigating BDSM and Parenthood: Balancing Kink and Family Life
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Send us a Text Message. In Episode 55 of our podcast, we explore the intricate balance of combining BDSM and parenthood. We discuss the challenges of managing parental responsibilities while maintaining a fulfilling BDSM lifestyle, including time management, privacy concerns, and finding a balance that works for both parents and children. We delve …
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to Episode 54 of the Kinkist podcast! I don't like your kink! In this episode, we explore the challenges of having differing kinks and sexual preferences within a relationship and provide five essential tips to navigate this situation. We emphasize the importance of open communication, where partners candidly share t…
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Ep. 53 - Why a Dominant Can Have Multiple Submissives
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Send us a Text Message. Join us for an insightful episode of the Kinkist Podcast as we explore the topic of why a Dominant may have multiple submissives while discussing why a Submissive may not have multiple Dominants. We delve into the reasons behind a Dominant's decision to have multiple submissives, including fulfilling different needs, creatin…
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Ep. 52 - Three Some More Some Etiquette: Joining someone’s established relationship
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Send us a Text Message. Join us for Episode 52 of the Kinkist Podcast as we delve into the topic of joining established non-monogamous relationships and the importance of quality etiquette. Whether you're the person joining or the couple inviting, we provide valuable insights and tips for a successful experience. From open communication and respect…
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Ep. 51 - Shame on You: Why We Shouldn't Slut Shame
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Send us a Text Message. In Episode 51 of the Kinkist Podcast, titled "Shame on You: Why We Shouldn't Slut Shame," we delve into the harmful practice of slut shaming and its effects on individuals. We explore the societal double standard that exists, where men are often praised for their sexual encounters while women face criticism and labels. Throu…
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Ep. 50 - "Collar me bad!" BDSM Collars and Their Meanings W/ Orpheus Black
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Send us a Text Message. In Kinkist Podcast Episode 50: Collar Me Bad!, We're joined with @orpheus.black.12 as we dive into the world of BDSM collars and their symbolism. A BDSM collar can be made of different materials, from leather to metal and even yarn. But what do they mean and why do they matter? We explore the different types of collars, from…
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Ep. 49 - Supporting Someone Leaving a Toxic Relationship
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Send us a Text Message. In this podcast episode, we discuss practical ways to help a friend in a toxic relationship without risking the friendship. We emphasize the importance of listening to your friend and being there for them regardless of their decisions. It's crucial to avoid pressuring your friend to drop the relationship or being aggressive,…
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Ep. 48 - 12 Signs of a Toxic Relationship
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Send us a Text Message. Join us as we discuss the 12 most common signs of a toxic relationship brought you by liveyourdreams.org. Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of your favorite platforms, and as always, stay kinky! https://linktr.ee/kinkistofficial
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Ep. 47 - Breaking Free from the Chains of Shame
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode, we discuss some affirmations to remind yourself as you explore your kinks and fetishes. **Disclaimer, we only promote legal activities where all participants can legally consent. ** There’s nothing wrong with you. As long as you are acting ethically and within the laws of your region (do your own research) a…
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Send us a Text Message. Join us in this episode of the Kinkist Podcast as we discuss the different types of emotions that can be felt in poly relationship, and how to deal with them. Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of your favorite platforms, and as always, stay kinky! https://linktr.ee/kinkistofficial…
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Ep. 45 - “How to fight fair” Conflict Resolution
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Send us a Text Message. What kind of "fighter" are you? Do You...? Avoid conflict at all costs? Feel that any criticism or disagreement is an attack on you? Hit "below the belt" and regret it later? Feel out of control when conflict arises? Withdraw and become silent when you're angry? Store up complaints from the distant past? At one time or anoth…
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Ep. 44 - Part 2 - Guest Lifestyler & Sex Therapist, Dawn Egan
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Send us a Text Message. Part 2 - Welcome to this episode of the Kinkist podcast, where we dive into the fascinating world of sexuality with a sex therapist. Our guest today is an expert in the field of human sexuality, with years of experience helping individuals and couples navigate their sexual lives. In this episode, we will explore various aspe…
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Ep. 43 - Part 1 - Guest Lifestyler & Sex Therapist, Dawn Egan
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Send us a Text Message. Welcome to this episode of the Kinkist podcast, where we dive into the fascinating world of sexuality with a sex therapist. Our guest today is an expert in the field of human sexuality, with years of experience helping individuals and couples navigate their sexual lives. In this episode, we will explore various aspects of se…
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Ep. 42 - How to Find the Right Submissive
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Send us a Text Message. Finding a submissive partner can be a complex and personal process. However, in this episode are some general steps that you can follow to increase your chances of finding a compatible partner. Remember, finding a submissive partner is about finding someone who is compatible with you and who shares your desires and interests…
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Ep. 41 - How to Find the Right Dominant Partner
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Send us a Text Message. Join us as we discuss some signs to look for when searching for a Dom. Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of your favorite platforms, and as always, stay kinky! https://linktr.ee/kinkistofficialBy Kinkist.com
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Ep. 40 - More Than Two: Dynamics in an open or poly relationship
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Send us a Text Message. Join us in our latest episode as we delve into the world of open and polyamorous relationships. We will be exploring the unique dynamics, challenges, and benefits of these non-traditional forms of love and commitment. Our expert hosts will share their personal experiences and insights on navigating the boundaries of love. Wh…
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Ep. 39 - “I’m sorry Daddy, will you punish me” (How to punish your submissive ethically and productively)
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode, we explore the art of communicating effectively with your partner in a BDSM relationship and how to punish your submissive ethically and productively. We discuss the importance of setting clear boundaries, negotiating power dynamics, and the use of safe words. Our expert guests provide tips and insights on h…
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Send us a Text Message. For those who are just entering into the Dom space, be mindful how you speak to your sub. Don't get that baby dom syndrome! Get a mentor instead. Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of your favorite platforms, and as always, stay kinky! https://linktr.ee/kinkistofficial…
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Ep. 37 - “Cheating at Monopoly” Poly Vs. Monogamy
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Send us a Text Message. Join us in this episode as we discuss the topic of Polyamory vs. Monogamy and what that means and how it can be defined in partnerships. Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of your favorite platforms, and as always, stay kinky! https://linktr.ee/kinkistofficialBy Kinkist.com
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Ep. 36 - It's My First Time… Don’t Be Gentle
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Send us a Text Message. New Year, New You! Join us on the first episode of the year! In this episode we discuss proper etiquette for experiencing things for the first time. Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of your favorite platforms, and as always, stay kinky! https://linktr.ee/kinkistofficial…
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Send us a Text Message. Join us as we discuss variations of humiliation. The Latin root of "humiliation" is "humus", which means "earth" or "dirt". To this day, humiliation remains a common form of punishment, abuse, and oppression. Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of your favorite platforms, and as always, stay kinky! https://linkt…
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Send us a Text Message. Same as with sub drop Episode 32, Dom drop is a change in mood and demeanor, most often coming after a heaving or intense scene, but can be due to the responsibilities taken on by the Dom, which can be overwhelming if not balanced with self care and “me time”. Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of your favorite…
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Send us a Text Message. You've already learned some basic ties and now you want to implement them more into your play but you're not sure how to make it sexy or sensual. Here are some tips to help you add all of that and feel more connected through rope. Rope can be one of the more connecting play types in our realm. It can also be sadistic, but to…
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Ep. 32 - Sub Drop - How To Recognize and Treat
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode, we discuss the top of Sub Drop. A feeling that has been compared to the withdrawal of controlled substances, it can be that intense. Learn some ways we use to recover from a Sub Drop situation. Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of your favorite platforms, and as always, stay kinky! https://lin…
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Send us a Text Message. Join us for our very first Q&A session, where we answer YOUR questions! Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of your favorite platforms, and as always, stay kinky! https://linktr.ee/kinkistofficialBy Kinkist.com
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Send us a Text Message. In this episode, we dive into the idea of jealousy and what that means for as we enter into the world of polyamory and open relationships. Join us as we discuss some ways to cope with our emotions as well as our experiences in which we've combated the feeling of jealousy. Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of y…
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Ep. 30 - How To Negotiate a Scene or Play Time
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Send us a Text Message. So you've gotten to the point in your relationship whatever that is, where trust has been established enough to start to discuss and negotiate play time. Most often it is expected that the Dominant will take the lead on the negotiations by asking questions, talking about various things we could do or get into, that doesn't m…
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Send us a Text Message. Join us as we discuss the differences between gossip and rumors. Finding ways to avoid toxicity in your partnerships. Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of your favorite platforms, and as always, stay kinky! https://linktr.ee/kinkistofficialBy Kinkist.com
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Ep. 28 - Impact Play - "Spank Me Harder!"
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Send us a Text Message. Impact play is a favorite for masochists, and sensualists alike, it doesn't have to hit the pain level at 10/10. We have discussed seven layer touch in previous episodes, this technique can also be applied to impact play. Join us as we discuss different types of impact play. Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all o…
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Ep. 27 - First Dates Do's and Don'ts for Online Meetups
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Send us a Text Message. The first time you meet someone from an online dating app can be daunting. In this episode, we've compiled some tips to make sure you have no red flags when meeting someone new. We talk about how to express interest, or disinterest, how to ask questions and negotiate a meeting or date, and most importantly how to be safe. Th…
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Ep. 26 - Best Practies For Your First Sexy Play Party
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Send us a Text Message. Thinking of attending a play party, here are some things to keep in mind and discuss before you dive into the deep end. Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of your favorite platforms, and as always, stay kinky! https://linktr.ee/kinkistofficialBy Kinkist.com
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Send us a Text Message. Join us as we discuss topics of reaching out and educating yourself on the Kink Lifestyle. Find us on Instagram @kinkistofficial Thanks for listening! Be sure to catch us on all of your favorite platforms, and as always, stay kinky! https://linktr.ee/kinkistofficialBy Kinkist.com
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Ep. 24 - Sensory Deprivation, Sensory Play (& How To Do It Safely)
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Send us a Text Message. Sensory play is a great introduction to kinky play. Lots of people identify as sensual, meaning that they respond to various touches and feels and smells far more than they do to visual or sound stimuli. Sensory deprivation is used to expand these remaining senses using blindfolds or hoods, ear muffs and or plugs, and even g…
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Send us a Text Message. When you hear the phrase 24/7/365 you know that a business or shop is open to you any day, any hour, all year. In a BDSM relationship this means about the same thing. It means that at all times you will play the role negotiated and consented to. So a submissive will remain the submissive and the Dominant will remain the domi…
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