Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a ...
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Q&A! The Case For Fading, Judging Breastfeeding & Confronting Tardy Friends - Ep 327
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your long distance boyfriend suddenly stops texting you without warning to go play video games, is that a sign of disrespect or a silly nothing burger? If your friends say they'll visit but routinely show up late (or not at all), what's a Shandy to do? If your dating situation makes yo…
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Sam And The Case Of The Missing Adjectives - Ep 326
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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3…
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UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 4! - Ep 325
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It's that time again, Shandies!!! We're back with volume 4 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subs…
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Farmer Devin & The Sheep Herders - Ep 324
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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DE…
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Hi Shandy's So, we wanted to pop in here - not to release a new episode (we will soon, don’t you worry) - but to let you know about another podcast that we think you will love. You know we love reality TV, we know you love reality TV, and another podcast that shares the same addiction is…The Bravo Docket! The Bravo Docket is a podcast where reality…
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Caller 📞 Sessions! Career Vs Love: "He Moved For My Dream And Now Says It's 'My Turn'" - Ep 333
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Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by lovely Elaine. She's on the exciting precipice of transitioning from grad school to career, but she feels a sense of obligation to her longtime boyfriend who's followed her to support her dreams. When it comes to the sacrifices we make for a relationship, is there such a thing as quid pro quo? List…
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Bachelorette Recap ft. Wells Adams: Ep 4 | Sam, Devin and Smoked Sam’N - Ep 332
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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps, and we're joined by a very special guest, Wells Adams, bartender extraordinaire and host of Your Favorite Thing podcast! Today we're breaking down episode 4 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Shop the Skims Soft Lounge Collection at https://www.skims.co…
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Q&A! Bi-Curiosity, Sister Read Your Journal & Does Imitation = Flattery? - Ep 321 -Dear Shandy
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a guy you meet online copies something from your dating profile and pastes it to his while you're still dating, is it a secret message or just straight-up plagiarism? If you know you're bi-curious but your (straight) wedding isn't far away, is it now or never to act on your curiosity? …
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Smooth Fists, Rough Personality - Ep 320
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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 3 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 30%! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://prose.c…
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Devin Gets A Pearl Necklace - Ep 319
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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 2 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY …
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A Day In The Life Of Dave Neal - Ep 318
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We're thrilled to debut a new series in our episode lineup, A Day In The Life! These are episodes dedicated to meaningful, intimate conversations with your favorite people! Our first ever A Day In The Life guest is none other than Dave Neal, standup comedian and host of The Rush Hour podcast! This is a man who never seems to sleep, and our curiosit…
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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | Jenn Tran Makes History And A Historic Makeout - Ep 317
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Shandy is back with their world famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of Jenn Tran's season of The Bachelorette, Season 21! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off science driven skincare! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Thanks to o…
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Q&A! Dating a Guy Who's TOO Handsome, A 14-Year Situationship, & Right Guy, Wrong Timing? - Ep 316
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If the guy you're seeing is TOO good-looking, how to escape the insecurity spiral? If you've planned your friend's bachelorette party AND bridal shower and she can't even remember your birthday, is it worth the confrontation or does she get a bride pass? And if he was the right guy at the…
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Caller 📞 Sessions! "Should I Avoid My Reunion Because I Feel Like An Outcast?" - Ep 315
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Caller sessions are back in session! Today we're joined by two lovely callers: Our first caller, Ali, has found herself PLANNING the reunion of an old friend group. However, she's been feeling ostracized and like maybe she's outgrown this circle. Should she simply not attend the reunion that she's planned, or is that more trouble than it's worth? O…
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Perfect Match Recap: Finale | How Did We Get Here & Why Did We Come? - Ep 314
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Ask and you shall receive! By very popular demand and for the very first time, Shandy is recapping Netflix's Perfect Match! Today we're breaking down the third and final batch of season 2, aka the grand finale! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to http://www.OliveandJune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first Mani System! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/…
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Q&A! Holding Grudges, When He "Forgets" He Said The L-Word, and Big Age Gaps - Ep 313
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your guy says ILY in the heat of the moment but later on "forgets" this happened, is that a sign you need to end things? If your 19 year old sister starts dating a 34 year old, can you express your disapproval or should you back off? And if your family sells a possession of your grandp…
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Perfect Match Recap: Eps 7-9 | Harry Jowsey And The Bathroom Kiss Whodunit - Ep 312
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Ask and you shall receive! By very popular demand and for the very first time, Shandy is recapping Netflix's Perfect Match! Today we're breaking down the second batch of season 2, meaning episodes 7-9! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.c…
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Perfect Match Recap: Eps 1-6 | Shandy Pops Their Perfect Match Cherry - Ep 311
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Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand and for the very first time, Shandy is recapping Netflix's Perfect Match! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 2, meaning episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://oakessentia…
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We Got A Dog!!! Shandy's Dog Adoption Story - Ep 310
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Shandy is officially on the Dawg Side! As you may know, 3 months ago we adopted a small dog named Ruby! We hadn't planned on doing a fur baby episode, but it came so hotly requested (and we were so touched by the enthusiasm!), we couldn't help but oblige. Today we're answering YOUR questions all about our pup, her adoption story, and whether or not…
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Q&A! Morality Check, What To Do When Your Friend Deserves Better, & A Travel Am-I-The-A-Hole Bonanza! - Ep 309
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You met your boyfriend shortly after getting laid off—with a new job lined up, is it morally wrong to never tell him about the layoff? If you're single and sharing an Airbnb with couples and even some families, should you pay the same amount for a room in the rental, even if there's only …
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Heal Your Attachment Pattern With Eli Harwood, Aka @AttachmentNerd - Ep 308
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Attachment Styles are at the core of SO many relationship dynamics yet so few of us know much beyond "secure", "anxious", and "avoidant". Isn't it about time we learned WHY we behave the way we do so we can learn how to stop getting in our own way? We're thrilled today to be joined by Eli Harwood, aka @attachmentnerd , therapist, author, and attach…
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Q&A! Responding To Stupid Questions, Friend-less Fiancé, & To Wed Or Not To Wed? - Ep 307
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is marriage necessary, or even at all what it's cracked up to be? If your partner struggles in the friendship department, how can you help? How should you respond to a question you hate being asked? And finally, an epic Am-I-The-Asshole question! Where does Shandy stand on unintentional d…
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Caller 📞 Session! "Is My Relationship Worth Saving?" - Ep 306
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Caller sessions are BACK, baby! This is our SECOND Caller episode of 2024 (!) and we're thrilled we're joined by a lovely (and lively!) caller named Erin. Erin, whose relationship began with beautifully romantic gesture. However, 2+ months in, there are still kinks that need ironing. Erin is quick to defend her boyfriend, but when are excuses just.…
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We're Officiants! Officiating Nick & Natalie Joy Viall's Wedding - Ep 305
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This episode is a surprise all around because Shandy had absolutely zero intention of recapping their experience officiating their friends' wedding. However, on Instagram you requested this with a fiery passion that couldn't be ignored! So today is all about Shandy as WEDDING OFFICIANTS! As you may know, on Saturday April 26th, 2024, Shandy officia…
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Q&A! Too Much Complaining, The Seed Of Resentment & Is "Boring" Healthy? - Ep 304
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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you have a tumultuous relationship history, is "boring" maybe a good thing? If you feel yourself becoming resentful in your relationship because your sacrifices outnumber your partner's, what to do? And not one, not two, but THREE heavy-hitting platonic friendship questions! What does …
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