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Real stories about the joys and challenges of the adoption journey. You'll hear from parents and families who've been through infant and international adoption, foster-to-adopt, and even embryo adoption. These inspiring stories are told from the perspective of the adoptee, birth parent or adoptive parent.
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Retirement Road Map®

Derek Gregoire, Keith Ellis, and Matthew Peck

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Welcome to the Retirement Road Map by SHP Financial—a podcast empowering today's retirees and pre-retirees to make well-informed financial decisions that will help you spend more time living and dreaming, than worrying and wondering. Join SHP Financial Co-Founders Derek Gregoire, Keith Ellis, and Matthew Peck, CFP® CIMA®, as they share actionable financial strategies and insights, as well as interview top thought leaders in the world of finance, accounting, and estate planning. The SHP trade ...
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Not So Normal Parenting | Enneagram Types, Myers Briggs, Personality, Neurodivergence, Discipline

Wendy Gossett Personality Prodigy, Best Selling Author, Parenting Coach

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Are your kids staging a rebellion against the sanity in your home? Is your child a living puzzle you can’t understand? Are you craving insight into the minds of your adopted or step-children? There is a powerful way to learn how God designed them and how to guide them to their full potential while also learning about yourself so you can overcome negative patterns that are stealing your joy. Welcome to Not So Normal Parenting’ where we unravel the mysteries of family dynamics, from toddlers t ...
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April Fallon is host of the Adoption Now podcast. She and her husband Noah, adopted four kids from birth, AJ, Lilly, Vivvy and Malia. In this episode she talks about parenting her kids as a type 7 and how she has had to adjust her parenting based on her kids unique needs. She wondered what behaviors were trauma related and what was personality. She…
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Alternative investments: Perhaps you’ve heard of them or even dabbled with them in your portfolio. The alternative marketplace has grown rapidly over the past few decades, with no signs of stopping. If you have questions about what they are and how they can add value to your portfolio, we’ve got you covered. We’re excited to have Mike Prescott on t…
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In this episode, we dive deep into the back-to-school season, a time both exciting and daunting for parents and children alike. As some families have already begun the new academic year, the focus shifts to establishing a productive morning routine—one that sets the tone for a successful day ahead. Benjamin Franklin famously said, "By failing to pr…
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INFJ’s are one of the rarest types representing less than 1% of the population. Today my interview is with Elizabeth Reed Watkins who just published a memoir of her life growing up in Maine entitled the Maine Thing. We will discuss how she parents her four very different kids and she gives advice for parents with an INFJ child. She is also an Ennea…
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Do you have a child who is facing college in the next few years or a child who has dropped out? Many students drop out of college early because they weren’t ready. Maybe you know that the classroom is not your child’s happy place or your child hasn’t done their best in school. This episode discusses how college is not the only path to consider for …
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What’s happening in the markets? What indicators should we look at right now, and what can we expect to see in the coming months? In today’s episode, Matthew Peck is joined once again by SHP Financial’s Laura Russo to answer these questions in a special podcast edition of our quarterly update. We’ll explore how AI continues to power large-cap posit…
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In this episode, we dive into the vibrant Type 7 personality, also known as The Enthusiast or "the straw that stirs the drink" Type 7s are characterized by their exuberance and ability to juggle multiple interests, yet they often face challenges with escapism, FOMO (fear of missing out), and feelings of isolation, inadequeacy, exhaustion and frustr…
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In this episode, we explore Enneagram Type 6, often called the Loyalist or the Loyal Skeptic. Type 6s, part of the head center, are concerned with safety and security, often struggling with fear and anxiety. We discuss five common thought patterns they face: Anxiety, Indecision, Insecurity, Distrust, and Overwhelm. Key Highlights: Anxiety: Overthin…
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Today’s digital world is full of thieves and scammers looking to access your information and use scare tactics to steal your hard-earned money from you and your family. Victims of these fraud scams are often retirees and the elderly, who are so scared that they send thousands and thousands of dollars before realizing what is happening. To help you …
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In this episode, we dive into Enneagram Type 5, known as "The Investigator," exploring their unique traits and challenges. Whether you're parenting a Type 5 or are one yourself, you'll relate to their deep introspection and desire for knowledge, often likened to feeling like a unicorn in a world of more outgoing personalities. Type 5s are intensely…
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In this episode I interview Erin Lockwood who travels all over the world with her family to create their YouTube channel called Always Be Changing. Erin is an ESFJ Ox, type 2 on the Enneagram. She is parenting three children and two of them are her opposites. Her son Colt is an ENTP Eagle, who tested as gifted, but doesn’t respond well to disciplin…
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At SHP Financial, we help our clients with many common or technical questions such as, “What is a required minimum distribution?” or “What’s a Roth conversion?” However, one of the most popular questions we hear is, “How much money do I need to retire?” It’s a difficult question to answer because the magic number isn’t the same for everyone. There’…
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In this episode, we delve into the intricate world of Enneagram Type 4, also known as the Romantic or Individualist. If you are a Type 4 or raising one, you are likely familiar with their deep emotional landscape, creativity, and struggles with feelings of envy and loneliness. Host [Your Name], a Type 4 herself, shares personal insights and practic…
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Today’s episode is about the Type 3 Achiever, which is a type that almost everyone resonates with. Because America is the land of the three, the land of chasing success. Almost everyone, including myself has fallen into the comparison trap and found themselves feeling inadequate or like they aren’t enough. Is your to do list a mile long? Do you hav…
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Health insurance, Medicare, and long-term care are deeply intertwined with your taxes and legacy plan. If you’ve done well and saved money for retirement by making sound financial decisions in your working years, we want to help you preserve those assets so you can enjoy your retirement without worrying about healthcare expenses. To help our client…
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In this episode, we shift focus from the body center to the heart center, which includes Enneagram types 2, 3, and 4. The heart center deals with issues of attention and self-image, often grappling with feelings of grief, shame, and worthlessness. We dive deep into the characteristics of Type 2s, who derive their self-worth from being helpful and a…
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In this transformative episode, Wendy Gossett shares personal insights and practices that can change your life. Kicking off a new Enneagram series, Wendy discusses the struggles of all nine types, starting with Type 9, the Peacemaker. Learn how these struggles affect thoughts and feelings, and discover ways to reframe thoughts to improve your well-…
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Rodney and Mary Leah are both attorneys in Alabama. For ten years, they walked the journey of infertility before welcoming twins, Dalton and Mary Elizabeth, through Snowflakes Embryo Adoption Program. They also serve on the board of Carrywell, a non-profit that helps couples walking through infertility, miscarriage and infant loss through groups an…
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In this episode, we delve into the Enneagram Type 1, known as The Perfectionist. The Enneagram serves as a powerful tool to help parents recognize their unconscious thought patterns, enabling them to guide their children toward self-awareness and positive transformation. Type 1 children often fixate on imperfections in their environment and themsel…
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In this transformative episode, we delve deep into the struggles of Enneagram Type 8, exploring how their quest for control and fear of vulnerability shape their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Whether you’re a Type 8 or a parent of one, this episode offers vital insights into managing these powerful dynamics. We'll revisit some foundational con…
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Aida Phillips and her husband longed to be parents but found that conceiving naturally was not possible for them. They began infertility treatments, which ultimately proved unsuccessful and took a significant toll on Aida both mentally and physically. She started looking into adoption, but her husband was hesitant, and EVEN MORE so when they met wi…
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Losing a loved one is one of the most challenging and emotional periods in anyone’s life. When assets, such as property and investments, are left to their beneficiaries, many families have a difficult time knowing where and how to start the process of settling the estate. In today’s episode, we’ll focus on estate planning, specifically the responsi…
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After Michael and Naomi’s unsuccessful attempts to start a family, they were led to a fertility clinic where they were diagnosed with male-factor infertility. They were told IVF would be the only real option. The couple experienced a lot of grief and started praying about what to do to become parents. They started to research their options when God…
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I am not exaggerating when I tell you that this episode could transform your life! I speak from personal experience because the practice I am going to tell you about changed mine. This will be the first of an Enneagram series where I talk about the struggles of all nine types, how those struggles effect our thoughts and feelings and then how you ca…
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Adoption doesn’t always have to be a daunting task! Jordan Moreno’s story tells us that the timeline might be faster than you think! Jose and Jordan have a beautiful adoption story, as they all are, but this one had an ease about it that will make anyone who is nervous feel at peace that everything can fall perfectly into place and QUICKLY!!! They …
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In early 2023, SHP Financial passed the $1 billion threshold in AUM, or assets under management. If you’ve ever wondered what goes into running a firm of this size, how we choose our managers, and how we help our clients create comprehensive financial plans, today’s episode is for you. Today’s guest is William Malagodi. William has extensive experi…
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Since this entire podcast is based on the Myers-Briggs system as well as the Enneagram, I highly recommend you listen to episode 2 and 3 at some point. For a quick review the Ox is a stable rule follower… think Ox living in a stable, the Lion is brave and craves freedom, the Eagle is independent, curious and proud, and the Human is emotional and re…
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Brady and Andrea Murray are the proud parents of eleven children, seven of which are adopted. After having a biological child diagnosed with Down Syndrome, the couple started RODS Heroes, which was founded in 2013. RODS Heroes inspires families to answer the call to adopt a child with Down Syndrome or other unique circumstances. As they were helpin…
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In this episode, we delve into the age-old debate of nature versus nurture and its impact on our temperament. Discover the findings of an eighty-year Harvard happiness study, revealing that 50% of our happiness capacity is determined by our temperament, which is set at birth. Despite this, we often focus on changing our circumstances rather than ac…
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Do you feel like you are parenting a unicorn? Does it ever seem like they are the H CH Cr dog in a dog park of golden doodles? Or maybe I just described how you feel? Some personality types are rare, making up only .05% of the population! These lovely souls often go around feeling insecure because they feel like something is wrong with them since t…
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In this episode Wendy talks about the 3 centers of intelligence in the enneagram system. The Bodoy center which is concerned with control, autonomy and centers around the emotion of anger. The Heart center concerned with attention and self image centers around grief or shame and the Head center, concerned with security and systems or beliefs center…
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Because this personality type often feels overlooked, it is critical that they feel seen by the most important people in their lives: their parents and siblings. Sometimes their negative emotions can stay buried for weeks without your child even knowing what is bothering them. My 22 year old son Nathan (who is now graduating with a Pre-Med degree) …
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Today, we’re joined by Chris Smith, creator of the Campfire Effect and host of the Family Brand Podcast. Chris works with leaders and advisors in the financial planning space to help them tell their stories, scale their businesses, and unlock growth and change. We’ve worked with Chris in the past to develop and tell the story of our brand, and we w…
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ntroverted Thinking Lion ISTP (Introverted Sensing Thinking and Perceiving), Type 8 individuals are intellectually sharp but may lack emotional intelligence, making self-awareness essential. Their affinity for systems makes understanding temperament valuable. Female thinkers constitute only 25% of the population, underscoring the importance of teac…
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Ever find yourself wondering if your child's behavior is normal? Some personality types don’t respond to traditional parenting. This could be why you are feeling stressed and uncertain how to handle their sibling rivalry, explosive tantrums, disorganization, picky eating, impulsivity, sleep problems, low empathy, high sensitivity or fill in the bla…
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Come join SHP Co-founder Matthew C. Peck, CFP® CIMA® and Sr. Service Representative Laura Russo as they take a moment to reflect on Q1 and prepare for Q2! While thinking about the future, they also explore the potential impact of the upcoming election on your retirement. In this episode, we'll explore important trends, possible hurdles, and any new…
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Phil and his family are You Tubers who travel the world. Their website is followabc.com. A B C stands for Always Be Changing which has been the theme of Phil's life. He talks about how his parent's use of simple logic made sense to him as a child. He talks about his exploration, wandering attention in school and round about career path. INTP's usua…
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Sara Van Rensburg CEO of Potential Arena and ENTP, Extroverted, Intuitive, Thinking and Perceiving, talks about how she was in school. She shares how you can keep your ENTP from jumping from one thing to another How to collaborate, negotiate and how to communicate in a way that gets them to listen. How they take things apart and cans seem disrespec…
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Dr. Brandon Davison Tracy, pediatrician and owner of Colorado Kids Pediatrics in Denver Colorado, has practiced medicine for over 20 years is an ENFP. Extroverted, Intuitive, Feeling and Perceiving. He talks about social anxiety versus shyness, overachieving to avoid feelings of fear, battling selfish thoughts and the need to be happy all the time.…
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In this episode of Not So Normal Parenting, we delve into the fascinating realm of Thinkers and Feelers, exploring how these cognitive preferences shape not only decision-making but also parenting dynamics. Host [Host's Name] unpacks the essence of Thinking (T) and Feeling (F) in the context of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, shedding light on how…
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In this episode, we take a broad view of introversion and extroversion, delving into the nuances of each type. From rechargers to absorbers in introversion, and players to talkers in extroversion, we navigate through the varied behaviors associated with these personality traits. Join us as we address common concerns of parents regarding their child…
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Join us in the latest episode of the Not So Normal Parenting Podcast as we uncover a powerful strategy for shaping your child's behavior while strengthening your bond with them. Host [Host's Name] introduces the transformative CREATE method, designed to address challenging behaviors while nurturing connection and control. Discover how understanding…
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In this episode Wendy talks about the 3 centers of intelligence in the enneagram system. The Body center which is concerned with control, autonomy and centers around the emotion of anger. The Heart center cncerned with attention and self image centers around grief or shame and the Head center, concerned with security and systems or beliefs centers …
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As a parent, it’s never too early to start talking to your kids about money. Before you know it, they’ll be going off to college and getting their first job as a young adult. At that point, they’ll probably have questions about how much they can afford to spend and whether or not they should invest in a 401(k). Today’s episode will help prepare you…
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Many entrepreneurs and business owners will admit that it’s easy to get caught up in sales, numbers, targets, and growth. But at what cost? As you’ll hear in this conversation, the sacrifices people make to build a 7, 8, or even 9-figure business can leave their family and loved ones wishing they could enjoy more time with them instead of enjoying …
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Whether we like it or not, our tax laws will be changing again soon. That’s why it’s so important to keep your tax planning needs top of mind and be aware of what those changes are and how they factor into your retirement plan. Today, we’re once again joined by Chase Reardon to talk about some important changes to the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act and how …
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Jenell M. Jones is the author of “Shattered,” a book that shares her experience as an adoptive mother. Last week we heard her story on adopting Mercy from the foster care system. Mercy joined the family of 6 children and had many mental and physical traumas that affected her day-to-day life. On part two, Jenell talks about how the system is set up …
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If you’re buying a home or thinking about refinancing your existing mortgage, you’ve probably got a lot of questions: what are interest rates going to be? Are these high interest rates here to stay forever? How much equity can I unlock to pay bills or renovate my home? We’re thankful to have Nate Hartseil from Main Street Home Loans with us today t…
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