Hey, fellow lushes! Our friend, musician Matty "Graven" McKechnie, just released Always Everything, his 20th musical release. He joined us on this episode to catch up and tell us all about his latest album. We also talk comedy, anxiety, daughters, and so much more. It's always a pleasure talking with Matty... so much so that we did an episode of hi…

In this episode, I'm joined by Violet, an extremely lesbian-leaning bisexual and founder of Mesh, a queer event app in NYC. We dive into the world of queer dating, discussing how to pick up women (or non-cis men), how to approach, what to say, and where to go. Violet shares her insights on figuring out if someone is queer, handling rejection, and t…

Hey, fellow lushes! Have you seen To Catch A Predator with Chris Hansen? Well, our guest on this episode, Alex Rosen aka Gordon Flowers, is one of the internet's OG's of catching predators. Alex is the founder of Houston-based organization Predator Poachers, which conducts sting operations on adults who seek sexual activities with minors. They are …

In this episode, I'm joined by Maybe Burke, a trans woman, artist and educator for an open and heartfelt conversation. We discuss her sexuality, orientation, identity, and expression journeys, and delve into her dating stories. Maybe shares how she stays safe as a trans woman and the unique challenges she faces. We also talk about the fact that she…

Hey, fellow lushes! Have you seen To Catch A Predator with Chris Hansen? Well, our guest on this episode, Courtney ElizXbeth, is the bad@ss female equivalent. She tells us about how she got started in predator catching, some of the dangers involved, how she keeps her composure around these disgusting criminals and what she does to unwind when she's…

Hey, fellow lushes! A multipotentialite is someone with many creative pursuits, and that describes our guest on this episode, Nina Tarr, to a tee. She's a hilarious stand-up comedian, brilliant actress and an incredible DJ. We could've spent the entire episode talking with her about any one of those topics, but we somehow managed to get to all of t…

In this episode, I host my first threesome on the podcast with Vee and Elle, hosts of the Girls Gone Deep podcast, besties and lovers. We dive into their ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) journeys, recounting our experiences at Hedonism and the play party where Vee and I first met. Vee and Elle share how they met and their adventures in double penetration…

Hey, fellow lushes! If you are a fan of Kill Tony, you know our guest on this week's episode. Martin Phillips is a hilarious stand-up comedian and Kill Tony Golden Ticket recipient. He also sounds an awful lot like presidential candidate, Robert F. Kennedy Jr.. And that message is RFK Jr. approved! We had a great time talking politics, comedy, movi…

In this episode, I chat with Yair Lenchner, a private chef and husband to two pregnant wives (11 weeks apart), one of whom is sex therapist Rachel Wright. Yair shares his incredible journey from being a serial monogamist and cheater to embracing life as an open, polyamorous partner. We discuss how they’re navigating the pregnancies, what they plan …

Hey, fellow lushes! Scorched Waves is an indie rock sensation hailing from Stevens Point, WI, and we are joined by Tyler (guitar) and Tiernan (vocals) on this episode. They just released their second album, With A Smile, and as the kids say these days, it's a banger! But, in order to really appreciate these guys, you MUST see them live... they leav…

In this episode, I sit down with Cassie Black (@safe.slut), a sex educator, herpes advocate, and adult entertainer. We dive deep into the world of herpes, discussing whether your sex life is over after a diagnosis or if you can still be a safe and empowered slut. Cassie shares her personal story of discovering she had herpes, the stigma surrounding…

Hey, fellow lushes! The Roach, Josh Potter, is back for another visit. We headed to Chicago to catch him doing stand-up at The Comedy Bar, and he was nice enough to sit down for another podcast with us. Sports, gambling, comedy specials, Ari's balls and more. We had a blast talking with Josh. Enjoy! Check out Josh - Instagram: https://www.instagram…

Hey, fellow lushes! Our guest on this episode is sexologist, Alexa Andre. The first question she answered for us - what is a sexologist? She tells us about watching porn in class and making DIY dildos. We find out who she would make sexual content with, and we deep dive into her life as a bi and solo poly. Enjoy! Check out Alexa - Instagram: https:…

Join me for an enlightening conversation with Cory Bush, a non-binary full spectrum doula and sex educator. In this episode, we explore the profound role of a full spectrum doula and the magical aspects of birth, challenging the notion that childbirth must be traumatic. Cory shares insights on why opt-out consent can be beneficial for neurodivergen…

Hey, fellow lushes! It was Dimples' 60th birthday, so we had to celebrate in style. Luckily for us, Ella Hot Wheels was rolling into town to perform at Lickity Splitz Gentleman's Club. Ella is a roller skating adult entertainer, and she puts on on hell of a great show. Before her show, she came on the podcast to tell us her story. Enjoy! We sure di…

I'm joined by Portia Brown, a renowned sex coach and educator, for a candid discussion on the importance of vocalizing pleasure in the bedroom. Together, we explore techniques for performing during sex, advocating for your pleasure, and giving and receiving feedback to enhance intimacy and satisfaction. Join us as we delve into why silent sex can b…

Hey, fellow lushes! Our guest on this episode is Ms. Caitlyn Brooks, award-winning cam model and Internet Princess. We talk about how she got started in cam modeling and her journey to becoming the 2024 Live Cam Awards Best Independent Cam Model. Caitlyn is not only gorgeous, she is relentless, intelligent, kind and funny. Hope you get as many laug…

I'm joined by the incredible Megan, known as @msgigggles, a fierce fat activist and self-proclaimed hottest whale in the ocean. Together, we embark on a journey of empowerment, discussing the nuances of reclaiming the word "fat" and challenging societal beauty standards. Megan fearlessly dives into the harsh reality of the fashion industry's lack o…

Hey, fellow lushes! Our guest on this episode is stand-up comedian, Carter Dockerty. We first saw Carter when he was featuring for Jordan Jenson. He was so hilarious that we had to ask him to be on the podcast. At only 23 years old, Carter is definitely a name to watch out for in the comedy world. Enjoy! Check out Carter - Instagram: https://www.in…

I sit down with Billy Procida, the host of The Manwhore Podcast and a seasoned comedian. In this revealing conversation, Billy opens up about his journey from growing up without sexual shame to becoming a figure in the world of sex positivity and comedy. We delve into other chapters of Billy's past, from enduring bullying up until graduating high s…

Hey, fellow lushes! Our guest on this episode, Rachel Burch, is a lawyer turned life coach, stand-up comedian and award winning podcaster. Rachel's podcast, Love Before 100, was a way for her to share her pain and loneliness on the journey of dating after divorce and it certainly resonated with her people. We had a great time talking with Rachel. E…

In this episode I'm joined by Maxwell Fierce, a non-binary rope rigger, educator, performer, and tattoo artist, for a deep dive into the world of Shibari. Maxwell brings their wealth of experience to the table as we explore Shibari from every angle. We delve into the nitty-gritty of rope play, discussing how it serves as more than just a kink, but …

Hey, fellow lushes! Our guest on this episode, Sarah Jeavons, is a dating coach for men. She gives us tips on getting out of the friendzone, flirting without being creepy, the correct way to bring up our kinks and when to send that 🍆 pic. If you are a single man struggling with dating, this episode is for you. Enjoy! Check out Sarah - Instagram: ht…

Welcome to Season 2 of "In Bed With Alexa"! In this debut episode, join me for a dynamic conversation with Dr. Varuna, a distinguished sexual health expert and Allure Magazine's sex columnist, as we delve deep into the realms of sexual discovery and self-acceptance. Dr. Varuna shares invaluable insights garnered from years of experience, covering a…

Hey, fellow lushes! Our guest on this episode is stand-up comedian and huge Elvis fan, Macey Isaacs. She tells us how Mandy Martino (Ep. 118) helped push her into stand-up comedy and how her hatred of picture day led to The Picture Day Show, the comedy show she runs at The Crow on the third Wednesday of every month. Macey then shows off her love of…

Hey, fellow lushes! On this week's episode, we are joined by Priya Blunts. Priya is a hilarious stand-up comedian and one hell of a roast battler. We talk with her about her writing process, her days as a "big-time drug dealer", her Kill Tony experience and who the best roasters are. Anyone want to join our Fantasy Roast Battle League? Enjoy! Check…

Welcome to a bonus solo episode of "In Bed With Alexa"! Today, I'm spilling all the juicy details from my recent swingers cruise adventure. I'm dishing on everyone I played with, from the 25 year old gorgeous bi woman to the oldest person I have played with. I'll give you the lowdown on the vibe of the ship, the activities that kept me entertained,…

Hey, fellow lushes! Our guest on this episode, Lisa Wallen, proves that nerds can be funny and hot! Lisa is a stand-up comedian, twitch streamer, and self-described professional nerd. She's Weirdly Obsessed (⬅️ that's the podcast she hosts - see what we did there) with anime, and spent nine weeks in Japan feeding that obsession. She's also a bit ob…

Join me for an eye-opening discussion as I sit down with Mistress Shayla Lange, the owner of New York's largest female-owned dungeon, to delve into the intriguing world of BDSM and professional domination. In this episode, we explore the inner workings of these mysterious spaces. Shayla provides fascinating insights into what her dungeon looks like…

Hey, fellow lushes! Our guest on this episode, Ashley Manta, is an award-winning sex educator and coach and has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual brand. She gives us tips for making anal play more enjoyable and tells us about her life-changing hand job techniques. Fellas, you are goin…

Get ready for a dynamic conversation as I sit down with Neil Mehta, CEO and Founder of Royal Intimacy, to delve into the intricacies of personal care and cultural influences. In this episode, we kick things off by discussing the paramount importance of high-quality ingredients in the products we use for intimacy and grooming. Neil sheds light on wh…

Hey, fellow lushes! Our guest on this episode, Catherine Gairard, is a multi-talented artist and musician. Her unique blend of half-French and half-Peruvian heritage infuses every aspect of her work. As an independent singer, harpist, and movie soundtrack composer, she's crafted emotive soundscapes for both the screen and the heart. Oh, and she has…

Join me and Tawny Lara, author of "Dry Humping: A Guide to Dating, Relating, and Hooking Up Without the Booze," for a candid conversation that challenges societal norms around alcohol and intimacy. In this episode, we explore the implications of alcohol on our sex lives and relationships, shedding light on who might benefit from rethinking their re…

Hey, fellow lushes! We fell in love with this guy's music in 2013 when we saw him open for David Ford in Chicago. Jarrod Dickenson is a guitarist, singer, songwriter and producer, originally from Waco, Texas, now based in Nashville. His latest album, Big Talk, comes after a major label deal-gone-bad threatened to choke off his career. Big Talk soun…

Hey, fellow lushes! McCracken Poston Jr. (yes, of course we ask about the name!) joins us on this episode to talk about his newly released "unputdownable" book Zenith Man. Zenith Man is the story of Alvin Ridley, a man wrongly accused of killing his wife, as told by his defense attorney. It was a real honor talking with McCracken. We hope you enjoy…

Hey, fellow lushes! Last episode was Mrs. Ava Marie... Our guest for this episode, Scott Shirley, is the other half of the Naughty Gym dynamic duo. We talk more about Be Better @ Being Bad week at Hedonism in Jamaica and what it was like to be outed in smalltown Alabama. Scott also tells us about his decision to come out publicly as bisexual. We ha…

Join me and Lola Jean, holder of the volume squirt world record, as we explore the fascinating world of squirting and beyond. In this episode, we leave no squirt unturned. Lola Jean shares her expertise on who can do it, how it happens, and how to react when someone else experiences it. We also delve into the two types of squirting, shedding light …

Hey, fellow lushes! Our guest on this episode, Mrs. Ava Marie, is an ambitious go-getter who also never stops playing. She and her husband (next week's guest) are the owners of Naughty Gym, an online community of sex positive people striving together through exercise, nutrition, and supportive camaraderie to be the healthiest we can be. They recent…

Join me and Kenneth Play, author of "Beyond Satisfied," as we delve into the intricacies of sexual confidence and resilience. Once insecure about his penis size, he now helps other discover the secrets to becoming a better lover, including the often-overrated art of squirting (and yes, we even demonstrate the position—clothed, of course!). Plus, le…

Hey, fellow lushes! When Alski and Matt asked if they could come back on the podcast to promote their new album (that REALLY happened, watch the podcast!), the answer was obviously yes! The Great Collapse is amazing, and it was an honor to have them come on and talk about their new album. Can't wait to have them back on to talk tour dates! Enjoy! C…

Joining us today is the enchanting Sophie Saint Thomas, author of "Reproductive Rites: The Real-Life Witches and Witch-Hunts in the Centuries-Long Fight for Abortion Access." In this captivating episode, we delve into the mystical world of witchcraft and its empowering influence on self-confidence. Sophie shares her journey of embracing a child-fre…

Hey, fellow lushes! We loved Belize so much last year that we went back this year... We loved Belize so much this year that we're going back every year! Check out this episode for a recap of this year's amazing trip. Huge thanks to Jose and his beautiful family for making everything better than it already was. We are honored to call you our friends…

Gabrielle Alexa, non monogamy educator and author of "How to Live With the Internet and Not Let it Run Your Life," joins us for a candid exploration of modern love and relationships. We delve into the intricacies of getting along with your partner's partners (metamours), shedding light on the dynamics of polyamory vs swinging, the complexities of u…

Hey, fellow lushes! The Erotic Entrepreneur herself, Annie Temple, joins us on this episode. Annie used her extensive experience in the adult entertainment industry to help her write The Business Bible for Erotic Entrepreneurs. She also survived and thrived through life-threatening illnesses, surgeries, and events in her life and uses those experie…

I'm joined by the renowned urologist, Dr. Jed Kaminetsky. We kick things off with an in-depth look at vasectomies, uncovering the facts and dispelling myths around this common procedure. Dive into the nitty-gritty of hormone health as we explore natural methods to naturally optimize testosterone levels and discuss a revolutionary, no-medication app…

Hey, fellow lushes! For the second episode in a row, we are joined by the host of one our favorite podcasts - Jon Sosis from Building Friendships. Jon gets some of the biggest names in comedy to sit down with him and build Legos. The results are hilarious and you get to see a different side of some of your favorite comedians. Watch for season 3 of …

Things got real, raw, and rebellious with the badass Michelle Hy (@polyamorouswhileasian). We're flipping the script and tearing down the walls on polyamory, giving the middle finger to veto power, and diving into the gritty details of navigating relationships in our own damn way. Get ready for a wild ride as we slam the door on traditional norms a…

Hey, fellow lushes! Stand-up comedian and host of the Katie Afraidy podcast, Katie Hettenbach, joins us for this spooky episode. Katie is a huge fan of horror movies and turned that love into the Katie Afraidy podcast on the Fangoria Network. It was such a pleasure talking horror movies and comedy with her. Enjoy! Check out Katie - Instagram: https…

Hey, fellow lushes! Our guest on this episode, Lori Grace, picked a perfect Instagram handle with "Good Lord, Lori", because it's nearly impossible to not say it when you see her content. She's gorgeous, sweet, intelligent, funny, and that natural silver hair... so sexy! Check out her content on OF, and if you're a sailor, be on the lookout for dur…

Hey, fellow lushes! We got invited to podcast from The 5th Annual NIFA (National Independent Film Association) Awards. Hosted by Dan Davies, star of the worldwide Netflix sensation "A Trip to Jamaica" and the cult classic film, "Ed Gein, the Musical", the NIFA Awards honor the best in TV, film, and music, including Lifetime Achievement Awards and y…