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We are just two weirdos in love. We are open/poly, swingers, kinky, and dont give a fuck what people think of us. We make our alternative relationship work for us and it is the best choice for us. Find out how it can actually be normal to not have a "normal" monogamous white picket fence relationship like society has drilled into us from the day we were born. There are no written rules on how to have a successful relationship. You make your own guidelines, and we're just sharing ours.
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A fat girl who found love in a world that hates fat people. AKA How I went from being wracked with trauma and only dating and falling in love with addicts and people who were cruel and abusive to me, to having a great stable love life, personal life work and family life while struggling to run a biz and be a solo mom. I’m not perfect and I definitely have a lot to say. Personal stories, interviews about fat love, fat sex, and fat relationships with people of ALL genders. Tools, tips and conn ...
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I am very excited to finally get this episode with Dr. Cat Meyers up! Dr. Cat is a licensed sex and psychedelic-assisted psychotherapist, published researcher, and international speaker all with in the pursuit of helping people come back to their hearts and their bodies to create erotically inspired lives through sex, love, and yoga. Dr. Cat joins …
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Oh this one is going to make the new age feminist so mad and I'm excited for it. We are talking about traditional vs modern women and wives! I'm fascinated by the clash going on between women who follow the modern script that women must want a full time career over all else and the women who are sick of constantly being masculine and instead want t…
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We're talking threesomes! They are all the rage and honestly have been for years and years, it just seems to be talked about more out in the open. Though threesomes can happen with any and all sexualities we are mainly talking about hetero/bisexual threesomes here. What we are here to discuss is how people/couples go about having threesomes. We ten…
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In this episode I am joined by Findom Onxy Muse. She opens up about her path of becoming dominatrix and to the world of open sexuality. Starting off as a regular model and going into a monogamous relationship, to opening said relationship up to another woman, to going to her first play party. Eventually we learn how she got out from under the contr…
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This episode Daddy and I are discussing cucking! If you dont know, cucking is the act of "forcing" your partner (typically the man) to watch you have sex with someone else. The cuckhold is typically not allowed to partake or even touch. This is one of Daddys favorite play time activities even when he was the Dom in our relationship, as he would tel…
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People around the world heard about the sticky muddy situation that happen at Burning Man 2023. Unfortunately most of those people who were not in attendance were told ridiculous news stories, by reporters who were also not on the playa, that is was horrific, people were stranded, that it was the apocalypse. All of that could not be further from th…
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I have the amazing Amber Hull, DO. on to talk about her new Artemis Luxury Wellness experience. She is bringing together physicians, therapist, and sex professionals together to facilitate and lead discussions of human sexuality and relationships. Amber went through the whole American medical schooling, training, and career to come to the position …
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This episode is brought to you from Cap d’Agde in the South of France. Daddy and I spent almost three full weeks in the naturalist (nudest) village where we stripped down to our birthday suites, which also helped us to strip away our resentments, defenses, and blockages within our relationship and our communication. We talk about how you need to be…
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Daddy and I had some amazing breakthroughs about our relationship while on holiday during some very deep and vulnerable "fun" therapy/fuck sessions. I have taken a pretty big break from podcasting as we -- in my opinion -- were not in a place in our relationship/lives to be giving others sex, love, and relationship advice. There had been a few majo…
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Were back and were kicking off with Cobra Cummander talking about pegging and anal play. We talk about the bliss that both men, women, and all in between can receive from anal. However, for men, especially straight men being the recipient of butt play can be a challenge to admit due to societies judgements. Yet, why would you turn away from somethi…
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Toxic Masculinity is a phrase that - in my opinion - is being thrown around so much that the meaning is almost being lost. Yes toxic masculinity is an issue in todays world - just like toxic feminism - but why is masculinity being considered so toxic? In this podcast we talk about really the two different types of toxic masculinity: the over macho …
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Recently Daddy and I had two experiences just weeks apart from one another that inspired this podcast. Warning! If you are a new age "wok" kid and/or feminist theres a chance you will get triggered at some point during this podcast. We partook in conversations with two different women about ours and their relationship/sex life. Each had their own s…
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I can hardly believe my transwoman crush Eden Raynes joined me on my podcast. She is a force to be reckoned with and I am ecstatic to have her share her story with me and my listeners. She reveals details of her childhood, family life, growth, and transition from a birthed male to a strong, confident, beautiful woman. We even touch on the controver…
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This is a pretty intense episode as I have Daddy and Milfy with me to talk about both of their experiences with their sexual personal lives being -- literally -- judged thanks to nasty custody battles. If you have listen to mine and Daddy's podcast talks before you have probably heard us talk about how his ex wife took away his rights to see his so…
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My good friend Meesh came to me with the question a couple of her clients have brought up to her: "Can I partake in BDSM if I dont have any trauma?" First and foremost yes, and secondly in todays age we all have some form of trauma we still carry around with us (not all trauma is sexual). We get into this narrative that society has once again drill…
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Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent the number one FDA approved premature ejaculation treatment. It is a topical spray for me to help them last longer in the bedroom rodeo. We go over what exactly PE is and its causes, as well as what differentiates. Promescent from other treatments of PE. Jeff continues on to give us the unexpected emotion tale of how…
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On this episode I am joined with Alexa Martinez (aka thatsexchick) and her partner/fiance Jordan Maurice Bowditch (aka conscious.bro). This is a powerhouse couple when it comes to overcoming social conditioning and #RelationshipGoals. They are spiritual, realistic, and relatable. We talk about consciousness within oneself (ie who you are), your day…
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This one is for the ladies (but guys you should listen too). This episode I was lucky enough to have someone I very much look up to, Arja Hendrikx, join me from half way around the world. She is a vastly experienced Tantra practitioner and teacher who has dedicated her life to helping others get in tune with their body, spirit, mind, energy, and th…
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Turn-ons, arousals, kinks, fetishes can constantly change, morph, come and go. Sex is all about exploration and most importantly fun! From getting some sexy lingerie, visiting a sex store, to role playing, to tying each other up, to bringing in other people into the mix or going to a BDSM dungeon. The most important thing is to be honest with yours…
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I am so excited to have Mathias Omotola, one of the people I look up to the most, on this podcast. He is an experienced and certified in energy work, tantra, and orgasmic sexuality, as well as an amazing Dominate. Mathias is in the business of reawakening and taping into the power of your sexual energy. He gives us a sneak peak into his process of …
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Im very excited to have my friend Maurice on the podcast. He is an entertainer and has worked in the entertainment industry for a while now. Interesting enough through his work in entertainment he has gained fascinating psychology skills. He's not afraid to ask the hard questions that make you think and help you to discover who you really are inste…
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I am so excited to finally be putting this podcast out. Back in September/August Daddy and I took a month long trip to Tulum. Originally it was simply to get out of America for visa reasons however it turned into one of the consequential months of our relationship. We wound up partaking to three psychedelic trips where our relationship neared its b…
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After about two weeks of sickness and another week of an abnormal nose bleed, plus high stress Daddy and I were redlining our intimacy with each other to the point of a massive fight. That was when we realize we needed to re-spark our connection. Something most people who are or have even been in a relationship know the situation possibly all too w…
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I have some of my favorite ladies joining me on this podcast. They are some of the most warm hearted, confident, strong, sexy sluts I have ever met in my life and that is exactly what we are discussing on this round table. We talk about what it means to be a slut, an ethical slut, what it means to us and what it mean in our puritan decedent, backwa…
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Im very excited to have Sunny Megatron a brilliant sex educator to talk about some very common kink misconceptions. We talk about those silly kink myths like being kinky means you have to be bisexual, you must like pain, you dislike vanilla sex, you need a partner to practice kink, you are not really kinky unless you are publicly in the community, …
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Im oh so excited to have two beautiful ladies joining me on this podcast as it hold dear to my heart. We are talking about submissives! There is a wide variety of experience in submission at this round table as I am going on ten years of being a submissive, Kellie is about four years, and Luna who is a fresh submissive on six months. We talk about …
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Im over the moon to have two of my favorite ladies here with me on this podcast. These two amazing women are two whom I look up to greatly in the lifestyle as they are able and greatly enjoy being Switches, i.e. they like being both dominates and submissives. They discuss what being a switch means to them, what makes a good dom/sub, and their perso…
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Im so excited to have some of my favorite Dominates here with me on this podcast round table! I am especially excited that there is a rage of dominate subcategories represented: two of my guest being more classic formal Doms and two more inconspicuous mental Doms. They discuss what it means to be a Dom to them, how they express their dominate side,…
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Really excited about this podcast because this is going to be a pretty confrontational for many people out there. We are talking about relationships with large age gaps between the partners. Daddy is 23 years older than me and we would not ask for anything different. It works for us though we get a lot of judgements for it. We talk about our experi…
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On this podcast Daddy and I discuss the many different ways to being a Dominate. It is not always just about inflicting physical pain. Many Doms are considered soft or Daddy Doms who are not as formal and protocol oriented but instead more nurturing and guiding, and mentally dominate, as well as a wide range in between. We talk about our personal j…
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What is the difference between BDSM and Abuse? If you dont already know listen to this podcast and youll learn there are many distinct differences. We talk through 4 major bullet points of pain vs pleasure, protection vs fear, power given vs power taken, and open communication vs no communication as well as aftercare. We even talk about our own exp…
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Getting Married with Sandy David Sandy David has been fat most of her life and grew up with a fat mom who didn’t want to be fat. After an online dating journey and the body trust online course, Be Nourished, Sandy found herself suddenly in a relationship that has since turned into marriage. Sandy’s sharing how she learned to embrace her body and al…
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I am very excited to have a group of wonderful me with me at my Men in the Lifestyle round table. These guys talk about how they got into swinging and their journey since. They elaborate on what it is like to be a man in the lifestyle from excited to protective of the women. Then we get into the common misconceptions of swinger men from the idea th…
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Hey Fans and Friends! I did not manage to get an episode out last week - so much is a foot. There are 2 things happening. The weekly schedule is not working well for me as a producer (and mom, biz owner and partner). And I've been given some powerful feedback about privilege and intersectionality that I'm working to take in. I want to be intersecti…
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This episode is a throw back to the Exxxxtraordinary podcast (our previous brand) with the intention of not putting out new content this week in support of supporting Black Lives Matters and other melanated content creators (ie black and brown folks including black, indigenous people of color). We see you. And we stand with you! We talk about: - Go…
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Im super excited to have six - yes six - sexy, beautiful, intelligent, confident women with me on this podcast to talk about what it is like to be a woman in the Swinger Lifestyle. We talk about our journeys from discovering swinging to where each of us are today. Each give their own view on being a woman in the lifestyle and two of the newer ladie…
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Fat and Fertility with Nicola Salmon #12 Nicola Salmon is a fat-positive fertility coach and acupuncturist that has helped women around the world to find their path to something they’ve wanted their entire lives...parenthood. Today she talks with us about her journey to this inspiring career, and what she feels is one of the most crucial steps in h…
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"It's funny how that works, when you have a desire. It just comes back stronger and stronger and stronger." Dalia Kinsey We're in a bit of transition with our show notes. We just hired someone to help. So there are tons of details coming. For now you can reach Dalia: www.schoolnutritiondietitian.com School Nutrition Podcast (iTunes) School Nutritio…
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In this episode I hung out with one of my favorite folks: Gloria Jackson Nefertiti! We’ve been online friends for 20+ years and only this year met in person! Wild, huh? We talk about: Polyamory and having non-hierarchical relationships Bisexuality and both being bisexual Racism is poly community Being valued and loved Oh and WoMBaTs! Come find out …
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In this episode we talk with Kitty Kintsugi - our first Wombat! - We talk about bisexuality and coming out as bi - Being a mental health practitioner and trauma - Kink and finding herself being in a kink relationship - playing publicly and privately - Being a Wombat and the beginning of a trans inclusive bisexual women's email list in the 1990's.…
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Dalia Kinsey joins us again this week! Sorry we're a bit late this week. There's a lot going on (as you all know)! This week really focus on: Our week. How things are going podcasting in the times of pandemic how Covid is affecting Dalia and I. And then we talk about trolls. We are looking for a guest to come on and talk about trolls! Is that you? …
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Lindsey, the brains and bod behind Fat Body Pilates, was introduced to the concept of fat acceptance on Livejournal in the late 90s. Discovering a movement that didn’t view her body as something to apologize for was incredibly affirming, and she has remained connected to the cause across a variety of social media platforms and in her local Minneapo…
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Every relationship has boundaries from monogamous to open & swinger to polyamorous, or do poly relationships have boundaries? We discuss the boundaries of each of these with a concentration on our poly boundaries and the boundaries (or lack there of) of other polyamorous relationships we know.By Rose Breedlove
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Sex-cation, Libido and Getting Some! Guest interview day! Interview with Jessica from Toronto! Jessica is a fat burlesque dancer, fat pole dancer and awesome fat women who was at our sex-cation with Swingset Takes Desire in Cancun this fall! We talk about: Coming out as bisexual. You can just have sex with women and not necessarily date them and th…
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Here’s another episode with Briana and Dalia. Dalia Kinsey is a School Nutrition Specialist and Health at Every Size Registered Dietitian on a mission to make health accessible to all by encouraging body respect and joyful movement. You can follow Dalia on IG, FB, or LinkedIn: Insta: https://www.instagram.com/schoolnutritionrd/ Facebook Community: …
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Title: BDSM, Kink, Power play and Relationship Anarchy It says it’s part 2 but we don’t know where part 1 went so… yeah. Here’s the juicy stories about playing in the dungeon! Tonya is a fat women relationship anarchist who lives in Florida. We talk about: -What is relationship anarchy - “I don't want to limit or try to define any relationship.” To…
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During these scary times while most of us are in isolation/quarantine possibly with our significant others it could be incredibly fun or detrimental for the relationship. We want to give you a few simple techniques to make sure that you and your partner stay cool, calm, connected, and come out of this stronger in your relationship. We also give som…
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Lindley Ashline (pronounced LIN-lee, she/her) creates artwork that celebrates the unique beauty of bodies that fall outside conventional "beauty" standards. Lindley is also the creator of Body Liberation Stock and the Body Love Box, a monthly body-acceptance subscription box. She lives outside Seattle with her husband and two feline overlords. Find…
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