Best Ddlg Podcasts (2024)

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How to Balance a 24/7 BDSM Dynamic with Vanilla Life 12:22

2h ago12:22

12:22

#040 Ever feel like you're juggling your BDSM dynamic with your everyday vanilla life like? Join host, Alesandra, as she shares her journey to harmonize work and family with BDSM desires. In this episode, learn practical tips and strategies such as setting boundaries, scheduling BDSM activities, and integrating subtle rituals into daily life. Disco…

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S3E10 - Kink at Flipside 58:20

2h ago58:20

58:20

Can Burning Man really be the ultimate playground for both introspective reflection and wild hedonism? Join us on "Talk Dirty to Me" as Aaron Scruggs, Tosin Aufeso, and I, Casey Sammy E, pull back the veil on Flipside, a regional Burning Man event in the sweltering Texas heat. We kick things off by demystifying what a burn truly is and juxtaposing …

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Perfectionism in BDSM as a Dom or Sub 21:11

7d ago21:11

21:11

#039: "Perfection is the enemy of progress in your BDSM journey." Join host, Alesandra, as she opens up about her personal struggle with perfectionism as a sub and its impact on her relationship. Discover how the pressure to be perfect can hold both Doms and subs back and learn practical tips to embrace imperfection, set realistic goals, and celebr…

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S3E9 - Dating Rant 1:11:13

6d ago1:11:13

1:11:13

What if your rigid relationship goals are holding you back from true connection? Today, Aaron opens up with a personal story that challenges the notion of dating with a set agenda. Together with Tosin and myself, we dive into the pitfalls of this approach, such as missing out on genuine connections and ignoring red flags, all because of preconceive…

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Navigating BDSM with a Disability: Empowering Your Journey 24:30

14d ago24:30

24:30

#038: Can someone with a disability still live the BDSM lifestyle to the full? In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of disability, chronic illness, and kink. With growing awareness around health issues, we're sharing personal stories, practical tips, and the importance of inclusivity. Discover how communication, consent, and specialize…

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S3E8 - How to do anal with your partner 55:44

13d ago55:44

55:44

Ready to unlock the mysteries of anal play and bring some fun into the bedroom? This episode of "Talk Dirty to Me" promises to arm you with everything you need to know. From starting the conversation with your partner to navigating pegging with confidence, our expert guests Aaron Scruggs and Tosin Aoufesso provide actionable advice. We also stress …

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BDSM Degradation & Humiliation Kink: Ideas & Tips 16:40

21d ago16:40

16:40

#037: Want to dive into degradation and humiliation with your partner but afraid you'll cross the line? Let's navigate these intense and thrilling aspects safely and confidently. In this episode, we're diving into the world of degradation and humiliation within BDSM. Learn the differences between degradation and humiliation, explore beginner to adv…

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S3E7 (Eric) - When You Don't Realize Its Weird 1:08:16

20d ago1:08:16

1:08:16

Can jealousy be a catalyst for personal growth? On this episode of "Talk Dirty to Me," we welcome my oldest friend, Eric Sanchez, who shares his unique perspective on polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous relationships. Raised in a family that prioritized equality and inclusion, Eric's natural lack of jealousy offers a refreshing lens through wh…

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Kink and Kids: DOs and DON'Ts for D/s Parents 39:03

28d ago39:03

39:03

#036: How do you balance being a parent and participating in a BDSM dynamic? In this episode, we're uncovering the delicate balance between parental duties and maintaining a Dom/sub relationship. Learn how to segregate roles, keep privacy intact, and educate your kids about consent and respect. Discover practical tips for managing impact scene nois…

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S3E6 - Kacey Peed On Him 49:39

28d ago49:39

49:39

Oil wrestling and butt plugs Kacey pees on her sub Tosin discusses his sex toy collection Support the Show. Our vampire kink discord is poppin'! It's super sexy up in there. GET INTO IT! Click here to access the Talk Dirty To Me contact form and let us know if you have a kink story, a confession, are an advocate or an enthusiast of a kink that we s…

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BDSM Q&A: Fresh Ideas, Avoiding Burnout, Navigating DMs 37:21

1M ago37:21

37:21

Ever wondered how to keep your kink life fresh and exciting? Let's uncover some secrets together! In this AMA episode, we're tackling your burning questions about scene improvement, avoiding burnout, and maintaining excitement in long-term BDSM relationships. Alesandra shares personal insights from her D/s partnership with Jay, tips on creating rit…

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S3E5 - How To Have a Kinky Relationship 1:15:59

1M ago1:15:59

1:15:59

Ever wondered how to approach your partner about exploring kinks without making it awkward or uncomfortable? On this episode of "Talk Dirty to Me," Aaron and I share our personal journeys and lessons learned from past relationships, including Aaron's experiences during his previous marriage. We discuss the critical role that open communication, mut…

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Huge Guy Makes You S(cream) [Spicy Boyfriend ASMR] 12:12

1M ago12:12

12:12

Listen to the FULL SPICY audio NOW in my LinkTree!! https://linktr.ee/daddysounds ---------------------------------------- ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. VIEW AT YOUR OWN DISCRETION. ---------------------------------------- You and your friend decide to play a 'spicy' version of poker on a stormy, rainy night. He's bashful and ashamed to reveal it bu…

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Bisexual Submissive in a BDSM Dynamic: My Story 31:33

1M ago31:33

31:33

#034: How do you balance being bi and submissive? In this episode, we're getting real about the ups and downs of being a bisexual sub while having a Dominant, male partner. We're tackling labels, biphobia, and how the BDSM and LGBTQ+ communities intersect. Plus, find out how a bi sub navigates her non-binary attractions and battles stereotypes. Don…

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S3E4 - We're Not Ethical Non Monogamists Any More 1:03:55

1M ago1:03:55

1:03:55

Is it time to reframe how we talk about non-monogamous relationships? Join us as Aaron leads a thought-provoking debate on the term "ethical non-monogamy." Why add the word "ethical" anyway? Dive into this fiery discussion as we question societal norms and explore the inherent honesty in non-monogamous relationships. We even cheekily suggest flippi…

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SSC vs. RACK vs. PRICK: Which Safety Protocol Fits You? 26:06

2M ago26:06

26:06

#033: Is 'Safe, Sane, Consensual' still the gold standard in BDSM, or is it time for a change? We're diving into the ins and outs of communication in BDSM, the buzz around acronyms like RACK, PRICK, and CCCC, and why consent is non-negotiable. We're sharing our thoughts on using "ethical" and the importance of being informed about BDSM practices. P…

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S3E3 (Bee) - This Podcast Started My Kink Journey 1:06:52

2M ago1:06:52

1:06:52

When Bea stumbled into the kink community through a Twitch stream, little did she know it would lead her to share her story with us. Her candid revelations about the cry kink—and the unexpected proposition to monetize her tears—open up a world where non-sexual acts take on an erotically charged meaning, and where auditory allure meets emotional com…

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BDSM in your 40s, 50s, and Beyond! 18:08

2M ago18:08

18:08

#032: Here's why it's never too late to jumpstart your sex life and master the BDSM lifestyle. Too many older kinksters worry that they're too late to the game, are discouraged by their age, or think they're too far behind to ever catch up. The truth is age is just a number, and you're never too old to be your best Dom or sub self! Listen in and ge…

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S3E2 - Lingerie Fetish 50:55

2M ago50:55

50:55

Imagine unraveling the delicate intricacies of lingerie fetishes while embarking on a journey of empowerment and self-discovery. That's exactly what we're serving up in our latest heart-to-heart with Aaron Scruggs, who joins Tosin Ofeso and me, Casey, for a candid discussion about the emotional and practical aspects of lingerie as an intimate expre…

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Age Gaps in BDSM Relationships 34:08

2M ago34:08

34:08

#031: Is age really just a number? Join host Alesandra as she delves into the complexities of age gap relationships within BDSM. This episode uncovers myths, explores challenges, and celebrates the unique benefits of significant age differences in Dom/sub relationships. Key topics include consent legality, power dynamics, and personal anecdotes fro…

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S3E1 - Who's Your Daddy, DDLG Kink 1:05:03

2M ago1:05:03

1:05:03

Have you ever wondered about the intricate dynamics that color a Daddy Dom/Little Girl relationship? This week's episode wades through the complex waters of DDLG, as my dear friend Aaron joins us to unravel the threads of this unique kink. Our conversation is a raw and honest portrayal of the emotional bonds and personal growth that blossom within …

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BDSM's Role in My Mental Health Journey 45:32

2M ago45:32

45:32

#030: Struggling with your mental health? You're definitely not in this alone. Your host, Alesandra, has been there and is now sharing her raw take on finding balance with help from the world of BDSM. This chat's packed with real talk about coping mechanisms, the power of a structured dynamic, and even how Alesandra found unexpected support with ke…

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Exploring the Depths of BDSM with Just Press Foreplay 55:10

3M ago55:10

55:10

Ready to unravel the intricacies of BDSM and discover the profound connection it cultivates? Listen in as Suzii from Just Press Foreplay interviews Alesandra in this raw episode. Unpack the complexities of consent, communication, and care in BDSM. From boundary negotiations to the spiritual intertwining of dominance and submission, Alesandra and Su…

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4 Ways to Be a Better Submissive 21:42

3M ago21:42

21:42

Are you the sub you want to be? Dive into the 4 key pillars that separate a good sub from a great one in this episode. Join host Alesandra to uncover how submissives can better serve their Dominants. This episode is packed with actionable tips for enhancing your submission in relationships. To elevate your submission even more, be sure to grab our …

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Sex & Ketamine w/ Dr. Cat Meyers 33:55

3M ago33:55

33:55

I am very excited to finally get this episode with Dr. Cat Meyers up! Dr. Cat is a licensed sex and psychedelic-assisted psychotherapist, published researcher, and international speaker all with in the pursuit of helping people come back to their hearts and their bodies to create erotically inspired lives through sex, love, and yoga. Dr. Cat joins …

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Why You Need a BDSM Mentor 29:57

3M ago29:57

29:57

#027: Ever felt lost in your BDSM journey? Dive deep with Alesandra as she uncovers the red and green flags in seeking a BDSM mentor. From identifying qualities of a credible guide to the transformative power of mentorship, Alesandra offers practical advice on navigating the lifestyle with confidence, and offers options for personalized mentorship.…

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Connecting with the Kink Community 29:48

3M ago29:48

29:48

#026: Are you curious about joining the kink community? Join Alesandra as she uncovers how to find kinky friends at local munches and dungeons. Discover intimate gathering spots, learn BDSM etiquette, and find out how larger events foster connections. This is your personal invitation to learn how to engage with the BDSM community for ongoing educat…

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Foolproof BDSM Advice 28:15

4M ago28:15

28:15

#025: Ever heard some "foolish" BDSM tips? Let's clear the air! Join host Alesandra as she debunks dangerous advice and delves into the murky waters of BDSM myths. We cover the importance of personal limits, dispel the notion of power imbalance, and reject gatekeeping in kink practices. Listen in and discover why there's no 'one-size-fits-all' in D…

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What No One Tells You About Dom/Sub Relationships 26:10

4M ago26:10

26:10

#024: Ever wondered what BDSM is REALLY like, beyond the dungeon drama? Alesandra's here to spill the tea. She's peeling back the curtains on the nitty-gritty of power play. Think honest chats about trust, tricky emotions, and managing kinks while juggling real life. Jump into this raw conversation about love, leather, and everything in between. Cl…

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S2E8 (Monday Jones) - Racial Degradation Deep Dive 1:26:31

4M ago1:26:31

1:26:31

https://mondayjones.com When Monday Jones and Tosin, the kink oracle, join forces in our studio, you can bet the conversation is going to veer into territories that many fear to tread. This time, we're fearlessly untwining the sensitive but undeniably present threads of racial degradation within BDSM, a topic that's as fraught with tension as it is…

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Trad vs Modern Women 37:17

4M ago37:17

37:17

Oh this one is going to make the new age feminist so mad and I'm excited for it. We are talking about traditional vs modern women and wives! I'm fascinated by the clash going on between women who follow the modern script that women must want a full time career over all else and the women who are sick of constantly being masculine and instead want t…

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Surprising Signs You Might Be a Switch 21:56

4M ago21:56

21:56

#023: Ever wonder if you're a switch in BDSM? Get the juicy details on embracing both dominance and submission! Listen as host Alesandra breaks down the ins and outs of being a switch in the BDSM community, debunks misconceptions, and shares signs that might point to a flair for both dominance and submission. Don't miss out on embracing your person…

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S2E7 (Monday Jones) - Meet the Shamanatrix 1:25:59

4M ago1:25:59

1:25:59

https://mondayjones.com Embark on an intimate journey with Monday Jones, a professional dominatrix, fetish model, and dedicated 24/7 BDSM lifestyle practitioner, as she unveils the delicate weave between her personal kink experiences and her professional sphere. Her story is an exceptional one, starting with her roots in holistic healing—gifted by …

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4 Ways to Be a Better Dominant 18:02

4M ago18:02

18:02

#022: Ready to elevate your dominance game? Dive into the 4 key pillars that separate a good Dom from a great one in this episode. Join host Alesandra to uncover how Doms can enhance their relationships. this episode is packed with actionable tips for enhancing your dominance in relationships. To elevate your dominance game even more, be sure to gr…

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How To Have A Threesome 36:25

4M ago36:25

36:25

We're talking threesomes! They are all the rage and honestly have been for years and years, it just seems to be talked about more out in the open. Though threesomes can happen with any and all sexualities we are mainly talking about hetero/bisexual threesomes here. What we are here to discuss is how people/couples go about having threesomes. We ten…

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The Truth about BDSM Tradwives 23:29

4M ago23:29

23:29

#021: We're diving into the world of Tradwife dynamics in relation to BDSM, as we uncover their similarities and differences. Join host Alesandra and she goes deep into the heart of the Tradwives lifestyle, discussing submission, empowerment, communication, and consent. Discover the appeal of 1950's submissive kink, and the importance of informed a…

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Unlock Daily Consistency in Your BDSM Relationship with These Tricks 19:45

5M ago19:45

19:45

#020: Do you struggle with maintaining daily intensity in your BDSM relationship? Join Alesandra as she dives deep into unlocking the secrets of daily consistency in Dom/sub dynamics. As a full-time collared submissive and a mom of two, Alesandra discusses practical tips for integrating BDSM into daily life. Strengthen your Dom/sub relationship and…

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5 Newbie Mistakes I Didn't Expect in My BDSM Journey 21:42

5M ago21:42

21:42

#019: Discover the 5 crucial newbie mistakes in BDSM as host Alesandra reveals her embarrassing but invaluable experiences in this candid episode. Listen in as she walks through her real-life blunders, and bares it all to help fellow enthusiasts avoid these common mistakes. These insights are a must for any newbie (or veteran) in the BDSM scene. – …

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Helping Your Partner Embrace the BDSM Lifestyle 11:04

5M ago11:04

11:04

#018: Having trouble getting your partner on board with BDSM? Let's figure out how to make it a joint adventure filled with excitement and fulfillment! Your host, Alesandra, dives into the challenges of getting your partner interested in BDSM, highlighting the importance of communication, mutual benefits, and taking it slow. She also emphasizes the…

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Path to Dominatrix w/ Onyx Muse 41:39

5M ago41:39

41:39

In this episode I am joined by Findom Onxy Muse. She opens up about her path of becoming dominatrix and to the world of open sexuality. Starting off as a regular model and going into a monogamous relationship, to opening said relationship up to another woman, to going to her first play party. Eventually we learn how she got out from under the contr…

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Finding Kinky Love: How to Find a D/s Partner 9:12

5M ago9:12

9:12

#017: Are you struggling to find a legitimate Dom or sub partner? In this episode, we dive into the secrets of navigating the BDSM dating scene. Alesandra provides guidance on finding a genuine partner, addressing past relationships, creating a wish list, vetting potential partners, and authentically presenting yourself. She also shares more about …

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Overcoming Dom/sub Mindset Struggles with Leann Herron 29:34

6M ago29:34

29:34

#016: How did this sub go from a sexless marriage to embracing the BDSM lifestyle? Leann Herron's journey is nothing short of inspiring. Leann is a kink-informed relationship coach, and also a Dom Sub Living student! On this episode she dishes with Alesandra on safe kink exploration, overcoming mindset hurdles, and practical tips for mastering the …

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Cucking 39:38

6M ago39:38

39:38

This episode Daddy and I are discussing cucking! If you dont know, cucking is the act of "forcing" your partner (typically the man) to watch you have sex with someone else. The cuckhold is typically not allowed to partake or even touch. This is one of Daddys favorite play time activities even when he was the Dom in our relationship, as he would tel…

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Our BIGGEST Announcement Yet 11:14

6M ago11:14

11:14

#015: This is huge. Brace yourself because I'm dropping a bombshell, and it's a game-changer! Introducing our All-Access Pass – the ultimate combo of community-powered BDSM education and access to all our courses at your own pace. Connect with fellow kinksters on the same journey. Our killer courses have led thousands to success as a Dom or sub, an…

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5 Ways to Master Long-Distance D/s Relationships 18:27

6M ago18:27

18:27

#014: Strengthen your long-distance BDSM relationship with our expert tips! Join host Alesandra as she shares her experience and offers valuable hacks to make your long-distance dynamic a success. She discusses punishments, virtual scenes, and more! Follow along with our free worksheets so you can create your own, personalized LDR action plan. – Gr…

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New BDSM Trends and Predictions for 2024 23:08

6M ago23:08

23:08

#013: Stay ahead of the curve with our latest BDSM insights! As the kink community evolves, what new trends are emerging? Listen as host Alesandra discusses exciting trends in the community and offers valuable predictions for the upcoming year. Staying informed on the evolving trends in BDSM will help you on your journey to becoming the best Dom or…

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The Good, Bad, and Ugly of my 2023 55:12

7M ago55:12

55:12

#012: Join Alesandra as she reflects on the good, the bad, and the ugly moments of her life, love, and BDSM journey in this candid and emotional episode. Listen as she shares the challenges she and her partner have overcome, including health struggles, relationship dynamics, and the impact of long-distance work commitments. She also opens up about …

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What's Coming in 2024 for the Podcast and Dom Sub Living 19:58

7M ago19:58

19:58

#011: Hop on with Alesandra as she previews the upcoming year for Dom Sub Living. Alesandra, a prominent figure in the BDSM community and the podcast's energetic host, highlights her plans for 2024. She discusses podcast updates, the launch of a new channel, free online events, and the famous Kink Bundle. Subscribe to the podcast and stay updated o…

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5 Kinksters Answer: “What I Wish I Knew Before Getting into BDSM” 31:09

7M ago31:09

31:09

#010: Discover the untold truths and personal experiences of prominent figures in the BDSM community in our groundbreaking roundup episode. Join host Alesandra as she shares her raw, honest insights alongside experienced guests. These real-life kinksters delve into crucial topics, like the need for community, the essence of communication, and dispe…

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(RERUN) - Unveiling the Sensual Universe: Ruan Willows Erotica Writing 1:15:37

7M ago1:15:37

1:15:37

Ever wondered what's it like to navigate the intriguing world of erotica writing? Ruan Willow, an erotic film author, podcast host, and sex blogger, and Josephine Wilder, an accomplished author and narrator, invite you to follow their unique journeys. From Ruan's transition into the realm of sensual literature to Josephine's venture into voice narr…

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