Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle. Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey. Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra promotes sex education, healt ...
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Spicy Audio Roleplay, Boyfriend ASMR, Romantic Audiobooks, Dark Romance, Romantasy, DDLG, CNC and more! Listen to explore your deepest and darkest fantasies. Find out what you like.
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ABDL stands for Adult baby diaper lover. Here you will get to listen to quality sfw abdl related stories.
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This is a podcast for my kinky people. Nothing inappropriate will be played on this podcast but because it is meant for the ddlg, mdlg kink community I advice 18+ only subscribers z
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We are just two weirdos in love. We are open/poly, swingers, kinky, and dont give a fuck what people think of us. We make our alternative relationship work for us and it is the best choice for us. Find out how it can actually be normal to not have a "normal" monogamous white picket fence relationship like society has drilled into us from the day we were born. There are no written rules on how to have a successful relationship. You make your own guidelines, and we're just sharing ours.
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This is a sex positive podcast, covering a wide variety of topics, but mainly talking about FemDom, submission, kink, intimacy and personal relationships. I explain kink concepts in an easily digestible manner, dispel some myths about FemDom and BDSM, while keeping it positive and entertaining. Settle in and relax while you listen to the lovely, soothing voice of your host, Gothicc Hel. Follow me on social media! All links: https://linktr.ee/Gothicc_Hel Website: https://gothicc-hel.com/ Inst ...
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Topping from the Bottom? Stop Sabotaging Your D/s Dynamic Now!
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#047 Are you unknowingly wrecking your D/s dynamic? We're diving deep into the concept of topping from the bottom and how this subtle power shift can sabotage your BDSM relationship. Learn what it is, why it happens, and practical solutions to prevent it. From open communication to setting clear boundaries, join us as we uncover how to maintain a h…
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How to Vet a Dominant: Key Questions and Red Flags to Look For
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#046 Worried about finding a Dominant who really respects your boundaries? Let’s make sure you’re in good hands. In this episode, we're breaking down the essentials of vetting a Dom. We’re talking key questions to ask, red flags to watch out for, and practical safety hacks to keep you protected. Plus, we're sharing some real-life stories and even a…
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Understanding Brats in BDSM: Embrace the Fun and Challenge!
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#045 Brats are having a moment right now, but have you ever wondered why some people love bratting in BDSM while others find it frustrating? In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of brats in the kink lifestyle. Discover the playful psychology behind bratty behavior, key distinctions between playful and disrespectful bratting, and practi…
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Maintenance Spankings: 5 Things You Need to Know
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#044 Ever wondered how to keep the spark alive in a Dom/Sub relationship and keep bratty behavior at bay? Let’s talk about maintenance spankings! In this episode, we're delving into the world of maintenance spankings. We discuss their purpose, benefits, and how they differ from punishment spankings. Learn why consistency and routine are crucial, an…
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AUDIO ROLEPLAY: Professor Spanks Student After Class [Erotic audio][Audio erotica]
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Caught cheating on your paper. The options are limited, expulsion or stroke the ego and member of your maniacal, power hungry and abusive professor. Despite his charming demeanor he has serious demands. He has been yearning for the moment when he can have his way with you... and that day has fallen into his lap. ------------------------------------…
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The BDSM Olympics: Top 10 Kinky Skills Revealed
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#043 Ever wondered what it would be like to compete in a BDSM Olympics? Join us as we dive into the thrilling concept of a BDSM Olympics, exploring impact play, sensory deprivation, and the importance of safety and communication in Doom/sub dynamics. Learn about top kinky skills, like wax play, medical play, and electro play, and discover how to ta…
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4 Ways to Build Trust in a Dom/sub Relationship
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#042 Trust Issues in Your Dom Sub Relationship? Here's How to Fix Them! Trust is the bedrock of any strong D/s dynamic. In this episode we're discussing essential principles for building and maintaining trust. Hear personal experiences and actionable tips to help strengthen trust and create a more fulfilling relationship. Don't miss the insights on…
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Boyfriend Slaps You After An Arguement: Make up sex [Spicy Boyfriend ASMR Roleplay][romance audiobook]
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Listen to the FULL SPICY audio and my entire collection of spicy audios NOW in my LinkTree!! https://linktr.ee/daddysounds ------------------------------------------------------- ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. VIEW AT YOUR OWN DISCRETION. -------------------------------------------------------- Tired and not in the mood for questioning, your boyfrien…
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Losing Your Virginity With Your Boyfriend (he wants to let go inside...) [Roleplay Audio]
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Listen to the FULL SPICY audio and my entire collection of spicy audios NOW in my LinkTree!! https://linktr.ee/daddysounds ------------------------------------------------------- ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. VIEW AT YOUR OWN DISCRETION. -------------------------------------------------------- You and your boyfriend get along so well. Ever since you…
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Demon Lucifer Falls From Heaven To Be Your Incubus Boyfriend [Romantasy Audio]
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Listen to the FULL SPICY audio and my entire collection of spicy audios NOW in my LinkTree!! https://linktr.ee/daddysounds ------------------------------------------------------- ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. VIEW AT YOUR OWN DISCRETION. -------------------------------------------------------- Disgraced and cast down from Heaven, Lucifer swears reve…
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Watch To Find Out If You Like Daddy Play [DDLG Roleplay]
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Listen to the FULL SPICY audio and my entire collection of spicy audios NOW in my LinkTree!! https://linktr.ee/daddysounds ---------------------------------------- ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. VIEW AT YOUR OWN DISCRETION. ---------------------------------------- This may not be for everyone. But if you've ever been curious, now is definitely the ti…
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From BDSM Newbie to Expert: Navigating the Stages of Your D/s Journey
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#041 Ever feel overwhelmed by the world of BDSM and don't know where to start? Or maybe you've dipped your toes in and need some tips to level up your game? This episode's for you! We're breaking down everything from newbie basics to expert moves, making it super easy to follow. You'll get the lowdown on building skills, setting up boundaries, and …
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How to Balance a 24/7 BDSM Dynamic with Vanilla Life
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#040 Ever feel like you're juggling your BDSM dynamic with your everyday vanilla life? Join host, Alesandra, as she shares her journey to harmonize work and family with BDSM desires. In this episode, learn practical tips and strategies such as setting boundaries, scheduling BDSM activities, and integrating subtle rituals into daily life. Discover h…
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#039: "Perfection is the enemy of progress in your BDSM journey." Join host, Alesandra, as she opens up about her personal struggle with perfectionism as a sub and its impact on her relationship. Discover how the pressure to be perfect can hold both Doms and subs back and learn practical tips to embrace imperfection, set realistic goals, and celebr…
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Navigating BDSM with a Disability: Empowering Your Journey
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#038: Can someone with a disability still live the BDSM lifestyle to the full? In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of disability, chronic illness, and kink. With growing awareness around health issues, we're sharing personal stories, practical tips, and the importance of inclusivity. Discover how communication, consent, and specialize…
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BDSM Degradation & Humiliation Kink: Ideas & Tips
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#037: Want to dive into degradation and humiliation with your partner but afraid you'll cross the line? Let's navigate these intense and thrilling aspects safely and confidently. In this episode, we're diving into the world of degradation and humiliation within BDSM. Learn the differences between degradation and humiliation, explore beginner to adv…
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Kink and Kids: DOs and DON'Ts for D/s Parents
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#036: How do you balance being a parent and participating in a BDSM dynamic? In this episode, we're uncovering the delicate balance between parental duties and maintaining a Dom/sub relationship. Learn how to segregate roles, keep privacy intact, and educate your kids about consent and respect. Discover practical tips for managing impact scene nois…
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BDSM Q&A: Fresh Ideas, Avoiding Burnout, Navigating DMs
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Ever wondered how to keep your kink life fresh and exciting? Let's uncover some secrets together! In this AMA episode, we're tackling your burning questions about scene improvement, avoiding burnout, and maintaining excitement in long-term BDSM relationships. Alesandra shares personal insights from her D/s partnership with Jay, tips on creating rit…
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Huge Guy Makes You S(cream) [Spicy Boyfriend ASMR]
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Listen to the FULL SPICY audio NOW in my LinkTree!! https://linktr.ee/daddysounds ---------------------------------------- ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. VIEW AT YOUR OWN DISCRETION. ---------------------------------------- You and your friend decide to play a 'spicy' version of poker on a stormy, rainy night. He's bashful and ashamed to reveal it bu…
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Bisexual Submissive in a BDSM Dynamic: My Story
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#034: How do you balance being bi and submissive? In this episode, we're getting real about the ups and downs of being a bisexual sub while having a Dominant, male partner. We're tackling labels, biphobia, and how the BDSM and LGBTQ+ communities intersect. Plus, find out how a bi sub navigates her non-binary attractions and battles stereotypes. Don…
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SSC vs. RACK vs. PRICK: Which Safety Protocol Fits You?
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#033: Is 'Safe, Sane, Consensual' still the gold standard in BDSM, or is it time for a change? We're diving into the ins and outs of communication in BDSM, the buzz around acronyms like RACK, PRICK, and CCCC, and why consent is non-negotiable. We're sharing our thoughts on using "ethical" and the importance of being informed about BDSM practices. P…
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#032: Here's why it's never too late to jumpstart your sex life and master the BDSM lifestyle. Too many older kinksters worry that they're too late to the game, are discouraged by their age, or think they're too far behind to ever catch up. The truth is age is just a number, and you're never too old to be your best Dom or sub self! Listen in and ge…
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#031: Is age really just a number? Join host Alesandra as she delves into the complexities of age gap relationships within BDSM. This episode uncovers myths, explores challenges, and celebrates the unique benefits of significant age differences in Dom/sub relationships. Key topics include consent legality, power dynamics, and personal anecdotes fro…
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#030: Struggling with your mental health? You're definitely not in this alone. Your host, Alesandra, has been there and is now sharing her raw take on finding balance with help from the world of BDSM. This chat's packed with real talk about coping mechanisms, the power of a structured dynamic, and even how Alesandra found unexpected support with ke…
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Exploring the Depths of BDSM with Just Press Foreplay
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Ready to unravel the intricacies of BDSM and discover the profound connection it cultivates? Listen in as Suzii from Just Press Foreplay interviews Alesandra in this raw episode. Unpack the complexities of consent, communication, and care in BDSM. From boundary negotiations to the spiritual intertwining of dominance and submission, Alesandra and Su…
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Are you the sub you want to be? Dive into the 4 key pillars that separate a good sub from a great one in this episode. Join host Alesandra to uncover how submissives can better serve their Dominants. This episode is packed with actionable tips for enhancing your submission in relationships. To elevate your submission even more, be sure to grab our …
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I am very excited to finally get this episode with Dr. Cat Meyers up! Dr. Cat is a licensed sex and psychedelic-assisted psychotherapist, published researcher, and international speaker all with in the pursuit of helping people come back to their hearts and their bodies to create erotically inspired lives through sex, love, and yoga. Dr. Cat joins …
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#027: Ever felt lost in your BDSM journey? Dive deep with Alesandra as she uncovers the red and green flags in seeking a BDSM mentor. From identifying qualities of a credible guide to the transformative power of mentorship, Alesandra offers practical advice on navigating the lifestyle with confidence, and offers options for personalized mentorship.…
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#026: Are you curious about joining the kink community? Join Alesandra as she uncovers how to find kinky friends at local munches and dungeons. Discover intimate gathering spots, learn BDSM etiquette, and find out how larger events foster connections. This is your personal invitation to learn how to engage with the BDSM community for ongoing educat…
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#025: Ever heard some "foolish" BDSM tips? Let's clear the air! Join host Alesandra as she debunks dangerous advice and delves into the murky waters of BDSM myths. We cover the importance of personal limits, dispel the notion of power imbalance, and reject gatekeeping in kink practices. Listen in and discover why there's no 'one-size-fits-all' in D…
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What No One Tells You About Dom/Sub Relationships
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#024: Ever wondered what BDSM is REALLY like, beyond the dungeon drama? Alesandra's here to spill the tea. She's peeling back the curtains on the nitty-gritty of power play. Think honest chats about trust, tricky emotions, and managing kinks while juggling real life. Jump into this raw conversation about love, leather, and everything in between. Cl…
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Oh this one is going to make the new age feminist so mad and I'm excited for it. We are talking about traditional vs modern women and wives! I'm fascinated by the clash going on between women who follow the modern script that women must want a full time career over all else and the women who are sick of constantly being masculine and instead want t…
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#023: Ever wonder if you're a switch in BDSM? Get the juicy details on embracing both dominance and submission! Listen as host Alesandra breaks down the ins and outs of being a switch in the BDSM community, debunks misconceptions, and shares signs that might point to a flair for both dominance and submission. Don't miss out on embracing your person…
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#022: Ready to elevate your dominance game? Dive into the 4 key pillars that separate a good Dom from a great one in this episode. Join host Alesandra to uncover how Doms can enhance their relationships. this episode is packed with actionable tips for enhancing your dominance in relationships. To elevate your dominance game even more, be sure to gr…
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We're talking threesomes! They are all the rage and honestly have been for years and years, it just seems to be talked about more out in the open. Though threesomes can happen with any and all sexualities we are mainly talking about hetero/bisexual threesomes here. What we are here to discuss is how people/couples go about having threesomes. We ten…
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#021: We're diving into the world of Tradwife dynamics in relation to BDSM, as we uncover their similarities and differences. Join host Alesandra and she goes deep into the heart of the Tradwives lifestyle, discussing submission, empowerment, communication, and consent. Discover the appeal of 1950's submissive kink, and the importance of informed a…
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Unlock Daily Consistency in Your BDSM Relationship with These Tricks
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#020: Do you struggle with maintaining daily intensity in your BDSM relationship? Join Alesandra as she dives deep into unlocking the secrets of daily consistency in Dom/sub dynamics. As a full-time collared submissive and a mom of two, Alesandra discusses practical tips for integrating BDSM into daily life. Strengthen your Dom/sub relationship and…
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5 Newbie Mistakes I Didn't Expect in My BDSM Journey
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#019: Discover the 5 crucial newbie mistakes in BDSM as host Alesandra reveals her embarrassing but invaluable experiences in this candid episode. Listen in as she walks through her real-life blunders, and bares it all to help fellow enthusiasts avoid these common mistakes. These insights are a must for any newbie (or veteran) in the BDSM scene. – …
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Helping Your Partner Embrace the BDSM Lifestyle
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#018: Having trouble getting your partner on board with BDSM? Let's figure out how to make it a joint adventure filled with excitement and fulfillment! Your host, Alesandra, dives into the challenges of getting your partner interested in BDSM, highlighting the importance of communication, mutual benefits, and taking it slow. She also emphasizes the…
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In this episode I am joined by Findom Onxy Muse. She opens up about her path of becoming dominatrix and to the world of open sexuality. Starting off as a regular model and going into a monogamous relationship, to opening said relationship up to another woman, to going to her first play party. Eventually we learn how she got out from under the contr…
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Finding Kinky Love: How to Find a D/s Partner
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#017: Are you struggling to find a legitimate Dom or sub partner? In this episode, we dive into the secrets of navigating the BDSM dating scene. Alesandra provides guidance on finding a genuine partner, addressing past relationships, creating a wish list, vetting potential partners, and authentically presenting yourself. She also shares more about …
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Overcoming Dom/sub Mindset Struggles with Leann Herron
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#016: How did this sub go from a sexless marriage to embracing the BDSM lifestyle? Leann Herron's journey is nothing short of inspiring. Leann is a kink-informed relationship coach, and also a Dom Sub Living student! On this episode she dishes with Alesandra on safe kink exploration, overcoming mindset hurdles, and practical tips for mastering the …
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This episode Daddy and I are discussing cucking! If you dont know, cucking is the act of "forcing" your partner (typically the man) to watch you have sex with someone else. The cuckhold is typically not allowed to partake or even touch. This is one of Daddys favorite play time activities even when he was the Dom in our relationship, as he would tel…
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#015: This is huge. Brace yourself because I'm dropping a bombshell, and it's a game-changer! Introducing our All-Access Pass – the ultimate combo of community-powered BDSM education and access to all our courses at your own pace. Connect with fellow kinksters on the same journey. Our killer courses have led thousands to success as a Dom or sub, an…
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5 Ways to Master Long-Distance D/s Relationships
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#014: Strengthen your long-distance BDSM relationship with our expert tips! Join host Alesandra as she shares her experience and offers valuable hacks to make your long-distance dynamic a success. She discusses punishments, virtual scenes, and more! Follow along with our free worksheets so you can create your own, personalized LDR action plan. – Gr…
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#013: Stay ahead of the curve with our latest BDSM insights! As the kink community evolves, what new trends are emerging? Listen as host Alesandra discusses exciting trends in the community and offers valuable predictions for the upcoming year. Staying informed on the evolving trends in BDSM will help you on your journey to becoming the best Dom or…
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#012: Join Alesandra as she reflects on the good, the bad, and the ugly moments of her life, love, and BDSM journey in this candid and emotional episode. Listen as she shares the challenges she and her partner have overcome, including health struggles, relationship dynamics, and the impact of long-distance work commitments. She also opens up about …
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What's Coming in 2024 for the Podcast and Dom Sub Living
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#011: Hop on with Alesandra as she previews the upcoming year for Dom Sub Living. Alesandra, a prominent figure in the BDSM community and the podcast's energetic host, highlights her plans for 2024. She discusses podcast updates, the launch of a new channel, free online events, and the famous Kink Bundle. Subscribe to the podcast and stay updated o…
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5 Kinksters Answer: “What I Wish I Knew Before Getting into BDSM”
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#010: Discover the untold truths and personal experiences of prominent figures in the BDSM community in our groundbreaking roundup episode. Join host Alesandra as she shares her raw, honest insights alongside experienced guests. These real-life kinksters delve into crucial topics, like the need for community, the essence of communication, and dispe…
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3 Reasons Why Your D/s Relationship Keeps Failing
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#009: Are you struggling with a failing D/s relationship? Tune in as Alesandra delves into the common pitfalls and offers expert advice for reigniting your dynamic. In this episode. Alesandra shines a light on the intricacies of D/s relationships, offering her expertise in mastering and living the BDSM lifestyle. She also addresses the complexities…
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