Best Badmusic Podcasts (2024)

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PATIENCE WHILE WAITING 💙 4:57

22d ago4:57

4:57

Remember, patience is a strength that benefits both you and your relationship. I have are some tips to cultivate patience in this episode.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all the deets! Make sure you rate so more people can get to know about the podcast.Do share and drop comment on the podcast for b…

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CONVICTION IN RELATIONSHIP 9:18

2M ago9:18

9:18

Conviction involves having a strong sense of purpose, trust, and dedication to your relationship, even in the face of challenges or uncertainty. Conviction is about being fully invested in your relationship and having the courage to stand by your partner and your bond.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to ge…

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Confirmation in Relationship 🤝 6:21

2M ago6:21

6:21

Confirmation in a relationship I mean here is an ongoing process of acknowledging, validating, and reaffirming your commitment, love, and support for each other. It involves regularly "checking in" and confirming that you are both on the same page, fostering a sense of security, trust, and unity.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to …

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ACCOUNTABILITY ❤️🖊️ 7:07

3M ago7:07

7:07

Accountability in relationships is willingness of both partners to take responsibility for their actions, words, and emotions. It involves being answerable to each other and acknowledging the impact of one's behavior on the other person. Accountability fosters a healthy and mature dynamic in relationships, promoting trust, respect, and growth.Find …

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One sided Love 💕 7:24

3M ago7:24

7:24

One-sided love in relationships refers to a situation where one person has strong feelings of love and affection towards their partner, but the other person does not reciprocate those feelings to the same degree or at all.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all the deets! Make sure you rate so more peo…

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Marital Sex Isn’t Boring ft. William and Ayo Lawal 1:19:48

3M ago1:19:48

1:19:48

Welcome to another special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast! Today, Hausa Chocolate is joined by talented creatives, William and Ayo Lawal. Together they discuss marriage, infidelity, assumptions and misconceptions about monogamous marriages, Madonna-Whore Complex, sexual safety, contraceptives, keeping sex spicy and so much more. Themes: Lon…

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Are You D!ckmatized or Lost In The Sauce? Ft. Ed Gothboy 1:06:01

3M ago1:06:01

1:06:01

Welcome back to Spit or Swallow, where we dive deep into the juiciest topics around sex, relationships and intimacy. In this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by our favourite guest, amazing journalist, critic and Sex Sensei, Ed Gothboy. Join them as they delve into the concept of "dickmatization," explore the allure of having that unexplainable "…

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I Identify As A Form ft. Gozie 1:00:50

3M ago1:00:50

1:00:50

Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow! On this special episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by a gender non-conformist Gozie who is a model and creative powerhouse. They share their experience navigating being a minority in Nigeria, shed light on their journey and coming into their own identity while tackling the so…

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SINGLES MATTERS 7:59

4M ago7:59

7:59

We can learn from the mistakes of others, and grow from the wisdom of others.We can decide to follow in the ways that have caused others to succeed, and avoid the roadblocks that have caused others to stumble. I have learned so much truth, and avoided so much pain, thanks to the role of great mentors in my life. Mentors who have opened their hearts…

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Trigger Warning ft. Aanu 42:03

3M ago42:03

42:03

Welcome back to Spit or Swallow Podcast! Joining your favourite host Hausa Chocolate today is Licensed Clinical Psychologist Aanu and they discuss trauma and sex. What trauma really means, how it manifests, cause and effect and what healing can look like. Aanu shares her insights on how inclusive therapy can be a game-changer in healing and growth,…

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THE DEAL BREAKER II 6:55

4M ago6:55

6:55

A deal breaker’ in a relationship is when one partner identifies a discrete behavior, aspect, value, or goal of the other partner [that] they are unwilling to tolerate or compromise on and [they] decide that the relationship is not worth continuing if it exists,Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all t…

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Love And High Fenced Streets ft Amiola 50:18

4M ago50:18

50:18

What’s the difference between love and crack? Today on this special episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Dark Chocolate Amiola and they talk about our favourite chemical reaction in the brain, love. They examine the relationship between sex and love. From the complexities of developing strong emotional attachments to the delicate balance between d…

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DEAL BREAKER 7:13

4M ago7:13

7:13

No matter how much you love someone, sometimes, you’ll come across a deal breaker, a clear non-negotiable that will make a relationship unlikely to work out. A deal breaker can be anything from a bad habit to a lack of something important in the relationship, like trust and while specific deal breakers will differ from person to person, they all ty…

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Navigating Different Identities In A Heterosexual Marriage ft. Tolu 54:01

4M ago54:01

54:01

On the latest episode of Spit or Swallow your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by Tolu, a married, queer-identifying Nigerian. She shares her becoming story. They talk about her first pride event after moving, navigating queer sexual identities in a heterosexual marriage, discovering community abroad, how relocating changes how a person vi…

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Sex Education (The Lack Thereof) In Nigeria ft. Olori Coitus 1:06:53

4M ago1:06:53

1:06:53

In today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Olori Coitus, a brilliant Sex Educator, Intimacy Director and Public Health Expert. They unpack the exciting world of spreading accurate information on sex in Nigeria's sexually ‘repressed’ society. Olori Coitus shares how she got into Sexual Health, her journey so far, the road blocks she’s experienc…

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Can I Take My Clothes Off? ft. Sugar Ken 48:41

4M ago48:41

48:41

Hausa Chocolate is joined by a male stripper extraordinaire, Sugar Ken! Together they dive into the exciting world of stripping! While Sugar Ken might not be giving away free lap dances, he's certainly serving up some piping hot truths! They discuss the highs and lows of stepping into the spotlight, tips for successful marketing and branding in the…

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KEEP IT BURNING 🔥 8:10

5M ago8:10

8:10

What do we do to keep it burning after Valentine. Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all the deets! Make sure you rate so more people can get to know about the podcast.Do share and drop comment on the podcast for better interaction with the host Kameel. Follow on all social media platforms @fixitwithk…

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Divine Desire: Unveiling Eros With An Erotic Goddess ft. Joy 57:27

4M ago57:27

57:27

On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate sits with an erotic goddess, a reiki healer, companion and guide, Joy. They talk about the connection between sex and spirituality, helping men access deeper intimacy and their inner eros. Joy’s journey as a medium and a creator and also exploring unconventional love and relationship styles. Enjoyy! Themes: Spiri…

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FOR THE MONTH OF LOVE 💕 5:57

5M ago5:57

5:57

So Valentine’s Day has come and gone once again! Hopefully you and your beloved made good use of the opportunity to show your love for each other in some special ways. Although it’s great to have this “excuse” every February to do something blatantly romantic, it does not have to be confined only to that one day per year.Find out more on this episo…

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Silver Sex ft. Cheron K. Griffin & Mr. Hunni Bunni 1:24:48

5M ago1:24:48

1:24:48

On this amazing episode of the podcast, Hausa Chocolate gets into silver sex with Cheron. K. Griffin an dating concierge, author, matchmaker and relationship coach together with her husband Mr. Hunni Bunni. They discuss her journey transitioning out of purity culture as an ex preacher’s wife, her various marriages, finding herself and true love wit…

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True Romance Is Dead! ft. Luciano & Torera 1:09:55

5M ago1:09:55

1:09:55

Love is in the air! Isn’t it? On this special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast, Hausa Chocolate, Luciano and Torera talk about love, romance and everything Valentine’s Day! What do you do when your situationship airs you on Love Day? They also discuss their hate languages, share funny stories, past experiences and talk about what love means t…

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Sexual Revolution ft. Teso The Star Seed 1:15:49

5M ago1:15:49

1:15:49

On this amazing episode, your favourite host is joined by Teso, a model, writer and podcaster and creative. They discuss their sexual liberation journeys. The impact of visible voices going against the grain. They also talk about partnerships, community and finding alignment into today’s society. Enjoyy Themes: Sexual Liberation, Feminism, SocietyD…

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RENEWED 🌹 4:50

6M ago4:50

4:50

Communication brings lovers together and makes it easy for them to build chemistry and love. The conversations you have with your significant other play a strong role in determining how happy, fun and strong your relationship will be.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all the deets! Make sure you rate…

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Mind-Body-Spirit Wellness ft. Oyin Talabi 1:03:11

5M ago1:03:11

1:03:11

On this amazing episode of the pod, Hausa Chocolate gets into holistic wellness with Oyin Talabi. They discuss New Year Resolutions, the Mind-Body-Spirit connection mindful living practices, becoming in tune with one’s self and general tips on improving our mental health and sex lives. Themes: Mindfulness, Meditation, Wellness Don’t forget to rate …

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NEW START🎉 3:13

6M ago3:13

3:13

It's a new start to the year 2024 and it promises to be an exciting year with mind craving topics to improve you and your relationship. Thank you for your support!

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We Are In An Open Marriage ft. The Play Smith & Venolia 52:32

6M ago52:32

52:32

On this interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Play Smith and his wife Wade who are in an open marriage. They discuss how they met, the easy and hard parts of being in an open marriage, navigating it with friends, family and the dating pool, trust, honesty and so much more! Enjoyy! Themes: Open Relationships, Polyamo…

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Logical Lovers, Intimacy and Size Queens ft. Dr. SID 1:04:40

6M ago1:04:40

1:04:40

Welcome back to another amazing season of the Spit Or Swallow Pod with your favourite host Hausa Chocolate! On today’s slightly chaotic episode, Hausa Chocolate and the multifaceted Dr SID discuss intimacy differences in men and women, how logic and emotion feed love, analyze what makes long term relationships last, sexual liberalism, communication…

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LAST DRAW; TAKE SOME TIPS 😍 4:34

7M ago4:34

4:34

It's the end of the year and here's my tips to follow and carry on to the new year ahead. I wish y'all a Merry Christmas 🎄 and Happy New Year in advance. THANK YOU! You can follow this show on all podcast platforms @fixitwithkameel

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IMPACT OF LOW SELF-ESTEEM 4:47

7M ago4:47

4:47

It’s important to understand the impact of low self-worth on your relationships and life. When you don’t value yourself, you’re more likely to settle for less than you deserve, to experience emotional or physical abuse, or to struggle with anxiety, depression, or other mental health challenges.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to th…

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Self-Value and Healthy Relationship 5:02

8M ago5:02

5:02

Studies have shown that there’s a strong link between self-value and healthy relationships. When you know your worth, you’re more likely to attract a partner who treats you with respect and kindness.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all the deets! Make sure you rate so more people can get to know abo…

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OVERCOMING EMOTIONAL ABUSE 3:09

8M ago3:09

3:09

If you’re in a relationship where you’re experiencing emotional abuse, it can be incredibly difficult to find the strength to leave. But it’s important to remember that you deserve better, and there is help available if you need it. Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all the deets! Make sure you rate …

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BUILDING SELF-LOVE 2:52

8M ago2:52

2:52

Building confidence and self-love is an ongoing process, but it’s crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship. Some tips for building confidence include practicing self-care, focusing on your strengths, and surrounding yourself with supportive and positive people.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get …

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WALKING AWAY FROM TOXIC RELATIONSHIP 5:20

8M ago5:20

5:20

Sometimes, no matter how much we try to make a relationship work, it just isn’t healthy or respectful. This is where you need to have the strength and empowerment to walk away.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all the deets! Make sure you rate so more people can get to know about the podcast.Do share…

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SETTING HEALTHY BOUNDARIES 3:04

8M ago3:04

3:04

Setting boundaries is an essential part of any healthy relationship. This means being clear about your expectations, needs, and limits, and communicating these effectively with your partner.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all the deets! Make sure you rate so more people can get to know about the po…

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Recognizing When You’re Undervalued in a Relationship 4:09

9M ago4:09

4:09

One of the biggest challenges in relationships is recognizing when you’re being undervalued or mistreated. This can manifest in a variety of ways, from your partner talking down to you to not valuing your opinions or feelings.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all the deets! Make sure you rate so more…

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BOOSTING YOUR SELF-ESTEEM 4:26

9M ago4:26

4:26

One of the best things you can do for your self-worth is to work on your self-esteem. This can mean a variety of things, from taking up a new hobby to getting fit to practicing self-care. When you feel good about yourself and your life, you’re more likely to attract a healthy partner who appreciates and supports you.Find out more on this episode of…

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KNOW YOUR WORTH 7:05

9M ago7:05

7:05

Before you even start dating someone, it’s crucial to know your own worth. This means understanding what makes you happy, what you’re looking for in a relationship, and what you’re willing to put up with. It’s having strong self-esteem and not relying on anyone to validate your worth.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of t…

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KICKING OFF 2:04

10M ago2:04

2:04

We kicking off new exciting topics from next weekend. Stick with us on the show and follow us on all our social media platforms.

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THE QUESTION⁉️ 3:17

11M ago3:17

3:17

IS TRYING TO GET BACK TOGETHER REALLY THAT HOPELESS?Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all the deets! Make sure you rate so more people can get to know about the podcast.Do share and drop comment on the podcast for better interaction with the host Kameel. Follow on all social media platforms @fixitwit…

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THE BREAK UP GUIDE 💔 🤭 8:21

11M ago8:21

8:21

This is probably going to suck. But if you’ve decided it’s time to pack it up and shut down the relationship, well, I commend you on your bravery. Let's go straight at it on this episode.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all the deets! Make sure you rate so more people can get to know about the podca…

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STICK OR LEAVE ❓ 6:44

11M ago6:44

6:44

SHOULD YOU BREAK UP OR WORK IT OUT?Sometimes it’s easy to know when to dump someone. If you’re getting treated like shit, being constantly ignored, cheated on, or experiencing any other combination of toxic relationship shit-baggery, you need to leave. Let's go straight at it on this episode.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the …

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NO PERFECTION IN PERFECTION 6:40

11M ago6:40

6:40

Usually, women dream of a tall, dark, handsome, caring, loving & funny partner. They look for a perfect man who fulfills every economic, social, emotional, and spiritual need, the man comes home on time, never drinks, never cheats, never flirts, cleans after himself, remembers everything (birthdays, anniversaries, etc), cooks for you, buys flowers-…

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EX ENCOUNTER 3:17

12M ago3:17

3:17

Honestly, you can’t, and to think of it, there isn’t any need to be in contact with your ex. The reason is that whatever you had with that person will echo in your current relationship. Memories you shared with that person will linger around you.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all the deets! Make s…

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CHEAT CODE FOR STABLE RELATIONSHIP 8:08

12M ago8:08

8:08

Have you ever asked yourself what is the secret for a long-lasting relationship? Well I'll share with you the 7 cheat codes for a stable relationship.Find out more on this episode of the show, listen to the end of the episode to get all the deets! Make sure you rate so more people can get to know about the podcast.Do share and drop comment on the p…

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THE CONVERSATION 🗣️ 1:35

1y ago1:35

1:35

Chat up the show host on previous episodes and on topics you'll like to be treated.Follow on all social media platforms @fixitwithkameel

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Living in a Post-Label Lagos (ft. Tushar ) 54:48

1y ago54:48

54:48

It’s another Season Finale! Thank you so much for sticking with us this season! On this episode, Hausa Chocolate and Tushar talk labels, gender and queer s-x! They have an insightful conversation about what it’s like to be questioning while actively exploring your identity in the tumultuous yet exciting city of Lagos! Themes: Gender, Sexuality, Lab…

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Streets To Sheets (ft. Nengi Adoki) 58:42

1y ago58:42

58:42

On this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Nengi Adoki and they discuss going from the streets to the sheets and the messiness that happens in between. They also talk open relationships, cheating, what to do when you’re propositioned by a couple and more! Themes: Casual Sex, Polyamory, Power Dynamics Enjoyy! Don’t forget to rate us and share! St…

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CELIBACY 8:28

1y ago8:28

8:28

Celibacy is a voluntary vow of sexual abstinence. In some cases, it can also be a promise to remain unmarried.Celibacy can look different for each person, so there’s no single way to practice it.Whether you’re a curious observer or considering a lifestyle change, I have few answers to the most commonly asked questions about celibacy on this podcast…

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Emotional Safety and Sex (ft. Tayo Bero) 1:02:05

1y ago1:02:05

1:02:05

On this episode Hausa Chocolate holds an insightful conversation about sexual safety with award winning writer and activist , Tayo Bero. they talk about psychological and emotional safety and sex, sexual agency, power dynamics and the radicalisation of pleasure. Themes: Safe Sex, Sexual Agency, Gender Norms Enjoyy Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Se…

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TREATING JEALOUSY IN AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP 6:22

1y ago6:22

6:22

Jealousy is about fear. It’s the fear that someone else might get more of your partner or take something that you already have. Jealousy feels like someone else will threaten your bond. And they might.But feeling jealous doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you. It’s a normal emotion. Jealousy shouldn’t be ignored. Find out more on this episod…

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