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Welcome to the In Bed with Strangers Podcast! I am your host, Casey Donatello (along with my husband Jason). This a sex positive and alternative lifestyle (swinger, ENM, Hotwife) podcast inspired by my real-life journey to sexual empowerment and freedom. Join me as I discuss my complicated physical, mental and emotional transformation from shy Catholic school girl to insatiable unicorn and finally a happy and horny Hotwife. Jason and I share the female, male and couple perspective on a wide ...
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Solo play, spicy bits, and…releasing! Renee Powers, Nora and Niba of The Feminist Book Club community, reveal unforgettable dating and sex experiences in which bodies surprised them. August recommends a sexy product in honor of each story. The stories in this episode were originally released in September, 2019. Stay tuned next month for brand new s…
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If you’ve been struggling to achieve a perfectly equitable marriage, you’re not alone. Research shows that even couples who prioritize equality often find themselves fighting about fairness in their relationship. That was the experience of today’s guests, Nate and Kaley Klemp, two high-achieving individuals, who started their marriage believing in …
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This week IN BED WITH STRANGERS teams up with Ruan Willow of the OH F*CK YEAH PODCAST to chat about the wonderful world of erotica. We tackle topics like why it is liberating to write it, the struggles of censorship, judgement, the benefits of reading it, and more!Find out more about Ruan!: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillowCheck out the FILTHY FICTION A…
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When Alicia Davon went upstairs with her now husband, six months into their relationship, she knew they’d have a great time. But she didn’t expect the his and hers spiritual experience that unfolded. Magda Kay was part of a conscious community (one she’d later recognize as a cult) when two transcendent sexual experiences blew her mind. Hear their t…
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This week we share how chemo is testing our marriage. From intimacy, socializing, swinging, finances, body image and more - nothing is safe from the side effects. Why have I chosen a sexless marriage instead of using my Hotwife hallpass? Tune in to hear my views on love, loyalty and lust when coping with a sick spouse.…
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Carol Queen, Phd, was like the Nancy Drew of sex early on, exploring her way to answers through years of trial and error. Her curiosities and exploration led to extraordinary experiences, including self-pleasuring on stage before 4,000 people. And she wants everyone to know the importance of living in our beautiful bodies with integrity. Get The Se…
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What does it really mean to be confident in the bedroom? On this episode, we are joined by Dr. Alison Ash, a trained, Trauma-Informed Intimacy Coach, Educator, and Founder of TurnON.love. Dr. Aly helped pioneer research into the orgasm gap and has written books and articles on topics ranging from pleasure in heterosexual dynamics to queer identitie…
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Discovering squirting, a misplaced squirt, a misplaced condom and some trippy mind games… This “OMG” round of Girl Boner sex and relationship stories features: Lala, of Lala’s Bedtime Tales Nicoletta Heidegger, LMFT, of Sluts and Scholars Makenzie Mizell, media producer Carly, of Aurore And August Check out Afternoon Delight: https://nazanin-moali.…
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Jean Franzblau was enjoying a loving relationship and her intimacy and platonic touch-based career when she noticed a dramatic change in her libido. Where had her robust desire gone? Her journey to finding the answers – and solutions – took her to surprising places. Learn more about Jean and My Mother Doesn’t Know I’m Kinky: mymotherdoesntknow.com …
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So many people have trouble orgasming and aren’t experiencing true pleasure during sex. Today on The Bad Girls Bible, sexual and relational communication profession Dr. Tara joins us to discuss the three main blockers of orgasms and why sexual chemistry is so important! In this conversation, you’ll hear all about Tara’s conservative background, wha…
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So many relationships struggle with sexlessness and many couples aren’t aware of the fact that they can get help and save their relationships! Today on The Bad Girl’s Bible, sex therapist and podcast host, Dr. Nazanin Moali joins us to discuss causes and solutions for sexless relationships. In this episode, you’ll hear all about Dr. Moali’s fascina…
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Carly Pifer’s creative field research about sex and dating surprised her by becoming super sizzling for herself. Her intimate interviews overseas led to steamy romps, including sex with two very different Frenchmen in one day. Once Carly’s study was over, current events prompted her to want to celebrate positive sexual experiences. She’s been on a …
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Research shows that the majority of women will experience pain during sex at some point in their lives. But just because painful sex is common, it doesn’t mean you have to accept it as normal! To talk about this, we’re joined by Nora Langknecht, a sexuality educator, reproductive health counselor, and Brand and Digital Marketing Manager for the sex…
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Cuckolding is a controversial sexual practice that is totally misunderstood but it can actually be a really great addition to the right kind of relationship! Today on the podcast we are joined by cuckolding expert, Venus Cuckoldress to debunk cuckolding myths, hear about the realities of it, and get some tips for incorporating it into our own relat…
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Casey Donatello is a married, non-monogamous author and podcast host who embraces the Hotwife lifestyle. She is passionate about supporting others on their journey to becoming more confident and unapologetic in their lives and their sexual choices. In today’s episode, she shares her process of recognizing and pursuing a relationship dynamic and sex…
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Dr. Talal Alsaleem is an award-winning infidelity recovery expert who’s on a mission to teach clients and counselors how to use the trauma of affairs to establish, rediscover and maintain healthy relationships. In this bonus for Jennifer’s story (parts one and two), August talks to Dr. Talal. You’ll hear his thoughts about working with Jennifer and…
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Continuing Jennifer’s story from the last Girl Boner Radio episode, you’ll hear how Adam reacted when she returned from her intensive therapy program, what happened in their relationship post infidelity and how they’ve both found healing. This episode touches on childhood trauma and abuse. Please take care while listening. ACE childhood trauma quiz…
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What if your past didn’t have to dictate your future? Esin Pinarli is a human behavior specialist offering psychotherapy to couples, using the Imago and Gottman methods in conjunction with emotional-focused therapy. She joins us to share her perspective on the deep-rooted beliefs behind our actions and reactions within the context of relationships.…
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Jennifer had built a successful career and a happy family life when she became deeply involved in infidelity. While the first affair ended rather quickly, the second led down a path she couldn’t have imagined. This episode touches on childhood trauma, abuse and cheating. Please take care while listening. ACE childhood trauma quiz Explore the latest…
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Today I discuss my brand new erotica book - FILTHY FICTION Volume 1: Dirty Daydreams! Plus, my friend and fellow author, Casandra Charles, calls in to chat about why we love writing and how I became a character in her latest book - CODE RED! Both books are available on Amazon! FILTHY FICTION: https://www.amazon.com/FILTHY-FICTION-1-Dirty-Daydreams-…
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What “kind of woman” gets into threesomes and gang bangs? Do “good girls” even grow up to enjoy sex? These questions once lived in Casey Donatello’s mind. Little could she have imagined she'd one day delve into the swinger's community and hotwifing. Today the sex-positivity advocate is passionate about play she once considered taboo and "dirty." Ca…
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Pamela Madsen was a happily married mother of two with a successful career when she felt drawn to an erotic experience that made her jaw (and clothes) drop. The experience launched a life-changing journey of sexual exploration that continues today — her “nutrition,” as she calls it. Some of the topics you’ll hear about: Sexological bodywork and mas…
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Wow! Jason & I were very busy this week with four incredibly exciting dates! Tune in to hear the naughty details about hooking up with Mr. #998 and Mr. #999, date night with one of our favorite married men, and a long awaited second round with a super hot BBC. Plus, find out how my newly acquired deepthroating skills are affecting Jason's libido!…
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Lala didn’t realize she could experience one orgasm, much less multiple, until she had the “best sex [of her] life” with her now husband – so why aren't serial Os her favorite? Lora found her way to multiple Os using one of the most popular sex toys among women. (The same didn't work for August...) And Yuval and Court are proof that O after O isn’t…
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With my ladyparts temporarily out of order, Jason & I need to find alternative ways to entertain ourselves on vacation so we attend our first BDSM/kink event together. Tune in to hear us discuss expectations versus reality, what happens when I am forced to switch from exhibitionist to voyeur, and how it compared to the swinging world. Plus, hear al…
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Today we share some really important things to consider before jumping into a hotwife relationship so you and your partner can be better prepared for the adventure ahead. Learn about essential conversation starters like which dynamic you prefer, selecting guys, creating a pre-date routine, establishing rules for playdates, the excitement of reclaim…
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For years, Leah Carey felt equal parts shut down and obsessed re: sex. Meanwhile, she chose terrible partners. Then in her 40s, during her final session with a therapist, she revealed a long held sexual secret. Leah’s admission marked the start of what would become an across-the-country sexual awakening adventure. She eventually landed on desires t…
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Today we discuss the ups and downs of dating during the past month and why the lack of reliable guys has temporarily stopped me from reaching my goal of 1,000. We also share the juicy details from three of our incredible recent dates including a repeat encounter with an out of towner, a much needed rendezvous with one of our favorite BBCs and how b…
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EF Dodd dated a guy from a distance in pre-FaceTime days. Jenay had a relationship that started in Idaho and ended with him overseas. And both women found ways to keep things spicy, challenges and all. (And yes, dirty talk played an important role!) This episode also features Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who feels uncomfortable, yet …
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Women’s sexuality educator Jordan D'Nelle went from not realizing orgasms were a thing or possible with a partner to finding orgasmic bliss in incredible ways and places. Her steamiest experiences taught her a ton about sex, pleasure and her body – lessons she pays forward. Learn more from Jordan: https://jordandnelle.com Register for Afternoon Del…
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Can an orgasm change your life? Is it ever too late to invite a sexual awakening? As a special wrap up to the year, August shares a conversation she had with colleague and friend, Lynn Brown Rosenberg, at the Residence 11 Desire Summit in Los Angeles. Register for Afternoon Delight (with early bird pricing) here! Order Lynn's memoir, My Sexual Awak…
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Intimacy coach Lee Noto didn’t realize she’d been longing for surrender until a crush turned into far more. Author Liz Asch fell away from her queer expression, then gradually reclaimed it. And that growth led to more than squirting. Yes, this week’s Girl Boner replay is a juicy one… You’ll also hear about Afternoon Delight – a live, interactive po…
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