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Welcome to 50 Shades of Blue Podcast with author speaker Cheron K. Griffin aka Madame Butterfly. This is the show where we have authentic conversations with ordinary people, experts, and influencers. Each episode, we dive deep into love, life, dating, relationships, spirituality and anything you can or cannot imagine. Anything goes! Our goal is to provide you with thought provoking information and perspectives that you can use to enhance your own knowledge and understanding to change your wo ...
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Spit Or Swallow is a podcast hosted by self-appointed orgasm gap eradicator of the federal republic @hausachocolate who puts the ‘ho’ in wholesome. SOS navigates and explores the world of Sex and Sexuality with no limits. Nothing is too over the top, embarrassing or out of bounds. It’s a journey of liberation, enjoyment and education. A judgement free zone demystifying sex matters where we unlearn harmful ideals, while having fun and gaining practical tips to live your best sex life along th ...
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Welcome to another special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast! Today, Hausa Chocolate is joined by talented creatives, William and Ayo Lawal. Together they discuss marriage, infidelity, assumptions and misconceptions about monogamous marriages, Madonna-Whore Complex, sexual safety, contraceptives, keeping sex spicy and so much more. Themes: Lon…
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Welcome back to Spit or Swallow, where we dive deep into the juiciest topics around sex, relationships and intimacy. In this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by our favourite guest, amazing journalist, critic and Sex Sensei, Ed Gothboy. Join them as they delve into the concept of "dickmatization," explore the allure of having that unexplainable "…
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Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow! On this special episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by a gender non-conformist Gozie who is a model and creative powerhouse. They share their experience navigating being a minority in Nigeria, shed light on their journey and coming into their own identity while tackling the so…
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Welcome back to Spit or Swallow Podcast! Joining your favourite host Hausa Chocolate today is Licensed Clinical Psychologist Aanu and they discuss trauma and sex. What trauma really means, how it manifests, cause and effect and what healing can look like. Aanu shares her insights on how inclusive therapy can be a game-changer in healing and growth,…
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What’s the difference between love and crack? Today on this special episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Dark Chocolate Amiola and they talk about our favourite chemical reaction in the brain, love. They examine the relationship between sex and love. From the complexities of developing strong emotional attachments to the delicate balance between d…
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On the latest episode of Spit or Swallow your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by Tolu, a married, queer-identifying Nigerian. She shares her becoming story. They talk about her first pride event after moving, navigating queer sexual identities in a heterosexual marriage, discovering community abroad, how relocating changes how a person vi…
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In today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Olori Coitus, a brilliant Sex Educator, Intimacy Director and Public Health Expert. They unpack the exciting world of spreading accurate information on sex in Nigeria's sexually ‘repressed’ society. Olori Coitus shares how she got into Sexual Health, her journey so far, the road blocks she’s experienc…
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Hausa Chocolate is joined by a male stripper extraordinaire, Sugar Ken! Together they dive into the exciting world of stripping! While Sugar Ken might not be giving away free lap dances, he's certainly serving up some piping hot truths! They discuss the highs and lows of stepping into the spotlight, tips for successful marketing and branding in the…
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On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate sits with an erotic goddess, a reiki healer, companion and guide, Joy. They talk about the connection between sex and spirituality, helping men access deeper intimacy and their inner eros. Joy’s journey as a medium and a creator and also exploring unconventional love and relationship styles. Enjoyy! Themes: Spiri…
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On this amazing episode of the podcast, Hausa Chocolate gets into silver sex with Cheron. K. Griffin an dating concierge, author, matchmaker and relationship coach together with her husband Mr. Hunni Bunni. They discuss her journey transitioning out of purity culture as an ex preacher’s wife, her various marriages, finding herself and true love wit…
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Love is in the air! Isn’t it? On this special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast, Hausa Chocolate, Luciano and Torera talk about love, romance and everything Valentine’s Day! What do you do when your situationship airs you on Love Day? They also discuss their hate languages, share funny stories, past experiences and talk about what love means t…
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On this amazing episode, your favourite host is joined by Teso, a model, writer and podcaster and creative. They discuss their sexual liberation journeys. The impact of visible voices going against the grain. They also talk about partnerships, community and finding alignment into today’s society. Enjoyy Themes: Sexual Liberation, Feminism, SocietyD…
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On this amazing episode of the pod, Hausa Chocolate gets into holistic wellness with Oyin Talabi. They discuss New Year Resolutions, the Mind-Body-Spirit connection mindful living practices, becoming in tune with one’s self and general tips on improving our mental health and sex lives. Themes: Mindfulness, Meditation, Wellness Don’t forget to rate …
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On this interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Play Smith and his wife Wade who are in an open marriage. They discuss how they met, the easy and hard parts of being in an open marriage, navigating it with friends, family and the dating pool, trust, honesty and so much more! Enjoyy! Themes: Open Relationships, Polyamo…
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Welcome back to another amazing season of the Spit Or Swallow Pod with your favourite host Hausa Chocolate! On today’s slightly chaotic episode, Hausa Chocolate and the multifaceted Dr SID discuss intimacy differences in men and women, how logic and emotion feed love, analyze what makes long term relationships last, sexual liberalism, communication…
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I had the pleasure of hosting a remarkable guest, Krystal from Krystal Light Yoga, on my podcast. Our conversation was filled with a wide range of captivating topics, primarily centered around the transformative power of yoga. However, our dialogue extended far beyond that. We explored intriguing subjects such as the connection between yoga and enh…
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It’s another Season Finale! Thank you so much for sticking with us this season! On this episode, Hausa Chocolate and Tushar talk labels, gender and queer s-x! They have an insightful conversation about what it’s like to be questioning while actively exploring your identity in the tumultuous yet exciting city of Lagos! Themes: Gender, Sexuality, Lab…
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On this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Nengi Adoki and they discuss going from the streets to the sheets and the messiness that happens in between. They also talk open relationships, cheating, what to do when you’re propositioned by a couple and more! Themes: Casual Sex, Polyamory, Power Dynamics Enjoyy! Don’t forget to rate us and share! St…
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Dating is a simple concept. However, when women use those terms, men often associate it with a focus on sex. In reality, dating is about gathering information and getting to know someone. What a person chooses to do with their body is their own business, and it shouldn't concern others. In our candid conversation, we delve deep into the world of da…
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In our candid conversation, Dedrick and I delve into the complexities surrounding love, dating, and attraction, particularly within the context of the Black community. We shed light on the prevailing difficulties in discovering Black Love in contemporary times. Dedrick shares his perspective on what captivates him about a woman, emphasizing the imp…
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On this episode Hausa Chocolate holds an insightful conversation about sexual safety with award winning writer and activist , Tayo Bero. they talk about psychological and emotional safety and sex, sexual agency, power dynamics and the radicalisation of pleasure. Themes: Safe Sex, Sexual Agency, Gender Norms Enjoyy Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Se…
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In this special video, we have the pleasure of welcoming Marisol to the blue couch. Marisol is not only a dear friend but also an incredible creative force behind various ventures, including the Baxter Graham purse collection and other innovative projects. Join us as we dive into Marisol's journey as an entrepreneur, her role in shaping the logo an…
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On today's important episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by storyteller Valerie Ekpo and the girls talk red! They discuss Periods, PMS, PMDD, and other conditions like PCOS and Endometriosis. They also talk about period sex and period shame. Enjoy! Themes: Periods, Period Sex, PCOS Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connect…
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On this juicy episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an SOS favorite Ed Goth Boy and they get into a loaded and informative conversation about what gets us in the mood for sex. How media influences the kind of sex we have, they also go into sex playlists and the differences between Ritual and Ego Sex Music. Dive in and enjoy! Themes…
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Hey Butterflies! Let's give a warm welcome to my friend and special guest, Zo. He has been a true lifesaver for me, and I'm grateful to have him here. During our chat on the podcast, we delved into a range of intriguing topics that sparked my interest. We touched upon Zo's personal experiences, including his past of being abused by his ex-wife and …
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On this riveting episode your fave Hausa Chocolate is joined by two Erotic Writers Ore Badmus and sexfluencer Ola AKA Lavezzed Out. They talk about erotica, sex writing and sexual fantasies. They also discuss multipartnered sexual relationships and share some real life and slightly garnished sex stories. Enjoyyy!! Themes: Erotica, Sexual Fantasy, P…
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Ladies and gentlemen, get ready for a hilarious and thought-provoking episode of our show! Today, I have the fabulous Shekia Murray as my special guest. Shekia is not just a full figure model but also a delegate for Full-Figured USA Texas. Let me tell you, filming this episode for the second time was an adventure (Phewww!), but we finally nailed it…
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As mental health awareness month draws to a close your favorite host Hausa Chocolate touches on the nexus between mental health and sex. How they are connected and all moving parts of the same system. She discusses the psychological benefits of a good Sex Life, some sexual dysfunctions and the importance of sexual self-actualization, and more. Enjo…
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It's unusual and maybe even taboo for Black women to have these conversations publicly, but it's time. Why should we sit back in the cut pretending that we don't. Most of us have been raised in a church that told us to sit down and be quiet. Nope, not any more. Personally, I don't have anything against church, but I'm not that person to sit and be …
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On this exciting episode of the pod, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by queer activist, creative, and writer, Kayode Ani. They dive into a multifaceted discussion about the politics and realities of queerness in Nigeria. Kayode shares his experiences being an activist, they discuss his journey, facing violence as well as the various …
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Join me and my friend Michelle as we talk about sex over 50 which is phenomenal and her dating experience with men at the matured age of (I'm not telling). A few times we definitely disagreed, but we agreed to disagree. Michelle's dad is a pastor, but she did handle her hadle even when I called her religious. Of course, she quoted scripture and she…
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On today’s episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by visual artist, Alexis and they discuss bad sexual communication during sex. We always go on about ‘communication’ being the bedrock of good sex but what are the wrong ways to do it in and out of the bedroom? Enjoy! Themes: Sexual Communication, Shame, Ghosting Don’t forget to rate us …
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On this super interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an Adult Film Star and they take a glimpse into the Nigerian porn industry. Wunmin Savage shares her experiences being a porn actress and navigating the adult content scene in Nigeria. They talk about dealing with the attention, revenue and so much more! Themes Di…
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Join Me and this weeks guest Gina Fatui on 50 Shades of Blue Podcast having an authentic conversation about Africans and Big Di*ks, Types of Abuse, Money Men and wherever the conversation takes us. This conversation is organic and fluid. Even my my guest was caught off guard because you never know what's going to happen on the blue couch. This podc…
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On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Lotanna Don and they discuss Oral Sex, its importance, societal and gender attitudes towards giving and receiving oral sex and share some of their experiences. They also discuss tips for better head and Hausa Chocolate whips at some interesting tools so don’t forget to catch the episode on YouTube to…
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This week on the pod Hausa Chocolate is joined by @the_mansu, CEO of HerRyde and they have an insightful conversation about reconciling sex and sexuality with religion. A lot of societal attitudes and views on sex are shaped by religion and interpretations of it, so how do you express yourself sexually when some of your beliefs are inherently suppr…
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On this episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by music consultant Folusho OG and they have a hilarious, informative episode about masturbation, early sex education, MMF threesomes, sexting, sex tapes, and the underground sex scene. Themes Discussed: Erotophobia, Morality, Monogamy Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected w…
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On this week's episode, our delectable host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by TV presenter and fellow podcaster Valerie Ike. They dive into a riveting discussion about sexual communication and all the chaos in between. Why don’t people communicate with their partners easily about sex? How do you express your sexual needs? What happens if you throw up E…
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This week, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Coco and they have a super interesting discussion about the continuum of sexuality and attraction. If a bisexual woman can only have sex with women but will date and marry men could that be homophobia and social conditioning? How much of our preferences are not externally influenced? Tap in to listen to this …
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On this sizzling episode, our self-appointed orgasm gap eradicator is joined by Ashley Okoli where they discuss sexuality and sensuality, objectification, Living confidently as your truest self and so much more! Don't forget to like, subscribe and share! It allows more people to find and enjoy the podcast Themes discussed: Sexualization, Sexuality,…
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On today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Ashley Okoli and they discuss sexuality vs sensuality, how people often use them interchangeably, dealing with preconceived notions and certain types of energy when you’re perceived as a ‘sexual being’. They also touch on authenticity and living confidently as your truest self and much more. Themes Di…
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Our delectable host, Hausa Chocolate is back and putting the ho in wholesome. On this episode, she’s joined by illustrious artist and photographer Anna Roberts and they discuss the intricacies and nuances of coming into oneself sexually, sexual expectations of men and overall ways to have a more fulfilling sex life. Themes Discussed Stereotypes, Pl…
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This episode, Our host - The Orgasm Gap Eradicator' and The Pleasure Priest - Two women in the sexual wellness space link up for an exciting episode. They discuss sensuality, sex education, teaching women how to connect with their bodies and how to live a more orgasmic life. And much more! Themes discussed: Sensuality, Orgasms, Sexual Wellness, Sex…
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On this episode, our host is back for a new season with bigger, badder energy, still putting the ‘ho’ in wholesome and staying sexy while doing it. She is joined by musician and the podcast producer 'RnB Princess, they take a peek into Hausa Chocolate’s DMs, discuss interesting “Sex Lives Of’ submissions and share a few Sex Stories. Themes discusse…
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And for our last episode of the season, our host is joined by health professional, Dr. Nosa Jeff Oshodi (a.k.a Dr. Stallion) to discuss sexually transmitted infections, diseases and all other sexy time infections. In this episode, they discuss the distinction between STIs and STDS, unprotected sex, using over-the-counter relief options or self-medi…
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This week our host is joined by one of the sexiest men in Nollywood, Eso Dike. In this episode, they discuss sexual stereotypes and ‘sexpectations’ of men alongside parental influence and sexual kinks. Eso also shares some tea on his experience as an attractive actor in Nollywood, being sexualized, ‘pretty privilege’ and more. Themes: Stereotypes, …
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On this week’s special solo episode, our host takes us through an in-depth discussion into having better and more enjoyable sex. She dissects popular sexual myths, explores the importance of some key sexual concepts such as consent, communication (when & how), masturbation, performance anxiety, premature ejaculation, and more. She also speaks about…
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On this episode, our host is joined by multifaceted artiste/rap goddess, SGawD to discuss Transactional Sex and how it differs from Sex Work. They also talk about the ‘Billings’ pandemic, Lagos streets and if there is true romance without finance. Themes discussed: Sex Work, Finances, Relationships, and more. Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay…
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On this episode, our host is joined by Bespoke Designer & Writer and dependable fucks connoisseur, Ed. This fully-packed conversation spanned from Age Gaps in sex & relationships, gender performance and sexuality to dependable and ratchet fucks. We also touch on the primality of sex, your vestigial sex self and how your ultimate orgasm might lie in…
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