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The Journal is your go-to podcast for deep and empowering conversations, giving you the practical tools, knowledge, and motivation to transform your own life. Listen in as accredited Psychological Coach Lucy Spicer invites some truly inspiring guests to share the defining moments that turned their times of darkness into opportunities for growth. Journaling has been a game changer for Lucy and her clients, and she'll show you how to use journaling to help you find the lessons in someone else’ ...
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Newborn to Teen and Everything Inbetween - it does exactly what it says on the tin! Join childcare experts Becks and Claire for practical advice about how to communicate with children, at all ages. There can be a lot of pressure to 'get it right' when it comes to children, which can be quite daunting! Whether you’re a parent, a teacher, TA or childcare worker, or just looking to gain a better understanding of the world through a child’s eyes, Becks and Claire have 25 years of childcare exper ...
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A psychologist's insight into the fascinating world of human behaviour without the jargon, with Psychologist & coach, Leila Ainge. Blending scientific research with real experiences, Leila is on a mission to reframe outdated notions of imposter syndrome. Psychologically Speaking delves into Leila's own ground-breaking research, exploring what drives those pesky fraudulent feelings in entrepreneurs, the unexpected advantages, and how you can actually leverage imposter moments to your benefit ...
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As women we are often guilty of allowing that strong inner critic to stop us from taking the next step in our career. Fear of failure, of rejection, and sometimes even fear of success, can play havoc with our confidence. Social media expert Jess Audsley is here to bring you conversations with women who’ve overcome these barriers, and paved their own way in a world built by men for men. The title of this podcast is inspired by Glennon Doyle, who says: Every life is an unprecedented experiment ...
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We met Josephine at The International Women’s Podcast Awards when she was nominated for her podcast ‘Gloriously unready’ and we were nominated for ours 😉. Josephine was mum to 3 boys – quite the challenge (her words!). However, two of her children told her (completely independently and within a few months of each other) that they were transgender. …
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In this episode Lucy is joined by renowned UK Pilates trainer, founder of the health and fitness app Pilates by Bryony and all-round wellness entrepreneur, Bryony Deery. Bryony shares the exact tools she used during one of her darkest times to completely turn her life around. Despite now enjoying the viral business and lifestyle of her dreams, thes…
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Are you a hugger? Becks is, Claire isn’t (she just doesn’t feel the need all the time!)! We spoke about: Our own experiences with hugging and showing affection. How to approach situations with children and hugging – should it be an expectation that your child hugs people? If not, what should you do? Having conversations with people about the fact y…
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This episode was so much fun! Vern joined us from Carifit, the original baby wearing fitness programme. Cari stands for Cardio and resistance intervals and when he started the classes for new mums Vern used to wear the babies while the parents worked out - he had a light bulb moment that parents could wear their own babies to work out and it went f…
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On this week’s episode of The Journal, Lucy is joined by Amira - The Communication Expert. Both Lucy and Amira know first-hand from their 1:1 work with clients that communicating confidently in the workplace can be a real challenge. If you are in the corporate world and there are conversations that you're avoiding having out of fear - whether you’r…
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July going into August is a month of birthdays and celebrations for us – starting with our business birthday at the end of July, Becks’s dog Olive’s birthday on 1st August (!), then Becks and her twins (all on the same day!), Claire’s birthday exactly a week after and then Becks’s husband at the end of August! So, we thought that this was the ideal…
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In this episode, Lucy is joined by Nicola Elliott, the co-founder of NEOM Organics. Nicola shares her own journey with mental health, and how the anxiety she experienced living such a fast-paced life led to her quitting her job as a high-flying magazine editor to retrain in aromatherapy. Lucy unpacks the full story (not just the highlights) behind …
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Co-parenting mentor Sarah joined us from Australia for the podcast! She specialises in supporting (mainly) women and their children when relationships break down. We talked about: The importance of putting children first, but how difficult it is when your co-parent isn't on the same page as you in terms of their approach. How Sarah started working …
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We are BACK for Season 2! In this episode Lucy is joined by entrepreneur, author and social media sensation Tessa Kelly formerly known as London Paleo Girl. With 100 thousand followers and a forever-growing online community, Tessa shares the reality (not just the highlights) of motherhood. Lucy deep dives into Tessa's journey through motherhood, he…
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Janine is mum of 2 children, who are now 10 and 12. She runs her own business helping coaches and consultants with their marketing and sales. We spoke to Janine about: Whether there is such a thing as a natural born parent and Janine’s feelings on this. The stress of getting children out of the house - mum guilt and shouting at children! How taking…
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Founder of Onle Networking (an online business network) Kelly West, talked to us about her daughter Kennedy (16) who has global development delay (she has a cognitive age of 2-3) as well as about her business which she founded 5 years ago with her husband and her older daughter. We discussed: How they love people which is why the business was found…
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Rebecca started her business when her children were quite young (the youngest was starting school) and she wanted to ‘find her thing’. We chatted about: Rebecca's background – she set up an outsourcing agency ‘Get Ahead’ in 2010 working with companies to provide Virtual Assistants (VAs). Having an open mind and a confidence to see where things go a…
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To celebrate the HUGE success of Season 1 and to get you warmed up for the incredible guest episodes we have planned for Season two, we are bringing the magic of The Journal with Lucy Spicer podcast to life! If you're feeling dissatisfied with your day to day, stuck in a rut and lacking the motivation to make your dream life a reality, this is the …
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Cate is a Senior Associate at Kingsley Napley and spoke to us about what’s involved when parents divorce. We covered: The 3 strands to a divorce – the divorce itself, the finances, the children. No fault divorce and what it is / what it means. What happens when courts get involved in terms of making an order about how the children spend their time …
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Laura was born and raised in Southern California and has been in London since 2021. She is the daughter of an Occupational Therapist (OT) and now runs a private practice – Kid Kind Collective and works with children as a Paediatric OT. We spoke about: What an OT actually does (Becks had no idea!) and why they do what they do in terms of outcomes fo…
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This is a topic close to Becks’s heart as she starts to prepare for both of her children leaving home for university. One of Becks’s friends asked us to record this episode – so here you are! We spoke about: How it’s a different milestone to going to childcare / school for the first time. The social media phenomenon of making the most of ‘18 summer…
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In this episode I'm joined by Collette Philip who runs multi award-winning anti-racist brand and strategy consultancy, Brand By Me. Brand by Me help organisations harness the power of brand strategy to embed anti-racism, drive equity and tackle injustice. In the first half of the podcast we hear from Collette about social justice, social responsibi…
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Please note that Meriel was a surrogate in the US and rules in each country are very different – to find out more about surrogacy rules in the UK you can find them here and more information on surrogacy in the UK here. Meriel is a three times surrogate from the United States. She was blessed to help two families achieve the dream of completing thei…
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In this episode Leila is in conversation with Ayo Abbas, award-winning built environment Marketing Consultant, Speaker and Trainer at Abbas Marketing, talking about all things visibility in online spaces and communicating techincal information. Ayo and Leila describe how they met at the DIFTK (Doing it for the kids) networking event just before the…
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We spoke to Hayley and Becky from Paths to Parent Hub. We first came across Paths to Parent Hub when we listened to their podcast following a recommendation from a friend. We started with Hayley and Becky sharing their own stories with us. Hayley is a donor conceived person herself and is also a parent of twins through sperm donation. Becky was dia…
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Lee is Becks’s ‘Boxing trainer’ - (well kind of 😉!) and a personal trainer (to real boxers!). He is also a stay-at-home dad looking after his little girl Beaux which started when she was 3 months old. We talked to Lee about: As a couple how Lee and his wife came to the decision that Lee would be the main carer and how he felt about it. The reaction…
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Intersectionality and the Imposter Experience: Unpacking Identity with Liana Fricker In this weeks psychologically speaking episode with Liana Fricker we discuss one of the thoughts that sat behind being visible and holding back for my participants 'what if I'm wrong?' I loved having Liana on as a guest, a self-proclaimed imposter atheist, our conv…
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You probably already know Susie Amy – perhaps from Footballer’s Wives or maybe from Hollyoaks or as a stage actress (we recently saw her in Fatal Attraction). We do too, but we are also lucky to know Susie via a mutual friend who gave her a gift of some time with Claire when her first baby was born. Susie didn’t feel for a while that she was ready …
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I miss her, I miss me? imposter in midlife with Menopause Expert Emma Thomas In this episode of psychologically speaking, we get curious about the intersection of imposter experiences and middle age, particularly as they relate to the menopause transition. Emma Thomas, host of the Middling Along podcast and an expert in managing menopause, joins Le…
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If not, you must listen to this podcast! We spoke to Bik-ki Wong and Helen Thompson who are both partners at Myerson solicitors Bik-ki is responsible for wills, trust and probate and Helen heads up the department that looks after contesting wills. We talked to Bik-ki about: What happens if you don’t write a will? Doesn’t it just go to my husband / …
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Competition & Comparison with Lucy Werner Lucy Werner, writer and the self-promotion expert behind Hypeyourself.com, joins Leila from her home in France - avec baby on lap - to share her insights and reflections. Lucy talks about navigating the online world, where the lines between inspiration and imitation blur, and how she counters the pull of ne…
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In this episode of The Journal, Lucy is joined by professional chef and social media sensation Natalia Rudin. With over 2 million followers, a forever-growing online community, and all the signs of a successful thriving business, Natalia's story is one you might not expect... For the very first time, Natalia openly shares how turbulent events in he…
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Violet (Katherine’s eldest daughter) was fully out of nappies by 10 / 11 months, but how did she do it?! Katherine shares all with us in this funny, insightful and informative episode! Amongst all the talk of poo and pee, we chatted with Katherine about... The potty training approach Katherine has used –often referred to as elimination communicatio…
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Owning Your Authenticity and Making a Splash. With Guest Helen Hill You’re going to want to *dive in* to today’s episode of Psychologically Speaking… Leila chats to Helen Hill, the vibrant founder of Unlikely Genius and co-founder of Be the Future. Helen shares her journey from self-conscious business owner to a mermaid on national television (as y…
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In this exclusive solo episode of The Journal with Lucy Spicer, Lucy shares her very own story of the real and raw experiences, both personally and professionally that got her where she is today. Responding to questions from listeners, this interview offers a rare and intimate look into Lucy's past as she shares her personal struggles with OCD as a…
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In this episode, Leila explores the concept of gratitude and how it can help us to balance the uncertainty that is often associated with the Imposter Phenomenon. Listen as Leila tells the story of incredible scientists who made a groundbreaking discovery about ageing and approaching difficult situations, and how this relates to our experiences of I…
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There are lots of different ways for children to play, but one of the elements of play is rough and tumble – but what is it? We spoke about: What is involved in rough and tumble play? Respecting when your little one wants to stop and establishing rules / boundaries for when children are playing rough and tumble together and how to do this (perhaps …
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Own the Digital Room Style coach Samantha Harman joins Leila for a candid, empowering discussion on looking good and feeling confident. Samantha shares her experiences of impostor phenomenon, from using fashion as armour in her early journalism career to now helping ambitious women style their way to self-assurance. Leila provides insights from her…
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**Trigger Warning** This episode references themes including eating disorders. On this episode of The Journal with Lucy Spicer, renowned wellness entrepreneur Steph Elswood opens up about her story of becoming sober, the positive impacts this had on her mental health, and the incredible journey she has been on ever since. From the dark depths of ba…
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Hitting (and any of that type of ‘inappropriate’ behaviour) can be difficult whichever side you are on – either the parent of the child who is hitting or the one who has been hit. We chatted about: Why Children (and some adults) do this! Emotions and how they affect children’s behaviour. Cause and effect – ‘if I do this what happens’. How children …
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Leila Ainge delves into the digital rooms where women entrepreneurs lurk, to discuss the relationship between impostor phenomenon and psychological safety. With the insight and expertise of Christina Clark and Laura Stearn from Workculturati, this conversation unravels the benefits of lurking behaviour, visibility pressures, comparison traps, and t…
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**Trigger Warning** This episode references themes including suicide, domestic violence, sexual assault, and eating disorders. For this truly inspiring episode, I was joined by Forbes 30 under 30 entrepreneur, face of United Nations campaign against domestic violence, and Founder of women's mental health community platform, I Am Arla, Devika Wood. …
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In the Age of Visibility, Who's Really Watching? Examining Imagined Audiences and Imposter Feelings in Online Entrepreneurship (Psychologically Speaking) This episode delves into the digital landscape, where imposter feelings aren't mere shadows, but thriving companions for online entrepreneurs, particularly women. Join psychologist Leila Ainge as …
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Unmasking the "Imposter": Why Self-Doubt Isn't Your Fault, It's the System's Forget "syndrome," psychologist Leila Ainge is calling imposter feelings what they truly are: a pervasive phenomenon fueled by the digital age. Leila's groundbreaking research, featuring interviews with successful entrepreneurs, reveals the surprising culprits behind your …
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Managing the dynamic and using grandparents for childcare More and more we are using grandparents to help care for our children, but what do we need to think about? This episode goes into it all, the plusses, the minuses and how to approach it. Some stats – ever wondered how many of us use grandparents for childcare? Things to think about when aski…
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In this week's special episode, Lucy is joined by the LSP's very own resident BACP-accredited Psychotherapist, CBT Therapist, and Psychological Coach Rachael Adams. In this entry, they take a deep dive into the topic of anxiety. Rachael explains why, in this day in age, we are more susceptible than ever to experiencing anxious thoughts and feelings…
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Most of us grow up thinking that the friends we make when we are younger will remain our friends for life, but what happens when these relationships start to change and we drift apart? Why can friendship ‘break ups’ feel as hard as romantic ones, and how do we find the confidence to make new friends as we get older? This week your ‘internet bestie’…
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What's Psychologically Speaking all about? In this captivating trailer for her new podcast Psychologically Speaking, meet psychologist Leila Ainge. Leila provides a tantalising preview of her own ground-breaking research on impostor phenomenon. Drawing on fascinating insights from entrepreneurs, Leila is on a mission to revolutionise our understand…
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We talked about sleep for babies under 6 months: How babies don’t immediately start sleeping through the night (and neither do we!). Why they wake and what ‘sleeping through the night’ actually means. The transition from the womb to ‘outside life’! It’s quite a change! Can you teach babies ‘bad sleep habits’? Starting to look at a sleep routine (6-…
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Your late 20’s and 30’s are a time where engagements, first homes, and pregnancy announcements are cropping up all over your social media. The pressure of what you ‘should’ be doing can leave you feeling behind in life and worried that the things you want are never going to happen for you. In this inspiring (and spicy) episode, Becki shares her jou…
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We covered so much with Sian including: Sian’s background and how @moonandrue started with a few weaning videos! The @moonandrue community – keeping it real. Baby led weaning – how a child needs to be developmentally ready (and the fact that a baby can still choke on purees). Allergens and how Rue reacted to egg when she first tried it. How Rue cho…
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Trigger Warning: This episode contains references to eating disorders. For this episode Lucy is joined by none other than nutritionist icon Emily English, or as you may know her, Em The Nutritionist. Emily and her infamous recipes have truly taken the social media world by storm! Her renowned strapline, 'food you want to eat, designed by a nutritio…
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What we want to do instinctively is to jump in and solve it for our children but they need to learn the skills to deal with it and this is what we talked about: Children can be cruel – it's hard to hear when someone says they don’t want to be your friend or don’t invite you to their birthday party, but as a parent what can you do / say when this ha…
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'Standing out is the new fitting in' The Secret to Being Confident with Valetina Marzola In this episode of The Journal, Lucy welcomes Valentina, a personal development coach, speaker, thought leader, and advocate of limitless living. Valentina delves deep into the theme of unshakable confidence, offering insight into her remarkable journey of self…
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Doula Lou is a mum of 2 children – she originally trained as a nanny and worked with children and families for 8 years. Following the birth of her own children she stayed at home caring for them. Once they had both gone to school she decided to re-train as a post-natal Doula. We talked to Lou about: A Doula’s role and responsibilities. Lou’s traini…
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