Dating is complicated... but it shouldn't be! We believe dating should be as easy as 1, 2, 3... and as simple as "Black & White"! Welcome to The Black & White Dating Show! #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow #BWDShow
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You found my T SPOT. Formerly known as Sex with Topher. This ‘Apple Podcast Top 5’ charting podcast is all about judgement-free INTIMACY & unapologetic SEX talk from award-winning sex educator, writer, & adult toy expert, Topher Taylor. This no-holes-barred (literally) podcast addresses sexuality for all adults of all genders and sexualities – and features special guests from all walks of life. Alongside dedicated sex education episodes. Honest and relatable chats about confidence, relations ...
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#17 - iPhone Cheating 101 (aka "How to Cheat")
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Ep. #17 - iPhone Cheating 101 (aka "How to Cheat") - Juelz and Mr. Potter Esquire discuss the missteps of a cheater who doesn't know how their iPhone technology works. #Cheaters #CaughtCheating #SloppyPimpin Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discu…
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5: Psychosexual Psychotherapist, Silva Neves, interviews ME on Sex Positivity
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What the f*ck does 'Sex Positivity' even mean?!For this special 2022 episode of THE T SPOT, the microphone is turned on ME by Psychosexual & Relationship psychotherapist, Silva Neves. Silva interviews me on my definition of my sexuality and my idea of sex-positivity - something I am passionately vocal about. We discuss enjoying giving blowjobs, fuc…
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4: Religion, Sexuality, and Queerness with Reverend Jarel Robinson-Brown
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Episode 4 is all about religion, sexuality, and queerness as I am joined by Reverend Jarel Robinson-Brown - my friend and openly queer priest in London. He is also the author of the incredibly written ‘Black, Gay, British, Christian, Queer’ which is available to purchase now.We discuss religion and queerness - and the complexities and confusion of …
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3: Blowjob Talk with Char: How to give great Oral Sex: Tips, Techniques, & Tales
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For episode 3 of The T SPOT, I am joined by my friend: sex educator and speaker, Char (@CharTheeGreat) at my flat to discuss giving oral sex to a penis with comfort, confidence — all ultimately leading to YOU (the giver) enjoying the experience. A blowjob doesn’t have to be a job. Enjoy it.This no holes-barred conversation with Char covers tricks, …
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2: Gay Porn, Sex, Success, Religion, and HIV Advocacy with John Thomas
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For episode 2, I’m joined in my flat by hugely successful, multi-award-winning gay porn star, John Thomas. John's name blew up in the adult industry after winning ‘Best Newcomer' at the European Gay Porn awards in 2019 - and he has since gone on to win 2 more awards (even during COVID-19). We talk about John’s journey with queerness, his relationsh…
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1: Kink, Fetish & Sex Talk with Matt Spike • Plus Sex Q&A
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Where have I been? Episode 1 of THE T SPOT begins with a catch-up, discussing my new life, relationship, home, and podcast. Then a very frank, fun, and extremely honest conversation with famous Fetish photographer and videographer, Matt Spike. Talking sex, fetish, leather, romance, being a young escort, and getting into sex as a queer boy from the …
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Ep. #16 - I Do NOT Want Kids! - Mr. Potter Esquire explains why kids don't fit in his crazy, lazy, exciting free-agent lifestyle! #NoKidsAllowed #TeamNoKids Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #NoKidsAllowed #TheBlackandWhiteDat…
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#15 - She Doesn't Want a Relationship Either!
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Ep. #15 - She Doesn't Want a Relationship Either! - Juliana aka "Juelz" explains how men also get clingy and don't listen when women just want to be single (aka "friends"). #Friendzoned Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #Singl…
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Ep. #14 - Sex Priority vs. Jenny Herpes - Mr. Potter Esquire explains why sex isn't at the top of his priority list anymore... and why he fears one-night-stands! #GenitalHerpes Join us live on-air! Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on…
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#13.5 - Be Our Guest... Join the Show... Live On-air!
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Ep. #13.5 - Are you ready to join in on the fun and tell us about your dating journey? If so, go to the www.bwdshow.com website and fill out the contact form! The Black & White Dating Show is a weekly podcast / video show that allows men and women to join in and discuss relationships and dating hook-ups. The Black & White Dating Show is hosted by M…
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Ep. #13 - DJs Get Groupie Love - Mr. Potter Esquire explains his 'sex schedule' during his years of being a DJ. Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #GroupieLove #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow Support the show…
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Ep. #12 - Almost Robbed in Miami. Mr. Potter Esquire tells a tale of love, lust, and a potential robbery while vacationing in Miami, Florida. Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #CrimeStory #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow Support th…
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#11 - "I Don't Want a Relationship!"
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Ep. #11 - "I don't want a relationship" is what Mr. Potter Esquire tells his dates... but they somehow think they can change his mind!?! Why do women do this? Some men are guilty of this too! Has this happened to you? Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call yo…
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Ep. #10 - Are You Still Contacting Your Ex? Are you still cool with your ex even though you are currently in a relationship? Do you want your new bae to stop talking to their ex? Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #StillContact…
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Ep. #09 - Stop Eating My Food! Mr. Potter Esquire questions why his date nights turn into 'food sample sessions' whenever the food arrives to the restaurant table. Fellas does this happen to you as well? Ladies... WHY do you do this? Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info a…
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#8.5 - Live Show: How Long Do You Make Him Wait for Sex?
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Ep. #8.5 - We did our first live show and asked a few ladies, when do you give up "the cookie"? First date? Two weeks? One month? 90 days? Take a listen... and join in on the next live show. Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #…
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#08 - Ladies, How Long Do You Make Him Wait for Sex?
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Ep. #08 - Ladies, when do you give up "the cookie"? First date? Two weeks? One month? 90 days? What does your timeline look like for having sex with a guy that you recently started dating? Call in on May 18th at 9pm eastern for a live discussion. Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send u…
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Ep. #07 - 'Tired Thomas' writes in to The Black & White Dating Show explaining how his libido is too low for his girlfriend. What should he do? Mr. Potter Esquire gives him some straight answers! Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-a…
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Ep. #06 - Mr. Potter Esquire expresses his disdain for unwanted visitors during his "Things that piss me off..." rant. Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discuss dating life live on-air. #LeaveMeAlone #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow Support the show…
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#05 - Ask A Woman - "Why Does He Ignore Me?"
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Ep. #05 - 'Frustrated Fiona' writes in for some advice on how to get her man to pay attention to her instead of his phone! Juliana (aka "Juelz") gives Frustrated Fiona some great advice about communication. Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your questions on our contact form. You can also send us your info and we'll call you to discus…
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#04 - Wife -vs- Mistress (Why Does the Side Chic Hate Her Position?)
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Ep. #04 - Why does the side chic always try to replace the wife by blowing up a good situation? Go to our website (www.bwdshow.com) and send us your info and we'll call you to discuss live on-air. #WifevsMistress #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow Support the showBy Mr. Potter Esquire & Juliana (aka "Juelz")
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Ep. #03 - A '32 year old virgin' needs guidance on how to initiate his first time with a woman without disappointing her. Mr. Potter Esquire lends a few words of wisdom! #32YearOldVirgin #AskAMan #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow Support the showBy Mr. Potter Esquire & Juliana (aka "Juelz")
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Ep. #02 - Juliana (aka "Juelz") uses this 'teachable moment' to give women an interesting (anal sex) tip on enhancing a man's pleasure in the bedroom. #TeachableMoment #GiveHimAnalFingers #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow Support the showBy Mr. Potter Esquire & Juliana (aka "Juelz")
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#01 - Ask a Man - "Does Size Matter?" - Tiny Tim
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Ep. #01 - A listener (Tiny Tim) feels "small" during sex, and writes in to receive advice from Mr. Potter Esquire's "Ask a Man" segment. Does (penis) size matter? Mr. Potter Esquire lends a few words of encouragement! #AskAMan #TheBlackandWhiteDatingShow #BWDShow Support the showBy Mr. Potter Esquire & Juliana (aka "Juelz")
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Episode 8: The XXXmas Gift Guide! Adult Toy brands & Sexperts recommend gifts for Xmas [Sex with Topher]
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Have you been naughty or nice this year? Both?! This is the XXXMAS GIFT GUIDE episode! Are you looking for the perfect sex toy to carry you through 2021? Your winter time pleasure product? Not sure where to start? Working with a budget? I speak to 6 incredible adult toy brands and their experts about their companies, product recommendations, and wh…
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Episode 7: Interview with Dolf Dietrich on being a Gay Porn Icon [Sex with Topher]
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This months episode is about gay porn, featuring an interview with iconic gay porn star DOLF DIETRICH. Known as ‘The Daddy you always wanted’ of porn, Dolf’s 6ft-6 frame made him an instant sex symbol and one of the most recognisable faces (amongst other body parts) in porn. We discuss sex work, his own sex education growing up, getting into sex wi…
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Episode 6: Getting into Anal Sex for Beginners. Sex Education guide from Topher Taylor. [Sex with Topher]
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Want to experience anal sex? Don’t know where to begin? Had a bad experience in the past? Episode 6 is all about developing confidence with anal penetration. This episode has a focus on beginners, alongside those who’ve had bad experiences. The ‘Getting Into Anal Play’ episode is my take (as a sex educator) on how to prepare for anal, tricks on how…
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Episode 5: Divina De Campo from Ru Paul's Drag Race UK, Black Lives Matter & LGBT + Pride Month [Sex with Topher]
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#SexWithTopher Episode 5 begins with an explanation of what I am doing as a white person, to support the BLACK LIVES MATTER movement in response to systematic racism and police brutality — alongside its relevance in the context of LGBT+ Pride Month (June). My fabulous guest this episode is an iconic Ru Paul's Drag Race UK queen, Divina De Campo. Di…
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Episode 4: Female Domination with a Dominatrix & My Channel 4 Documentary [Sex with Topher]
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#SexWithTopher Episode 4 begins with discussing my Channel 4 mini-documentary about cyber sex during quarantine which hit over 2 MILLION VIEWS in just a few days. And the homophobic public backlash. My guest this episode is the iconic Mistress Evilyne, a famous Dominatrix who has made newspaper in the past - and known for her extreme services. Alon…
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Episode 3: Sexual Health, PrEP for HIV prevention & Phil Samba from PrEPster Interview [Sex with Topher]
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#SexwithTopher is back. Episode 3 is all about SEXUAL HEALTH. All the nitty-gritty details of what happens when you go to a GUM clinic for your 3-monthly sexually transmitted infections and disease checks. There is no shame in getting checked. I also chat to social activist, writer and the strategic lead of #PrEP4QueerMenOfColour, Phil Samba. We di…
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Episode 2: Sex during COVID-19 & Part 2 of Interview with Rebecca More [Sex with Topher]
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#SexwithTopher is back. This is a SEX-POSITIVE podcast brought to you by me, Topher Taylor. Episode 2 begins with a thank you for the success of Episode 1 - with a special thanks to my Sex Worker friends. I then discuss having sex during the Corona Virus outbreak and what this means for sex. Is it safe to sleep around during the COVID-19 outbreak?T…
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Episode 1: Interview with Rebecca More (More Milf) & Sexual Confidence [Sex with Topher]
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Hello, Slappers! #SexwithTopher has arrived. This is a provocative podcast brought to you by me, Topher Taylor. I’m a Sex educator from London. You can expect TART… and you can expect HEART. We are talking sex without filters and with a focus on self-love – just in time for Valentine’s Day!Episode 1 begins with a focus on sexual confidence with eas…
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