John Bocanegra public
[search 0]
Download the App!
show episodes
 
Artwork
 
Cari & Ginny here — we’re two unapologetic, sports-loving, reality TV-obsessed besties who can’t stop talking about our emotions. After years of rambling to each other about our life experiences with mental health and sports, we decided it was time to publicly talk about the stuff that still gets brushed under the rug way too often. Butterfly Road is where we will be offering lighthearted insight, relatable stories, and straight-up positive vibes for anyone that wants a brutally honest and r ...
  continue reading
 
Loading …
show series
 
Picture this: You've been counting down the days to your vacation, or maybe it's that much-needed semester break, or you've finally reached the off-season. You've worked your tail off to get here, and now you can't wait to kick back and enjoy some well-deserved downtime. But as the return date approaches, a sense of dread starts creeping in. Sudden…
  continue reading
 
It’s a Christmas miracle! We’re back to discuss pressure, the different kinds, and how to handle them! While we acknowledge pressure is a privilege, we know it can be daunting and overwhelming. If you’re not prepared to embrace your own pressures, you may not reap as many benefits from those experiences. Tune in to hear about the pressures we face …
  continue reading
 
This week we sit down with Monica Flores. Monica is an integrative health practitioner who looks to enhance the lives of others through holistic measures. Recently retired from professional soccer, Monica is now continuing her journey to change how people understand the connection between diet and mental health. During this episode, we discuss the …
  continue reading
 
Individuals are no strangers to the ups and downs of life. And with those ups and downs comes a struggle to maintain your confidence and self-worth. Factors out of your control, like playing time, injuries, job success, and outside opinions can threaten your identity. How do you maintain a steady mindset in the midst of it all? How do you stay conf…
  continue reading
 
For as long as we can remember, Sundays have been our least favorite day of the week. The excitement and activities of the weekend are gone, and you’re staring at five days of responsibilities until another weekend comes around. The temptation to be a couch potato is strong, but you know it’ll make things even worse. So, what do you do? Join us thi…
  continue reading
 
This episode we dive into the life of five-time NBA All-Star, John Wall. Wall made a name for himself as a point guard for the Washington Wizards, starting in 2010. He faced a storm of hardships including his mother’s death, a ruptured Achilles tendon, as well as getting traded from the Washington Wizards. Through these events, Wall battled with cl…
  continue reading
 
One of the biggest universal experiences all humans face is transition. Transition in where you live, transition in where you work – transition is unavoidable. And often, transitions bring about a ton of stress and anxieties. This episode we discuss the transition from high school to college, and the obstacles you face with this change in relation …
  continue reading
 
Expansion teams come with a lot of press, buzz and excitement. But rarely does the public hear about the growing pains of the team's first season. An entirely new roster, coaching staff, front office, and routine are a few of the obstacles expansion teams face. That paired with the transition from your previous club can be a daunting task to face. …
  continue reading
 
DeMar DeRozan, Chicago Bulls’ dominant shooting guard, is no stranger to success. With five NBA All-Star games under his belt, he’s shown poise and consistency in the league since his induction in 2009. However, our admiration of DeRozan is for something that can’t be found on the stat sheet. It comes from the vulnerability to talk about his depres…
  continue reading
 
This week we sit down with Diego Bocanegra-- the first coach to ever join us on Butterfly Road. Diego spent three seasons as an assistant coach at Notre Dame where he coached us. After, he led the University of Houston women's soccer team to their most successful season in program history as a head coach. During this episode, we ask Diego all the q…
  continue reading
 
Join us this week as we sit down with Tina Iordanou and Joanna Boyles – hosts of one of our favorite podcasts Two Washups One Pro. Being former professional soccer players themselves, they know far too well the identity crisis an athlete experiences when they retire from their sport. As they bring us through their stories of retirement and finding …
  continue reading
 
New Year’s resolutions have us all trying to better ourselves this year. And what better way to start than with our mental headspace and emotions! In this episode, we had the pleasure of speaking to Emily Perrin, CEO and Founder of Perrin Wellness and Performance. She is an integrative health coach and expert in all things mindfulness, meditation, …
  continue reading
 
Our special guest this week is none other than my cohost, Cari Roccaro! Every athlete knows the grind, challenges, and triumphs that accompany a sports season and Cari’s 2021 NWSL journey was just that. But her ability to stay steady, refocus and deal with those challenges is what allowed her to mentally grow throughout it all. Tune in to hear abou…
  continue reading
 
This week, we sat down with former NHL player Stephen Johns to discuss his journey from rock bottom to roller-blading across the country. Stephen Johns played professionally for the Chicago Blackhawks and Dallas Stars organizations from 2014 to 2020. He had to step aside for two years and ultimately from the game altogether due to too many concussi…
  continue reading
 
It's officially spooky season and what's scarier than Halloween itself? Evaluating yourself through the eyes of other people! Oftentimes, we learn at a young age that others' opinions determine our self-worth. As we grow up, this belief system becomes reinforced and harder to grow out of. But fear not! In this episode, we discuss the origins of you…
  continue reading
 
We're back and boy do we have a LOT to catch up on! Work stress, breakthrough COVID infections, moving across the country, and the loss of a loved one -- life has thrown us some curveballs. We'd be remiss if we had not taken the last few weeks off. After all, we constantly preach stepping away to focus on your mental health. But now we're recharged…
  continue reading
 
This episode, we sit down with our friend and former Notre Dame football captain, James Onwualu! James’ story is unlike anything we’ve ever heard. From injuries, to cuts, to crashing on people’s couches on both coasts, James has been through the ringer. In a league as cut-throat as the NFL, these obstacles can bring you to a dark place mentally. An…
  continue reading
 
Do you ever feel like your self-esteem is lower after looking at someone else’s Instagram? Do doubts creep in when you see someone achieve something you desire? Comparing yourself to others is natural—we all do it. However, life is more fun — and more manageable — when we focus on self-growth rather than others' accomplishments. Tune in for a raw c…
  continue reading
 
From the outside looking in, Terry Bradshaw had it all -- 4 Super Bowls, a great job as an NFL analyst, wife and kids, appearances in movies and TV shows. His never-ending success, colorful personality, and southern charm made him a fan-favorite all over the world. But this happy facade made it that much harder for the public to believe him when he…
  continue reading
 
We’re strong believers in the idea that if we were all a little more educated on mental illness and how to help, the world would be a better place. Struggling with a mental illness is hard -- we spent the first 25 episodes just scratching the surface! This episode is dedicated to those on the sideline just trying to help. Our conversation dives int…
  continue reading
 
Join us this week as we sit down with Dr. Brad Miller, a 20-year clinical psychologist and founder at Soccer Resilience. Brad specializes in helping youth and adult athletes strengthen confidence, resilience, performance and well-being on and off the field. We asked him all the things on our minds, as well as YOUR submitted questions. From pandemic…
  continue reading
 
Being grateful and practicing gratitude can be very different things. For example, I'm grateful for Netflix, wine, and not receiving any work emails before 9 AM. But to properly practice gratitude, one must do it with intent. It could be anything big or small, silly or serious -- as long as you're consistent. The more committed you are to practicin…
  continue reading
 
This week, we take you through an Athlete Spotlight episode featuring none other than the beautiful and brave Aly Raisman. You may know her as the two-time Olympic gymnast — but do you know her story? Sexual abuse and post-traumatic stress disorder are two of a few things she comes face-to-face with every day. Her story isn’t one of defeat, however…
  continue reading
 
After a two-week reset, we're back to talk about just that! Resetting and giving yourself the proper recovery from life -- whether that's physically, mentally, or both! Having self-awareness and understanding when you're burned out is crucial to maintaining a balanced and healthy mindset. Noone's perfect and we all come close or even hit our breaki…
  continue reading
 
This week we discuss our favorite Kardashian, social media trolls, stepping away to take care of your mental health, and how to go about doing so. No matter the circumstances, life can be overwhelming at times. We're here to remind you that you're not alone and there are tools at your disposal that can help turn things around. Tune in!…
  continue reading
 
This week, we sit down with Lindsey Horan as she tells her story of playing professionally in France at the age of 18. An experience comprised of tough decisions, new cultures, body image issues, and a struggle to maintain her love for the game. Through details never shared before, we learn how the Portland Thorns and US Women’s National Team midfi…
  continue reading
 
This week we talk about ADHD and all the misconceptions that go with it! We learned that those with ADHD (including Simone Biles and Michael Phelps) experience the world in a different way. And even though it’s challenging at times, some channel it in their sport or profession. We put it all on the table and tackle the stigma once and for all. Tune…
  continue reading
 
It's about time for another athlete spotlight! This week, we talk about Australian & WNBA superstar Liz Cambage. Liz's story showcases her strength and perseverance through alcohol problems, mental health and pressure experienced on the largest of stages. Her time at the Olympics and with the WNBA gives us an inside look at her journey to overcome …
  continue reading
 
Raise your hand if you think doing a 1-hour wall sit should be illegal 🙋🏻‍♀️ This week we dive into our time on the Notre Dame soccer team and all the ups and downs that came with it (literally). Would we do it all over again if given the choice? Yes. Did it sometimes make us want to drop-kick any item in our path? Also, yes. We give you the unfilt…
  continue reading
 
Weakness is normal! Anyone who tells you otherwise needs to take a lap. Being a leader - whether it be in sports, the classroom, the office - is a hard job. Being a leader and struggling with mental health is even harder. So, how do we get through it? This week, we discuss what it's like being a leader while dealing with your mental health. It's no…
  continue reading
 
Have you ever equated your personal value with how you're doing at your job, on the field, or in the classroom? If yes, then boy do we feel your pain. If no, then please tell us your secret! This episode, we discuss our struggles in separating our self-worth from our performance on the job. We also share different tips and tricks we -- and various …
  continue reading
 
Loading …

Quick Reference Guide