Best Jonathon Aslay Podcasts (2024)

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3 STRONG Signs Men (Over 40) Are Ready To Commitment To YOU!!!

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3 STRONG Signs Men (Over 40) Are Ready To Commitment To YOU!!! In today’s casual dating culture, it’s pretty easy to get companionship and sex without a commitment. Many midlife adults settle for that type of situationship because they think they’re past their prime for a long-term commitment. My friends, I beg you not to settle for less than what …

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7 SHOCKING Signs A Man Isn’t Serious About You

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7 SHOCKING Signs A Man Isn’t Serious About You Did you know that serious relationships are on the decline? With our casual dating environment, it’s much easier to “hook up” or find a Friends with Benefits situation than it is to dive deep with someone to find a life partner. What are your intentions about finding a relationship? Are you OK with som…

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Revisiting the 6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman

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6 Things Men Notice First in a Woman and Find Wildly Attractive – Part 2 Have you set yourself up for success or disappointment? Chemistry is NOT the end all/be all of a relationship. True friendship is the solid foundation upon which every relationship can flourish. However, through the years we have been taught that chemistry is what will predict…

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Men Who Do THIS Rarely Commit To You

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Men Who Do THIS Rarely Commit To You When a man is fearful of commitment, there’s often an underlying reason (or many). Those reasons are usually rooted in some kind of pain or trauma and some men go to great lengths to cover up that pain. Vulnerability and honesty about feelings need to happen for commitment to occur. That might entail a good amou…

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Letting Go (Part 2): How To Know It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship

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Letting Go (Part 2): How To Know It’s Time To Move On From A Relationship Every person we meet in life teaches us lessons. We can also learn how to have a relationship by evaluating what worked and what didn’t in past relationships. In this episode, I share my revelations about my relationship with Marie and the lessons I learned from our breakup. …

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Can Men Who Give Mixed Signals Really Fall In Love?

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Can Men Who Give Mixed Signals Really Fall In Love? We’re deep diving into this topic with the help of The Golden Bachelor. One of the final two women felt blindsided when Gerry said he was choosing the other woman. She said he gave mixed signals about his feelings but I can speak from experience when I tell you it’s easy to get caught up in chemis…

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He’s Acting Distant | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him?

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He’s Acting Distant | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him? Why is it that so many women immediately think something is wrong if their guy gets distant or quiet? Doesn’t everyone take some time to think about their life and relationship? For my clients, who are primarily midlife women, it boils down to doubt. Doubting the relationship is solid. Doubtin…

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Doing THIS Repels Good Men From Wanting You with Sabrina Rising

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Doing THIS Repels Good Men From Wanting You with Sabrina Rising I’m thrilled to have my own coach, Sabrina Rising, as a guest today and we’re talking all about the energy we project and how we attract people based on the energy we put out into the world. Many times we are not aware of how we’re presenting ourselves and then we wonder why we’re attr…

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Men Go Through These 5 Stages Before They’ll Commit To You

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Men Go Through These 5 Stages Before They’ll Commit To You Asking for a commitment to someone – especially a long-term commitment – is scary and requires a lot of soul-searching and inner work. During the midlife years, committing to someone can be extra stressful, especially if the partners have been married before and gone through a divorce. Even…

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6 Ways To Avoid EMOTIONALLY BROKEN Men Over 40

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6 Ways To Avoid EMOTIONALLY BROKEN Men Over 40 Emotionally broken men have a difficult time loving, plain and simple. This might be remnants of childhood trauma or even trauma after a divorce or becoming a widower. We ALL have some sort of baggage that we carry throughout our lives but the key is in how we handle that baggage. In these midlife year…

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Are You Dating A Divorced Dad? Is He Ready For Love?

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Are You Dating A Divorced Dad? Is He Ready For Love? The divorce statistics in the US still hover near the 50% mark and in these midlife years, you’ll be hard pressed to find a man who is NOT divorced. And if you’re divorced guy has kids, there’s another level of honest questions you should […] The post Are You Dating A Divorced Dad? Is He Ready Fo…

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Why Men Deeply Desire Women Who Do THIS (Outside The Bedroom)

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Why Men Deeply Desire Women Who Do THIS (Outside The Bedroom) A lot of dating advice seems one-sided with it sounding like women are the ones responsible for keeping the relationship afloat and are the only ones who should make an effort. Not true! However…women are more open to educating themselves about personal growth and […] The post Why Men De…

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Keep a Man’s Interest Using These 5 Feminine Ways

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Keep a Man’s Interest Using These 5 Feminine Ways By no means is it a woman’s responsibility to keep a man attracted to her. If two people are in a relationship, both should be putting in effort to keep the romance alive. However, men do tend to fall into the traditional ‘hunter and gatherer’ role […] The post Keep a Man’s Interest Using These 5 Fe…

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Why Walking Away From Men ALWAYS Works

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Why Walking Away From Men ALWAYS Works There’s a school of thought that if a guy doesn’t seem interested in you, women should ‘lean back’ and wait for the guy to chase you. This might work temporarily for men with an anxious attachment style (aka needy) or those with avoidant attachment styles, but are these […] The post Why Walking Away From Men A…

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When A Man Does THIS, He’ll Be Loyal To You

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When A Man Does THIS, He’ll Be Loyal To You. Loyalty is best described by how someone shows up in your life. If they want to spend time with you after work, will hurry over when you’re in trouble, and doesn’t care what others think about your time together, that’s loyalty. Actions speak louder than […] The post When A Man Does THIS, He’ll Be Loyal …

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Men Are Incredibly Attracted To Women Who Know THIS with Deborah Kagan

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Men Are Incredibly Attracted To Women Who Know THIS with Deborah Kagan I’m thrilled to have my friend Deborah Kagan as a guest today and we’re talking about how women can reclaim their mojo and become more connected to their feminine body. When women are happy and confident in their bodies, they will show up […] The post Men Are Incredibly Attracte…

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When A Man Says THIS, He’s Ready For Commitment

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When A Man Says THIS, He’s Ready For Commitment Many people in the dating realm are either confused about what they want in a relationship OR they are seeking a very casual relationship. This might indicate that they are commitment-phobic but I believe it’s because there’s less willingness to go ‘all in’ with someone. Monogamy […] The post When A M…

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How Can I Change My Boyfriend From Something Casual To Serious

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How Can I Change My Boyfriend From Something Casual To Serious In the dating world, we have lots of labels to describe different types of relationships and it’s important to know what each label means. You should also decide what you want out of your relationship so you’ll know if you’re on the right path […] The post How Can I Change My Boyfriend …

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Do THESE 5 Things And He Will Prioritize You

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Do THESE 5 Things And He Will Prioritize You In the early stages of dating it’s tough to prioritize any particular person because you’re in the ‘getting to know you’ phase. You’re basically strangers and you both might be chatting with multiple people on the dating apps, so you might not have regular conversations or […] The post Do THESE 5 Things …

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What Men Seek That SETS YOU APART From Other Women

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What Men Seek That SETS YOU APART From Other Women How many first or second dates have you gone on where you can immediately see the hurt from past relationships on this new person’s face? It’s almost like watching a movie and seeing the ghosts of their past. You know I’m a huge proponent of […] The post What Men Seek That SETS YOU APART From Other…

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3 BEAUTIFUL Signs A Man WANTS To Be Committed To You

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3 BEAUTIFUL Signs A Man WANTS To Be Committed Do you fall into the group of women who think there are no good men in the world? I can understand why you might think that way because all we seem to hear about is how men are players or they don’t know what they want […] The post 3 BEAUTIFUL Signs A Man WANTS To Be Committed To You appeared first on U…

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Want To Keep His Attention? DO THIS with Men Over 40

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Want To Keep His Attention? DO THIS with Men Over 40 Many of the single folks in this midlife age range have been through a divorce, sometimes after a decade or two. What many don’t understand is that divorce is an emotional trauma that needs time to heal and process. Whether it’s been 5 years […] The post Want To Keep His Attention? DO THIS with M…

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Is He A Keeper? 5 Signs He Might Be The One

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Is He A Keeper? 5 Signs He Might Be The One Determining whether or not a guy is a keeper depends significantly on his Emotional Intelligence (EI). Emotional intelligence is a person’s ability to have deep and important conversations. When a couple has high EI, they are talking about their future dreams and getting to […] The post Is He A Keeper? 5 …

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Why A Guy Will Choose You Over Another Woman

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Why A Guy Will Choose You Over Another Woman As you know, I’m a big proponent of radical honesty and authenticity. There’s no sense in playing games or hiding your true personality from a guy because you can’t build a solid foundation from dishonesty. And contrary to what other dating coaches might say, women are […] The post Why A Guy Will Choose …

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Men Must Do THIS To Commit To You Fully

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Men Must Do THIS To Commit To You Fully We’re diving deep into what intimacy means and why it’s the cause of so many breakups. Normally we think of physical intimacy as being sex and a non-existent sex life can certainly cause a break up. But there are different levels of intimacy that we’re discussing […] The post Men Must Do THIS To Commit To You…

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How A Man’s Trauma Affects His Love Life | My Personal Share

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How A Man’s Trauma Affects His Love Life | My Personal Share This episode is from my appearance on Eric Coplen’s The Music of Life channel and I wanted to share it because it’s important to remember that men can also be deeply affected by life events and failed relationships. I get vulnerable and honest […] The post How A Man’s Trauma Affects His L…

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High-Value Men Respect Women Who Have THIS Quality with Patty Tierney

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High-Value Men Respect Women Who Have THIS Quality with Patty Tierney Your past does not determine your future. You’ve probably heard that before and you might even think, “Oh, that’s easy for him to say,” but my friend and guest, Patty Tierney, is proof positive that you CAN change those lessons learned in childhood. Patty […] The post High-Value …

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7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Began Dating After Divorce

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7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Began Dating After Divorce Going through a divorce is traumatic. Even if you have the most amicable divorce, there’s still a level of trauma that upends your life and plants the seeds of how you’ll go forward emotionally. Like it or not, a divorce changes your view […] The post 7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Began Datin…

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Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being Used 54:00

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Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being Used Words are powerful. Whether someone is praising you for a job well done or cursing you out in a fit of road rage, you know exactly what’s happening in each situation. But words can also be deeply nuanced, in the case of claiming to love someone. […] The post Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being …

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3 Ways A Man Knows You’re The One and He’ll Commit For Good 54:00

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3 Ways A Man Knows You’re The One and He’ll Commit For Good When we have busy lives, we tend to take the good things for granted. But when you take someone for granted, you run the risk of them getting bored or feeling unappreciated. Ultimately you run the risk of them leaving. This is […] The post 3 Ways A Man Knows You’re The One and He’ll Commit…

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5 Feminine Ways to Keep His Interest 54:00

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5 Feminine Ways to Keep His Interest If you’re a regular follower, you know I’m a big proponent of women standing in their power and not giving it away to men. So, even though this title might imply that I’m shifting my views, keep listening. Also remember that it takes two to form a relationship […] The post 5 Feminine Ways to Keep His Interest ap…

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Can A Man Change Or Is Our Relationship Doomed? 54:00

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Can A Man Change Or Is Our Relationship Doomed? Have you heard of this saying: “Men marry women hoping they DON’T change and women marry men hoping they DO change.” I don’t really know how or when this saying originated but I wonder why men and women fall into this trap. Of course, people change […] The post Can A Man Change Or Is Our Relationship …

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Why Modern Dating Needs A Makeover with Jillian Turecki 54:00

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Why Modern Dating Needs A Makeover with Jillian Turecki While it’s a good thing that being in therapy is becoming more socially accepted, someone who is in therapy does not always equal the perfect relationship choice. Just like doing personal development work does not guarantee becoming a well-adjusted person. Therapy and personal development have…

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How to Express Your Feelings without Scaring Him Away 54:00

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How to Express Your Feelings without Scaring Him Away I’ve lost count of the times women have told me they are afraid to speak their true feelings because of how their guy will react. Instead of jumping to the idea that this guy must be a horrible human or that she’s a little mouse, let’s […] The post How to Express Your Feelings without Scaring Hi…

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Scary Things Men Do To Use Women Over 40 54:00

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Scary Things Men Do To Use Women Over 40 I do believe that most men are decent guys but they are just bad daters. You and I know that personal development work is so important but many guys think that’s just for women or it sounds too woo-woo. And once you get that belief into […] The post Scary Things Men Do To Use Women Over 40 appeared first on …

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What’s A Good Pace For Dating or Relationships? 54:00

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What’s A Good Pace for Dating or Relationships? I’ll admit, this is a trick question because there’s no one-size-fits-all rule about how fast or slow a relationship should go. Some people know within weeks if this is the right person for them and others take months to build that trust and respect with someone. I […] The post What’s A Good Pace For …

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97% of High-Value Men Respect Women Who Know THIS! 54:00

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97% of High-Value Men Respect Women Who Know THIS! In recent years I’ve noticed there seems to be a gender war going on: men think women are too entitled or promiscuous and women think men are buffoons who only want sex. Take one quick look at some other YouTube content and you’ll see what I […] The post 97% of High-Value Men Respect Women Who Know…

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What To Do When He’s Pulling Away – Don’t Text Him, Do This Instead! 54:00

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What To Do When He’s Pulling Away – Don’t Text Him, Do This Instead! Sorry to burst your romantic bubble but Prince Charming isn’t going to come along and sweep you off your feet. Well, maybe someone will sweep you off your feet but unlike those fairy tales, you’re not going to commit to a […] The post What To Do When He’s Pulling Away – Don’t Text…

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Establish THIS Before Sleeping With A Man 54:00

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Establish THIS Before Sleeping With A Man While a healthy sexual attraction is important in a long term relationship, chemistry alone is not enough to build a foundation…at least not if you want long term companionship instead of a friend with benefits. Also remember that men and women approach sex differently. Men see it as […] The post Establish …

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He’s Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him? 20:54

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He’s Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him? In a world of complex relationships, it’s easy to feel lost when faced with silence from a partner, especially during the midlife years when you want to find a long term companion. Instead of living in fear that your relationship is over when he […] The post He’s Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean …

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Will A Fearful Avoidant Man Ever Commit? with Bev Mitelman 1:02:43

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Will A Fearful Avoidant Man Ever Commit? with Bev Mitelman Understanding attachment styles helps you to understand why your guy does the things he does. In this episode, we’re focused on the fearful avoidant, who is often afraid of abandonment and might have difficulty letting a woman get close to him. My guest today is […] The post Will A Fearful …

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The 5 Stages Men Must Go Through Before They’ll Fully Commit To You 21:20

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The 5 Stages Men Must Go Through Before They’ll Fully Commit To You Men and women alike bring childhood trauma into their adult lives and relationships. As humans, there’s no way to avoid it because every lesson we learn in our early childhood sticks with us like glue. Hence the reason personal development is so […] The post The 5 Stages Men Must G…

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STOP Dating Men and Do THIS Instead 53:26

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STOP Dating Men and Do THIS Instead When you really think about it, the idea of dating is relatively new. In previous centuries, marriages were arranged and there wasn’t much getting-to-know-you-and-falling-in-love. It was more about committing to the best ‘deal’ for each family. In today’s world with smartphone technology, it’s all too easy to fal…

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BEAUTIFUL SIGNS He’s All In And Loyal To You 20:29

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BEAUTIFUL SIGNS He’s All In And Loyal To You As the old saying goes, “Actions speak louder than words,” and when you’re looking for a long term relationship, seeing your guy’s actions showing that he’s dedicated and loyal to you validates the words he says. Sometimes it’s nice to have that extra proof that you’re […] The post BEAUTIFUL SIGNS He’s A…

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Dangerous Red Flag That’s Too Risky to Ignore 57:05

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Dangerous Red Flag That’s Too Risky to Ignore When you’re committed to the dating process and your intention is to find a partner, it’s important that you keep communication open but that you also stick to your boundaries and values. You should not change to suit someone else and the reverse is also true. So, […] The post Dangerous Red Flag That’s …

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He Checks All The Boxes Except For THIS, Is He Still The One? 22:52

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He Checks All The Boxes Except For THIS, Is He Still The One? Isn’t it exciting to meet someone that you’re attracted to and that seems like a promising partner? And the excitement keeps growing as you get to know him…until he tells you something that throws up a red flag. That something could be […] The post He Checks All The Boxes Except For THIS…

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How To Get Over Your Ex (When You’re Still Obsessed With Them) 1:02:01

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How To Get Over Your Ex (When You’re Still Obsessed With Them) Obsession with anything isn’t good but when you’re pining away over your ex and your days and nights are filled with wishing you could get back together, you get stuck and can’t move forward. Inevitably, this way of thinking will affect every area […] The post How To Get Over Your Ex (W…

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Men Who Break Your Heart Have THIS In Common 20:01

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Men Who Break Your Heart Have THIS In Common Generally speaking, men over 40 can be pretty set in their ways and don’t often make the best decisions when it comes to dating and building a stable relationship. It’s often difficult to break old patterns of behavior – or to even recognize that these patterns […] The post Men Who Break Your Heart Have …

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Why Men STOP Expressing Their Feelings Toward You 28:26

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Why Men STOP Expressing Their Feelings Toward You Women are generally good listeners but some women don’t know how to ask good questions. So, when a guy shares his problems and daily complaints, some women will begin to think that he’s open and sharing his thoughts and feelings. But if you don’t know how to […] The post Why Men STOP Expressing Thei…

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Quick Test To SEE If He’s Ready For Commitment 18:30

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Quick Test To SEE If He’s Ready For Commitment Emotional maturity is a topic I talk about a lot because I think it’s so important for couples to understand how it plays a large part in building solid communication. Not everyone is a master communicator but lucky for us, it’s a skill that can be […] The post Quick Test To SEE If He’s Ready For Commi…

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