Best Jonathon Aslay Podcasts (2024)

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Scary Things Men Do To Use Women Over 40 54:00

4h ago54:00

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Scary Things Men Do To Use Women Over 40 I do believe that most men are decent guys but they are just bad daters. You and I know that personal development work is so important but many guys think that’s just for women or it sounds too woo-woo. And once you get that belief into your head, it takes a lot of convincing to believe otherwise. Some women…

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What’s A Good Pace For Dating or Relationships? 54:00

3d ago54:00

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What’s A Good Pace for Dating or Relationships? I’ll admit, this is a trick question because there’s no one-size-fits-all rule about how fast or slow a relationship should go. Some people know within weeks if this is the right person for them and others take months to build that trust and respect with someone. I invite you to do some introspection …

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97% of High-Value Men Respect Women Who Know THIS! 54:00

7d ago54:00

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97% of High-Value Men Respect Women Who Know THIS! In recent years I’ve noticed there seems to be a gender war going on: men think women are too entitled or promiscuous and women think men are buffoons who only want sex. Take one quick look at some other YouTube content and you’ll see what I mean. This type of ‘war’ doesn’t get us anywhere. These d…

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What To Do When He’s Pulling Away – Don’t Text Him, Do This Instead! 54:00

11d ago54:00

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What To Do When He’s Pulling Away – Don’t Text Him, Do This Instead! Sorry to burst your romantic bubble but Prince Charming isn’t going to come along and sweep you off your feet. Well, maybe someone will sweep you off your feet but unlike those fairy tales, you’re not going to commit to a relationship without some serious vetting. The dating proce…

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Establish THIS Before Sleeping With A Man 54:00

16d ago54:00

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Establish THIS Before Sleeping With A Man While a healthy sexual attraction is important in a long term relationship, chemistry alone is not enough to build a foundation…at least not if you want long term companionship instead of a friend with benefits. Also remember that men and women approach sex differently. Men see it as a physical act while mo…

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He’s Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him? 20:54

22d ago20:54

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He’s Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him? In a world of complex relationships, it’s easy to feel lost when faced with silence from a partner, especially during the midlife years when you want to find a long term companion. Instead of living in fear that your relationship is over when he goes silent, use this opportunity to talk with yo…

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Will A Fearful Avoidant Man Ever Commit? with Bev Mitelman 1:02:43

25d ago1:02:43

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Will A Fearful Avoidant Man Ever Commit? with Bev Mitelman Understanding attachment styles helps you to understand why your guy does the things he does. In this episode, we’re focused on the fearful avoidant, who is often afraid of abandonment and might have difficulty letting a woman get close to him. My guest today is Bev Mitelman, M.A., a Certif…

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The 5 Stages Men Must Go Through Before They’ll Fully Commit To You 21:20

29d ago21:20

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The 5 Stages Men Must Go Through Before They’ll Fully Commit To You Men and women alike bring childhood trauma into their adult lives and relationships. As humans, there’s no way to avoid it because every lesson we learn in our early childhood sticks with us like glue. Hence the reason personal development is so darn important, so we can all move p…

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STOP Dating Men and Do THIS Instead 53:26

1M ago53:26

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STOP Dating Men and Do THIS Instead When you really think about it, the idea of dating is relatively new. In previous centuries, marriages were arranged and there wasn’t much getting-to-know-you-and-falling-in-love. It was more about committing to the best ‘deal’ for each family. In today’s world with smartphone technology, it’s all too easy to fal…

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BEAUTIFUL SIGNS He’s All In And Loyal To You 20:29

1M ago20:29

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BEAUTIFUL SIGNS He’s All In And Loyal To You As the old saying goes, “Actions speak louder than words,” and when you’re looking for a long term relationship, seeing your guy’s actions showing that he’s dedicated and loyal to you validates the words he says. Sometimes it’s nice to have that extra proof that you’re headed in the right direction. But …

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Dangerous Red Flag That’s Too Risky to Ignore 57:05

1M ago57:05

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Dangerous Red Flag That’s Too Risky to Ignore When you’re committed to the dating process and your intention is to find a partner, it’s important that you keep communication open but that you also stick to your boundaries and values. You should not change to suit someone else and the reverse is also true. So, […] The post Dangerous Red Flag That’s …

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He Checks All The Boxes Except For THIS, Is He Still The One? 22:52

1M ago22:52

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He Checks All The Boxes Except For THIS, Is He Still The One? Isn’t it exciting to meet someone that you’re attracted to and that seems like a promising partner? And the excitement keeps growing as you get to know him…until he tells you something that throws up a red flag. That something could be […] The post He Checks All The Boxes Except For THIS…

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How To Get Over Your Ex (When You’re Still Obsessed With Them) 1:02:01

2M ago1:02:01

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How To Get Over Your Ex (When You’re Still Obsessed With Them) Obsession with anything isn’t good but when you’re pining away over your ex and your days and nights are filled with wishing you could get back together, you get stuck and can’t move forward. Inevitably, this way of thinking will affect every area […] The post How To Get Over Your Ex (W…

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Men Who Break Your Heart Have THIS In Common 20:01

2M ago20:01

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Men Who Break Your Heart Have THIS In Common Generally speaking, men over 40 can be pretty set in their ways and don’t often make the best decisions when it comes to dating and building a stable relationship. It’s often difficult to break old patterns of behavior – or to even recognize that these patterns […] The post Men Who Break Your Heart Have …

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Why Men STOP Expressing Their Feelings Toward You 28:26

2M ago28:26

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Why Men STOP Expressing Their Feelings Toward You Women are generally good listeners but some women don’t know how to ask good questions. So, when a guy shares his problems and daily complaints, some women will begin to think that he’s open and sharing his thoughts and feelings. But if you don’t know how to […] The post Why Men STOP Expressing Thei…

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Quick Test To SEE If He’s Ready For Commitment 18:30

2M ago18:30

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Quick Test To SEE If He’s Ready For Commitment Emotional maturity is a topic I talk about a lot because I think it’s so important for couples to understand how it plays a large part in building solid communication. Not everyone is a master communicator but lucky for us, it’s a skill that can be […] The post Quick Test To SEE If He’s Ready For Commi…

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Do THIS To Attract A Great Guy with Gia Fey 57:30

2M ago57:30

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Do THIS To Attract A Great Guy with Gia Fey Today I’m having an important conversation about self-love with fitness and confidence coach Gia Fey. As you know, I’m a big proponent of self-love and Gia shares about the different vibrational levels we emit into the world based upon our emotions. For example, when we […] The post Do THIS To Attract A G…

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6 Things Men Notice First In A Woman and Find Massively Attractive 20:30

2M ago20:30

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6 Things Men Notice First In A Woman and Find Massively Attractive Let’s be real…physical attraction is usually what brings people into our dating sphere. This is the very baseline level of our dating standards but as you know from my coaching, physicality is not enough to sustain a long term relationship. However, today we’re […] The post 6 Things…

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Men Will ABSOLUTELY Commit When These 3 Things Happen 1:02:35

2M ago1:02:35

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Men Will ABSOLUTELY Commit When These 3 Things Happen Before any guy will commit to a certain person, they need to be committed to the idea of commitment. Many enter the dating world with a “we’ll see how it goes” mentality, which is fine if you’re also thinking the same thing. But if you’re looking […] The post Men Will ABSOLUTELY Commit When Thes…

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How A WOMAN Should Treat A Man 20:18

2M ago20:18

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How A WOMAN Should Treat A Man | 5 POWERFUL Keys Can we agree that relationships crumble when partners don’t treat each other with respect? And it goes both ways…men and women alike need to tune into their partners and work on their communication skills together and learn how to face challenges head on without […] The post How A WOMAN Should Treat …

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All High-Quality Men Need THESE 5 Things From A Woman 32:54

2M ago32:54

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All High-Quality Men Need THESE 5 Things From A Woman Building a lasting relationship takes effort from both people, so these 5 things are also what high-quality women need as well. But first things first…knowing what you want in terms of a relationship is important so you can weed out the men who aren’t interested […] The post All High-Quality Men…

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Seeking More Than a Situationship? Try This Approach Instead of Chasing Him… 19:15

3M ago19:15

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Seeking More Than a Situationship? Try This Approach Instead of Chasing Him A situationship is a very casual form of dating. I liken it to the very beginning of dating, when you’re getting to know each other and deciding if this is a person you want to spend more time with. That’s all well and […] The post Seeking More Than a Situationship? Try Thi…

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7 WAYS Women Make Themselves LOOK Desperate To Men (MAJOR Turn Offs) 1:05:11

3M ago1:05:11

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7 WAYS Women Make Themselves LOOK Desperate To Men (MAJOR Turn Offs) Ladies, let’s take some time for self-reflection. If you’re having trouble attracting the “right” type of guy into your life, it may be that some of your behavior is giving off the wrong vibe. I don’t say this to put blame or shame […] The post 7 WAYS Women Make Themselves LOOK De…

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How To Manifest & Attract A High-Quality Man Over 40 w/Katherine Woodward Thomas 53:16

3M ago53:16

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How To Manifest & Attract A High-Quality Man Over 40 Once upon a time (not that long ago) it was firmly believed that once you surpassed a certain age that love and sex were not that important any more. Thankfully, society’s view on age has changed and those in their 60s, 70s, and 80s are […] The post How To Manifest & Attract A High-Quality Man Ov…

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99.9% of Men Respect Women Who Have THIS | Trigger Warning | Patty Tierney 50:23

3M ago50:23

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99.9% of Men Respect Women Who Have THIS | Trigger Warning For this episode, I had an intimate conversation with my dear friend, Patty Tierney, author of For a Good Time Call Patty. She shares how being raised by an alcoholic, absent mother ingrained the idea that she was never enough, which lead to bad […] The post 99.9% of Men Respect Women Who H…

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Absolute #1 Classy Move Men Secretly Love | Must Do THIS! 1:03:05

3M ago1:03:05

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Absolute #1 Classy Move Men Secretly Love Do you seek validation from the men you date? Or are you genuinely happy with your self and your life and your special guy is just an added bonus? Some women base their happiness on whether or not the guy they’re with is happy. This is not a […] The post Absolute #1 Classy Move Men Secretly Love | Must Do T…

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If You Want To Know How a Man Feels About You, Try THIS! 19:48

3M ago19:48

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If You Want To Know How a Man Feels About You, Try THIS! Have you heard this saying before? “Men give love through sex and women give sex in hope of finding love.’ To me, this is a very superficial way of approaching relationships. Yes, sexual chemistry is important BUT if this is the foundation […] The post If You Want To Know How a Man Feels Abou…

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Finding Love When You’re Over 50 | Can Love Happen In Mid-Life? The Golden Bachelor 55:26

3M ago55:26

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Can Love Happen In Mid-Life? The Golden Bachelor Were you as intrigued with The Golden Bachelor as I was? For SO many years we’ve been inundated with these relationship shows for the younger crowd and I often felt like our whole midlife age group was ignored or forgotten about. This latest installment of The Bachelor […] The post Finding Love When …

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#1 Sign A Man Will Be Loyal To You | DON’T MISS THIS! 21:49

3M ago21:49

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#1 Sign A Man Will Be Loyal To You Are you in a relationship or a situationship? While everyone’s definition of a relationship can differ, a situationship is very casual. There’s no promises of a future together and the conversations are generally superficial talk about the events of your day. There’s nothing wrong with having […] The post #1 Sign …

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Men Who Do THIS Attract The Best Women 1:03:03

4M ago1:03:03

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Men Who Do THIS Attract The Best Women What’s your impression of men who come across very fickle about what they want in life and in a relationship? They definitely lack confidence and are usually non-committal. These are the men who hesitate to do any type of inner work to figure out what type of […] The post Men Who Do THIS Attract The Best Women…

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Why He’ll Choose You Over Another Woman 21:54

4M ago21:54

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Why He’ll Choose You Over Another Woman Men are often slow to realize the benefits of doing personal development work, especially when it comes to healing trauma left from childhood and/or previous adult relationships. For generations little boys were taught to stifle their emotions and that they were sissies if they cried on the playground […] The…

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80% of Men Over 40 Use Dating Apps For THESE Reasons 20:55

4M ago20:55

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80% of Men Over 40 Use Dating Apps For THESE Reasons Men and women alike are desperate for connection but find it increasingly difficult to meet people because of our busy lives. That’s where technology and dating apps can save the day because they allow us to meet people we wouldn’t normally encounter in our […] The post 80% of Men Over 40 Use Dat…

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5 Ways A Man Knows He’s With The One and He’ll Commit To Her 18:38

4M ago18:38

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5 Ways A Man Knows He’s With The One and He’ll Commit To Her Are you approaching dating from the soul or from a transactional viewpoint? Those who are soul-based really know what they want in a relationship. They have strong values and have set boundaries and standards about what type of man they’ll let […] The post 5 Ways A Man Knows He’s With The…

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How To End A Relationship With LOVE w/Katherine Woodward Thomas 1:04:00

4M ago1:04:00

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How To End A Relationship With LOVE w/Katherine Woodward Thomas More often than not we hear about the messy breakups and the blame game about who was at fault for what. Rarely do we hear about couples who leave a relationship with respect for each other which can lead to respect for future partners as […] The post How To End A Relationship With LOV…

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Men Go Through THESE 4 Stages Before They’ll Commit 21:16

4M ago21:16

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Men Go Through THESE 4 Stages Before They’ll Commit In today’s casual hook up culture, it’s more difficult to determine which men are looking for casual situationships versus long term commitments. Men who want commitments ARE out there but knowing and understanding the process it takes to get to that point will ease any doubts […] The post Men Go …

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Can An Avoidant Man Speak My Love Language? 1:03:21

4M ago1:03:21

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Can An Avoidant Man Speak My Love Language? We’re talking about love attachments styles today and it’s so important to learn about the different styles because one’s love attachment style can indicate whether you’re a good match and if he can fulfill your relationship needs. There are 3 main attachment styles (which stem from our […] The post Can A…

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Want To Keep A Man’s Attention, DO THIS! 21:33

4M ago21:33

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Want To Keep A Man’s Attention, DO THIS! Let me be clear…it is not a woman’s sole responsibility to vie for a man’s attention. It takes two to have a strong relationship, which means the man should also be putting forth effort to drive the relationship forward. One partner doing 95% of the work is […] The post Want To Keep A Man’s Attention, DO THI…

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What Could “Reality Dating Shows” Mean for Modern Culture? with Dr. Birnbaum 52:01

4M ago52:01

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What Could “Reality Dating Shows” Mean for Modern Culture? with Dr. Birnbaum If you check out any of the streaming services or major networks, you’ll find multiple reality shows about relationships. And they all need to be different to catch the viewer’s attention, so you’ll find multiple twists and plenty of drama. But are these […] The post What …

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Guys Won’t Open Up Emotionally Until You Do THIS! 20:55

5M ago20:55

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Guys Won’t Open Up Emotionally Until You Do THIS! Let’s be real…most guys in the dating world are thinking about one thing…SEX! And men from the Baby Boomer and Gen X generations were taught as children to hide their feelings. So, it’s no wonder that many midlife men are emotionally constipated when it comes to […] The post Guys Won’t Open Up Emoti…

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THESE Men Love To Be Chased | Know THIS! 54:24

5M ago54:24

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THESE Men Love To Be Chased | Know THIS! In other podcasts and videos I’ve talked about how women should not chase men, but there’s a big difference between chasing someone and putting effort into a relationship. Emotionally healthy men want women who aren’t afraid of deep conversations and who take the initiative to plan […] The post THESE Men Lov…

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Is He SERIOUS About You? 3 SOLID Signs 21:22

5M ago21:22

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Is He SERIOUS About You? 3 SOLID Signs | Don’t Miss THESE When was the last time you really thought about your long-term dating goal? Knowing whether you want a life partner or just want to have fun with no commitment will help you determine what kinds of questions to ask a potential partner. Also, […] The post Is He SERIOUS About You? 3 SOLID Sign…

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7 EARLY Signs A Guy Wants To Be COMMITTED To You 1:15:55

5M ago1:15:55

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7 EARLY Signs A Guy Wants To Be COMMITTED To You Women can often overlook crucial early signs of a partner’s readiness for commitment due to being blinded by affection. Instead of being blinded, let’s take back your power and talk about the seven telltale signs of a man’s sincere interest in a lasting bond. […] The post 7 EARLY Signs A Guy Wants To…

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If A Man Does THIS, He’s Loyal To YOU! 22:58

5M ago22:58

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If A Man Does THIS, He’s Loyal To YOU! Establishing trust and building a strong foundation of loyalty from the early stages of dating is the basis for a long lasting relationship. There are certain character traits that contribute to loyalty and without them, each partner may feel insecure and start worrying about the longevity […] The post If A Ma…

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Why Men (Over 40) Are Less Likely To Commit 1:03:44

5M ago1:03:44

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Dating: A Failed Technology? What does commitment mean? In our younger years, it means finding someone to build a life with and (usually) to start a family with. Younger people often have a naive outlook on commitment, especially when it comes to marriage, when in reality, the divorce rate in the US is still hovering […] The post Why Men (Over 40) …

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A Man’s Silence Means THIS! 20:07

5M ago20:07

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Do THIS When He Pulls Away… Chemistry is a huge reason why we connect with certain people. We’ve got various feel-good chemicals and hormones being released that push us into lust and limerence early in a relationship. But this chemical attraction is often misunderstood. Men will often think about how you make him feel instead […] The post A Man’s …

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Do High-Quality Men (Men Over 40) Exist? with @raydoktor 1:06:02

6M ago1:06:02

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Do High-Quality Men (Men Over 40) Exist? with @raydoktor What does “high-quality” mean when we’re talking about men (and women)? Basically it means that men are doing inner work and acknowledging that they’re growing as a person daily. High-quality men don’t run away from conversations about feelings and what they want in a relationship. On […] The…

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Why A Man CHOOSES You Over ANOTHER Woman 21:40

6M ago21:40

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Why A Man CHOOSES You Over ANOTHER Woman Did you realize that how we related to our parents during our early childhood years deeply affects how we choose our partners later in life? The lessons we learn from the primary adults in our lives from birth through age 8 or 9 shape our personalities and […] The post Why A Man CHOOSES You Over ANOTHER Woma…

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Attachment Styles: Why We Choose Who We Choose w/Dr. Stan Tatkin 1:01:31

6M ago1:01:31

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Attachment Styles: Why We Choose Who We Choose w/Dr. Stan Tatkin You’ve heard me talk about attachment styles before but today we’re diving deep with Dr. Stan Tatkin to really understand what each style means and how each style manifests during the early stages of a relationship. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, researcher, […] The post Atta…

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Men Have a Hard Time Not THINKING ABOUT YOU When You Tell Them This 1:01:47

6M ago1:01:47

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Men Have a Hard Time Not THINKING ABOUT YOU When You Tell Them This Relationships are built on connections and in the early stages of dating someone new, a strong connection can begin to propel the relationship forward. This is often where lust and limerence come into play and everything about this person is new […] The post Men Have a Hard Time No…

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Men (Over 40) Need THIS From a Woman To Fully Commit 1:06:40

6M ago1:06:40

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Men (Over 40) Need THIS From a Woman To Fully Commit Commitment for some men is a dirty word. Sometimes men are left reeling after a divorce, so the last thing they want is a serious relationship. When a man is widowed, they can feel guilt when they want to start dating. But none of […] The post Men (Over 40) Need THIS From a Woman To Fully Commit …

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