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Melanie Tonia Evans is an author, radio host, relationship and dating expert and coach. She’s the author of the books Breaking the Chains of Painful Love and Take Back Your Power. Melanie’s work resulted from her own nearly fatal experiences with narcissistic abuse, co-dependency and relationship addiction. Melanie is now a world expert on empowering women and healing painful love. Her deep core writing, teaching, coaching and healings are now liberating women world wide to stand up and take ...
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Malin Andersson makes uncomfortable conversations comfortable. Taking inspiration from her book – Positivity Is Our Superpower – each week Malin will be joined by a guest to dig into stories from their past, discuss moments of trauma and pain, and focus on how they find positivity from them – this is a show to make you feel positive!
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The juxtaposition of Rugby Wheelchair Olympian and Countryfile presenter isn't one you come across often and may only be applicable to this episode's guest, Steve Brown. Steve speaks with Malin about the accident that left him in a wheelchair, the road to captaining his country in one of the world's toughest sports and how that in turn has lead to …
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Sabrina Gidda’s early career began in Fashion PR & Marketing, but it wasn't long before she realised that her passion and fulfilment was in food and cooking. Having had no formal training, she began at The Dorchester hotel, ran two successful gastro pubs and has gone onto huge success becoming a regular face on many food TV shows we know and love. …
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Founder of Quanta Freedom Healing - the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program, Melanie Tonia Evans has aided over 10 million people from over 100 countries across the world using her own experience of surviving and thriving, after a being part of a narcissistic relationship for a number of years. In this episode Malin asks how she removed herself fro…
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Millie Gooch is the founder of Sober Girl Society, a group of likeminded people who have chosen a sober lifestyle. From nights of blackouts, regretful texts, and hangovers Mille tells Malin about the decision to go sober, how it's changed her life and where the origins of Sober Girl Society started as well as how it led to her book which is a great…
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Arguably the first online body positivity poster before it was a thing, Sarah and Malin go way back! This episode talks about body image, society's attitudes towards fat / thin / pre-baby / post-baby, relationships with people, with food and so so much more. The topics are all things you should hear and after listening, you'll want to know more abo…
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The name Perez Hilton was synonymous with online celebrity culture in the mid 00s. Via his blog Perez gossiped about the famous names of the day and gave what many felt was a toxic view of people, and at the time and many years later those who he wrote about have said how much the coverage impacted their mental health. Perez began a long period of …
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It's baby loss awareness week in the UK 9th - 15th October. On this episode of Superpower State Of Mind, Malin is in conversation with Amina Hatia, a midwife who works for Tommy's, one of the UK's leading charities in supporting mothers and families who have experienced the loss of a baby. Together, Amina and Malin speak about her own experiences, …
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Rising to public attention on BBC 1Xtra, MTV and the X-Factor, Sarah-Jane Crawford spent years building a career that took her across the world and ticked a huge number of professional boxes. Motherhood was something she new she wanted, but just didn't know when. Like many people her journey wasn't easy, and it continued to be tough after the birth…
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The Essex Barrister aka Alexandra Wilson is the latest guest on Superstate Of Mind. What led Alexandra to follow a path into law and what areas of the justice system does she find the most rewarding? That discussion comes up, as well as finding out how Alexandra looks after her own mental health in such a demanding environment plus she lets Malin i…
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TikTok star Milly Pickles began making content following an accident in 2017 that saw her lose a leg. Through honest videos she has show that having a disability means you adjust your goals, not give up on them. Milly and Malin discuss mental strength, competitiveness and the pressures of being a role model on social media. You can follow Milly on …
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Gogglebox catapulted Reverend Kate Bottley to the nation's attention and aside from her views on the week's TV, she provided a fresh perspective for many on Christianity. Hear herself and Malin get into who they think God is, seeing religion through the eyes of childhood, and why what matters isn't a persons faith, but having respect for their fait…
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* This episode contains discussions that some may find triggering * Malin and Safiyya share a bond they ultimately don't want to, the loss of a child. That loss though has brought about significant change for them both and today we'll hear all about that change, what they felt and continue to feel about losing a child and so much more. Catch everyt…
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Mandy Morris is the Queen of manifestation. In this episode of the podcast Malin and Mandy talk about their paths to manifestation, how and why it may come into your life, and the need to trust the process. Visit Mandy's website to learn more - www.mandymorris.love See Malin's own manifestations and mantras on her Instagram - www.instagram.com/Miss…
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Today we're talking sobriety, juggling all that life throws at us and the importance of not only exercise but strength, with the marvellous podcaster and blogger Clemmie Telford. Please follow to never miss future episodes of Superpower State of Mind. Clemmie's website - https://motherofalllists.com Clemmie's But Why? podcast - https://podfollow.co…
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Former Hollyoaks star Sarah Jane Dunn takes Malin through leaving the fictional suburb of Cheshire, the decision to setup her OnlyFans account and what taking control means to her. You can follow Sarah on Instagram - www.instagram.com/sarahjaynedunn Catch Malin on Instagram - www.instagram.com/MissMalinSara This episode is brought to you by BetterH…
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Ignoring a narcissist is critical, and ignoring a narcissist is crucial when a narcissist tries to punish you. Narcissists love to get your reaction. As soon as they do, you are handing power away. And … when a narcissist hooks you in, everything you used to think is tipped upside down and turned on its head. We hand power away and can be significa…
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There is SUCH a deep soul familiarity to relationships with narcissists. Are narcissists Soul Mates who we were meant to get it right with, but just couldn’t, or are they Twin Flames; deeply impactful souls called forth to surface and purge our darker pieces that they reflect, so that we can evolve? In this blog article I share with you what I deep…
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This radio show is one that many of you have been asking for – some conclusive steps regarding how it break free from a narcissist and recover from narcissistic abuse. I understand how hard it can be when we don’t know how to recover, or even what it is that could help us. There is of course tons of information we can read on the net, and we may be…
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I get asked by people ALL the time …“Can you please explain to me Melanie HOW to self-partner?” And that is such a great question! As are these questions: Is self-partnering something that can become automatic? Is it essential for abuse recovery and even MORE than that? I believe it is … absolutely! I will even go as far as to say I believe self-pa…
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In Part One of this series, we looked at how to detach, and not a grant a narcissist narcissistic supply, and why this was so important. In this article – Part 2 I illustrate the 3 different ways we can try to deal with a narcissist – and the results of each And we also take a deep dive into the growing up of our traumatised parts that the narcissi…
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There are many people in the Community who aren’t No Contact with narcissists. Maybe they are family members or you have to work with one … Or … maybe you are co-parenting with a narcissist. Or perhaps you are just not ready to let go yet. Whatever the circumstance, if you are still connected to a narcissist, please know it is possible to manage th…
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Can we break free of the ongoing painful thoughts that can be so tortuous? Ones that … Bring us to our knees. Strip our Life-force. And leave us feeling so empty, broken and alone that we wonder how we can live, love and trust again. The answer is “YES!” Totally. Let me explain to you, with a deep dive into “how to” in Part 2. Read along and join t…
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It is so frustrating and exhausting to have our heads go over and over and over what happened to us after narcissistic abuse. Why do we keep thinking about “what happened” and all the “what ifs” when we know we can’t change what happened? Maybe, despite you putting in a ton of effort to heal yourself, the “story” still keeps taking you down – not a…
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This week’s episode is about two very important Quantum topics which I believe are pivotal for 2017. The realizing that time has sped up – and how to align oneself so as NOT to be “out of time” … meaning not living in the now and therefore not in the flow of Lifeforce and Wellbeing. I also discuss how the Feminine Collective Wounds are now rising u…
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This week in Part Two, we take a deep dive into practical concerns when breaking up with a narcissist, which are not just heartbreaking and gut-wrenching – they turn our lives upside down. Things such as smearing, being replaced, trying to explain to others that you have been abused by someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, trying to have …
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Why is it that when we break up with a narcissist we usually feel WORSE instead of get relief? And … What does it take to not just merely (and barely) survive from breaking up with a narcissist, but to actually Thrive as a result? Find out in my two part series. Join the conversation with myself and other Thrivers on the blog.…
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This week’s topic about “forgiveness” was inspired by my friend Sylvia. She really nailed it … regarding “Organic Forgiveness”, and as a result I sat down to write about the truth of the stages of “forgiveness”, what they produce and how they set us free. Ranging all the way from Non-forgiveness, to Logical Forgiveness to the higher states of Evolv…
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This is a radio show many men have asked for. Within this article we do a deep dive into the characteristics of narcissistic females. What makes them tick? How can they turn from the most beautiful, loving, sensual compassionate women you could ever hope to meet, into an entitled being who is never happy, always finding fault and acting nastily and…
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Last week, in Part One, we explored the reasons why we fell for a narcissist and why it can be very difficult to leave and stay away. And why, in this Community, we DO struggle to end it and break free, whereas other people just don’t … even if they were initially hoodwinked by a narcissist. This week, in Part Two, I want to take a deep dive into t…
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Why is it that some individuals who have a run in with a narcissist don’t get hooked and adversely affected, once the mask drops … … whereas some people fall head over heels, make excuses for the terrible behavior and eventually have their life torn to shreds? This is a very important question to have answered … because within the answer is a vital…
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Aminath’s story is quite unique, and a little different to most of our Community Member’s backgrounds, because she came from a country and family torn by political unrest and fighting. Her father was incarcerated and her family was shunned and ostracised. Incredible shame and emotional wounds ensued. Aminath’s identity is protected in this intervie…
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Many of us have been deeply committed to spiritual practices and seeking information in order to become more enlightened, evolved and better people, and to heal. But why in some circumstances do we feel like we have to always to make so much effort and as soon as we don’t that our anxiety and fears come back and engulf us? Is spiritual practice and…
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It near impossible to heal from narcissistic abuse when you are locked into the trajectory of just trying to survive ... Where everyday tasks such as going to work, making appointments, meeting with people or planning out your day can send you into anxiety. Find out how to break free from this powerless state, stop the minute to minute panic attack…
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Many people believe if a victim of narcissistic abuse is asked to take responsibility for what happened to them – that they are being “blamed” for the abuse they suffered. Naturally, there a large consensus assert this takes away the accountability from where it should be positioned - which is on the abuser. There is also a lot of belief that the w…
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This week’s Empowered Love Radio Show is an interview with Sylvia, a regular and wonderful contributor to this Community. Sylvia’s journey was narcissistic abuse ever since a child, starting with her mother - and then four narcissistic love relationships in a row. Sylvia had always been able to get up and get on with it, until the last narcissist, …
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During Part 2, we will look at how we go beyond the holding of the narcissist accountable to caring for us, and how we can start orientating towards and generating care for ourselves. Why is it NOT true that our life is reliant on whether or not someone else cares for us? How can we empower our children not to need the narcissistic parent to care f…
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This question has been coming up so much in the Community lately, and it is certainly always a really big theme in the Private Facebook 3 Keys Groups. It is one of the most invasive reasons why people can stay hooked to narcissists and keep breaking No Contact, because they are trying to stop the agony of not feeling cared for, and can’t stop tryin…
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Are you at the stage where you are thinking about or getting ready to leave the narcissist? This can be an incredibly daunting time and there are so many questions one might have before trying toexert themself from the toxicty of a narcissist relationship. I hope that this radio show provides the resources you need to gain the courage to move forwa…
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This week’s blog and radio show is a Thriver Show, about a wonderful woman named Nora, who is also one of the Senior Moderators in the NARP Forum. Nora’s story is quite exceptional. Nora is a woman who suffered narcissistic abuse, which included components such as him taking another wife without her consent, and suffering numerous affairs, neglect,…
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In Part 2 we will be covering in depth ... How the cycles of idolise, devalue, discard can also affect "normal" relationships (just as a different dynamic and level of intensity). As well as ... How to become up-levelled to a state where a narcissist has nothing left to gain from you and ceases to be able to extract narcissistic supply from you. I …
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Idolise, devalue and discard is one of the most painful and horiffic experiences anyone can suffer at the hands of a narcissist. What is this deadly cycle really about? How does it play out? How can we break away and heal from this cycle than not only devestates us but addicts us into receiving more devestation? Find out in this two part series on …
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Katherine shares the fundamental 4 keys that allow us to become the person we must be to attract and maintain a soulmate relationship. You can sign up for her world-class event by clicking here: 4 Keys to Release Your Baggage, Blocks and Barriers to Love and Consciously Call In Your Soul Partner.By Empowered Love Radio
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Welcome back everyone for another year in this incredible community! In this show I discuss the powerful ascension that is taking place in 2016. More and more people are applying the Thriver Model, and doing the inner work to transform themselves and reaping the results in their outer lives. I also discuss just how important purposeful evolution is…
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In this radio show you will learn how not being self-partnered was the number one reason why we were narcissistically abuse, as well as why it is impossible to heal from narcissistic abuse if we don’t come home to “meeting ourselves”. You will also discover exactly what self-partnering is, what the results of doing it achieve, and how it is a templ…
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In Part One we discussed some of the templates for Quantum Realities … theories that at the Quantum Level “there is no outside”, and “we are powerful Creators as per the levels of consciousness we are connected to Life at.” During Part 2, we take a deeper dive into the Quantum theories and I share with you information regarding how modern Quantum I…
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This is the first of a two part series regarding the Quantum Model and how it works in regard to healing from narcissistic abuse. I have been talking a lot lately on YouTube about this topic and people have been asking for a deeper conversation about it. In this radio show you will learn about what “going Quantum” means, and how we can change our “…
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Today’s Thriver Show is about Prima, a lady who went through a highly abusive narcissistic marriage that had her eventually fleeing, fearful for her life. He had threatened that if she ever left him he would kill her. Now today Prima has not only recovered herself, her emotions and her life, but she was also recently awarded full legal custody of h…
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