We're a couple who've been married a LONG time, and we stumbled into the swinging Lifestyle by accident years ago. We've gone from wide eyed OMG is this real? rookies to hosting Sybian parties in our room with 60 people participating at various events. But we're still learning, trying new things, and we'd love for you to join us for this adventure as we describe the sexy fun times, the mistakes, the good, the bad, all just between the two of us and you. We do this for our listeners (well, an ...
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A listener who is new to the Swinging Lifestyle asked us if it is wrong to "use" other couples as "Human Sex Toys?" We explore what they meant and whether playing with other couples with no intent of becoming long term friends, but rather purely for the sex, is somehow a bad thing. We also answer another listener's question on whether they are too …
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Episode 45 A Different Kind of Drama in the Swinging Lifestyle
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In this episode we are very transparent in sharing why we have been so sporadic in the last couple of year publishing episodes. We also talk about some fun stuff and our future plans for a MUCH more adventurous journey in the Lifestye!By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 44 Embracing Change in the Swinging Lifestyle
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How do couples in the swinging lifestyle change in their rules, expectations, play styles, etc. as they gain experience? We chat with our good friends Nick and Nora as we discuss what couples told us about how they've evolved in their swinging lifestyle journey. Mentioned in this episode: our favorite place for purchasing and advice on sex toys and…
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Episode 43 13 Surefire Ways to Fail in the Swinging Lifestyle
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The Swinging Lifestyle can be a tricky thing to maneuver, and, especially when you're first starting, it's easy to have no success in connecting with other likeminded couples or singles and wonder what you're doing wrong. We asked a lot of people in the Lifestyle community for their input on how to fail in the Lifestyle. The result is this podcast;…
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Episode 42 A Couple of Above Average Swingers
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We interview @notyouraveragemr and @notyouraveragemrs, a VERY hot couple who have been in the swinging lifestyle for just about a year (though together for a much longer time!) We talk about their very active first year in the Swinging Lifestyle!By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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We talk about our fun times at Naughty in Nawlins 22! A fun Sybian and Motorbunny Buck Party, Jay and Angie getting on stage at The Cat's Meow on Bourbon St. and giving us all a Karaoke show, and much more. We also have our Toy of the Month review and we will be giving two of these away to two lucky listeners! Mentioned in this episode: www.average…
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Special Pre Naughty in Nawlins 2022 Episode
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This is a a special pre-Naughty in N'Awlins 2022 episode we recorded during a break in packing! We just wanted to let any listeners who will be there know how to connect with us and share a Titos or your favorite adult beverage. This will be our 7th Naughty in N'Awlins; we had a break in 2020 and 2021. Podcasts mentioned in this episode: Swinger Di…
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Episode 39 From Religiously Inhibited to Gang Bangs
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A couple with a strong religious background shares their journey, and struggles as the entered the Swinging Lifestyle and how they progressed from feeling guilty at softswap to full gang bangs. Sites mentioned: www.casualtoys.comBy Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 38 Space Dildos with Casual Toys
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We're back and talking sex toys with the couple from Casual Toys (and the Casual Swinger podcast.) They know more about sex toys than anyone we know, and they tell us things everyone who uses sex toys should know. Oh, and a huge Bad Dragon dildo at 45,000 feet in the sky is not the funniest thing in this podcast! Links you should follow: https://ww…
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Episode 37 Sex Game Night with Nick and Nora
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It's Sex Game Night with our good friends Nick and Nora! We intended to publish this several months ago but we had some life interruptions, but better late than never! We always have a great, fun, sexy time with these two. We took The Game of Lifestyle card game that you hear a lot about in LS podcast and created a modified version for the 4 of us.…
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We finally publish our review of the Motorbunny Buck; the short version is that Mrs. Tango likes it. A lot. And we've just scratched the surface of what it can do. The big news is that Mrs. Tango is finally back home again after a LOT of "Life Stiff." So we talk some about Life vs. The Lifestyle when big life events take over your life.…
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Episode 35 PCAP and Swinging Around The World
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Ever wonder what the swinging lifestyle is like in other countries? With Mrs Tango away on a family emergency, the smart and funny Cate from Wanderlust Swingers (AKA Swinging Down Under) cohosts this episode with Mr. Tango. She and her husband have lived in a wide variety of places in the world and they have traveled the globe, getting a taste of t…
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In Part 2 of our series on Sexual Fantasies, we chat with Cory and Jeni from Episode 30, BDSM Surprise, and Tif and Rachel from Sapphic Swingers, and chat about their good and bad experiences living out their sexual fantasies, as well as those that are still on the “to do” list. Of course, we don’t stay on topic the entire time! Lots of sexy and fu…
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In this two part episode, we interview 4 fun and sex couples and let them talk about their sexual fantasies: the ones they’ve experienced, the ones still on the “Not yet” list, and which fantasies met or exceeded expectations and which ones were disappointing. In Part 1 we talk with Ams and Kat from the 2Hotwives podcast and Andi and Dave from Doub…
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We’re back! And for our relaunch we are joined by Jay and Angie of @Averageswinger and Mr and Mrs Ready2Jam. After a year on hiatus due to a major life disruption, we’re happy to join you all again. This one is a bit of a party with mics,By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 31 Ladies of Lifestyle LOL Part 1
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Episode 31 Ladies of Lifestyle LOL Part 1While at Naughty in N'Awlins several female swinger podcasters got together in a hotel room and had a few drinks and discussed a variety of lifestyle topics, from a female point of view. In this episode, we share part 1 of that discussion. Part 2 will be released in Bonus Episode 78 of The Swinger Diaries on…
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Episode 30 BDSM SurpriseIf you're like us, a "normal" (whatever that means) swinger couple, we will bet that everything you know about BDSM is wrong. We thought we understood it just from watching it at events, casually talking with people who enjoyed it, etc. However, in this episode, we interview Cory and Jeni, a wonderful couple, and much to our…
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Mrs. Tango is away so Mr. Tango is going solo with this episode, which could prove dangerous. We talk about Mrs. Tango’s sensual core persona and reveal her sensual alter ego first name! We talk about podcasts and the risk Swinging Lifestyle podcasters...By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 28: An Intimate Interview with Mrs. Tango Part 2
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Mrs Tango tells the details of her life in the swinging lifestyle, from her first realization that she is Bi all the way through her full swap group room fun! We’ve heard from our listeners that they want to hear more from Mrs Tango (Mr Tango does tend...By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 27: An Intimate Interview with Mrs Tango Pt1
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Mrs Tango tells the details of her life in the swinging lifestyle, from her first realization that she is Bi all the way through her full swap group room fun! We’ve heard from our listeners that they want to hear more from Mrs Tango (Mr Tango does tend...By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 26: A Beginners Guide to First Steps into the Swinging Lifestyle
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This is a special episode, with contributions from some of our favorite podcasters! Once you decide to take the plunge and enter the Swinging Lifestyle, how do you actually make your first play connections?By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 25: Listener Questions about the Swinging Lifestyle
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Tonight we answer some of the questions we get from our listeners about the Swinging Lifestyle. “Why do we have a hard time connecting with other couples at huge events?” “I’m a woman and a female friend of mine said she’d like to try G/G play for the ...By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 24: An Interview with Torrid Souls
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Tori and Soul of Torrid Souls are different: a female couple in which both members are bisexual. They are also funny, sexy, articulate, and they have a new podcast called Torrid Souls in which they will discuss their swinging lifestyle adventures.By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 23: Naughty in N’awlins 2018
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In this episode we talk about our fun times at Naughty in N'Awlins 2018! From sexy times with sexy couples to a fun party with dueling Sybians, it was an event to remember!Podcasts mentioned in this episode:Average SwingersSex UninterruptedThe Swinger DiariesWe Gotta ThingRoyalty Free Music in this EpisodeTango by AsteroidsparikDon’t You Ever Leave…
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Episode 22: Interview with Bunny from Sybian
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In this episode we interview Bunny from Sybian! She is the daughter of the man who invented the Sybian, over 30 years ago. If you listen to our podcast, you know how much we love our Sybian and the adventures we've had with it, especially letting ladies who've never experienced riding one get their first ride! We talk to Bunny about how the Sybian …
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Episode 21: Bisexuality Bias in the Swinging Lifestyle
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The Swinging Lifestyle is supposed to be all about acceptance, the one place where you can feel safe being honest about who you are. Yet we contend there is significant bias in the swinging Lifestyle when it comes to Bisexuality. Many women tell us that if they don't put Bi or Bi-Curious in their profiles, they significantly less interest. Worse, m…
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You and your partner show up to a big Lifestyle event, or a Lifestyle resort, or maybe a house party or a club. You don't know anyone, but people in the Lifestyle are open and welcoming, right? But everyone seems to be standing or sitting with others, laughing and having a great time. You feel like you're on the outside looking in. And you decide t…
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Episode 19: Top 10 Lifestyle Newbie Mistakes
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In this episode we talk about the top 10 Lifestyle newbie mistakes. You've either made them yourselves or encountered them in another couple! In addition, we ask for some help with Mrs. Tango's first single male experience: How do you find a good single man to add to your play? We also correct our info from last podcast on the upcoming Average Swin…
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Episode 18: Expectations in the Lifestyle
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Whether you are going to a lifestyle resort, a lifestyle event, a house party, or just meeting a couple for the first time that you've been chatting with online, you can't help but have expectations. And if you're not careful, those expectations can ruin what could have been a good time (even if they weren't met!) In this episode we discuss managin…
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Episode 17: Our Interview with @FunItalianCpl
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If you're on Twitter and follow LS posters, you have probably seen posts by a very sexy couple who go by the handle @FunItalianCpl. We were lucky enough to have met them while we were at Naughty in N'Awlins, and the four of us had a fun, sexy discussion one afternoon. They were gracious enough to allow us to air that interview on our podcast, and w…
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Episode 16: Naughty in N’awlins 2017 PT2
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FINALLY, we get to tell you about the rest of our adventure at this years Naughty in N’awlins! This is Friday through Sunday, and once again we had enough to talk about that this is a long episode. In part 2, we discuss a very hot couple we met and how Mrs. Tango and the wife from this couple generated amazing heat (even for New Orleans!) This lady…
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Episode 15: Naughty in N’Awlins 2017 PT1
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We had a GREAT time at this year’s Naughty in N’Awlins! Such a great time it will take two podcasts to tell you all about it! In this episode we’ll talk about Monday through Thursday, including a nice surprise in the group room on Wednesday night and a great Thursday night with a wonderful couple we are happy to call good friends. On that Thursday …
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Episode 14: Sex Dares and Listener Questions
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In this episode Mrs Tango talks about her latest sex dare from her friend. We talk about a new couple we met online, and then we attempt to answer a number of listener questions – yes, it’s scary that anyone listens to US for advice!By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 13: Sybians and Strapons and Rabbits, Oh My!
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We’re FINALLY back! In this episode we talk about what turns us on (and off) when we’re looking at online profiles. Then Mrs Tango discusses her favorite sex toys, and adds another To Do to her 2017 Sex To Do List!By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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We sat in front of the fire on New Year’s Eve and had a few drinks, talking about our sexual New Year’s resolutions. Mrs. Tango talks about what she has not yet experienced in our swinger adventure, and makes a “Sex To Do” list of sexual experiences sh...By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Imagine a train with restored old fashioned classic cars and filled with swingers! In this episode we interview Brian and Jill, of Tangerine’s Dream, who host what we believe to be the world’s only Swinger Train Lifestyle excursions.By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 10: Naughty in N’awlins 2016
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1800 swingers in a hotel takeover on Bourbon Street in New Orleans for a week! That’s Naughty in N’awlins 2016! This was our third visit to NiN and each time just gets better and better. In this podcast episode,By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 9: Newbie Fears of the Swinging Lifestyle
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You and your spouse/partner have done your research, read and listened to everything you could find, and now you’re going to join the swinging lifestyle. But – you’re scared! There are SO many things you worry about!By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 8 A Chat With Our Swinger Friends Nick and Nora
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A chat with our swinger friends Nick and Nora over dinner and drinks, sharing a lot of laughs and stories!This one is a bit long but we had so much fun we couldn’t stop chatting. Nick and Nora talk about their adventures as swingers,By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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We FINALLY have the play date with the swinger couple we met online, and it was worth the wait! We also talk about that point in a swinger date where you transition from talk to play, and ask, why does it often feel so awkward? Mrs.By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 6: Naughty in N’awlins 2015
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Our trip to Naughty in N’awlins 2015 resulted in a number of new “firsts” in our swinging lifestyle adventure, including our first full swap! And our second! We also had a wonderful time being a “first” for another couple who were new to swinging,By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 5: Where are all the Orgies?
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We have been in the swinging lifestyle for a year now, and we want to talk about the misconceptions we had and what surprised us about what a Swinger is and what swinging is all about. And where are all those orgies we thought would be everywhere??? -By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 4: Naughty in N’awlins 2014
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Our experience swinging with 750 swinger couples at 2014’s Naughty in N’awlins lifestyle event! This one is a little long, we had a lot to talk about! Including why we had to re-record it, our Chicago friend who dumped a mob princess,By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 3: Our First Swinger Club Visit
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Our very first – and second – swinger club visit! Our swinging adventure’s next step. We had a GREAT time the first visit, and a really good time the second visit. And learned that a swingers club can have very different “feels” on different nights.By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 2: Mrs. Tango Enjoys Her First G/G!
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Following our teaser at the end of Episode 1, we meet a couple who answered our online profile question: Who wants to help a nice Bi Wifey fulfill her G/G fantasy? And they do! What we expected to be a simple get to know ya meet at a vanilla bar ended ...By Mr. and Mrs. Tango
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Episode 1 A Couple Stumbles Into the Lifestyle!
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