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Getting married is tough for the vast majority of Muslims in the West. We know because we’ve been there. My (Zaid) journey spanned nearly nine years. It was filled with rejections and self-doubt. While I (Hiba) didn't know there was a journey to be on in the first place. After we got married we decided to create something different to help single Muslims complete their deen. And so our matchmaking service Halal Match was born. After a few years of interviewing singles, a friend suggested we ...
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In this episode, we’re joined by Habeeb Akande, a sex educator and Muslim erotologist, to challenge outdated views on intimacy in Islam. He’s here to remind us of the true Islamic teachings on relationships. Think consent, mutual respect, and yes, female pleasure. We’ll talk about how cultural norms and misinformation have twisted our understanding…
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What does it mean to lead in a marriage? For men, it’s not about being bossy; it’s about responsibility, humility, and knowing when to step up. For women, it’s about recognizing those qualities before you commit. In this episode, we explore the Prophet's leadership in his family and how it sets the gold standard for modern Muslim marriages. We’ll t…
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In this episode, we dive into the awkward, and sometimes painful journey of figuring that out. From emotional maturity to basic life skills (yes, knowing how to cook counts), we’re keeping it real and relatable. Spoiler: If you think ‘romantic’ means sending memes at 2 a.m., you might want to tune in. We’re sharing stories, tips, and a few laughs t…
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In this episode, we dive into the impact of trauma on single Muslims, especially how past experiences shape relationships. A trauma-informed coach joins us; Hana Alasry who shares insights on the importance of hope in healing and how the Prophet (PBUH) navigated immense personal loss with resilience, trusting in Allah’s Qadr. We also discuss how sm…
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In this episode, we dive into the concept of soulmates; are they just a rom-com myth, or is there something deeper? We explore the idea from an Islamic perspective, discuss the role of qadr (divine decree), and unpack why "waiting for Mr./Mrs. Perfect" might be holding you back. Spoiler alert: marriage isn't the end of the story. Join us for a fun,…
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In this episode, we dive into the Quran’s only detailed proposal story—Prophet Musa (AS) and his journey from being a refugee to finding a wife. It’s a story filled with timeless lessons about character, divine timing, and how a simple act of kindness (like watering sheep!) can change your life. We loved reflecting on how this story connects to wha…
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This week we confront the notorious Haram Police! 🚔 From awkward aunties and clapping controversies to MSAs that outdo Islamic rulings themselves, we share our personal run-ins with this self-appointed moral authority. 🎻 Spoiler: classical music, theater, and even holding hands while married aren’t safe from judgment. We discuss how culture complic…
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In this episode, we take you behind the scenes of our matchmaking process, revealing the immense effort and dedication we pour into finding meaningful, compatible matches for single Muslims. From in-depth discovery calls and personalized assessments to carefully planned double dates, we share how our hands-on, halal approach goes above and beyond t…
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Unlock the secrets of forming successful relationships as we bring you an exciting conversation with the esteemed Imam Navaid Aziz. Together, we explore the intricate dynamics of emotional intelligence in relationship matching. This episode promises to provide valuable insights into recognizing emotional intelligence in a potential spouse, a key de…
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What if a simple piece of paper could dictate the course of your life's most personal decision? Today we unravel the world of Biodatas, questioning whether this 'marriage resume' truly captures the essence of a person or merely reflects outdated societal norms. From personal stories of arranged marriage proposals to the cultural expectations that s…
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In this episode, we join you on the listening side, as Nida K. shares her twenty-year journey searching for marriage. She opens up about the challenges she faced, the lessons she learned, and her hopes for the future. If you're someone on the journey to marriage, this episode will relate to you in one way or another. If you have a story to share, w…
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Why are so many single Muslims still struggling to find a match despite an ocean of options? Using relatable analogies and personal experiences, we explore why having a plethora of matrimonial avenues doesn’t necessarily make the quest for a partner any easier. Is it a lack of awareness? Misunderstanding how to leverage these resources? We untangle…
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Join us as we welcome Baba Ali, the man who got us married and the founder of Half Our Deen, a platform revolutionizing matchmaking for Muslims. Baba Ali shares his entertaining and insightful journey, challenging societal norms and debunking the stigma around online matrimonial services. With a mix of humor and wisdom, we explore how finding love …
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Zahra Hassan, a seasoned relationship coach with a transformative personal journey, shares her insights on building fulfilling marriages. After navigating the complexities of her divorce and remarriage, Zahra reveals the essential ingredients for choosing the right partner. Join us on this truly inspirational and informative episode to learn how to…
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In this episode we navigate the challenges of marrying someone from one’s home country, discussing the stigma and drawbacks, such as long-distance hurdles and the intricacies of the immigration processes. We stress the importance of self-awareness and assessing one's cultural connections when contemplating such a significant life decision. With an …
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Prepare to revolutionize your understanding of intimacy in marriage with insights from Amirah Zaky, a faith-aligned sex educator and vaginismus expert. Amirah shares her personal struggles, shedding light on the significant gaps in sex education within the Muslim community. Through her journey, she highlights the vital importance of educating coupl…
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Our story started with no fireworks but blossomed into a deep connection built on shared values and mutual understanding. Discover how we went from "this is a waste of time" to finding joy in our similarities, and learn why patience and realistic expectations might just be the key to your next great relationship. Today we challenge the common misco…
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Today we share the heartwarming story of one of our quickest matches, now happily engaged but facing family resistance to an early nikah. This couple's story sheds light on the broader challenges many face when trying to harmonize tradition with faith. From the struggle to maintain formal interactions to the family fears surrounding early nikahs, w…
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Is food compatibility a dealbreaker in your relationship? It certainly wasn't for us! Join us as we open up about our interracial marriage story. From navigating the intricate cultural differences to language challenges, our relationship proves that shared values and goals can triumph over any cultural barriers. We also unravel the broader hesitati…
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What if the love of your life is halfway across the world—would you still give it a shot? Join us as we unravel the complexities of long-distance relationships, sharing our 14-month LDR story. We tackle the common fears and misconceptions that often hold people back from pursuing such partnerships. From the anxiety of moving away from family to the…
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If you're a parent with a son/daughter at the age of marriage, then this episode is for you. In this one we explore the complex dynamics between parental approval and the matchmaking journey, sharing personal stories and client experiences. Tune in for invaluable advice to parents on upholding their child's happiness and rights, grounded in faith a…
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What if the key to finding your perfect match on matrimonial websites lies in the way you present yourself? In this episode we uncover the art and science behind creating a compelling matrimonial profile. We break down the essential elements of authenticity and how presenting your true self can attract the right people. Learn how to articulate your…
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Navigating vulnerability, especially in marriage, can be daunting. We tackle this head-on by discussing real-life examples and drawing wisdom from Dr. Brené Brown's powerful insights. Have you ever struggled with showing your true self due to past traumas or rejections? You're not alone. We highlight the fine line between being too open and too gua…
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What truly makes two people compatible for marriage? Is it shared cultural backgrounds, similar financial statuses, or something deeper? Join us today as we navigate the nuanced world of marital compatibility. Drawing from Islamic teachings and personal anecdotes, we expose the limitations of traditional views on compatibility and spotlight the ess…
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In this episode we delve into the transformative power of rejection, and how it refines our goals and fortifies our inner strength. It's in these very moments of setback that we can deepen our spiritual connection and learn to strike that delicate balance between determined effort and surrendering trust. This episode is not just a recount of the st…
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When we tied the knot we promised to uphold each other's passion, whether love for live theater or dedication to a simplistic lifestyle. But before saying 'I do,' we had candid conversations about our non-negotiables, the deal breakers that could make or break our future together. But this episode isn't just about our story; it's a compass for anyo…
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Have you ever caught yourself dreaming of a spouse who's stepped straight out of a Hollywood romance, complete with a six-figure salary and a six-pack to match? Well, let's just say, you're not alone! Join your matchmaking duo, as we take a stroll down memory lane revisiting our own once-upon-a-time wish lists and the sometimes outrageous expectati…
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Today we unveil the secrets of asking the right questions to find your soulmate. Stripping away the veil of superficiality, we're welcoming you to a conversation that's essential in the quest for a life partner—especially when the traditional dating path isn't an option. Join us as we explore how to create meaningful connections with potential part…
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Have you ever found yourself at the intersection of faith and the search for love, wrestling with the modern concept of dating within the bounds of Islamic tradition? That's the crux of our heart-to-heart discussion. Today we venture into the delicate topic of halal dating in the Western world. Our latest podcast episode dives into this provocative…
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Navigating the complex waters of matchmaking can be a daunting task, especially when trying to honor the traditions and expectations of Muslim parents. In this episode we open up about our personal journeys, providing a candid look at how we managed parental involvement while seeking that special someone. From not keeping my (Hiba's) parents inform…
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Have you ever found yourself whispering about divorce, only to realize it deserves a much louder conversation? Join us as we cast aside the hushed tones and bring this pivotal topic to the forefront. With candid conversations from our matchmaker diaries, we dissect the often misunderstood realities of divorce within the Muslim community. Whether it…
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Ever navigated the complex seas of matchmaking within the Muslim community? Join us as we recount our trials and tribulations, facing a tide of unresponsiveness and the occasional storm of unprofessionalism. We're on a mission to connect hearts while grappling with the silence from clients, parents, masjids, and MSAs alike. Hear our stories of pers…
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Are financial benchmarks, like a six-figure salary or owning a home, genuinely prerequisites for a blissful Muslim marriage? Join us as we tackle the tough questions surrounding the intersection of finance, cultural expectations, and Islamic marriage requirements. In this episode, we peel back the layers on why many Muslim men feel pressured to mee…
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Discover the hidden obstacles that single Muslims encounter in their journey toward marriage. As your matchmaker duo peels back the layers on a pressing issue within our community—the pervasive passivity in seeking a spouse, especially among Muslim women. Why do many delay tying the knot, choosing instead to prioritize education and career? Is cult…
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Why does "NO" seem to be the reflex response for so many singles in the Muslim matchmaking scene, even when a compatible match is staring them in the face? As Hiba and I, Zaid, navigate through the intricate dance of finding a life partner, we can't help but notice a perplexing trend. We're sharing some personal stories and shedding light on why th…
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Embark on an intimate odyssey with us, Hiba and Zaid, as we recount the emotional voyage that not only led to the union of our hearts but also the birth of our shared vocation as matchmakers. Our story weaves through the labyrinth of seeking love within the Muslim community, where faith, patience, and a sprinkle of digital-age trials come to life. …
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Embark on a cultural odyssey with hosts Hiba and Zaid as we unravel the tapestry of matchmaking, an art form as ancient as time itself. Picture the scene: the 'khattaba' weaving the intricate social threads in an Arab community, or a 'rishta auntie' in Desi culture deftly navigating the complexities of marriage proposals. Our journey takes us beyon…
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Have you ever felt like the journey to finding a spouse in Muslim communities is more like navigating a maze with blindfolds on? As your matchmakers on the airwaves, Hiba and Zaid, we tackle the sensitive topic of gender segregation and its impact on marriage in the Muslim world. Our episode peels back layers of tradition to revisit the dynamic int…
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