How to Attract the Right Partner? w/ Lama Aboubakr

Diary of a Matchmaker

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In this episode, we’re diving into the world of halal courting with the incredible Lama Aboubakr, a relationship coach who specializes in helping Muslims attract the right person they truly deserve. Let’s face it—sometimes, past experiences and old patterns can hold us back from finding the fulfilling relationship we long for. But Lama’s here to show us how to break free from those cycles and shift our mindset.

Lama shares powerful insights on building self-awareness, understanding attachment styles, and improving communication—all crucial steps in attracting the right partner. Her approach helps you work on yourself, so you can become the kind of person who not only deserves a great relationship but is ready to build one too.

Tune in to discover how to approach the search for a spouse with confidence, patience, and clarity, knowing that when you do the inner work, the right person will come your way.

Check out Lama's website here and follow her on Instagram here.

Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻
https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker

Chapters

1. Introduction (00:00:00)

2. Meet Our Guest: Lama Abu Bakr (00:10:00)

3. Self (00:25:00)

4. Navigating Desperation and Communication in Relationships (00:40:00)

5. The Role of Coaching in Finding Love (00:55:00)

6. Conclusion and Final Thoughts (01:15:00)

61 episodes

How to Attract the Right Partner? w/ Lama Aboubakr

Diary of a Matchmaker

published about a year ago

MP3•Episode home

Tune in to discover how to approach the search for a spouse with confidence, patience, and clarity, knowing that when you do the inner work, the right person will come your way.

Check out Lama's website here and follow her on Instagram here.

Chapters

1. Introduction (00:00:00)

2. Meet Our Guest: Lama Abu Bakr (00:10:00)

3. Self (00:25:00)

4. Navigating Desperation and Communication in Relationships (00:40:00)

5. The Role of Coaching in Finding Love (00:55:00)

6. Conclusion and Final Thoughts (01:15:00)

61 episodes

#Islamic #Society #Relationship #Religion #Conversations #Halal Match #Muslim Matrimonial #Matchmaker #Muslim #Muslim Marriage #Muslim Love #Muslims In The West #Single Muslim #Halal

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Financial Habits Every Single Should Know w/ Jesse Reitberger 55:28

7 days ago55:28

55:28

Money talks before marriage don’t have to be cringey, they’re actually a must. We brought in Jesse Reitberger, an Islamic finance expert and founder of Canadian Islamic Wealth, to break down why it’s not about the salary number, but how that money’s made. Spoiler: halal income beats a fat paycheck every time. Jesse drops gems like the $10K question, halal mortgage hacks, and why men need to own their provider role while recognizing the reality of dual incomes today. Plus, his top tip? Start saving now, even $25 a month can seriously change the game. Whether you’re single, engaged, or just curious, this episode is packed with straight talk and smart advice. Get in touch with Jesse at: https://manzil.ca/wealth jesse@manzilwealth.ca Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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The Productivity Shift Every Single Needs w/ Mohammed Faris 53:17

14 days ago53:17

53:17

🚨 Heads up: If you only listen to one episode of this podcast, make it this one. We’re obsessed. What if preparing for marriage wasn’t about ticking more boxes, but about aligning your effort with purpose, intention, and barakah? We sat down with Muhammed Faris, founder of Productive Muslim, and the conversation honestly blew us away. He unpacks what productivity actually means for single Muslims, and it’s not what you think. We talk about shifting from hustle to heart. From scarcity to trust. From doing more to doing it better, with Allah in mind. Faris shares practical tools and deep mindset shifts that can completely change how you approach your search for a spouse. It’s grounding, insightful, and exactly what we needed to hear, and we have a feeling you might feel the same. Follow The Productive Muslim on Instagram . Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Forget Small Talk: Try This Instead! 35:24

18 days ago35:24

35:24

Let’s be honest, courting can feel like a weird mix of awkward silences and overly intense “So, where do you see yourself in five years?” vibes. Today, we're sharing a better way: playful, thought-provoking activities designed to spark real connection without killing the vibe. These aren’t your typical icebreakers. One minute you’re ranking your top values, the next you’re arguing (respectfully!) over whether a $3,000 mattress is worth the splurge. And in the process, you’re learning how someone thinks, what they prioritize, and how they deal with pressure or disagreement. The best part? You might learn a few things about yourself too. Because compatibility isn’t just about knowing the other person, it’s also about understanding what matters to you. So if you’re navigating the courting world and want less awkwardness, more depth, and maybe a few laughs along the way, this episode’s for you. Curious to try these games yourself? The Compatibility Challenge lives here: Amazon or halalmatch.ca . Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Ghosting: The Breakup You Never Saw Coming 27:25

28 days ago27:25

27:25

Ghosting sucks, especially when you’re serious about marriage. You start overthinking: Did I say something wrong? Is it my looks? But usually, it’s not about you. In this episode we get real about ghosting, from both sides. Zaid admits he once micro-ghosted because he couldn’t be honest, while Hiba shares the pain of being left hanging. We break down why ghosting happens so much in Muslim courting, why silence feels “easier,” and what Islam says about honest communication. Been ghosted or done the ghosting? This episode’s for you. Share your story on the Single Muslim Hotline! Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Istikhara Myths That Need To Go 32:14

5 weeks ago32:14

32:14

You made istikhara... now you're just confused, dreamless, and wondering what’s next. Sound familiar? If you're in the marriage search scene, you've probably bumped into the mysterious world of istikhara, or worse, been "istikhara’d" (aka ghosted with a religious excuse). Today we’re breaking down what istikhara is really about: seeking goodness from Allah, not outsourcing your decisions. We’re busting myths and sharing real stories from our matchmaking experiences where istikhara was misused as an emotional escape hatch. Whether you're about to say yes to a proposal or just curious, this episode will help you make decisions with your heart, mind, and faith aligned. Plus we have a funny blooper for you to enjoy! Got an istikhara ghosting story? Drop us a voice message! Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Can a Father’s Wilayah Be Taken Away? 28:14

6 weeks ago28:14

28:14

What do you do when your dad turns into a one-man dating app filter… and swipes left on everyone ? In this episode we’re talking about something major: when your father’s wilayah (guardianship) can actually be removed. Yep, it’s a thing, and it’s not taken lightly. We’re diving into real stories, like the woman who aged out of her prime while her parents waited for Mr. Perfect Ethnic Match, and another whose mom basically ran the rejection department. We break down what wilayah is really supposed to be, how it's misused, and what to do if you're stuck in a no-win situation. Hit download if you’ve ever wondered: Is this protection… or control? And send this to a friend who's been “almost married” 17 times. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Misyar Marriage: A Loophole or a Lifeline? 32:59

7 weeks ago32:59

32:59

Misyar marriage—halal but hotly debated. In this episode, we break down what it actually is, why some people turn to it, and why scholars aren’t exactly cheering it on. Think: waived rights, complicated intentions, and a whole lot of ethical gray area. We cover everything from divorced moms looking for companionship to men using it as a loophole—and why that’s a problem. With shifting gender roles and evolving needs, Misyar is becoming more common, but is it the right move? We get into the real talk: when it works, when it hurts, and what to know before diving in. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Married My Professor: A Love Story From Jordan 35:39

8 weeks ago35:39

35:39

What happens when a student catches feelings... for her professor? And what if he feels the same but can't say a word until the semester ends? This isn't your average love story. It’s a journey shaped by quiet moments, bold choices, and some family drama that challenged what they thought love would look like. Now 25 years in, they're sharing how it all started and what kept them going. This episode is for every Muslim single who still believes in love. Don’t miss it. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Polygamy: Is It Worth The Drama? 26:47

9 weeks ago26:47

26:47

"I wish she gave me more attention.. Why do I have to beg for intimacy?.. Maybe I should consider a second wife!" Today we're unpacking a trend we’re seeing more often: men considering polygamy, and women actually open to it. While polygamy is part of our faith, it’s not a free pass for avoiding deeper issues in a marriage. We also talk about the practical side: the legal messiness of polygamy in the West (it’s actually criminal in Canada), the emotional toll on everyone involved, and why it’s not always the solution people think it is. This episode isn’t here to judge, but to offer a real talk on what’s halal, what’s practical, and what might need more therapy than a second nikah. Give it a listen. You might come out with more questions than answers (and that’s kind of the point). Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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How to Attract the Right Partner? w/ Lama Aboubakr 43:43

10 weeks ago43:43

43:43

In this episode, we’re diving into the world of halal courting with the incredible Lama Aboubakr, a relationship coach who specializes in helping Muslims attract the right person they truly deserve. Let’s face it—sometimes, past experiences and old patterns can hold us back from finding the fulfilling relationship we long for. But Lama’s here to show us how to break free from those cycles and shift our mindset. Lama shares powerful insights on building self-awareness, understanding attachment styles, and improving communication—all crucial steps in attracting the right partner. Her approach helps you work on yourself, so you can become the kind of person who not only deserves a great relationship but is ready to build one too. Tune in to discover how to approach the search for a spouse with confidence, patience, and clarity, knowing that when you do the inner work, the right person will come your way. Check out Lama's website here and follow her on Instagram here . Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Hulu's "Muslim Matchmaker": How Islamic Is It? 45:50

15 weeks ago45:50

45:50

"Muslim Matchmaker" is making waves, and we’re diving deep into it. In this episode, we break down whether the show hits or misses when it comes to Islamic courtship. Does it reflect our values, or are there some glaring mismatches? We chat about the show's ideas and how it stacks up against other matchmaking shows. Does the flashy aesthetic add anything meaningful, or is it just for the 'gram? Our conversation goes beyond just the drama. It’s about the principles that should drive real connections, grounded in faith. We want to spark some reflection and critical thinking on how these portrayals shape the way we view relationships and the Muslim community. Trust us, you won’t want to miss this one! We'd love to hear your opinion on the show, even if you disagree. Feel free to leave a comment or send an email. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Marriage After Divorce: How To Avoid Past Mistakes w/ Sarah Sultan 54:53

16 weeks ago54:53

54:53

Starting over after a breakup or divorce? We know it’s not easy, but you’re not alone. In this episode, we sit down with therapist Sarah Sultan to talk about what it really takes to heal, grow, and move forward with confidence. We discuss how to recognize red flags you might have missed the first time around and how to rebuild your self-worth so you’re not carrying past baggage into something new. We also cover the importance of finding clarity on what you need in a spouse, and why you should focus on becoming whole before looking for someone to complete you. If you’re ready to stop feeling stuck and start seeing this as a fresh beginning, this episode is for you. Follow Sarah on Instagram , or email her directly at: therapy@sarahsultan.com Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Muslim Dating Apps: What No One Tells You 19:51

17 weeks ago19:51

19:51

If you’ve ever downloaded a Muslim 'dating' app full of hope, only to find yourself drowning in awkward chats, ghosting, and people who don’t seem to know why they’re there… we get it. It’s exhausting. In this episode, we’re talking about the real struggles of apps; the disappointments, the confusion, and the moments that make you want to delete them forever. We’re also sharing tips on how to navigate them in a way that actually moves you forward. Because if you’re going to put yourself out there, you deserve to do it in a way that protects your mind, your heart, and your intentions. Tune in and bismillah. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Is Social Media Ruining Our Marriage Expectations? 27:03

18 weeks ago27:03

27:03

Today we're spilling the tea on how social media is turning our brains into mush when it comes to marriage expectations. From scrolling through picture-perfect weddings to comparing our own love lives to influencer highlight reels. We’ve all been there, feeling FOMO because your friend’s husband just bought her a Ferrari, while you’re getting excited about a new couch. Whether you’re married or still in the "single and scrolling" phase, we get into how social media makes us rush into things or feel like our lives just aren’t up to par. So, if you’ve ever wondered why your marriage doesn’t look like an Instagram post or felt like you’re missing out on a hashtag-worthy moment, tune in! It’s time to laugh, reflect, and hopefully put the phone down for a second. Roadmap To Marriage Workshop - Free Sign Up Here Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Money Talk: I Earn, He Pays 30:02

19 weeks ago30:02

30:02

In this episode, we’re diving into the classic “I have a career, but I’m not paying for anything” dilemma. You know, the one where women are out here making bank, but somehow, it’s still all on the man to cover the bills. We’re keeping it real and exploring the balance (or lack thereof) between having a career and contributing to the household financially. We’re not here to judge. Just a little honest chat with a side of humor to keep things light. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Shaking Up Muslim Views on Sex and Pleasure w/ Sh. Habeeb Akande 2:03:41

20 weeks ago2:03:41

2:03:41

In this episode, we’re joined by Habeeb Akande, a sex educator and Muslim erotologist, to challenge outdated views on intimacy in Islam. He’s here to remind us of the true Islamic teachings on relationships. Think consent, mutual respect, and yes, female pleasure, and how cultural norms and misinformation have twisted our understanding of intimacy. We also dive into how to read religious teachings the right way, without getting stuck in outdated, stuffy views. Plus, we tackle real-life topics like STIs and porn addiction. Tune in for a fresh take on sex and pleasure. Habeeb is the founder of Erotology Institute For Sacred Pleasur and the author of many books. Find him on his website , on Amazon , and on Instagram Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Marriage Leadership: What Men Get Wrong 16:59

21 weeks ago16:59

16:59

What does it mean to lead in a marriage? For men, it’s not about being bossy; it’s about responsibility, humility, and knowing when to step up. For women, it’s about recognizing those qualities before you commit. In this episode, we explore the Prophet's leadership in his family and how it sets the gold standard for modern Muslim marriages. We’ll talk about what real leadership looks like, beyond the big speeches and fancy words, and how it’s built on trust, communication, and action. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Marriage Material: Do You Make the Cut? 15:14

22 weeks ago15:14

15:14

In this episode, we dive into the awkward, and sometimes painful journey of figuring that out. From emotional maturity to basic life skills (yes, knowing how to cook counts), we’re keeping it real and relatable. Spoiler: If you think ‘romantic’ means sending memes at 2 a.m., you might want to tune in. We’re sharing stories, tips, and a few laughs to help you level up for the marriage game. Let’s find out if you’re ready to say ‘I do’—or if you need a little more practice folding laundry first! Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Is Your Past Stealing Your Future Marriage? w/ Hana Alasry 46:53

23 weeks ago46:53

46:53

In this episode, we dive into the impact of trauma on single Muslims, especially how past experiences shape relationships. A trauma-informed coach joins us; Hana Alasry who shares insights on the importance of hope in healing and how the Prophet (PBUH) navigated immense personal loss with resilience, trusting in Allah’s Qadr. We also discuss how small triggers can lead to emotional breakdowns and the need to reach out for help, even with the cultural stigma around it. This conversation is a powerful reminder that healing is not only possible but essential, and with faith, even the deepest wounds can transform into strength. Follow Hana Alasry on her: Website , Instagram , and YouTube channel . Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Qadr vs. Cupid: Who's Really in Charge? 17:04

24 weeks ago17:04

17:04

In this episode, we dive into the concept of soulmates; are they just a rom-com myth, or is there something deeper? We explore the idea from an Islamic perspective, discuss the role of qadr (divine decree), and unpack why "waiting for Mr./Mrs. Perfect" might be holding you back. Spoiler alert: marriage isn't the end of the story. Join us for a fun, insightful chat that might just change the way you see "happily ever after." Brought to you by your favorite matchmakers; Hiba and Zaid with opinions on everything, including Robert Downey Jr.’s early movies. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Lessons From The Only Proposal In The Quran 21:38

25 weeks ago21:38

21:38

In this episode, we dive into the Quran’s only detailed proposal story—Prophet Musa (AS) and his journey from being a refugee to finding a wife. It’s a story filled with timeless lessons about character, divine timing, and how a simple act of kindness (like watering sheep!) can change your life. We loved reflecting on how this story connects to what we see in matchmaking today. Whether you’re single, married, or just curious, we break it all down with warmth and a light touch. After all, who doesn’t love a story that feels both ancient and surprisingly relatable? Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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When Muslims Shame Muslims: The Real Barrier to Marriage 19:05

26 weeks ago19:05

19:05

This week we confront the notorious Haram Police ! 🚔 From awkward aunties and clapping controversies to MSAs that outdo Islamic rulings themselves, we share our personal run-ins with this self-appointed moral authority. 🎻 Spoiler: classical music, theater, and even holding hands while married aren’t safe from judgment. We discuss how culture complicates the marriage process and why Islam’s simplicity often gets lost in translation. So, ever been “ticketed” by the Haram Police? Drop your stories in the comments. No fines, we promise! Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Behind the Scenes: How We Turn Profiles Into Matches 23:30

27 weeks ago23:30

23:30

In this episode, we take you behind the scenes of our matchmaking process, revealing the immense effort and dedication we pour into finding meaningful, compatible matches for single Muslims. From in-depth discovery calls and personalized assessments to carefully planned double dates, we share how our hands-on, halal approach goes above and beyond to help our clients on their journey to marriage. Ready to take that first step? Visit our website to learn more: https://halalmatch.ca/ Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Emotional Intelligence Decoded w/ Imam Navaid Aziz 35:07

28 weeks ago35:07

35:07

Unlock the secrets of forming successful relationships as we bring you an exciting conversation with the esteemed Imam Navaid Aziz. Together, we explore the intricate dynamics of emotional intelligence in relationship matching. This episode promises to provide valuable insights into recognizing emotional intelligence in a potential spouse, a key determinant in nurturing loving connections. Follow Imam Navaid on YouTube and Instagram Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Status Over Substance: The Dark Side of Biodatas 24:30

29 weeks ago24:30

24:30

What if a simple piece of paper could dictate the course of your life's most personal decision? Today we unravel the world of Biodatas, questioning whether this 'marriage resume' truly captures the essence of a person or merely reflects outdated societal norms. From personal stories of arranged marriage proposals to the cultural expectations that surround them, we shed light on the double standards and frustrations that come with being judged by family prestige and hierarchical status. If you have a story to share, we'd love to have you on the podcast. Send us an email with a summary of your story at: info@halalmatch.ca Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Lessons From Twenty Years Of Searching w/ Nida K. 39:20

30 weeks ago39:20

39:20

In this episode, we join you on the listening side, as Nida K. shares her twenty-year journey searching for marriage. She opens up about the challenges she faced, the lessons she learned, and her hopes for the future. If you're someone on the journey to marriage, this episode will relate to you in one way or another. If you have a story to share, we'd love to have you on the podcast. Send us an email with a summary of your story at: info@halalmatch.ca Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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The Illusion Of Options 15:21

31 weeks ago15:21

15:21

Why are so many single Muslims still struggling to find a match despite an ocean of options? Using relatable analogies and personal experiences, we explore why having a plethora of matrimonial avenues doesn’t necessarily make the quest for a partner any easier. Is it a lack of awareness? Misunderstanding how to leverage these resources? We untangle these questions and more. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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The Man Who Got Us Married w/ Baba Ali 44:46

32 weeks ago44:46

44:46

Join us as we welcome Baba Ali, the man who got us married and the founder of Half Our Deen, a platform revolutionizing matchmaking for Muslims. Baba Ali shares his entertaining and insightful journey, challenging societal norms and debunking the stigma around online matrimonial services. With a mix of humor and wisdom, we explore how finding love isn't always about that first glance, but rather about choosing with intention and expert advice to cultivate successful marriages. Our conversation takes a thoughtful turn as we examine the intricate gender roles and responsibilities within modern marriages. Want to learn more about Half Our Deen? click here and here . And make sure to follow Baba Ali on Instagram Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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We Didn't Expect This When We Started 20:16

33 weeks ago20:16

20:16

Things we didn't expect when we decided to become matchmakers. Which one surprised you the most? Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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How To Choose The Right Husband? w/ Zahra Hasan 48:32

34 weeks ago48:32

48:32

Zahra Hassan, a seasoned relationship coach with a transformative personal journey, shares her insights on building fulfilling marriages. After navigating the complexities of her divorce and remarriage, Zahra reveals the essential ingredients for choosing the right partner. Join us on this truly inspirational and informative episode to learn how to: identify the 4Cs, use rejections to your advantage, identify red flags, and understand subtle cues. A podcaster herself, Zahra and her funny husband AJ dive deep into the topic of relationships and marriage on her podcast. Follow the Muslim Marriage Podcast on YouTube and the different podcasting platforms. For quick tips and advice you can follow Zahra on Instagram . Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Should You Marry From Back Home? 16:19

35 weeks ago16:19

16:19

In this episode we navigate the challenges of marrying someone from one’s home country, discussing the stigma and drawbacks, such as long-distance hurdles and the intricacies of the immigration processes. We stress the importance of self-awareness and assessing one's cultural connections when contemplating such a significant life decision. With an emphasis on keeping an open mind, we explore the pros and cons of this viable option. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Let's Talk Sex Education w/ Amirah Zaky 45:49

36 weeks ago45:49

45:49

Prepare to revolutionize your understanding of intimacy in marriage with insights from Amirah Zaky, a faith-aligned sex educator and vaginismus expert. Amirah shares her personal struggles, shedding light on the significant gaps in sex education within the Muslim community. Through her journey, she highlights the vital importance of educating couples to prevent marital discord and divorce, dispelling harmful misconceptions and cultural myths that have no basis in Islam. In our conversation, Amirah recommends invaluable resources to support Muslims, both before and during marriage. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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What's Love Got To Do With It? 14:27

37 weeks ago14:27

14:27

Starting with the etymology of the word "Allah" and its intrinsic connection to love in Arabic, this episode delves into whether pre-marital love is acceptable and how it aligns with our deen. We'll navigate through common concerns, offering practical advice for those in love but not financially ready for marriage. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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I Wish I Could Say This To My Clients 14:53

38 weeks ago14:53

14:53

Things we wish we could say to our clients, but find ourselves bound by the lines of courtesy and professionalism. This episode might sound like nothing but insensitive ranting but we promise you it's not. Listen to the end to understand why we decided to make this risky move and share what we had to share. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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We Didn't Have Chemistry But.. 14:44

39 weeks ago14:44

14:44

Our story started with no fireworks but blossomed into a deep connection built on shared values and mutual understanding. Discover how we went from "this is a waste of time" to finding joy in our similarities, and learn why patience and realistic expectations might just be the key to your next great relationship. Today we challenge the common misconception that chemistry has to be immediate. With insights from psychologist Dr. Kelly Campbell, we explore the scientific roles of dopamine and oxytocin in attraction and bonding. We discuss how chemistry can grow over time. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Early Nikah: Practicality vs. Stigma 16:21

40 weeks ago16:21

16:21

Today we share the heartwarming story of one of our quickest matches, now happily engaged but facing family resistance to an early nikah. This couple's story sheds light on the broader challenges many face when trying to harmonize tradition with faith. From the struggle to maintain formal interactions to the family fears surrounding early nikahs, we uncover the emotional and practical implications of delaying this essential Islamic ceremony. We discuss the possible stigmas around pre-wedding pregnancies and how these perceptions, although addressed within Islamic guidelines, continue to influence family decisions. Tune in to gain valuable insights into how to navigate these cultural pressures while staying true to your faith. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Why You Should Start Your Search Early 15:32

41 weeks ago15:32

15:32

In this episode we tackle the evolving dynamics around marriage timing within the Muslim community. We share candid reflections on how cultural expectations and economic pressures are pushing many to delay marriage. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Should You Consider an Interracial Marriage? 20:36

42 weeks ago20:36

20:36

Is food compatibility a dealbreaker in your relationship? It certainly wasn't for us! Join us as we open up about our interracial marriage story. From navigating the intricate cultural differences to language challenges, our relationship proves that shared values and goals can triumph over any cultural barriers. We also unravel the broader hesitations that linger within the Muslim community regarding interracial marriages, and how a harmonious blend of Western and Islamic cultures can create a unique and fulfilling identity. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Should You Consider a Long Distance Relationship? 15:00

43 weeks ago15:00

15:00

What if the love of your life is halfway across the world—would you still give it a shot? Join us as we unravel the complexities of long-distance relationships, sharing our 14-month LDR story. We tackle the common fears and misconceptions that often hold people back from pursuing such partnerships. From the anxiety of moving away from family to the perceived risks involved, we challenge the notion that physical proximity is a make-or-break factor for successful relationships. Tune in to hear how successful relationships can flourish despite geographical hurdles, and why your soulmate might just be a plane ride away. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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This Was My Mahr 17:22

44 weeks ago17:22

17:22

Have you ever wondered why the concept of mahr is often misunderstood or misrepresented? Join us on this episode as we share the unique mahr request that marked the beginning of our marriage. We contrast our experience with the sky-high mahr demands common in various cultures that often overshadow the true purpose of mahr. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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He Asked For A Second Wife... Big Mistake! 15:11

45 weeks ago15:11

15:11

What happens when a seemingly harmless joke about seeking a second wife turns into a heated confrontation? Hear the firsthand account of a memorable encounter at a festival in London, where a husband's tasteless sense of humor sparked a family dispute. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Parents: Dictators Or Overprotectors? 22:28

46 weeks ago22:28

22:28

If you're a parent with a son/daughter at the age of marriage, then this episode is for you. In this one we explore the complex dynamics between parental approval and the matchmaking journey, sharing personal stories and client experiences. Tune in for invaluable advice to parents on upholding their child's happiness and rights, grounded in faith and love. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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How To Make Your Profile Stand Out 26:23

47 weeks ago26:23

26:23

What if the key to finding your perfect match on matrimonial websites lies in the way you present yourself? In this episode we uncover the art and science behind creating a compelling matrimonial profile. We break down the essential elements of authenticity and how presenting your true self can attract the right people. Learn how to articulate your strengths while maintaining a genuine and relatable profile. This episode is packed with actionable tips to ensure your profile stands out and truly reflects who you are and what you bring to a relationship. Ready to take your profile to the next level? Tune in and make sure to take notes. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Hiba's Five Mistakes 16:49

48 weeks ago16:49

16:49

Today I, Hiba, open up and share what I haven't shared with anyone about my journey searching for marriage. The mistakes I made taught me a lot about myself and about the world. And despite how challenging it was, they brought me closer to finding my true love, Zaid. Got a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! We’ll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note 👇🏻 https://www.speakpipe.com/DiaryOfAMatchmaker…

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Zaid's Five Mistakes 17:55

49 weeks ago17:55