In this episode we are finishing up the deaths of both of Shelly's parents. Morbid? A little bit. This is part 2 of Shelly's Dad's Funeral. It's kind of surreal that my mom and dad are both gone. Life is...well, surreal. Enjoy!By Square Toe Productions

In this episode, Shelly has to deal with yet ANOTHER Mormon funeral. That makes 3 in about 6 months. She's earned the title of Grim Reaper at this point. Too soon? Eh, sorry. ANYWAY, this is part 1 of 2 of her Dad's funeral. Also, welcome special guest-host Jen, a fellow ex-mo-later-in-life lesbian, as we talk and laugh our way through part 1 of Sh…

Remember in the last episode when Shelly and Austin were discussing Austin's soon-to-be new dick? Well, this is part two. Enjoy!By Square Toe Productions

In this episode, our good friend Austin Arrowwood is only a few days away from his gender-affirming surgery. You will learn that despite what your ultra-conservative family might tell you, you can't just walk into a clinic, tell them you feel like a boy, and they will staple your new dick on before lunchtime. Lots to learn. Enjoy!…

In this episode, Shelly's dad dies. Not literally on the show (that would have been super-weird) but just a few days before this episode was recorded. Plus, Shelly and guest co-host Kirsten get extremely sidetracked with a conversation about karaoke. Also, you will learn about Shelly's brother's magical priesthood ability to "release" dead people f…

More Mormon funeral discussion? Hell yeah. In today’s episode, guest host Kirsten Morgan helps Shelly unpack the rest of her mom’s funeral, and there’s plenty of it. As an added bonus, you will get to hear Shelly’s talk that she gave from the pulpit, in a Mormon chapel, in front of hundreds of Mormons. Did she announce that she is gay? Of course sh…

Hello Friends! In today’s episode, Shelly talks with Kimberly Anderson about the death of her mom and her trip to Utah for the very Mormon funeral. If you’ve ever been to a Mormon funeral as an ExMormon, you know there’s gonna be a lot to unpack here. This is part 1 of 2. That’s how much there is to unpack. Music provided by Purple Planet: https//:…

Please welcome Chris Davis, author of "Worthy: The Memoir of an Ex-Mormon Lesbian." Chris spoke to us candidly about her experience growing up Mormon, her struggles with marriage and children, and a 17-year crisis that culminated in a huge turning point that led to a brand-new chapter in her life. Her book can be found on Amazon or at chrisdavispro…

Hi friends, today's episode was extremely difficult and emotional to record. We hope you'll listen with an open heart and mind as Shelly and I embark upon the next adventure of our podcast and our lives. We also want to thank T and Ophelia, current members of the LDS church, for bravely sending in their letters. We appreciate everyone's participati…

Please join us for the conclusion of our 2-part interview with Briell Decker, the inspiring cult survivor of the FLDS church. Her 3-part documentary series, Prisoner of the Prophet, is available on Discovery + or Max on Prime Video Channels. Check out Briell Decker’s personal page: https://www.brielldecker.com, where you can sign up for Briell’s up…

Please join us for part 1 of our fascinating, two-part interview with the amazingly brave, cult survivor of the FLDS church, Briell Decker. Her 3-part documentary series, Prisoner of the Prophet, is available on Discovery + or Max on Prime Video Channels. Music provided by Purple Planet: https://purple-planet.com.…

In this episode, Shelly decides it will be really fun to quiz Mary on some of mainstream religions' more wacky beliefs. Can you guess which answers she got right? Also, we read a listener letter, and get stuck on an odd discussion about foreskins. It happens. Music provided by Purple Planet: https://www.purple-planet.com.…

The title of this episode could probably have been a FUMPOTD. Perhaps we thought it was too obvious? Feel free to cue music in your head when we get to that part. And there's nothing like a "Shelly's Journal Journey" segment to make us feel inspired to take the covenant path...or perhaps to get us all to start thinking it's all fake? You decide! We…

In this year-end episode, we talk about those holiday tunes that should possibly be banned once and for all...or maybe a few of the examples are a stretch? Give a listen and decide for yourself. Also, Shelly discusses her recent trip to Utah, and there's even a surprise FUMPOTD at the end! We want to give special thanks to all of our Patreon and Su…

In today's episode, Shelly reads once again from her oh-so-riveting, circa 1990s journal, which sparks an impromptu FUMPOTD. Such a fun surprise that Mary can't begin to sort out, per usual. We also read a letter from a very special friend of the podcast. We'd like to thank our sponsor, Modest Mix Teas, and their Wake the Fuck Up blend. Head over t…

Today we're talking about banned LGBTQ books. The most common are listed below, along with a link to save the Patmos Library in Jamestown Township, outside of Grand Rapids, Michigan. We also want to give a shout-out to our sponsor, Modest Mix Teas, whose main ingredient is a well placed f-bomb. Check them out at www.modestmix.com, and enter latterd…

In today's episode we're reading from two LDS-authored books: "Mormons & Homosexuality" and "Encouraging Heterosexuality." We're super stoked to debunk both of them. We also want to give a shout-out to our sponsor, Modest Mix Teas, who lovingly provided the delicious and subversive tea blends that delight our senses and encourage our unapologetic l…

Hey friends, Mary and Kirsten take the reins on this Latter-Day Lesbian and Queer Life Crisis Simulcast. We share some initial reactions to Under the Banner of Heaven, and manage to keep the spoilers to a minimum. Also, we're taking a bit of a break from podcasting, so we hope all of you have an amazing summer and we'll talk to you again in the fal…

Hey friends, Mary and Kirsten take the reins on this Latter-Day Lesbian and Queer Life Crisis Simulcast. We share some initial reactions to Under the Banner of Heaven, and manage to keep the spoilers to a minimum. Also, we're taking a bit of a break from podcasting, so we hope all of you have an amazing summer and we'll talk to you again in the fal…

Please join us today for a fantastic conversation with Rev. Dr. Angela Yarber. Her new book, Queering the American Dream is available now on Amazon or at your local bookstore. You can also purchase a copy at Angela's foundation: the Tehom Center, which provides a space to learn about and celebrate the lives of revolutionary women and goddesses. Ang…

Today, Kirsten and I welcome Annie Krabbenschmidt, author of Fred: An unbecoming woman. What an amazing journey Annie has already been on, and we get to read all about it. The book also features fun drawings and QR codes that link to a musical playlist that goes along with the story! Pick up your copy at www.bookshop.org, or simply copy and paste t…

Did you ever play that Hasbro board game with the cute little cars and the little pegs? Or wait...did you play the Mormon version?? That fun game where young adults are put to the test as they try to guess what the "right" decision is, and then get to experience copious amounts of guilt and shame and also fake punishments if they guess incorrectly?…

Hey friends, Jugs McGoogle pays us a visit later in today's episode. Also, we discuss tickling, poking and ear licking, among other things. Consent, please! Should Robert bring his non-binary partner to his nephew's wedding? Should Rachel explore her bisexual side? Let us know what you think! Feel free to send us a question or response to: queerlif…

Today's episode features a super fun interview with Melissa and Tanya from Apostate Coffee. We get to hear their story; how they met and got started in the coffee biz. There's also an impromptu FUMPOTD, a lesbian dating discussion, and later, a pretty random sex toy conversation. Please visit https://www.apostatecoffee.com, check out their deliciou…

Meet Lindsey Deaton: creator, artistic director, public servant, fierce transgender and LGBTQ+ youth advocate, and host of the new podcast called, "the TransVagina Dialogues" (available on your favorite podcast app). Lindsey, and her wife Joan, join us today. Joan wrote a book entitled, "Top 10 Trans Questions Answered." Links to Lindsey's personal…

On this episode, we have a fun chat about Heavenly Mother, A.K.A. "She Who Must Not Be Named." We also read a listener letter (TW: intense sexual themes), and Shelly regales us with a Utah tale. It's a good time. Music provided by Purple Planet: https://www.purple-planet.com.By Square Toe Productions

Since Shelly's away, Kirsten and Mary ask each other the questions this time — questions commonly asked of queer folks. Also, Jugs McGoogle, the lesbian world's favorite PI, is back on the case. And if you would like to send us a question or a queer topic for discussion, please email: queerlifepod@gmail.com or leave a voicemail at 202-495-0606. Mus…

TW: The subject of suicidal ideation is discussed along with self harm and strong sexual themes. Please listen responsibly. Please help us welcome Jen, from The ExMo Candle Co., to today's show. Jen bravely and generously shared with us her story of shame and abuse inflicted by the LDS church. She now funnels those experiences, and the resulting tr…

In today's episode we discuss the ongoing controversy at University Elementary School in Shreveport, Louisiana, surrounding Blaine Banghart, a beloved music teacher who is not allowed to be out as trans nonbinary. If you would like to contact the school to state your point of view, please cut and paste https://universityelementary.org/contact into …

Please join us for an amazing conversation with Dr. Amelia Nagoski, coauthor of Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle. To anyone feeling stuck or overwhelmed by obligation and stress, there is hope, and listening to this interview is a great place to start. Music provided by Purple Planet: https://www.purple-planet.com.…

In this episode, our food friend Austin joins us for a hard look at some anti-trans legislation in Texas and also Florida. If you'd like to contact Texas Governor Greg Abbott directly (and give him a piece of your mind), please copy and paste this link into a browser window: https://gov.texas.gov/contact. Also, please direct any questions or commen…

Diana joins us today for a retrospective on some aspects of her journey out of Mormonism. We also share some special sentiments from Brad Wilcox, the second counselor to the Young Men's general presidency, whatever that means. Oh, and Sister Fanny Fact-Check chimes in with some thoughts on that same subject. Please join us! Music provided by Purple…

This week we discover that Shelly isn't really up on current events (better luck next time, Shelly). Also, I don't recommend trying her meatloaf. Seriously, don't do it. And special thanks to Adam, Sheri and Alex for this episode's topics. If you would like to send us a question or a queer topic for discussion, please email: queerlifepod@gmail.com …

We are super excited to welcome ExMormon Mindy to the show today (or as she's known to her TikTok and Instagram fans: @exmormonmindy). In fact, please copy and paste this link into a browser to check out her smart, funny, and creative videos: https://www.tiktok.com/@exmormonmindy...or just head to TikTok and search for exmormonmindy. It's a good ti…

The topic this time is all about love and relationships. Oh, and our favorite private investigator, Jugs McGoogle, makes an appearance. If you would like to send in a question or topic for us to discuss, please drop an email to queerlifepod@gmail.com, or leave us a voice message at 202-495-0606. Music provided by Purple Planet: https://purple-plane…

Today, our friend Kirsten joins us for a deep dive into that horrifying LDS document from 1995 that instructed all of us on how to do families properly. And yes, of course there's only one correct way. Duh. Are you new? Anyway, this should be a fun li'l shirt show. Buckle up! Music provided by Purple Planet: https://www.purple-planet.com.…

In today's episode we contemplate whether or not this Q & A format is actually right for us...or if perhaps Shelly needs to have her meds adjusted. But seriously, please don't send hate mail - we're giving it our best. Regular mail, of the non-hate variety, can be directed to: queerlifepod@gmail.com. You can also leave us a voicemail at 202-495-060…

Today we interview Tyler Measom, cohost of the iHeart Radio podcast, "Was I In A Cult" - a documentary-style show that highlights individuals who have been in, and subsequently left various high-demand organizations. Tyler is also a documentary film maker responsible for well-known titles such as, "Sons of Perdition," "An Honest Liar," and "Murder …

Why the heck are we on a turkey baster kick? No clue. And how did we miss Elvira's big coming out announcement? These are a couple of the topics we're mulling over today. We also have some fantastic listener mail, and Kirsten decides to show up! Enjoy! And if you have a queerific question, comment or story you'd like to share, please contact us at …

Today's episode features a hilarious conversation with Jessica and Nikki Gerson-Neeves, the Canadian owners of 3 cats who have claimed the couple's new Vitamix blender as their own. This story has gained international interest! If you'd like to follow along on social media, please look up Temperamental Chucklefuck and Friends on Facebook. And if yo…

In today's episode we preview our brand-new pod: Queer Life Crisis: the stories, struggles and successes of the LGBTQ+ community (available on most podcast players). We also start out the new year right with a FUMPOTD to help kick off our first LDL broadcast of 2022. Happy new year, everybody! Music provided by Purple Planet: https://purple-planet.…

We're Mary and Shelly, cohosts of the successful, Latter-Day Lesbian podcast. However, in this show, we're ditching Mormonism to explore the everyday stories, struggles, and successes of the LGBTQ+ community. This is our very first episode! Next time we'll be joined by our friend, and fellow podcaster, the lovely and talented Kirsten...who didn't s…

This week we have a special holiday treat for everyone: Sister Fanny Fact-Check's Fabulous Fact-Checking Factacular! It's a best-of nearly three years in the making, which just proves that Mary is extremely excellent at holding onto past recordings. So yay for her, and yay for Sister Fanny and her infinite wisdom about a bunch of made up crap. We h…

This week, Kimberly joins Mary for a delightful conversation with 13-time Jeopardy champion, and counting, Amy Schneider. We want to thank Amy for her candor and willingness to be vulnerable, as she opens up about her struggles and successes on her path towards living an authentic life as a transgender woman. What a fantastic discussion. Please joi…

It's a grab bag o' holiday goodies in today's episode. We revisit a classic FUMPOTD, talk about gifts for all the Mormons on your list, and hear from Pirate God about the foretelling of a Messiah...or Joseph Smith...we can't be sure. Perhaps it's all fake? Enjoy! Music provided by Purple Planet: https://www.purple-planet.com.…

In today's episode we interview Caroline Boudreaux, the founder of Miracle Foundation, a non-profit dedicating to empowering orphans and vulnerable children worldwide to reach their full potential. What a great conversation about such an amazing cause! Find out how you can get involved at https://www.miraclefoundation.org. Music provided by Purple …

Just when we were starting to think it was all fake...we get to learn about even more fake people and places from that charming book of absolute made up bunk: the Book of Momo. We also read a letter from a listener who took the time to write in on fancy stationary. And there's a "He Said What" about conversion therapy that's worthy of a trigger war…

In this episode, we had the distinct privilege of interviewing the super talented, charming and hilarious New Zealand singer/songwriter, Pip Brown, a.k.a. Ladyhawke! Her new album, "Time Flies," just released and it is awesome! And seriously, what a fun conversation. You are gonna love this episode! Check out her tunes, videos, merch and more at he…

This week we had the privilege of interviewing Emily Nagoski, Ph.D., sex educator and author of the New York Times bestselling book, "Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life." This was such an important and informative conversation about the way we view sexual intimacy and our brains and bodies. Please join us!…

Once again we're talking about all those occasions that require us to go back to church as nonbelievers, such as for baby blessings, funerals, baptisms, weddings, etc. We also dust off the Mormon MadLib segment, and Mary quizzes Shelly on a FUMPOTD! Music provided by Purple Planet: https://www.purple-planet.com.…