Best Tomisin Podcasts (2024)

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Regretting Your Move and Going Back Home | Chiara from England 49:00

1M ago49:00

49:00

What happens when you move to a new country… and it doesn’t work out? You don’t find the happiness and success that you thought you would. You painfully miss everyone and everything that you left behind and feel like you’ve made a huge mistake. We’ve all gone through times of feeling this way, but it isn’t spoken about enough so you can end up feel…

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LIVE: Speed Immigration Stories | Toronto Newcomer Day - May 23 32:27

3M ago32:27

32:27

For this special episode, I’m LIVE on the ground at Toronto’s ‘Newcomer Day’ that took place on May 23. Armed with my portable microphone, I wore a t-shirt emblazoned with the words “TALK TO ME: Share your immigration story on the New to Canada podcast” and I was excited to connect with 11 internationals: Sophie from Ireland Johnny from Lebanon Sam…

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Marital Sex Isn’t Boring ft. William and Ayo Lawal 1:19:48

4M ago1:19:48

1:19:48

Welcome to another special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast! Today, Hausa Chocolate is joined by talented creatives, William and Ayo Lawal. Together they discuss marriage, infidelity, assumptions and misconceptions about monogamous marriages, Madonna-Whore Complex, sexual safety, contraceptives, keeping sex spicy and so much more. Themes: Lon…

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Are You D!ckmatized or Lost In The Sauce? Ft. Ed Gothboy 1:06:01

5M ago1:06:01

1:06:01

Welcome back to Spit or Swallow, where we dive deep into the juiciest topics around sex, relationships and intimacy. In this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by our favourite guest, amazing journalist, critic and Sex Sensei, Ed Gothboy. Join them as they delve into the concept of "dickmatization," explore the allure of having that unexplainable "…

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I Identify As A Form ft. Gozie 1:00:50

5M ago1:00:50

1:00:50

Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow! On this special episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by a gender non-conformist Gozie who is a model and creative powerhouse. They share their experience navigating being a minority in Nigeria, shed light on their journey and coming into their own identity while tackling the so…

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Trigger Warning ft. Aanu 42:03

4M ago42:03

42:03

Welcome back to Spit or Swallow Podcast! Joining your favourite host Hausa Chocolate today is Licensed Clinical Psychologist Aanu and they discuss trauma and sex. What trauma really means, how it manifests, cause and effect and what healing can look like. Aanu shares her insights on how inclusive therapy can be a game-changer in healing and growth,…

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Love And High Fenced Streets ft Amiola 50:18

5M ago50:18

50:18

What’s the difference between love and crack? Today on this special episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Dark Chocolate Amiola and they talk about our favourite chemical reaction in the brain, love. They examine the relationship between sex and love. From the complexities of developing strong emotional attachments to the delicate balance between d…

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Navigating Different Identities In A Heterosexual Marriage ft. Tolu 54:01

6M ago54:01

54:01

On the latest episode of Spit or Swallow your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by Tolu, a married, queer-identifying Nigerian. She shares her becoming story. They talk about her first pride event after moving, navigating queer sexual identities in a heterosexual marriage, discovering community abroad, how relocating changes how a person vi…

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Sex Education (The Lack Thereof) In Nigeria ft. Olori Coitus 1:06:53

5M ago1:06:53

1:06:53

In today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Olori Coitus, a brilliant Sex Educator, Intimacy Director and Public Health Expert. They unpack the exciting world of spreading accurate information on sex in Nigeria's sexually ‘repressed’ society. Olori Coitus shares how she got into Sexual Health, her journey so far, the road blocks she’s experienc…

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LIVE: Moving to Canada Party | Career + Social Life 1:04:23

6M ago1:04:23

1:04:23

Recently, I hosted a live online event, my ‘Moving to Canada’ party! Not only was it SO much fun to meet and get to know you all in person, but it was also PACKED with so much value. It seemed crazy not to publish it here on the show for you all to experience... I’m joined by Career coach, Michelle Ashley, and together we tackle the TWO biggest are…

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Can I Take My Clothes Off? ft. Sugar Ken 48:41

6M ago48:41

48:41

Hausa Chocolate is joined by a male stripper extraordinaire, Sugar Ken! Together they dive into the exciting world of stripping! While Sugar Ken might not be giving away free lap dances, he's certainly serving up some piping hot truths! They discuss the highs and lows of stepping into the spotlight, tips for successful marketing and branding in the…

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Divine Desire: Unveiling Eros With An Erotic Goddess ft. Joy 57:27

6M ago57:27

57:27

On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate sits with an erotic goddess, a reiki healer, companion and guide, Joy. They talk about the connection between sex and spirituality, helping men access deeper intimacy and their inner eros. Joy’s journey as a medium and a creator and also exploring unconventional love and relationship styles. Enjoyy! Themes: Spiri…

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Silver Sex ft. Cheron K. Griffin & Mr. Hunni Bunni 1:24:48

6M ago1:24:48

1:24:48

On this amazing episode of the podcast, Hausa Chocolate gets into silver sex with Cheron. K. Griffin an dating concierge, author, matchmaker and relationship coach together with her husband Mr. Hunni Bunni. They discuss her journey transitioning out of purity culture as an ex preacher’s wife, her various marriages, finding herself and true love wit…

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True Romance Is Dead! ft. Luciano & Torera 1:09:55

6M ago1:09:55

1:09:55

Love is in the air! Isn’t it? On this special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast, Hausa Chocolate, Luciano and Torera talk about love, romance and everything Valentine’s Day! What do you do when your situationship airs you on Love Day? They also discuss their hate languages, share funny stories, past experiences and talk about what love means t…

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Sexual Revolution ft. Teso The Star Seed 1:15:49

7M ago1:15:49

1:15:49

On this amazing episode, your favourite host is joined by Teso, a model, writer and podcaster and creative. They discuss their sexual liberation journeys. The impact of visible voices going against the grain. They also talk about partnerships, community and finding alignment into today’s society. Enjoyy Themes: Sexual Liberation, Feminism, SocietyD…

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Mind-Body-Spirit Wellness ft. Oyin Talabi 1:03:11

7M ago1:03:11

1:03:11

On this amazing episode of the pod, Hausa Chocolate gets into holistic wellness with Oyin Talabi. They discuss New Year Resolutions, the Mind-Body-Spirit connection mindful living practices, becoming in tune with one’s self and general tips on improving our mental health and sex lives. Themes: Mindfulness, Meditation, Wellness Don’t forget to rate …

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We Are In An Open Marriage ft. The Play Smith & Venolia 52:32

7M ago52:32

52:32

On this interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Play Smith and his wife Wade who are in an open marriage. They discuss how they met, the easy and hard parts of being in an open marriage, navigating it with friends, family and the dating pool, trust, honesty and so much more! Enjoyy! Themes: Open Relationships, Polyamo…

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Logical Lovers, Intimacy and Size Queens ft. Dr. SID 1:04:40

7M ago1:04:40

1:04:40

Welcome back to another amazing season of the Spit Or Swallow Pod with your favourite host Hausa Chocolate! On today’s slightly chaotic episode, Hausa Chocolate and the multifaceted Dr SID discuss intimacy differences in men and women, how logic and emotion feed love, analyze what makes long term relationships last, sexual liberalism, communication…

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Mental Health After a Move | Gabriela from Chile 43:44

9M ago43:44

43:44

Let’s dive deep into the darker side of moving abroad… When you move to a new country, your mental health isn’t really your first priority. You’ve got immigration paperwork to complete, accommodation to find, and job searching to do… BUT expat mental health is a topic that, in my opinion, is NOT spoken about enough. The biggest lesson I’ve learnt s…

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British Pensions Abroad | Ian from England 37:11

9M ago37:11

37:11

If you’ve ever worked in the United Kingdom (no matter what nationality you are), you have paid into the UK State Pension. Once you move away, say to Canada, you might think that those payments are simply lost, or like me, you’re unsure what can even be done from overseas… Good news is, I’m joined in this episode by Ian Andexser, a fellow Brit in C…

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Building Wealth in Canada | Tomisin from Nigeria 49:45

9M ago49:45

49:45

If you’re inspired by “money mindset” podcasts, this is the episode for you! There comes a time in your immigration journey when you’ll start looking to the future and thinking about how to build your wealth in Canada long-term. This episode’s guest, Tomisin Salam, is originally from Lagos, Nigeria, and moved to Canada in 2011 to pursue his entrepr…

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Indigenous Peoples of Canada | Danielle & Jamie-Leigh from RAVEN Trust 43:35

11M ago43:35

43:35

As new residents and citizens of Canada, it is so important for us to learn about and become allies for its Indigenous Peoples. First Nations, Inuit, and Métis Peoples have been living in what is now Canada for thousands of years, and they each have unique histories, languages, cultural practices, and spiritual beliefs. We newcomers are now lucky e…

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Canada's Luckiest Newcomer | Hannibal from the Philippines 31:46

12M ago31:46

31:46

Imagine moving across the world and, on a whim, entering an online contest called Canada’s Luckiest Newcomer… Now imagine getting the phone call that you’ve actually WON, out of thousands of entrants, and a bundle of life-changing prizes is on its way to you… including $20,000, free groceries for a year, 50,000 Air Miles, and more! That’s what happ…

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Camping Tips | Audrey from Parks Canada 57:14

1y ago57:14

57:14

Searching for some camping tips as you head out into Canada’s National Parks this summer? Look no further! This episode’s guest, Audrey Levesque, is a Canadian camping expert who has worked with Parks Canada for over 20 years. Canada’s diverse NATURE is one of the main reasons that newcomers give for moving here and Parks Canada manages and protect…

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My Birth + Postpartum Story | Kate, Your Host 44:21

1y ago44:21

44:21

I'm back on the mic and officially a MOTHER to 8-week-old Sienna Joy - and what a whirlwind it has been... Tune in to this episode to hear exactly what went down (11 days overdue, multiple induction procedures, failed epidurals, doctor unavailable due to family emergency, the FULL birth story!) As well as my postpartum experience so far including m…

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Living in a Post-Label Lagos (ft. Tushar ) 54:48

1y ago54:48

54:48

It’s another Season Finale! Thank you so much for sticking with us this season! On this episode, Hausa Chocolate and Tushar talk labels, gender and queer s-x! They have an insightful conversation about what it’s like to be questioning while actively exploring your identity in the tumultuous yet exciting city of Lagos! Themes: Gender, Sexuality, Lab…

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Streets To Sheets (ft. Nengi Adoki) 58:42

1y ago58:42

58:42

On this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Nengi Adoki and they discuss going from the streets to the sheets and the messiness that happens in between. They also talk open relationships, cheating, what to do when you’re propositioned by a couple and more! Themes: Casual Sex, Polyamory, Power Dynamics Enjoyy! Don’t forget to rate us and share! St…

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Emotional Safety and Sex (ft. Tayo Bero) 1:02:05

1y ago1:02:05

1:02:05

On this episode Hausa Chocolate holds an insightful conversation about sexual safety with award winning writer and activist , Tayo Bero. they talk about psychological and emotional safety and sex, sexual agency, power dynamics and the radicalisation of pleasure. Themes: Safe Sex, Sexual Agency, Gender Norms Enjoyy Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Se…

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The Period (Sex) Episode (ft. Valerie Ekpo) 52:54

1y ago52:54

52:54

On today's important episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by storyteller Valerie Ekpo and the girls talk red! They discuss Periods, PMS, PMDD, and other conditions like PCOS and Endometriosis. They also talk about period sex and period shame. Enjoy! Themes: Periods, Period Sex, PCOS Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connect…

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In The Mood For Sex (ft. Ed Goth Boy) 1:01:05

1y ago1:01:05

1:01:05

On this juicy episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an SOS favorite Ed Goth Boy and they get into a loaded and informative conversation about what gets us in the mood for sex. How media influences the kind of sex we have, they also go into sex playlists and the differences between Ritual and Ego Sex Music. Dive in and enjoy! Themes…

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Erotic Stories and Sexual Fantasies (Ft Lavezzed Out & Ore Badmus) 52:43

1+ y ago52:43

52:43

On this riveting episode your fave Hausa Chocolate is joined by two Erotic Writers Ore Badmus and sexfluencer Ola AKA Lavezzed Out. They talk about erotica, sex writing and sexual fantasies. They also discuss multipartnered sexual relationships and share some real life and slightly garnished sex stories. Enjoyyy!! Themes: Erotica, Sexual Fantasy, P…

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Sex and Mental Health 25:42

1y ago25:42

25:42

As mental health awareness month draws to a close your favorite host Hausa Chocolate touches on the nexus between mental health and sex. How they are connected and all moving parts of the same system. She discusses the psychological benefits of a good Sex Life, some sexual dysfunctions and the importance of sexual self-actualization, and more. Enjo…

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“Fellas, Is It Gay?” (ft. Kayode Ani) 1:05:47

1+ y ago1:05:47

1:05:47

On this exciting episode of the pod, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by queer activist, creative, and writer, Kayode Ani. They dive into a multifaceted discussion about the politics and realities of queerness in Nigeria. Kayode shares his experiences being an activist, they discuss his journey, facing violence as well as the various …

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Unlock Canada | Roberto from Mexico 49:10

1+ y ago49:10

49:10

Roberto was just 18 years old when he moved from Mexico to Canada to be an international student. 17 years later, he’s built a successful career and family life in Canada and he's here to share with us the ups and downs of his journey. Today, Roberto gives back to the newcomer community through his work at the Institute for Canadian Citizenship. Th…

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Bad Sexual Communication (ft. Alexis) 40:41

1+ y ago40:41

40:41

On today’s episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by visual artist, Alexis and they discuss bad sexual communication during sex. We always go on about ‘communication’ being the bedrock of good sex but what are the wrong ways to do it in and out of the bedroom? Enjoy! Themes: Sexual Communication, Shame, Ghosting Don’t forget to rate us …

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Being A Pornstar In Nigeria (ft. Wunmin Savage) 32:25

1+ y ago32:25

32:25

On this super interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an Adult Film Star and they take a glimpse into the Nigerian porn industry. Wunmin Savage shares her experiences being a porn actress and navigating the adult content scene in Nigeria. They talk about dealing with the attention, revenue and so much more! Themes Di…

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What That Mouth Do? (ft. Lotanna Don) 42:17

1+ y ago42:17

42:17

On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Lotanna Don and they discuss Oral Sex, its importance, societal and gender attitudes towards giving and receiving oral sex and share some of their experiences. They also discuss tips for better head and Hausa Chocolate whips at some interesting tools so don’t forget to catch the episode on YouTube to…

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Sex and Religion (ft. The Mansu ) 51:10

1+ y ago51:10

51:10

This week on the pod Hausa Chocolate is joined by @the_mansu, CEO of HerRyde and they have an insightful conversation about reconciling sex and sexuality with religion. A lot of societal attitudes and views on sex are shaped by religion and interpretations of it, so how do you express yourself sexually when some of your beliefs are inherently suppr…

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Sex Tapes, MMF Threesomes and The Underground Sex-Scene (ft. Folusho OG) 49:02

1+ y ago49:02

49:02

On this episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by music consultant Folusho OG and they have a hilarious, informative episode about masturbation, early sex education, MMF threesomes, sexting, sex tapes, and the underground sex scene. Themes Discussed: Erotophobia, Morality, Monogamy Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected w…

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Pregnancy in Canada | Ashley from Scotland 1:00:29

1+ y ago1:00:29

1:00:29

This episode’s guest is Ashley from Glasgow, Scotland, who moved to Burlington, Ontario in 2019. Ashley’s son was born in Scotland - Shortly followed by the birth of her daughter here in Canada. As she’s experienced both, Ashley is here to highlight the differences that she’s noticed when having a baby using the UK’s National Health Service vs. The…

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Throat Goats, Dirty Sheets and Sexual Communication (ft. Valerie Ike) 48:18

1+ y ago48:18

48:18

On this week's episode, our delectable host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by TV presenter and fellow podcaster Valerie Ike. They dive into a riveting discussion about sexual communication and all the chaos in between. Why don’t people communicate with their partners easily about sex? How do you express your sexual needs? What happens if you throw up E…

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Bisexual for Sex, Heteroromantic for Love (ft. Coco) 53:14

1+ y ago53:14

53:14

This week, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Coco and they have a super interesting discussion about the continuum of sexuality and attraction. If a bisexual woman can only have sex with women but will date and marry men could that be homophobia and social conditioning? How much of our preferences are not externally influenced? Tap in to listen to this …

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Self-Doubt and Resilience | Brenda from Kenya 47:16

1+ y ago47:16

47:16

Newcomers often arrive in Canada full of confidence that they’ll soon find a job in their field and thrive in their new home… Unfortunately, it isn’t always that simple. The Canadian job search can be notoriously challenging and many immigrants suddenly find themselves doubting their experience and skills. This episode’s guest, Brenda Ngure from Ke…

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Sexuality vs Sensuality (ft. Ashley Okoli) 39:10

1+ y ago39:10

39:10

On this sizzling episode, our self-appointed orgasm gap eradicator is joined by Ashley Okoli where they discuss sexuality and sensuality, objectification, Living confidently as your truest self and so much more! Don't forget to like, subscribe and share! It allows more people to find and enjoy the podcast Themes discussed: Sexualization, Sexuality,…

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The Madonna–Whore complex (ft. Menisms Podcast) 1:07:15

1+ y ago1:07:15

1:07:15

On today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Ashley Okoli and they discuss sexuality vs sensuality, how people often use them interchangeably, dealing with preconceived notions and certain types of energy when you’re perceived as a ‘sexual being’. They also touch on authenticity and living confidently as your truest self and much more. Themes Di…

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Discovering Your Sexual Self (As A Man). (ft Anny Roberts) 53:16

1+ y ago53:16

53:16

Our delectable host, Hausa Chocolate is back and putting the ho in wholesome. On this episode, she’s joined by illustrious artist and photographer Anna Roberts and they discuss the intricacies and nuances of coming into oneself sexually, sexual expectations of men and overall ways to have a more fulfilling sex life. Themes Discussed Stereotypes, Pl…

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Embodied Sexuality, Sensuality and Pleasure (ft. The Pleasure Priest) 48:34

1+ y ago48:34

48:34

This episode, Our host - The Orgasm Gap Eradicator' and The Pleasure Priest - Two women in the sexual wellness space link up for an exciting episode. They discuss sensuality, sex education, teaching women how to connect with their bodies and how to live a more orgasmic life. And much more! Themes discussed: Sensuality, Orgasms, Sexual Wellness, Sex…

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Sex Lives of, Step-Siblings and Sex Stories (ft RnB Princess) 52:02

1+ y ago52:02

52:02

On this episode, our host is back for a new season with bigger, badder energy, still putting the ‘ho’ in wholesome and staying sexy while doing it. She is joined by musician and the podcast producer 'RnB Princess, they take a peek into Hausa Chocolate’s DMs, discuss interesting “Sex Lives Of’ submissions and share a few Sex Stories. Themes discusse…

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Workplace Culture in Canada | Lindsay from the USA 33:40

1+ y ago33:40

33:40

Ever wondered what the workplace culture in Canada is like? Turns out that there can be a lot of unexpected differences to get your head around when you first start your career here. From the amount of paid time off you are entitled to, to the famous American “hustle” culture, to how much time you spend socialising with your colleagues after work. …

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Small vs. Big Cities in Canada | Mustafa from Pakistan 53:07

1+ y ago53:07

53:07

Are you wondering what it’s like to live in small vs. big cities in Canada? Look no further than this episode’s guest, Mustafa from Pakistan. In this episode, he shares his experience of being an international student at Queen’s University and moving from crowded Karachi to the close-knit community of Kingston, Ontario. He also explains his career …

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