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Running Man Self Regulation Skills Project

Armando Dominguez PhD Health Psychology, Educator, Martial Artist, Researcher

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A discussion of what happens to me under stress, anxiety and pain and how our ability to think, choose and act under stress of a modern life with a paleo-caveperson wiring and survival programming. Do you want to understand why you do things that you do that are socially inappropriate or negative when we are under stress? Why do I find it difficult to make good decisions under stress? Why is it that I can see what I want to say but I cannot articulate what I want to say in a tense or stressf ...
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Placebos are known for their powerful effects in pharmaceutical experiments. In our daily lives, we rely on beliefs, expectations, and predictions to guide our ethical decisions, adhere to guidelines, and shape our behaviors. These psychological placebos are crucial as we strive for success. Our personal experiences and observations profoundly infl…
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Mastering any skill, including self-regulation, demands consistent practice and repetition. Achieving the level of unconscious competence where skills are second nature requires ongoing dedication. However, you don't have to reach this pinnacle to reap rewards from self-regulation techniques. Throughout your journey, you can benefit significantly. …
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Time is an element of every human experience. How we experience fun and joy often goes hand in hand with time moving too quickly leaving us whishing we could do things again or wishing the fun would last forever. When we experience painful events we feel the dilation or even the dragging or "hanging time" that makes the uncomfortable and painful, e…
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Explore how stress and anxiety affect our perception of time. Learn about time dilation in relation to familiar skills and the flow state, and discover how self-regulation skills can influence these experiences positively. When faced with stress and anxiety, many people perceive time as slowing down or even stopping—a common experience during chall…
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Explore the significance of tradition in skill preservation and self-regulation. Understand how deeply embedded behaviors affect reactions and learn to evaluate their relevance in modern contexts for improved self-awareness and growth. Tradition often evokes images of family gatherings and preservation of valuable skills across generations. In skil…
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Explore how attention functions beyond simple on/off responses. Learn about the role of novelty and survival instincts in shaping our focus, and discover practical tips for maintaining attentiveness in daily life. Attention is more than a simple on/off switch—it’s a dynamic process influenced by the novelty and perceived value of incoming informati…
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Explore the psychology behind dishonesty and ethical boundaries. Learn about the conditioning effects of lying, its implications in different contexts like business and studies, and reflect on the influence of internal and external factors. Dishonesty can become a learned skill, making it easier to engage in when there’s perceived survival or perso…
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Explore how breaking habitual thought patterns can lead to creativity and personal growth. Learn practical strategies to envision goals, leverage time effectively, and make incremental steps towards a fulfilling life. Our daily mindset often reflects our ingrained patterns of behavior, shaped by underlying thoughts and beliefs. While seeking creati…
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Explore effective ways to manage physical, emotional, and mental pain. Learn how beliefs and expectations influence our responses and discover techniques to observe and alleviate pain through mindful practices. Painful events in life can manifest as physical, emotional, or mental distress, often accompanied by beliefs and expectations of worsening …
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Explore the Three Gates technique for promoting mindfulness and kindness in daily interactions. Learn how to cultivate compassion and peace by being mindful of our words and actions, fostering a harmonious social environment. The Three Gates technique offers valuable tools for self-regulation and promoting kindness in everyday life. When feeling ti…
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Explore the impact of our inner voice on authenticity and self-trust. Learn how nurturing self-kindness and acceptance can lead to transformative personal growth and enhanced social interactions. Our inner voice, deeply personal and private, influences how we filter our thoughts and navigate social interactions. It serves as our internal guide, pre…
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Explore the concept of altruism in daily life and the importance of extending compassion and acceptance to oneself. Learn practical tips for cultivating self-compassion, embracing mistakes, and fostering personal growth with grace. Altruism enriches our social interactions, yet we often overlook extending the same compassion and patience to ourselv…
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Explore the concept of self-control and its impact on emotional responses and behavior. Learn about factors like stress, trauma, and brain function that influence self-regulation, and discover strategies for fostering emotional resilience. The idea of self-control often intersects with our beliefs and emotional responses, influencing how we perceiv…
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Explore the role of mistakes in personal growth and achieving goals. Learn how recognizing and learning from small errors can enhance problem-solving skills and resilience in high-pressure situations. While avoiding mistakes is ideal, life often presents opportunities for small slip-ups ('Pecadillos') on the path to our goals. It's crucial to recog…
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The consequences of impulsive speech and the importance of mindful communication. Learn how practicing self-regulation and common courtesy can prevent conflict and promote positive social interactions. We're witnessing a concerning rise in impulsive speech and attention-seeking behaviors, both online and in-person interactions. This trend can norma…
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Neurocognitive aspects of skill acquisition and learning and benefits. Learn how stress management and low-stakes environments can enhance skill development and foster effective learning strategies for everyday life. Learning any skill involves both cognitive thought processes and tangible neurological development. Whether acquiring cognitive abili…
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Explore the impact of stress on belief formation and decision-making. Learn strategies to stay centered, avoid assumptions, and foster critical thinking for informed perspectives. During periods of stress, our tendency to form beliefs based on strong emotions rather than evidence can influence our opinions. This efficiency in thinking stems from ou…
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When people gather in groups, they naturally assess each other, establish hierarchies, and evaluate individual contributions to the group or its leader. Self-value is crucial for self-regulation, shielding individuals from undue influence by those seeking to manipulate others for various agendas, whether positive or negative. Miyamoto Musashi, reno…
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Discover how employing the factual method—asking 'what, where, when, who, and how' before 'why'—boosts factual communication and rapport building. This approach reduces the pitfalls of opinion and emotional bias, preventing defensiveness and tangential disputes that can disrupt effective communication and lead to unintended consequences. Walk well.…
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Explore how extreme emotions, much like regular emotions, are transient states rather than enduring traits. Learn how beliefs and expectations shape emotional experiences over time, potentially leading to patterned behaviors that can seem predictable. While the adage "patterns never lie" holds true in some cases, it's important to recognize that be…
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In our fast-paced lives, we often overlook what shapes our beliefs and the intensity with which we hold them. Our perceptions are heavily influenced by what we hear from peers, family, and authorities. Whether in personal conversations or broader societal contexts via media, the prevailing social and cultural tones are initially driven by emotions.…
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Time plays a crucial role in managing emotions effectively in life's critical moments. By resisting the impulse to act on immediate emotions, we unlock opportunities to make thoughtful choices and avoid potential calamity or dissatisfaction. Learn how strategic timing can empower you to navigate challenges with clarity and resilience. Walk well wit…
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Explore how effective time management influences emotional responses and decision-making. Learn strategies to resist impulsive actions, opening opportunities for thoughtful choices and avoiding potential pitfalls. Enhance your ability to navigate life's challenges with clarity and resilience. Discover more about emotional regulation and decision-ma…
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When we reach the limits of physical endurance and cognitive capacity, it affects our ability to think rationally and may lead us to contemplate our existence beyond the physical realm, often referred to as the EGO. Our willpower depends on adequate blood flow delivering glucose for cognitive function and oxygen for cellular vitality, crucial durin…
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The concept of self-realization in Abraham Maslow's developmental psychology emphasizes the journey of personal growth through addressing our biological needs within his hierarchy of needs. This journey often necessitates letting go of transient aspects of life—be it activities, jobs, or relationships—that no longer contribute to our long-term fulf…
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Successfully achieving personal and professional goals hinges on how we approach and align ourselves with them. Our mindset towards these goals significantly impacts our journey—whether we progress effectively or struggle to initiate action. Understanding our self-perception in relation to goal attainment shapes the path and determines the depth of…
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The power of our self-image, though subjective, drives enduring change. How we perceive ourselves profoundly influences our pursuit of personal goals, whether in mastering physical skills or achieving professional milestones. Internal dialogue plays a critical role; negative self-talk can hinder progress. Rather than fixating on obstacles, fosterin…
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Aphantasia Explained: Enhancing Perception Beyond Visualization. Aphantasia, affecting a small percentage, prevents individuals from visualizing in their mind's eye. This condition may have evolved due to limited light conditions, enhancing other senses. Brain scans reveal active executive engagement during visualization attempts in aphantasic indi…
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Intrusive thoughts, while intense and uncomfortable, need not disrupt your life or lead to guilt or shame. It's natural for humans to experience them without self-punishment. These thoughts prompt us to quickly address and categorize them, often leading to internal conflict and harsh self-judgment. Understanding that they serve to highlight potenti…
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Becoming a parent unveils the vast and overwhelming reality of caring for a newborn, a challenge shared by both new moms and dads. While external support focuses on practical parenting skills, many struggle silently with feelings of inadequacy and the pressure to appear competent. It's important to acknowledge that parenting isn't always smooth; it…
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Change is a ubiquitous theme in our lives, prominently discussed on social media and in daily conversations. Often, we reminisce about the past and lament the inevitable transformations of the present. Yet, amidst these fleeting perspectives, there exist constants—unchangeable elements in our human experience. By broadening our outlook, we can harn…
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Understanding change as a constant, as recognized in mathematics, offers a strategic approach to mitigating the impact of dynamic social changes on individuals. Applying principles like "Endless Variation Never Surprises" and "Constants Never Surprise" provides a guiding perspective on how we perceive changes in our environment. This perspective en…
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From Survival to Significance: Embracing Power in Everyday Life can be realized by aligning with power which means embracing principles such as love, compassion, and altruistic acceptance of others, exemplified by historical figures like Gandhi, Mother Teresa, and Martin Luther King Jr. These individuals left a lasting impact by serving and benefit…
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Self knowledge is invariably one of the most useful skills when dealing with and managing physical stress and perilous environment. The skills that support self knowledge is knowledge of "enemy", opponent, challenge or physical environment. Foreknowledge of the intra-personal and the interpersonal on the individual level is key to greater more reli…
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Ever wondered about the direction of your life? It's a journey towards goals we perceive or conceive, with or without the skills or a map. Our ego builds on experiences and identity, forging ahead in solitude through dark waters. Adventure awaits on this collective journey; may your encounters be fulfilling Walk well.…
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When we see patterns where there aren't any. Where belief is swayed by social pressure, we have the potential to develop, conjunction fallacy. Believing things to be based on false information and at times social group pressure. Hindsight is always 20/20. But, what happens when we have feelings that things were correct? This is an example of an adv…
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When we were hunting in our primitive times there was no guarantee of success and payoff from finding and or successfully hunting food. The times that we succeeded, there was a reward pathway, Dopamine response signaling pleasure and ensuring motivation to repeat that behavior again. That is a powerful experience. In today's modern day, we have fou…
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When we remember we are recalling a segment of our past in our life's timeline. Have you ever thought a certain way when you are stressed that you interpreted things negatively? Well, then you are human. What is changeable is our reactivity by training physical resilience and recognizing our proclivity to seek negatives to protect our future outcom…
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When we recall we run the risk of reactivity to the nature of the memory. Is it euphoric and pleasant? Is is dysphoric and painful? These are the elements that often determine how close we hold our idea of self or ego in regards to the recollection. When we hold beliefs that have been assumed or accepted often there is a social component where we g…
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The Late Psychologist and author Dr. Glen J. Morris wrote that "We follow our own Placebos". This is a daily walk in that much of what we do and how we do it is based on the beliefs we hold that often are founded in inaccuracy, misinterpretation and failure (on our part) to correct an in complete concept. Shakespeare's idea that all the world is a …
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The art of peace is a an encouragement to seek harmony in day to day things and to seek to apply the principle of "Ai" union and Wa, harmony in conflict. The highest expression of the art of war is to use influence and to never have to draw your sword. The way of understanding creates an opportunity to understand and to neutralize conflict by empat…
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There are several theories on fear and also the behaviors that arise from the stimulus that causes us and animals to shirk from danger and protect ourselves. At times we add narrative to make sense of understanding and may created ethics, guidelines and morals and more's that limit the negative effects of what fear would otherwise bring to bear in …
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Walking with the shadow self is a daily event that occurs when we meet obstacles and challenge in what we call our lives. The shadow self may be in the dark but not because it is bad or evil. Often it is mistakenly shunned and relegated to our more primitive more base ideas of what our shadow is. It is from where our feelings, emotions and passions…
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The cephalic phase of hunger extends to acquisition, seeking and hunting. By the visual recall alone will the body drive, seek and hunt to satiate a primal need to survive and to get survival level payoff/reward. By the same token it is the preceding spark that creates an anticipatory "high before the high" that if left unsatisfied can result in fe…
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Making the beautiful dangerous and making the dangerous beautiful is a principle that helps us understand how nature speaks to us of danger and risk but also about learning life giving and life preserving skills to a high level where they appear as art and indicate time-borne and repetition based skills. Feeling weak, or lacing in self control or l…
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Mirror neurons are closely related to motivation of motor neurons during observational, vicarious learning. We learn social more's and folkways by observing as much as by verbal communication. Much of what we learn that is survival level social value we learn by observing body language and facial expressions as much as by direct instruction. When w…
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The unknown is considered a product of a thinking process. Ask a person with anxiety, traumatic stress reactivity and PTSD and their description and definition of the unknown is different and much more real. There is a conceptual idea of the "unknown" and the real, felt experiential perceived aspect of unknown that is perceptual. The conscious know…
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Conflict is a common event in social interactions that at times can lead to physical aggression and violence at the extreme. The five strategies stem from a martial methodology that was developed to shape the mindset for the highest good in mutual conflict. When one recognizes where conflict occurs, the 5 approaches can assist in neutralizing and p…
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Suggestion is a powerful mode of creating influence, personal power and transformation within an individual. The fake it till you make it adage pales in comparison to what a well-placed suggestion can do in the mind and life of the suggestable person. To be suggestible does not mean lacking intelligence and gullible. We are suggestible not only to …
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Getting started in building self regulation skills can be hard. But, living with anger, anxiety, fear, reactivity and general discomfort knowing that these states will be recurrent and can make you feel bad by just thinking of it. It is best to get started, one skill at a time. Gain skill, then add a skill when you get comfortable with the prior sk…
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