Best Ben and Aly Bilyeu Podcasts (2024)

1
Ask Us Anything: Part 1 19:08

2+ y ago19:08

19:08

It's been awhile since we've answered some questions (or let our hair down and had some fun)! Today, we're answering your questions! From what motivates us to work hard to our favorite books, we want you to know a little bit more about us. This is a great episode to get a sneak at many topics before listening to full episodes with a deeper dive. Fo…

1
Ask Us Anything: Part 2 24:03

2+ y ago24:03

24:03

It's been awhile since we've answered some questions (or let our hair down and had some fun)! Join us for Part 2 of answering some of your questions! We want you to know a little bit more about us whether it's our biggest pet peeves or what our family motto is. This is a great episode to get a sneak at many topics before listening to full episodes …

1
Surround Yourself with the Right People 17:18

2+ y ago17:18

17:18

Do you have friends that are a bad influence? It has been said many times that you will become a combination of the closest people around you. Today, we are going to dive into why this is so important and what action you can take. To make changes in your life, you have to change how you are spending your time. Call to Order: This week’s call to ord…

1
Difficult Conversations with Our Pre-Teen 24:31

2+ y ago24:31

24:31

Have you ever had a question from your child that you weren’t prepared for? We’ve said this before, but parenting is hard. What’s the hardest age to parent? Infants get a bad wrap and so do teenagers. What about pre-teens? Life seems busier than ever, but we feel that parenting in these modern times is harder or at the very least, more complicated …

1
Five Things that Happened After Listing Our House 24:30

2+ y ago24:30

24:30

We previously discussed what it takes to sell your house but what happens once you list it? There was a flurry of activity that most first-time sellers likely aren’t expecting and we definitely didn’t know what to expect. Nothing goes according to plan 100% and it’s not as smooth as you may think. Today, we are going to cover 5 things that happened…

1
The Four Horsemen Series: Stonewalling 15:51

2+ y ago15:51

15:51

This is our last episode of the Four Horsemen series from John Gottman. Stonewalling may sound innocent and harmless, but it can still be damaging to a relationship. Why do people stonewall? What could cause a person to shut people out, especially someone close to them? Call to Order: This week’s call to order is to determine if you stonewall in yo…

1
The Four Horsemen Series: Defensiveness 16:57

2+ y ago16:57

16:57

All relationships have conflict. This cannot be avoided or negotiated with. Managing conflict is vital in predicting success with conflict. This is our 3rd part of the 4-part series on the 4 Horsemen from John Gottman and today, we are going to talk about defensiveness. We will discuss what defensiveness means and what the antidote is for your rela…

1
The Four Horsemen Series: Contempt 21:21

3y ago21:21

21:21

Today, we are going to talk about contempt. We see examples of this a lot in social interactions but it can become toxic. This is part 2 of our discussion on The Four Horsemen that can doom a relationship. We will discuss some examples of contempt, why it is so dangerous and solutions that can eliminate contempt. Call to Order: This week’s call to …

1
The Four Horsemen Series: Criticism 20:07

3y ago20:07

20:07

Managing conflict is a vital skill in building and maintaining relationships. If you have been to relationship counselling, you’ve likely heard about John Gottman and the Four Horsemen. Today, we are going to start a series on the four horsemen and focus today’s discussion on the 1st one – criticism. Call to Order: This week’s call to order is to c…

1
First Five Tasks Before Listing Our House 27:30

3y ago27:30

27:30

We are getting ready to sell our house! Don’t you wish it was as simple as planting a “For Sale” sign on the front lawn? Unfortunately, even in a HOT market...it’s not. It’s time to roll up our sleeves and get to work because there are tons of things to do before we even list our home. Listen to hear 5 things that we did before even making it offic…

1
Making Marriage Work with Agreements 22:47

3y ago22:47

22:47

Why do some marriages work, and others don’t? Why do people think that marriage takes a lot of work? Why do so many married couples not seem to like each other anymore? We are going to be answering those questions today while we discuss marriage commitments. Marriage takes effort but it doesn’t have to be difficult if two people are edifying each o…

1
Suicide Prevention Awareness: Warning Signs and Resources 19:29

3y ago19:29

19:29

In episode #33, we had a very personal and real conversation regarding mental health. September is suicide prevention month and today, we are going to dive into what we can all do to help this cause. Most of us have had some sort of experience with mental health issues ourselves or with people we know personally. This discussion will focus on some …

1
How to Make Your Podcast Last One Year! 21:22

3y ago21:22

21:22

Today is another special episode of the podcast as this is our one-year review of The Family Order Podcast. This is a great episode for folks that have already started a podcast or are just thinking about it. We will review why we started this podcast, what we learned, the highs & lows and most importantly, where we are going in the future. There w…

1
Happy With Baby: Special Guests Catherine O’Brien and Rick Heyer 35:08

3y ago35:08

35:08

Marriage can be great, but it can be very challenging. Parenting is something that is also very rewarding, but it will test you like you never thought possible. We prepare so much for a new baby being added to our lives, but we don’t prepare nearly enough for what comes after, especially for ourselves and our marriage. Sure, a newborn takes a lot o…

1
Following Through On Your Choices: Integrity 21:35

3y ago21:35

21:35

Do you cheat on your taxes? Do you take shortcuts at work? Do you take credit for something that you didn’t do yourself? These questions, and many more, are questions about truth and integrity. Life is full of choices and these choices matter whether it’s something big or small. Today, we are going to delve into why integrity matters and tips on ho…

1
You Aren't Going the Right Direction! (Presiding Over Your Family) 20:20

3y ago20:20

20:20

We’ve talked about being a protector and a provider but what is another important role to consider? That role is the leader or presider role. Why is this role so important? What does it mean to be a presider of your home or family? We want to provide a compelling discussion today that makes you evaluate your priorities while we share vital tips int…

1
It's About More Than Money (The Provider Role) 19:37

3y ago19:37

19:37

Being a provider sounds very simple but there’s more to it than what’s on the surface. Times are changing and the rate of that change is speeding up. Providing is much more than just acquiring financial resources. As a provider, you are a resource that provides value in so many other ways. You solve problems in a creative way that is difficult to f…

1
Don't Let Your Car Get Stolen (and the Role of a Protector) 19:01

3y ago19:01

19:01

We still live in a dangerous world and it’s changing rapidly. Today, we will be discussing the role of protectors in the family unit. It may not be popular to say this, but my wife and I are not equal partners on everything within our family and our home. Shocking, I know. This conversation will tap into what it means to be a protector in modern ti…

1
Avoiding Conflict in Marriage Money Talks 20:07

3y ago20:07

20:07

Why do couples fight about money? Why is this a topic that we don’t talk about prior to joining our lives together? What is one thing that can ruin a marriage if left unchecked? Today, we are going to discuss answers to these questions and 6 basic financial tips to consider in marriage including a hot take of ours. The topic of money is becoming mo…

1
Start Scheduling Weekly Date Nights! 20:22

3y ago20:22

20:22

What is a date night? Why is date night important? Today’s episode will provide tips and ideas for date night itself and on how to make it a priority vs. a luxury. We will also touch on why date night is vital to your marriage and family dynamic. If you want your marriage to thrive, this episode is a must listen. Follow us on Facebook: https://www.…

1
Parenting Summer Series: Punishment with Purpose 18:15

3y ago18:15

18:15

Disciplining kids may be the hardest part of being a parent. Most parents are equipped to feed and clothe their children but that’s just the bare minimum of parenthood. There are many idealistic ways to raise kids that sound great but that are very difficult to put into practice realistically. Sometimes, you are exhausted or frustrated and kids are…

1
Parenting Summer Series: Kids & Technology 20:31

3y ago20:31

20:31

When should your kid get their first smartphone? How much TV time should your child have each day? These are tough questions and there are no “right” answers. Today, we are going to dive into how to limit kids on their tech use. We will discuss our situation, experience in navigating these waters and 3 tips to improve the ground rules for your kids…

1
Parenting Summer Series: Activities and Enrichment 20:15

3y ago20:15

20:15

Kids learn better by doing and being active. Finding the right activities for them can be challenging but also very important or rewarding for you and your kids. You can keep them engaged and busy while aiding them to develop their skills. Today, we are going to provide 3 major benefits to keeping your children involved in extracurricular activitie…

1
Parenting Summer Series: Motherhood 21:53

3y ago21:53

21:53

What does it mean to be a mother? What does it mean to you? There are a lot of interpretations of what mother’s do and what their importance is for children & even society at large. Today, we are going to discuss 5 types of mothers that can be compared to evaluate strengths, weaknesses and the potential influence on their kids. We will also review …

1
Parenting Summer Series: Sibling Dynamics 20:34

3y ago20:34

20:34

Have you ever heard the phrase that people with only one child shouldn’t be considered a real parent? Obviously, that phrase isn’t to be taken literally but there’s a reason that people say it. Should you change your approach to parenting with multiple children vs. just having one? Kids learn some important life skills when they have siblings. Toda…

1
Parenting Summer Series: Modeling Marriage 19:10

3y ago19:10

19:10

When you ask kids what they want to be when they grow up, they don’t typically say that they want to be married but they can easily recite what they want in terms of a career. What is the state of your marriage? Well, you may not have thought much about it but what you may not know is that your kids probably have a good idea. Children watch what we…

1
Parenting Summer Series: The Hovering Helicopter Parent 21:20

3y ago21:20

21:20

By now, most of us have heard about helicopter parents. Today, we will discuss the possible reasons behind this parenting style and how it became so prevalent. We will share some of our own experiences, the effects of helicopter parenting and some research into why modern parents seem so much more overprotective of their children vs. how they were …

1
Parenting Summer Series: Fatherhood 22:02

3y ago22:02

22:02

Robert L. Backman states that: “‘Father’ is the noblest title a man can be given. It’s more than a biological role. It signifies a patriarch, a leader, an exemplar, a confidant, a teacher, a hero, a friend.” What is a father? What does it mean to you? Fathers tend to be taken for granted at times but they are vital in kids flourishing in society as…

1
Presidents and Mountains and Bears, Oh My! 35:31

3y ago35:31

35:31

We did it! 7 States, 2,700 Miles, 50+ Hours! The Bilyeu's conquered an 8-day RV Roadtrip out West to Mount Rushmore and Yellowstone. We are going to cover why we wanted to go on this trip, the places that we visited, the hi’s, the low's & what we learned from this experience. The hope is that this discussion will help others with their next big tri…

1
How Do You React to Unpopular Opinions? 17:48

3y ago17:48

17:48

Tune into this discussion as we do our first ever reaction episode. A few weeks ago, we posted an episode regarding femininity and we received a lot of feedback on social media. Today, we will discuss our reactions to those comments and how it relates to our podcast episode. What do we take away from all of this and how do we respond going forward?…

1
When Darkness Wins: Mental Illness & Suicide 10:00

3y ago10:00

10:00

Content Warning: May is Mental Health Awareness Month and in our planning we knew that we would be doing this episode subject matter at some point. We obviously did not foresee the events taking place that shaped this episode into what it is now. This episode covers our personal story and experiences with mental illness. We have transcribed the ful…

1
Traditional Femininity in a Feminist World 17:57

3y ago17:57

17:57

Since we did an episode on masculinity, it’s only fair that we do an episode on femininity. Today, we will be discussing the differences between masculinity and femininity along with some of the core values associated with femininity. We will include 3 main areas to focus on that are associated with feminine traits. What does this mean for your hus…

1
So How About Them Goals? 19:20

3+ y ago19:20

19:20

Today, we will be doing something a bit different. We will go “unscripted” or “unprepared” to discuss goals and how to get back on track. Have you set your goals? Have you made updates to your goals? How do you get back on track once you veer off course? We will touch on some of these questions today and be discussing some of our personal goal upda…

1
What is the Difference Between Punishment & Discipline? 20:08

3+ y ago20:08

20:08

Kids can fill your life with so much joy, laughter and frustration! In today’s world, it can be very hard to guide kids to adulthood and to know where the line is with discipline. It’s not as black and white as it used to be but we have 7 tips on developing healthy discipline and raising little humans. Don’t forget that your job as a parent is to d…

1
Governing Your Castle 24:53

3+ y ago24:53

24:53

In today’s episode of the podcast, we will be covering house maintenance. Why is this important? A house is typically the largest investment you will ever make. There are some basic tips and advice that we’ve learned in the last several years that might be helpful to many of you that are first time home buyers or for those that already are homeowne…

1
Minimalism Part 2: Distance from Digital 18:06

3+ y ago18:06

18:06

For many of us, our smartphones have come to feel like another appendage. We carry them wherever we go, fondle them during meals and conversations, and sleep with them next to our pillows. Wherever one is, so is the other. However, unlike our typically unabashed appreciation for our physical limbs, our feelings about our smartphones tend to be quit…

1
SPECIAL: Ask Us Anything Questions! 21:14

3+ y ago21:14

21:14

FRIENDS, FAMILY, AND SUPPORTERS...We've hit 500 downloads! That is a huge accomplishment for us being at this for 6 months and we are so grateful for everyone that has tuned in. Our purpose is so much bigger because of all of you. To celebrate, we are answering a few questions from you! Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thefamilyorder…

1
The Family Unit is in CRISIS 21:42

3+ y ago21:42

21:42

Is the nuclear family unit in crisis? The short answer is yes, it certainly is. Life is not just about marriage, family and kids but it has certainly been responsible for holding together the fabric of society and it provides many people with more meaning and purpose in their life. Today, we have some observations regarding stats and perceptions sh…

1
Get Rid of the Clutter! 5 Tips Towards Minimalism 17:36

3+ y ago17:36

17:36

Many of you have heard of minimalism but there are some misconceptions about what it is and what it means. Today, we will discuss how we view minimalism and how it can be applied practically to your life. There are 5 benefits/tips that we will review along with how to use them in your life. Ultimately, this will create more room in your life for me…

1
Interview Episode: What's so great about HOMESCHOOLING? 15:15

3+ y ago15:15

15:15

Homeschooling isn’t a revolutionary idea, but it is becoming more of a reality after the events of 2020. Today, we are going to have a special guest to discuss homeschooling in our first interview episode. Homeschooling vs. public school, provides many pros & cons and weighing that out can be a tough decision & it isn’t made lightly. Follow us on F…

1
Our Biggest Pet Peeve: The Busy Disease 22:25

3+ y ago22:25

22:25

Are you busy or productive? What’s the difference? Have you heard people brag about how many errands they have to run; how many emails they receive daily or how many meetings they have? Some people wear “busy” like a badge of honor but that isn’t the goal. Shouldn’t we desire to be more productive vs. just being busy? Today, we will shed light on 5…

1
Love Series Part 4: Resolving Conflict in Your Marriage 17:56

3+ y ago17:56

17:56

Have you had a fight with your spouse or significant other? Can fighting or conflict be a good thing? Conflict is inevitable but how it’s dealt with can be the difference between a thriving relationship and separation. Conflict isn’t the problem but rather it’s an indicator of problems in your relationship that need to be addressed. How do you diag…

1
Love Series Part 3: Participating in a 30-day Sex Challenge 20:21

3+ y ago20:21

20:21

What can you do to better protect your relationship from ending? Today, we want to focus on why sex in a relationship or marriage is so important. The sports adage of: “the best defense is a good offense” applies here. This discussion will provide 3 tips to how physical intimacy and sex can improve your relationship from a female and a male’s persp…

1
Love Series Part 2: Tools for Improving Communication 20:23

3+ y ago20:23

20:23

Is communication overrated? Most relationship advice suggests improving communication. What makes it good or bad and what do you need to consider about the other person? Today, we are going to talk about quality over quantity and how effective communication can be vital to a thriving relationship. We will also touch on a couple of famous tools avai…

1
Love Series Part 1: The Foundation of Marriage 17:48

3+ y ago17:48

17:48

What is trust & respect in a relationship? How are they built and maintained? How are they broken and repaired? Since it’s February now, this episode will kick off our new 4-part series on love & marriage. Today, we will delve into the elements of trust and respect. These 2 elements expand beyond just marriage but into other important relationships…

1
Boundaries Series Part 3: Don't Be Afraid to Enforce! 20:36

3+ y ago20:36

20:36

When someone crosses the line, what do you do about it? This is part 3 in our series on boundaries and today we are tackling enforcing boundaries. You have talked the talk, now it’s time to walk the walk. This step can be difficult and there are many reasons why. Today, we will wrap up the conversation with more tips and reasons why enforcing bound…

1
Boundaries Series Part 2: Start Communicating Them! 18:57

3+ y ago18:57

18:57

It’s been said that if you set a boundary and someone throws a fit, that’s proof that a boundary is necessary. So, you’ve decided that you want to establish boundaries but how do you communicate them? This discussion will focus on how we should communicate boundaries effectively. Many people can overlook this step in being assertive and confident i…

1
Boundaries Series Part 1: Let's Establish Them! 19:57

3+ y ago19:57

19:57

Are you a pushover? Do you feel too passive with your spouse? Your boss? Your kids????? Many of us have heard of setting boundaries. Are boundaries constricting or can they lead to more freedom? This episode is going to be a change in direction as we will do a deep dive in this first part of a 3-part series on boundaries. Today, we will discuss how…

1
There is Not Enough Masculinity in Men Today 21:02

3+ y ago21:02

21:02

Henry David Thoreau said: “The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.” Today, we will establish the role of a man regarding your home, your family, your community etc. What does it mean to be a man in today’s world? This discussion today will be centered around 3 things that men can do to define who they are and how to level up in their lives…

1
Make Your New Year's Goals SMART! 21:03

3+ y ago21:03

21:03

The new year is upon us and it’s time to set goals for 2021. Many of us do this same exercise every year but can we set better goals? Setting goals is a great start but achieving them often falls short. Goal setting can be difficult especially if you don’t do it regularly. The SMART goal format is one of the more pervasive templates for goal writin…

Podcasts Worth a Listen

Ben And Aly Bilyeu Podcasts

Podcasts Worth a Listen

Quick Reference Guide