Welcome to the In Bed with Strangers Podcast! I am your host, Casey Donatello (along with my husband Jason). This a sex positive and alternative lifestyle (swinger, ENM, Hotwife) podcast inspired by my real-life journey to sexual empowerment and freedom. Join me as I discuss my complicated physical, mental and emotional transformation from shy Catholic school girl to insatiable unicorn and finally a happy and horny Hotwife. Jason and I share the female, male and couple perspective on a wide ...
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Each week on the Bad Girl's Bible podcast, your host Sean Jameson interviews experts and professionals and everyone in between to teach you the tips and techniques you can use to improve your sex life and relationship or marriage. You'll also learn powerful insights on how to improve your dating and love life.
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#56 Understanding & Healing Anxious Attachment with Jessica Baum, LMHC, Psychotherapist
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Our early experiences with primary caregivers can profoundly affect our relationships later in life — often in ways that are deeply unconscious — and it takes conscious work to change our patterns and facilitate healing. Psychotherapist, Jessica Baum, joins us today to guide us through the different attachment styles and unpack how our early experi…
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Jason completed his chemo treatments! We share an update about his health, explain our differing reactions to the news, and start our countdown to resuming a normal s*x life. Plus, I quiz Jason to see how well we know each other in order to bring some laughter and connection back into our relationship.…
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Episode 43 - We're Bringing S*xy Back
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This week Jason returns! He shares his perspective on struggling with a low libido due to chemo, worrying about keeping me satisfied, and his thoughts on wanting me to play solo. Plus, we talk about how we have been slowly reintroducing s*x into our relationship. What were our concerns and limitations, how much are we having, how does chemo s*x com…
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#55 How To Build A Rock Solid Marriage - Nate & Kaley Klemp
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If you’ve been struggling to achieve a perfectly equitable marriage, you’re not alone. Research shows that even couples who prioritize equality often find themselves fighting about fairness in their relationship. That was the experience of today’s guests, Nate and Kaley Klemp, two high-achieving individuals, who started their marriage believing in …
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This week IN BED WITH STRANGERS teams up with Ruan Willow of the OH F*CK YEAH PODCAST to chat about the wonderful world of erotica. We tackle topics like why it is liberating to write it, the struggles of censorship, judgement, the benefits of reading it, and more!Find out more about Ruan!: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillowCheck out the FILTHY FICTION A…
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Episode 41 - Chemo: The Ultimate C*ckblocker
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This week we share how chemo is testing our marriage. From intimacy, socializing, swinging, finances, body image and more - nothing is safe from the side effects. Why have I chosen a sexless marriage instead of using my Hotwife hallpass? Tune in to hear my views on love, loyalty and lust when coping with a sick spouse.…
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Jason is taking a break this week so I am joined by a special guest - one of the security guards at the adult theater where we celebrated my birthday last year. We chat about how he ended up working there, his previous career in the adult industry, what goes down at the theater and more!By Casey Donatello
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#54 Building Sexual Confidence and Enhancing Intimacy With Dr. Alison Ash
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What does it really mean to be confident in the bedroom? On this episode, we are joined by Dr. Alison Ash, a trained, Trauma-Informed Intimacy Coach, Educator, and Founder of TurnON.love. Dr. Aly helped pioneer research into the orgasm gap and has written books and articles on topics ranging from pleasure in heterosexual dynamics to queer identitie…
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This week I try to keep it together as we share Jason's recent medical diagnosis of lymphoma and how it has been impacting our life emotionally, mentally, physically and sexually.By Casey Donatello
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#53 3 Orgasm Blockers & The Importance Of Sexual Chemistry With Dr. Tara
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So many people have trouble orgasming and aren’t experiencing true pleasure during sex. Today on The Bad Girls Bible, sexual and relational communication profession Dr. Tara joins us to discuss the three main blockers of orgasms and why sexual chemistry is so important! In this conversation, you’ll hear all about Tara’s conservative background, wha…
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This week Jason & I have a messy mishap during an MFM, deal with a disappearing date, get freaky in a livestream and get roasted at a comedy club.By Casey Donatello
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#52 Sexless Marriages, Solutions & Causes with Dr. Nazanin Moali
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So many relationships struggle with sexlessness and many couples aren’t aware of the fact that they can get help and save their relationships! Today on The Bad Girl’s Bible, sex therapist and podcast host, Dr. Nazanin Moali joins us to discuss causes and solutions for sexless relationships. In this episode, you’ll hear all about Dr. Moali’s fascina…
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#51 Painful Sex Solutions With Nora Langknecht
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Research shows that the majority of women will experience pain during sex at some point in their lives. But just because painful sex is common, it doesn’t mean you have to accept it as normal! To talk about this, we’re joined by Nora Langknecht, a sexuality educator, reproductive health counselor, and Brand and Digital Marketing Manager for the sex…
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Tune in to hear the awkward story regarding our date with Mr. #1000 plus two of our most reliable guys stop by for a super hot MFM with some much needed DV.By Casey Donatello
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#50 Cuckolding 101: How To Explore It & Why It Can Be Good For Your Relationship With Venus Cuckoldress
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Cuckolding is a controversial sexual practice that is totally misunderstood but it can actually be a really great addition to the right kind of relationship! Today on the podcast we are joined by cuckolding expert, Venus Cuckoldress to debunk cuckolding myths, hear about the realities of it, and get some tips for incorporating it into our own relat…
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#49 Deep Throating Tips, Becoming A Hotwife & Being Confident Riding Your Man With Casey Donatello
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Casey Donatello is a married, non-monogamous author and podcast host who embraces the Hotwife lifestyle. She is passionate about supporting others on their journey to becoming more confident and unapologetic in their lives and their sexual choices. In today’s episode, she shares her process of recognizing and pursuing a relationship dynamic and sex…
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Jason and I recently took a spontaneous trip to an adult theater and tried something new! Tune in to hear all the dirty details about our incredible night including what made it so different, how many loads were donated to me and who cleaned me after!By Casey Donatello
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#48 How Trauma Affects Your Romantic Relationships With Esin Pinarli, LCSW MCAP
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What if your past didn’t have to dictate your future? Esin Pinarli is a human behavior specialist offering psychotherapy to couples, using the Imago and Gottman methods in conjunction with emotional-focused therapy. She joins us to share her perspective on the deep-rooted beliefs behind our actions and reactions within the context of relationships.…
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Tune in to hear all of the steamy details from our MMF date that started in the hot tub and ended in the playroom! Plus, find out how the wild night inspired some incredible moments between Jason and I later on.By Casey Donatello
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Today I discuss my brand new erotica book - FILTHY FICTION Volume 1: Dirty Daydreams! Plus, my friend and fellow author, Casandra Charles, calls in to chat about why we love writing and how I became a character in her latest book - CODE RED! Both books are available on Amazon! FILTHY FICTION: https://www.amazon.com/FILTHY-FICTION-1-Dirty-Daydreams-…
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Today we discuss some things to consider when creating your own playroom, PLUS we share some exciting news regarding my latest project!By Casey Donatello
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This week special guest pornstar and comedian SILIVA SAIGE calls in to chat! I question her about the reality of being in the adult industry, plus we discuss female sexuality, double standards, shame, favorite positions and more!By Casey Donatello
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Today we answer another round of questions submitted by our listeners.By Casey Donatello
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Wow! Jason & I were very busy this week with four incredibly exciting dates! Tune in to hear the naughty details about hooking up with Mr. #998 and Mr. #999, date night with one of our favorite married men, and a long awaited second round with a super hot BBC. Plus, find out how my newly acquired deepthroating skills are affecting Jason's libido!…
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Jason & I are finally ready to jump back into the playing field after a forced break. Tune in to hear the details from our latest dates including our BBC friend who likes to spank, an impromptu midday MFM, my exciting progress in our deepthroat quest, how I feel when Jason doesn't cum after a playdate, and more!…
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With my ladyparts temporarily out of order, Jason & I need to find alternative ways to entertain ourselves on vacation so we attend our first BDSM/kink event together. Tune in to hear us discuss expectations versus reality, what happens when I am forced to switch from exhibitionist to voyeur, and how it compared to the swinging world. Plus, hear al…
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Today we share some really important things to consider before jumping into a hotwife relationship so you and your partner can be better prepared for the adventure ahead. Learn about essential conversation starters like which dynamic you prefer, selecting guys, creating a pre-date routine, establishing rules for playdates, the excitement of reclaim…
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Today we discuss the ups and downs of dating during the past month and why the lack of reliable guys has temporarily stopped me from reaching my goal of 1,000. We also share the juicy details from three of our incredible recent dates including a repeat encounter with an out of towner, a much needed rendezvous with one of our favorite BBCs and how b…
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I am so excited to have a special guest this week! Tune in to listen to my awesome conversation with Dan (my #1 fan on OF!) We reminisce about some of our most memorable moments during our creator/fan relationship, discuss fan ettiquette, why people choose to subscribe to adult pay sites, and more!By Casey Donatello
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This week Jason and I compare our disappointing experiences with hotel takeovers (from before we met)... Who's first DV got cut short? Who got kicked out of the party? Who ended up having a panic attack and being banished from the hotel room? Plus, find out why we decided to spend NYE at a takeover and more!…
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Today I share several of my scariest experiences in the Lifestyle and discuss how I got myself into those dangerous situations and how I could have potentially avoided them. Find out why I was kicked out of a couple's house, why I passed out at a GB, what led to a physical altercation at a swinger's club, and more!…
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Today we continue our conversation from last week regarding MMFs. We share the REAL story about how we met plus chat about privacy breaches, pegging, answer some listener questions & more.By Casey Donatello
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I am so excited to discuss my absolute favorite formation - the MMF! Find out how both of us experienced our first encounters by accident, why it's so difficult to arrange them, our thoughts on how bi guys are viewed, plus more!By Casey Donatello
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Today Jason and I chat about the wonderful world of GBs. We each reminisce about our personal experiences with them from our single days as well as relive our first joint adventure soon after we met which turned out to be a disaster!By Casey Donatello
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Today we chat about our very different experiences with self-pleasure.By Casey Donatello
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Today we explore my love of multiple men! Find out how I ended up having my very first MFM, our thoughts on DV and DP, used p*ssy, and more!By Casey Donatello
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Today I reveal some of my complications as a unicorn from figuring out general expectations, sexual preferences, keeping emotions in check, the need for boundaries, what I miss most about my single days, why I don't take advatntage of Jason's permission for me to play solo and more.By Casey Donatello
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Today I get vulnerable as I share how relationships in my life have affected me and pushed me towards the Lifestyle including my parent's divorce, mental health issues, being a mistress, low self-esteem, falling for guys with erratic behavior, not practicing enough self-care and more.By Casey Donatello
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Today we dive into the world of foot fetishism & what it entails. Jason also learns how I originally got exposed to it starting with my past boyfriend's kinks, an ad on Craigslist which led to my time spent as a paid foot fetish model, what turns me on the most, and how we incorporate it into our current lives.…
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After we return from Exxxotica, Jason and I seek out some much needed stress relief at an adult bookstore and share our reclaiming with our livestream fans.By Casey Donatello
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Episode 13 - Q & A with C & J (Part 1)
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Join us as we answer our first batch of questions submitted by listeners!By Casey Donatello
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Episode 12 - To Cheat or Not to Cheat
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In this episode, Jason and I discuss our views on cheating including intimacy, trust, sex drives, love languages, wedding rings and more.By Casey Donatello
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Today we share our attempt to find some sexual escapades during a recent trip to Kansas!By Casey Donatello
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Joinus for a very honest discussion about what it's like to be content creators including the positives and negatives.By Casey Donatello
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This week, Jason and I chat about all the ways you can incorporate roleplay into your sex life to add some excitement, plus we share some of our personal success and failure stories!By Casey Donatello
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Today Jason and I discuss all the different ways you can incorporate cum play into your world!By Casey Donatello
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Today we share our thoughts on ways to utilize all of your senses to increase sexual pleasure.By Casey Donatello
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We continue Jason's journey as he transitions from a single guy meeting hotwives to becoming a married man sharing his own!By Casey Donatello
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In today's episode, Jason reluctantly discusses his past relationships and shares some stories from his days as a single male in the Lifestyle before I changed his world!By Casey Donatello
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Today, Jason and I have a little fun as we chat about all things oral!By Casey Donatello
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