Best Casual Acquaintances Podcasts (2024)

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Why does divorce cost so much and take so long? 46:30

14d ago46:30

46:30

Ever wondered why untangling the knot of marriage can feel like braving a labyrinth? In a truth-telling session with financial divorce consultant Mark Hill, therapist Pete Roussos, and attorney Shawn Weber, we uncover the multifaceted journey through divorce. Starting with a chuckle, we quickly delve into the sobering realities couples face as they…

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Steering Through Divorce with Mental Health Support 44:25

2M ago44:25

44:25

Discover the transformative power of mental health support in the realm of divorce with the Three Wisemen of Divorce. This episode delves into the emotional complexities of separation and the pivotal role therapists play in steering individuals towards a collaborative divorce. We unpack the stark contrasts between marital therapy, coaching and medi…

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Using a Financial Specialist to Unpack Your Divorce Mediation 38:42

4M ago38:42

38:42

Discover how to navigate the complexities of divorce with financial savvy and emotional intelligence as we chat with financial divorce consultant Mark Hill, CFP, CDFA, therapist Pete Roussos, MFT, and attorney Shawn Weber. This revealing conversation is packed with expert advice on the crucial role of financial specialists during divorce mediation.…

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The Critical Role of Attorneys in Divorce Mediation 42:46

4M ago42:46

42:46

Discover the surprising truth behind the role of attorneys in divorce mediation and why you should never underestimate their value in steering you toward fair outcomes. As we navigate the complexities of legal separation, we shatter the myth that mediators can, or should, replace the need for expert legal advice. Their seasoned insights reveal the …

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The Weather Outside is Frightful: Holiday Co-parenting 49:09

5M ago49:09

49:09

Sometimes things are hard with the holidays- especially after a divorce. In fact, the weather outside can be frightful. In this episode, Mark, Shawn and Pete discuss the challenges families face when navigating co-parenting during the holidays. The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Financial Divorce Consultant;…

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Types of Mediation 48:54

7M ago48:54

48:54

There are more than one type of mediation. Every mediator has his own mediation style. In this episode, The Three Wisemen of Divorce discuss four different mediation styles: transformative, facilitative, informational and evaluative. Each mediation style has its own pros and cons and it is important to consider what style will work best for your di…

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Divorce During a Financial Crisis 48:59

1y ago48:59

48:59

On this episode of The Three Wisemen of Divorce, our experts tackle a difficult but important topic: divorce during a financial crisis. Drawing on their extensive experience working with clients during periods of economic upheaval, the Wisemen share valuable insights and practical tips for navigating divorce decisions when finances are at their mos…

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Navigating the Forensic Custody Evaluation 50:18

1+ y ago50:18

50:18

This week The Three Wisemen of Divorce sit down with forensic psychologist and family consultant in complex family law cases, Robert A. Simon, Ph.D. If you are involved in a divorce with kids, especially litigation, you may have to endure a forensic custody evaluation. Dr. Simon provides his thoughts and insights about how to prepare for and naviga…

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"Should Old Acquaintance be forgot": Divorce and the New Year 40:10

1+ y ago40:10

40:10

With the New Year come new resolutions and plans for the upcoming year. But what if your New Year's resolution is to get a divorce? Believe it or not, January is known as "divorce season" in the family law business because so many people decide to call it quits after the holidays. Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Financial Divorce Consult…

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Surviving the First Holidays After Divorce 34:34

1+ y ago34:34

34:34

The first holidays after a divorce can be tough. We call it the "Year of Firsts." It's the first Christmas, Passover, Birthday, Fourth of July, and even Super Bowl Sunday while separated. Questions abound such as: How are the holidays split in a divorce? What will Christmas after divorce be like? Should divorced parents spend holidays together? Sur…

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Settlement Readiness 29:55

1+ y ago29:55

29:55

Sometimes a divorce case gets stuck because the professionals or the clients have not taken the time to prepare the case to be ready to settle. Impasse is sometimes nothing more than not having the facts or the emotions ready to find a solution. Learn what it takes to achieve "settlement readiness". The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts …

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The Most Dangerous Time of the Divorce 47:24

1+ y ago47:24

47:24

In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Peter Roussos, M.A., MFT, CST, Psychotherapist; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, discuss why the first two weeks of any divorce is the most dangerous time. Learn what kinds of situations can make this the most dangerous time and…

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How to Tell the Kids About the Divorce (and How NOT to Tell the Kids!) 33:57

2y ago33:57

33:57

What should we tell the kids? How much information should we share? How do we have this conversation? In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, discuss what should and should not be shar…

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"Why can't you be happy for me?": When straying spouses can't understand the pain they cause 42:53

2+ y ago42:53

42:53

We've seen it time and again in divorce cases. When adultery happens, sometimes the adulterer has no clue what kind of pain they are causing. It's almost like folks have blinders. While most states have "no-fault" divorce, the pain of an affair can adversely affect agreement readiness during divorce negations whether courts recognizes fault or not.…

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I can't believe you asked for that! Reacting to insulting proposals in divorce negotiations 42:18

2+ y ago42:18

42:18

Sometimes during a divorce mediation someone makes a proposal that is so off-base it is insulting. The temptation is to get angry, yell or even storm out of the room. But maybe there is a better approach. In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and S…

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Divorce and Real Estate 29:44

2+ y ago29:44

29:44

The Three Wisemen of Divorce discuss the strange COVID influenced real estate market and how it impacts the decisions people in their divorce. Wisemen, financial divorce advisor Mark Hill, CFP, CDFA, psychologist Scott Weiner, J.D., Ph.D. and attorney Shawn Weber, CLS-F chat with realtor and Weber Dispute Resolution mediator Robert Flynn, J.D., SRE…

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Good Remarriage: How not to make the same mistakes you made in your last marriage. 36:34

3y ago36:34

36:34

So, you survived the process of divorcing your ex. Now you want to remarry. How do you avoid repeating same mistakes you made the first time around? In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attor…

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Financial Disclosures 34:58

3y ago34:58

34:58

Financial Disclosures are necessary in every divorce. While the process can be tedious, divorcing parties need to do the financial disclosures truthfully and thoroughly. We know that money can mean a lot of different things to different people. In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Ps…

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Divorce Negotiation and Thinking Outside the Box 33:45

3y ago33:45

33:45

It's very easy to get stuck in a certain way of approaching things, especially during the challenges of a divorce negotiation. In this episode, Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, discuss how creat…

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The Multi-dimensional Aspects of the Marital Home 32:00

3y ago32:00

32:00

Originally recorded on March 8, 2023, the Three Wisemen sit down with Massachusetts Attorney and Mediator Beth Aarons, JD, MSW to discuss the multi-dimensional aspects of the marital home and how it hits the emotional, legal and financial aspects of a divorce. The Three Wisemen of Divorce are Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; …

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Prenups, Postnups and Pillow Talk 43:06

3y ago43:06

43:06

Need to get a prenup? What about a postnuptial agreement after your already married? Divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney, discuss why formal marital agreements can be good and why pillow talk agreem…

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Finding Fault in the "No-Fault" Divorce 40:25

3y ago40:25

40:25

Most jurisdictions in the United States embrace the concept of so-called "no-fault divorce". It makes sense for the Court. No Judge wants to involve themselves in deciding who is a fault when a marriage fails. It's a recipe for a soap opera reality TV proceeding. So the divorce for "irreconcilable differences" often makes the most sense. But some f…

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The Flowers are Dead: When Valentine's Day Leads to Divorce 30:57

3+ y ago30:57

30:57

Valentine's Day may bring love into sharp focus, but for some, it magnifies the fractures in their marriage, leading them to a crossroads: to divorce or not to divorce? The Three Wisemen of Divorce—expert financial analyst Mark Hill, seasoned psychologist Scott Weiner, and esteemed attorney Shawn Weber—join us in an enlightening discussion on the e…

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What to do if one spouse wants a divorce and the other doesn't 49:08

3+ y ago49:08

49:08

It is rare that both spouses mutually agreed that a divorce should happen. Usually, there is a "leavor" and a "leavee". What do you do if you want a divorce and the other person doesn't want to "grant" the divorce? This week, Divorce Wisemen Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; a…

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New Year's Dispute Resolutions 40:50

3+ y ago40:50

40:50

It's that time of the year for New Year's Resolutions. When folks are facing marital problems, they often include a divorce in their plans for the New Year. In this time of rebooting, how can people approach these changes? From a menu ranging from better co-parenting, setting boundaries and new financial choices, what other resolutions might the ne…

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When There's No Place Like Home for the Holidays (After the Divorce) 45:10

3+ y ago45:10

45:10

Divorce can wreak havoc on family holiday traditions. But divorcing parents have the ability to make holidays less painful and a nice memory for their children. While the experience may not be a Norman Rockwell postcard, it can be positive if co-parents take the right steps. Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psyc…

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An Attitude of Gratitude 31:27

3+ y ago31:27

31:27

Divorce is heartbreaking and emotionally tough. During this Thanksgiving holiday, it may be difficult to think about being thankful during such a challenging time. But we have learned that an attitude of gratitude in spite of the challenges can make a big difference. Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Fam…

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Juggling Holidays and Telling the Kids about the Divorce 46:10

3+ y ago46:10

46:10

Two topics this week. First, what is the best approach to talking to your kids about the breakup? We talk about how to get through that difficult conversation. Next, and surprisingly related, we talk about how to juggle the holidays during and after the divorce. Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Att…

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Politics, Pandemics and Paranoia During Divorce 42:28

3+ y ago42:28

42:28

It's elections season. We are in the middle of some of the most stressful times of a generation. Between politics, pandemics, and general paranoia, there is a lot on people's minds. What do folks do when divorce happens in these troubled times. Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator…

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Personality and Divorce with Personality Expert Dr. Richard Levak 44:12

3+ y ago44:12

44:12

Like dog breeds, people have different personality types. Some are more easy going than others. Some struggle to get along with others. The personality types in the marriage has a huge impact on how the divorce will go. The Three Wisemen of Divorce, Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Med…

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High Conflict Divorce 49:29

3+ y ago49:29

49:29

A divorce case with an honest-to-goodness narcissist, borderline, or antisocial personality disorder can be a recipe for a super nasty experience. You can't interact with a High Conflict Personality (HCP) like you would with other folks. In their minds, everything is somebody else's fault and they live for a fight. They are blamers, hotheads, narci…

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Anger and Divorce 37:15

3+ y ago37:15

37:15

Who's angry? It seems that in divorce, anger is very prevalent. But anger is a secondary emotion following hurt. While anger is natural, it can get in the way of thinking clearly and making good decisions. Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Me…

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The Power of the Collaborative Divorce Coach with Special Guest Nancy J. Ross, LCSW 41:08

3+ y ago41:08

41:08

This week we have an enriching discussion with Collaborative Divorce icon Nancy J. Ross, LCSW. Nancy pioneered the concept of the Collaborative Divorce Coach in California at the beginning of the Collaborative Divorce movement. Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber…

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50 Ways to Leave Your Lover (or something like that) 38:05

3+ y ago38:05

38:05

There's more than one way to end a marriage. The Three Wisemen of Divorce discuss the different legal ways to end a relationship to include divorce, legal separation, nullity, post-marital agreements and Marvin actions. Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F*…

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Difficult Times Difficult Divorce 40:14

3+ y ago40:14

40:14

Divorce rates are higher since the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic. Politics are causing polarization in communities and within families. Times are crazy these days. How do difficult times affect divorce? Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law …

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Collaborative Divorce or Mediation? Which is the Right Choice for You? 40:38

3+ y ago40:38

40:38

The decision of HOW you divorce is almost as important as the decision TO divorce. Sometimes it can be very confusing to decide between the many out-of-court processes available. Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA® Financial Divorce Consultant; Scott Weiner, Psychologist, Attorney and Mediator; and Shawn Weber, CLS-F* Family Law Mediator and Divorce Attorney…

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Tips for a Miserable Divorce 42:27

3+ y ago42:27

42:27

We've talked a lot about how to make your divorce more smooth and peaceful. But this week, the Three Wisemen of Divorce share with you the guaranteed ways to have a completely miserable divorce. Mark Hill, CFP, CDFA, Scott Weiner, Ph.D., J.D., and Shawn Weber, JD, CLS-F. The Three Wisemen of Divorce are divorce experts Mark C. Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Fi…

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A Conversation with Stu Webb: The Grandfather of Collaborative Divorce (Part 2) 32:31

4y ago32:31

32:31

Stu had so much to say, we had to break his interview into two parts! We were thrilled that Stu Webb came to join us on the Three Wisemen of Divorce. The Grandfather of Collaborative Divorce, Stu is probably the original and wisest Wiseman of all! A Zen Buddhist and Jazz Musician, Stu brings characteristics you wouldn't expect in a lawyer. Stu has …

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A Conversation with Stu Webb: The Grandfather of Collaborative Divorce (Part 1) 31:05

4y ago31:05

31:05

We were thrilled that Stu Webb came to join us on the Three Wisemen of Divorce. The Grandfather of Collaborative Divorce, Stu is probably the original and wisest Wiseman of all! A Zen Buddhist and Jazz Musician, Stu brings characteristics you wouldn't expect in a lawyer. Stu has mastered the understanding of using love, kindness, and collaboration …

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Back to School Co-parenting in the Age of Cornavirus 39:36

4y ago39:36

39:36

Divorce, Custody and Visitation during the COVID-19 pandemic present new challenges for parents when the kids go back to school. What if parents can't agree on what is safe social distancing? What if the parents can't agree on the school or extracurricular activities? This week The Three Wisemen of Divorce tackle these and other difficult conversat…

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"Good fences make good neighbors" - Setting Boundaries during your Divorce 34:10

4y ago34:10

34:10

This week, the Three Wisemen of Divorce discuss the Robert Frost poem, "Mending Wall," and apply an interpretation to a divorce. Frost writes, "Good fences make good neighbors." What kinds of boundaries are important in your divorce? What sort of "fences" and "walls" are important to maintain when dealing with separation, child custody, visitation,…

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A New Way of Listening During Your Divorce with Special Guest Jaye-Jo Portonova, M.D. 40:25

4y ago40:25

40:25

Jaye-Jo Portanova, M.D. joins the Three Wisemen of Divorce as a special guest this week to discuss how finding a new way to listen and to communicate during your divorce is essential for life during and after your divorce. Jaye-Jo shares her personal story finding new ways to hear and listen as she raised a deaf child who has now grown to be a succ…

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Defining Victory in Divorce 37:06

4y ago37:06

37:06

What does a "victory" in divorce look like? Is it the person who gets the kids? the money? Can you even define victory in divorce? The Three Wisemen of Divorce, Shawn Weber, CLS-F, Mark Hill, CFP, CDFA and Scott Weiner, J.D., Ph.D take a crack at it. Give it a listen and tell us what you think. Presented by Financial Divorce Consultant Mark Hill, C…

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Custody, Coparenting, COVID-19 and the Cruel Hot Summer 37:18

4y ago37:18

37:18

Custody and coparenting during the summer can be challenging enough. Add COVID-19 to the mix and it gets really hard. What happens if the co-parents disagree about coronavirus safety precautions? Do parents agree on whether camps or sports are safe? Is a co-parent, a child or a new significant other in a high-risk group and how will that impact vis…

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Is it the best time or the worst time for a divorce? 34:48

4y ago34:48

34:48

We're in uncertain times. In a time of a shaky economy, housing prices, coronavirus, stay-at-home orders, unemployment and political unrest (to name a few), it can be a difficult time to decide whether the timing is right for a divorce. The Three Wisemen of Divorce discuss different factors people should consider when deciding whether it is the bes…

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Making It Through Without Making It Worse 37:52

4y ago37:52

37:52

People get divorced for a reason. It's not because things are all butterflies, rainbows and fairy dust. There's anger, hurt, pain, fear, and betrayal just to name a few of the difficult emotions associated with a separation. The temptation is to stay angry, hold a grudge and even to seek vengeance. But we've learned that taking the high road can ma…

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Divorce, Well-intentioned Friends, and the Well-paved Road to Hell 26:51

4y ago26:51

26:51

Word gets out that there is a divorce in the works. Well-intentioned friends and family come out of the woodwork to offer advice. What could go wrong? The road to hell is well-paved with good intentions. So be careful where you get your advice and how much you involve your friends. Financial Divorce Consultant Mark Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Psychologist S…

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Your Family Is Not Ending! 30:47

4y ago30:47

30:47

Think the divorce means the end of your family? Think again. Relationships and duties to children, ex-spouses, and even in-laws go on for the rest of your life. This week we discuss the various aspects of your family relationships that will continue after divorce and how those relationships are affected by money, psych and law. Presented by Financi…

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The Divorce Escalator 33:50

4y ago33:50

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Are you stuck on the Divorce Escalator? So many people get caught up in a litigated process for their divorce. But what happens when the attorneys and the "system" takes control of your case? You become a passenger and lose all control. Tune in with Financial Divorce Consultant Mark Hill, CFP®, CDFA®, Psychologist Scott Weiner, Ph.D., J.D. and Atto…

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