Best Dom Sub Living Podcasts (2024)

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4 Ways to Build Trust in a Dom/sub Relationship 13:29

2h ago13:29

13:29

#042 Trust Issues in Your Dom Sub Relationship? Here's How to Fix Them! Trust is the bedrock of any strong D/s dynamic. In this episode we're discussing essential principles for building and maintaining trust. Hear personal experiences and actionable tips to help strengthen trust and create a more fulfilling relationship. Don't miss the insights on…

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323: More Than A Little Hypnosis feat. Little Kenny & HypnoDaddyJ 1:09:44

2h ago1:09:44

1:09:44

This week, Barney is joined by HypnoDaddyJ and Little Kenny from A Little Hypnosis to discuss kink theory and how hypnotherapy can aid in self-acceptance. HypnoDaddyJ then demonstrates a hypno induction for listeners. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Check out A Little Hypnosis 🎪Follow A Little Hypnosis on Twitter 🎪Check out You're N…

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(4 Min Story) Jean’s Self-Limiting Practice on Self-Limiting Identities 4:08

4h ago4:08

4:08

Scott tells a very short story of working with Jean, a woman focused on how self-limiting identities seemed to be at the core of her suffering. Through a series of inquiries and questions, Jean begins to see that the real culprit is something buried beneath those self-limitations and that her practice itself was keeping her safe from ever getting t…

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The Case Against Awareness 42:56

9h ago42:56

42:56

Scott makes the case against awareness and his prior teaching. To learn 3D repression inquiry on your own, here’s our do-it-yourself-course which includes live group calls: https://kiloby.com/introduction-to-nrfs-course/. Here’s our seven day Mentorship Discovery Kit: https://kiloby.com/mentorship-discovery-kit/. The characters in this podcast epis…

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From BDSM Newbie to Expert: Navigating the Stages of Your D/s Journey 13:28

7d ago13:28

13:28

#041 Ever feel overwhelmed by the world of BDSM and don't know where to start? Or maybe you've dipped your toes in and need some tips to level up your game? This episode's for you! We're breaking down everything from newbie basics to expert moves, making it super easy to follow. You'll get the lowdown on building skills, setting up boundaries, and …

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Dom & Sub - A Story of Love & Unconscious Power Dynamics 1:29:59

3d ago1:29:59

1:29:59

You’ve never heard a love story like this before. Listen to this hour and a half unique episode where Scott explains very common unconscious emotional power dynamics through a simple story of two people who love each other as best as they can from the trauma that drives them. In this story, Scott takes us through a fictitious story about transforma…

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322: Fetish Week London '24 1:05:21

3h ago1:05:21

1:05:21

After recovering from covid, Barney recounts his experience at Fetish Week London. Having forgotten to actually interview anyone, he instead gives an authentic account of what one can expect from this week-long event. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Follow Recon on Twitter & Instagram This podcast contains content only suitable for …

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How to Balance a 24/7 BDSM Dynamic with Vanilla Life 12:45

14d ago12:45

12:45

#040 Ever feel like you're juggling your BDSM dynamic with your everyday vanilla life? Join host, Alesandra, as she shares her journey to harmonize work and family with BDSM desires. In this episode, learn practical tips and strategies such as setting boundaries, scheduling BDSM activities, and integrating subtle rituals into daily life. Discover h…

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The Secret Behind the Secret 18:50

4d ago18:50

18:50

Did you know that there’s a secret behind the secret? When it comes to manifesting what you want or living in flow or abundance, we absolutely block ourselves from the level of emotional repression. Because repression is buried, we have no idea that that’s where our blocks are coming from. Listen as Scott illuminates the secret behind the secret, w…

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321: Minisode with the Crypt Keeper 4:03

4d ago4:03

4:03

In this week's not-a-real-episode, Barney coughs up a half-arsed apology after contracting the Fetish Week lurgy and prepares the audience for a much better full episode next week. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram This podcast contains content only suitable for ages 18+. Follow Barney AKA The Muckle Stoater on Twitter & Instagram CLIC…

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Perfectionism in BDSM as a Dom or Sub 21:33

21d ago21:33

21:33

#039: "Perfection is the enemy of progress in your BDSM journey." Join host, Alesandra, as she opens up about her personal struggle with perfectionism as a sub and its impact on her relationship. Discover how the pressure to be perfect can hold both Doms and subs back and learn practical tips to embrace imperfection, set realistic goals, and celebr…

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Emotional Repression - We Buried the Real Story of Our Lives (Special Episode) 53:29

8d ago53:29

53:29

Listen to an intimate and human account of how emotional repression runs our lives. Scott Kiloby is teaching in a new way, telling the hidden narrative of our lives from the unconscious level. Jack and Jill didn’t run up the hill. Jack went to rehab while Jill bamboozled herself by never getting to the root of her suffering. Listen for the first ti…

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The Origin of Control - You Can’t Squeeze Blood from a Turnip 31:04

12d ago31:04

31:04

Welcome to season two of Scott Kiloby’s podcast. A lot of unique and controversial topics are coming. In this episode, Scott takes us on a wild ride through all the intricacies of control and where it comes from in relationship. Weaving in stories of how he groomed people as a non-dual teacher, Scott gets really personal on the topic of how do peop…

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320: Be You, Be Happy feat. Pup Buff 1:07:32

11d ago1:07:32

1:07:32

Pup Buff joins Barney this week, to start off talking about death (in a fun way!), before moving on to his infamous pup video. They discuss community and the joy of embracing who you are before getting horny over inflation... 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Follow Buff on Twitter 🎪Follow Kid Dynamo on Instagram This podcast contains…

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Navigating BDSM with a Disability: Empowering Your Journey 24:53

28d ago24:53

24:53

#038: Can someone with a disability still live the BDSM lifestyle to the full? In this episode, we're diving deep into the world of disability, chronic illness, and kink. With growing awareness around health issues, we're sharing personal stories, practical tips, and the importance of inclusivity. Discover how communication, consent, and specialize…

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319: Delegate World Peace (Part 2) feat. Alastair Noir 1:00:52

19d ago1:00:52

1:00:52

This week, Alastair and Barney continue discussing their conversational bandwidth as Barney discovers he may be a robot. Alastair then talks all about title holding competitions; why they exist, where they come from and what they mean to him. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Follow Alastair on Twitter, Instagram & TikTok This podcast…

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BDSM Degradation & Humiliation Kink: Ideas & Tips 17:02

1M ago17:02

17:02

#037: Want to dive into degradation and humiliation with your partner but afraid you'll cross the line? Let's navigate these intense and thrilling aspects safely and confidently. In this episode, we're diving into the world of degradation and humiliation within BDSM. Learn the differences between degradation and humiliation, explore beginner to adv…

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318: Orgasm Friends (Part 1) feat. Alastair Noir 57:33

1M ago57:33

57:33

This week, Barney is joined by Alastair Noir to talk about loneliness and his fetish journey. They discuss consent, stealing underwear and whether feelings are a disease, all while Barney tries to normalise not communicating ever. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Follow Alastair on Twitter, Instagram & TikTok This podcast contains co…

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Kink and Kids: DOs and DON'Ts for D/s Parents 39:25

1M ago39:25

39:25

#036: How do you balance being a parent and participating in a BDSM dynamic? In this episode, we're uncovering the delicate balance between parental duties and maintaining a Dom/sub relationship. Learn how to segregate roles, keep privacy intact, and educate your kids about consent and respect. Discover practical tips for managing impact scene nois…

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Free Nonduality - #9 - Treasures and Traps of Spiritual Practice 1:45:54

29d ago1:45:54

1:45:54

In this special bonus episode, Scott bridges his teaching here on podcast with his recent free non-duality teaching on YouTube. Scott goes into great detail on how and why people pick up practices that give them benefit while also solidifying a deeply unconscious fear-based habit of avoidance. Proposing a practice that doesn’t send us on a bypass, …

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317: Sexy, Spooky & Stupid feat. Dementio the Clown 58:52

1M ago58:52

58:52

Dementio the Clowns visits The Big Top to discuss the surprising prevalence of clown kinks, while Barney de-clowns after filming for a project. Two clowns talk about clowns, clowning and being a clown. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Follow Dementio on Twitter & Instagram This podcast contains content only suitable for ages 18+. Fol…

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BDSM Q&A: Fresh Ideas, Avoiding Burnout, Navigating DMs 37:43

2M ago37:43

37:43

Ever wondered how to keep your kink life fresh and exciting? Let's uncover some secrets together! In this AMA episode, we're tackling your burning questions about scene improvement, avoiding burnout, and maintaining excitement in long-term BDSM relationships. Alesandra shares personal insights from her D/s partnership with Jay, tips on creating rit…

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316: The ADHD Episode feat. Ricky Cage 1:07:20

1M ago1:07:20

1:07:20

This week, Barney is joined by Ricky Cage to talk hypnosis, gooning, clown porn and of course… tech support! Barney gets flustered over Ricky's clown persona, while his rampant (undiagnosed) ADHD threatens to derail the whole thing. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Follow Ricky on Twitter & JustForFans This podcast contains content o…

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Bisexual Submissive in a BDSM Dynamic: My Story 31:56

2M ago31:56

31:56

#034: How do you balance being bi and submissive? In this episode, we're getting real about the ups and downs of being a bisexual sub while having a Dominant, male partner. We're tackling labels, biphobia, and how the BDSM and LGBTQ+ communities intersect. Plus, find out how a bi sub navigates her non-binary attractions and battles stereotypes. Don…

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315: Porn Is Important feat. Jumper Pup 1:05:30

2M ago1:05:30

1:05:30

This week, Barney is joined by Jumper Pup to talk spandex, elongated bondage and kink-spongery. The conversation veers from sexy circus costumes to heavy BDSM, censorship and sex education. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Follow Jumper on Twitter, Instagram & YouTube 🎪Check out the 'Watts The Safeword' podcast & YouTube channel 🎪Che…

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I’m Teaching Nonduality for Free on YouTube Now (Special Podcast Episode) 1:08:07

2M ago1:08:07

1:08:07

While Scott is on hiatus from podcasting, he wanted to do this special bonus season-end episode to announce his return to teaching on YouTube (Sundays at 5pm pacific - sometimes live)). In this episode, Scott shares intimately about his own personal process with KI 3-D repression inquiry, which led to his return recently on Youtube to being a non-d…

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SSC vs. RACK vs. PRICK: Which Safety Protocol Fits You? 26:28

2M ago26:28

26:28

#033: Is 'Safe, Sane, Consensual' still the gold standard in BDSM, or is it time for a change? We're diving into the ins and outs of communication in BDSM, the buzz around acronyms like RACK, PRICK, and CCCC, and why consent is non-negotiable. We're sharing our thoughts on using "ethical" and the importance of being informed about BDSM practices. P…

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Groove Lounge 33 | Live at Coq D'Argent Roof Terrace 2:09:54

2M ago2:09:54

2:09:54

A blend of rooftop flavours recorded live on the roof Terrace and Coq D'Argent in the heart on the city of London. Tracks from the likes of Barry Can't Swim, ANOTR and an exclusive from myself and Lewis John. Available on Apple Podcasts, Soundcloud, Deezer, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music and more.By Dom Booth

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314: Live & Love Differently feat. Sacha Coward 1:07:08

2M ago1:07:08

1:07:08

This week, Barney is joined by actual academic Sacha Coward, to discuss the folkloric origins of kink. They cover mermaids, centaurs, the historical root of furries, and yes, clowns. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Follow Sacha on Twitter 🎪Pre-order 'Queer As Folklore' on Unbound 🎪Follow Casey on TikTok & Instagram This podcast cont…

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BDSM in your 40s, 50s, and Beyond! 18:30

2M ago18:30

18:30

#032: Here's why it's never too late to jumpstart your sex life and master the BDSM lifestyle. Too many older kinksters worry that they're too late to the game, are discouraged by their age, or think they're too far behind to ever catch up. The truth is age is just a number, and you're never too old to be your best Dom or sub self! Listen in and ge…

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Bonus Ep: Attachment & Sexuality 38:52

2M ago38:52

38:52

In this bonus episode of Safeword, Casey Tanner (of @queersextherapy) unveils insights from their groundbreaking new book "Feel It All", a guide to sexuality that dispels the stale cultural attitudes about sex that leave too many feeling inadequate, and offers an expansive, attachment-based framework to free us and develop bolder, more satisfying r…

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Last Episode of the Season 1:35:54

2M ago1:35:54

1:35:54

Scott sums it all up in this episode. Listen to his final rant of the season. This podcast will resume in the summer of 2024 after a special season bonus coming soon. To get started on the path that Scott discusses on podcast (KI 3D repression inquiry), take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj.…

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313: A Tree-Climbing Fish (Part 2) feat. Pup-E 1:07:43

2M ago1:07:43

1:07:43

This week, Barney continues to be grilled by Pup-E on scary clowns, fears and more! They each share some of their experiences with drugs and towards the end, Enoch makes an exciting announcement for this upcoming Pride. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Follow Pup-E on Twitter This podcast contains content only suitable for ages 18+. …

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Age Gaps in BDSM Relationships 34:30

3M ago34:30

34:30

#031: Is age really just a number? Join host Alesandra as she delves into the complexities of age gap relationships within BDSM. This episode uncovers myths, explores challenges, and celebrates the unique benefits of significant age differences in Dom/sub relationships. Key topics include consent legality, power dynamics, and personal anecdotes fro…

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312: That's Not My Jizz (Part 1) feat. Pup-E 1:04:06

2M ago1:04:06

1:04:06

After accidentally cucking him, Barney is joined by Pup-E to pull an UNO Reverse and interview him instead! They delve into clown kinks, findom, straights in queer spaces and wrestling, as well as Aldi's sweet sweet swag. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Follow Pup-E on Twitter 🎪Follow Noah Gold's kinky and vanilla Twitter accounts T…

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BDSM's Role in My Mental Health Journey 45:54

3M ago45:54

45:54

#030: Struggling with your mental health? You're definitely not in this alone. Your host, Alesandra, has been there and is now sharing her raw take on finding balance with help from the world of BDSM. This chat's packed with real talk about coping mechanisms, the power of a structured dynamic, and even how Alesandra found unexpected support with ke…

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Healing Doesn’t Happen In a Straight Line 1:32:00

3M ago1:32:00

1:32:00

Scott shares personal details mixed with the reality of the process of healing trauma. To get started on this path, take our free repression test: https://nrfs.co/znnj.

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311: Raggedy? My Name Is Just Ann feat. Noah Gold 1:08:06

3M ago1:08:06

1:08:06

This week, Barney is joined by NYC's kinkiest fucker Noah Gold, to talk about community, social media and what Barney did at CAPCon… Amidst arguing about AI and vanillaism, they find they have a lot in common and Barney teases something he’s working on. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Follow Noah's kinky and vanilla Twitter accounts…

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Exploring the Depths of BDSM with Just Press Foreplay 55:32

3M ago55:32

55:32

Ready to unravel the intricacies of BDSM and discover the profound connection it cultivates? Listen in as Suzii from Just Press Foreplay interviews Alesandra in this raw episode. Unpack the complexities of consent, communication, and care in BDSM. From boundary negotiations to the spiritual intertwining of dominance and submission, Alesandra and Su…

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Suffering Is Optional 1:16:39

3M ago1:16:39

1:16:39

Scott explains why he sees himself more as a mentor than a teacher now. He’s interested in empowering people to take responsibility for their own suffering so that they can end it. In the days when he was a teacher, and it was about pointing to presence, the focus was not on the root of suffering. People could not end their suffering and neither co…

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310: Clown Car Diaries 1:11:36

3M ago1:11:36

1:11:36

“So I haven't really planned anything…”, begins Barney as he embarks on a road trip like no other to Manchester and Brighton during The Eagle’s 14th birthday weekend. To fight his loneliness, he talks to the imaginary audience in his phone about attending Mancsbound and how much he hates clubbing. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Che…

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4 Ways to Be a Better Submissive 22:04

3M ago22:04

22:04

Are you the sub you want to be? Dive into the 4 key pillars that separate a good sub from a great one in this episode. Join host Alesandra to uncover how submissives can better serve their Dominants. This episode is packed with actionable tips for enhancing your submission in relationships. To elevate your submission even more, be sure to grab our …

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Dissolving the Sense of Disconnection in Relationship, Spirituality & Life 53:05

3M ago53:05

53:05

Scott shares how disconnection was a way of life for him for many years and even how he used spirituality and the talk of separation to hide the actual programming of trauma and repression in his body producing the disconnection. In the last segment, Scott shares a solution for any and all experiencing disconnection. To get started on this path, ta…

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309: Every Serial Killer’s Dream feat. SexEdWithTim 40:11

3M ago40:11

40:11

This week, Barney’s a guest on the 'Sex Ed with Tim' podcast to discuss STIs, self-confidence and of course, clown sex! The two talk about the many ways they could die, their ever-growing stupidity and whether Princess Diana is still alive… 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram 🎪Follow SexEdWithTim on Twitter & Instagram 🎪Check out the Red…

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Why You Need a BDSM Mentor 30:19

4M ago30:19

30:19

#027: Ever felt lost in your BDSM journey? Dive deep with Alesandra as she uncovers the red and green flags in seeking a BDSM mentor. From identifying qualities of a credible guide to the transformative power of mentorship, Alesandra offers practical advice on navigating the lifestyle with confidence, and offers options for personalized mentorship.…

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The Radical Truth of Being (YourSelf) 47:19

3M ago47:19

47:19

Scott points to how Being and processing the main driver of suffering - emotional repression - come together to reveal our authentic self. This episode also illuminates how we easily get sucked into a vortex of bypassing where we believe falsely that we can just be with what is and truly embody freedom without discovering that we’ve been creating o…

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My Vulnerability - Settling for Safety and Superficiality 1:06:32

4M ago1:06:32

1:06:32

Scott shares intimate details of his life to answer the question, what is real vulnerability? This is a depthful conversation that doesn't settle for superficial. Here, Scott gets to the root of why vulnerability was a trauma response for him in many ways until we cleared the anger repression. To get started on this path, take our free repression t…

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308: Mind Your Business feat. Andromeda Circus 59:32

4M ago59:32

59:32

This week, Barney is joined by Pup Ace who delves into the meaning of BDSM, why community and education matter, and being who you are. They cover self locking, balloon bondage and Ace's mentorship program for kinky critters. 🎪Follow Barney on Twitter, Bluesky & Instagram! 🎪Follow Andromeda on Instagram 🎪Check out Corporate Erin on Instagram This po…

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Connecting with the Kink Community 30:11

4M ago30:11

30:11

#026: Are you curious about joining the kink community? Join Alesandra as she uncovers how to find kinky friends at local munches and dungeons. Discover intimate gathering spots, learn BDSM etiquette, and find out how larger events foster connections. This is your personal invitation to learn how to engage with the BDSM community for ongoing educat…

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Announcement - No Episode This Week 0:54

4M ago0:54

0:54

A quick announcement just to say that this week's episode will not be going ahead due to illness. This podcast contains content only suitable for ages 18+. Follow Barney AKA The Muckle Stoater on Twitter & Instagram CLICK LINK TO USE MY ZENCASTR PROMO CODE FOR 30% OFF ALL PAID PLANS: https://zen.ai/33agVW7tMe8Fuk3lMEY2bQ USE MY SPECIAL LINK TO SAVE…

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