Best Dontea Mitchell Hunter Podcasts (2024)

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Are You Paying Attention to His Intangible Qualities? 16:46

7h ago16:46

16:46

Are you paying attention to intangible qualities? In this episode, we explore the importance of feeling safe, emotionally supported, and respected in relationships. Discover why focusing on these traits over superficial ones like looks and status can transform your connections. We’ll also discuss how recognizing these qualities can help you navigat…

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If He Saw My Value, He'd Want To Keep Me 17:11

14d ago17:11

17:11

Hey loves, we're back with a fresh perspective on self-worth and relationships! Today we’re getting into how our sense of value shapes our behavior, leading us to over-function in our connections. Let's explore the roots of our patterns so we can break free from the cycle of seeking validation. You deserve to show up authentically and feel like you…

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How To Get Exactly What You Desire When Dating To Find Love 51:53

30d ago51:53

51:53

Ready for a dating detox? Join us as we explore the power of resetting your mindset with Lily Womble. Learn to embrace essence-based preferences and transform your love life into a joyful, intentional journey. Tune in for empowering insights and practical advice. – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow Lily on Instagram …

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It's Not Your Type, It's Your Pattern 12:53

1M ago12:53

12:53

In this episode, we explore the difference between having a "type" and recognizing relationship patterns. Learn how to break free from cycles of emotional unavailability and attract the love you deserve. Discover how to identify and change your relationship patterns for healthier, more fulfilling connections. 💖✨ – Please rate, review, and share the…

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Why You're Still In A Situationship 17:31

2M ago17:31

17:31

Oh, situationships... they really are what you make of them! If it's meeting a need, keep it going. But if it's hurting you or your self-esteem, then it's time to exit stage left. What matters is that you aren’t lying to yourself. Don't stick around expecting their values to change or expecting them to see your worth. Instead, accept it for what it…

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Managing Expectations in Female Friendships with Danielle Bayard Jackson 29:28

3M ago29:28

29:28

This week, dive into the complex world of female friendships with the insightful Danielle Bayard Jackson, certified friendship coach, educator, and author of "Fighting for Our Friendships." In this episode, Danielle explores the nuanced dynamics of disagreements among women, the natural lifecycle of friendships, and when it might be time to let go.…

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Navigating Toxic Relationships: Signs, Solutions, and Self-Care 20:06

3M ago20:06

20:06

Hey loves, today we're hitting the facts on toxic relationships—no fluff, just the real deal. We're unpacking disrespect, boundary violations, and how to spot manipulation. It's all about cutting through the drama to find your joy and self-worth. Ready to empower yourself and live your best life? Let’s do this together! – Please rate, review, and s…

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Beyond Labels 13:32

4M ago13:32

13:32

Hey there! Ever felt stuck in the "good faux girlfriend" cycle? Let's dive deep into proving our worth in relationships on Situationship. Join me as we uncover the dynamics of constantly jumping at the chance to see them, unsure of when we'll hear from them again. It's time to reclaim our identity and goals. Tune in for tips on setting boundaries, …

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Figuring Out What You Want and Need From Others 10:22

4M ago10:22

10:22

Hi loves! I just wanted to check in with a mini-sode. As season changes, we begin to grow. As we do, let's define our needs, wants, and core values. Because, let's be real, how can you get what you want if you're not sure what it is? – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow the show on Instagram @SituationshitPod Follow m…

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Why Dating Yourself is Important 21:37

4M ago21:37

21:37

I'm excited to talk about this episode today. There was a time where I could never have imagined going on a solo date. One day I decided I was just going to go and you know what? And I ended up loving it. Loving it! Do you hear me? I loved it. So give it a try. When you do it, come back and let me know what you've realized about yourself, what you …

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Ways to Get Back to You After a Breakup 23:18

5M ago23:18

23:18

Hey loves and lovelies, this week, we're delving into the labyrinth of breakups, but not just the negative side—we're exploring the profound, personal transformations they can ignite in us. Whether it's romantic, platonic, or professional, breakups can leave us feeling scattered, but they also present a unique opportunity for self-discovery and gro…

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What It Looks Like to Practice Self-Worth 16:31

5M ago16:31

16:31

Hey loves! I hope you are well. Today, we're talking about what it looks like to practice self worth. What does self-worth mean to you? If you're like me, it can be easy to get stuck in the mindset that your worth is defined by others. Check in with your values and remember that it's ok to feel like you deserve happiness. - Please rate, review, and…

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Untangling Codependency and Escaping Situationships 50:55

6M ago50:55

50:55

Today on the show we have Marissa Esquibel. You met her a few episodes ago when I released an interview from her podcast Codependummy Marissa is a psychotherapist who provides talk therapy online to young women struggling with codependency, depression, and anxiety. Codependent behavior begins in childhood as a way to adapt to our surroundings. It b…

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Dating, Sex Positivity, and Queer Beginnings 53:36

6M ago53:36

53:36

Today’s episode has been in the works for a long time. Let me introduce TikTok personality, performer, and digital marketing maven Jazelle. She uses her online presence to explore and celebrate the joys of being part of the “baby gay” community. What’s a baby gay? Don’t worry - we define it in the episode. Tune in to learn how to give yourself per…

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Dontea' Joins Kristin & Ruth on 'Parts, Power & Leadership' Podcast 30:36

7M ago30:36

30:36

This is a rebroadcast of an episode of Parts, Power & Leadership. Hosts Ruth and Kristin had never heard the term “situationship” and I had a great time getting into the definition with them. The focus of their show is on women in leadership so I shared how I became a business owner and traced my entrepreneurial roots all the way back to childhood.…

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Chosen to Choosing with Dontea' - an episode of "The Codependummy Podcast" with Marissa Esquibel 53:28

7M ago53:28

53:28

This week I’m sharing an episode of the Codependummy podcast. Marissa invited me onto the show to chat about what codependence means and how it’s affected me personally. If you’re looking for another uplifting podcast that centers on self worth, check out more of her episodes, “ya dummy!” ---- Welcome to Episode 143! In this episode, we are graced …

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Why The Solstice Affect Our Self-Worth with Allison Ramsey 53:16

8M ago53:16

53:16

A few episodes back I was talking about the changing of the seasons, falling leaves, and death. So I have a very special treat for you today. This episode our guest is Allison Ramsey, a licensed psychotherapist and Fertility survivor with degrees in environmental education. Her calling is to help women realign with the rhythms of nature to reclaim …

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How to Nurture Yourself and Attract Healthy Relationships with Your Astrological Natal Chart 1:10:54

8M ago1:10:54

1:10:54

Ready to explore the cosmic secrets to your ideal match? Join me and my guest, Tamerri, as we dive into the mystical world of astrology and relationship compatibility! Tamerri is an astrology expert and founder of Gift of the Nile. Discover your hidden astrological insights, get inspired to embrace your unique traits, and find out how your birth ch…

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Falling for Self-Worth: Embracing Autumn and New Love 27:56

9M ago27:56

27:56

Aah fall, the season for Ugg boots, sherpa sweaters, and spiked apple cider. It's time to slow down, pay attention, and embrace new beginnings. When you see the leaves fall, let it remind you to let go of what no longer serves you. Take this time of year to say thank you to difficult experiences and find beauty in the transformation. Now get in los…

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Embracing Your Authenticity Equals Liberating Yourself from the People Pleaser Trap 18:41

9M ago18:41

18:41

I’m so in love with fall. Let’s FALL in love with ourselves this autumn (I know that was so corny). This episode, I want us to talk about embracing ourselves so we can escape the people pleasing trap. Those of us with people pleaser personalities may forgo our own wants and needs in order to accomodate others. We’re looking for validation, for acce…

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How Do You Know If It's a Situationship? 14:46

10M ago14:46

14:46

Hey babes! Ever been in that “What are we?” situation? (or are you in that situation right now?) If you’re having trouble figuring out if it’s a situationship or a relationship, I’ve got four signs to look out for. Listen to the episode to hear what they are. – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow the show on Instagram …

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Are You the Hostage in Your Relationship? 13:47

10M ago13:47

13:47

Welcome back, lovely listeners! Today we’re diving into the complexities of knowing when to stay and when to leave a relationship. Ever found yourself in a situation where you love someone's company but can't ignore those nagging doubts? Discover the "Hostage Girl" phenomenon and learn how to reclaim your own happiness. Tune in now and embrace the …

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Are You the Good Faux Girlfriend? 11:24

11M ago11:24

11:24

Have you heard the term “playing house”? It essentially means that you’re doing all of the relationship things but you’re not actually in a relationship. Or what I like to call, being the faux girlfriend. It’s almost like an audition. You’re doing your best at playing the part of their girlfriend to show how great it would be if they actually dated…

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Are You the Comfort Seeker Girl? 14:40

11M ago14:40

14:40

Hey friends! Welcome back. Today, as you can tell from the title, I’ve got one question for you: Are you the comfort seeker? It’s not a bad thing! Don’t worry. It’s just something to be aware of. When you’re feeling low, what do you reach for? Is it a favorite snack, rewatching that same tv show, or maybe some good old fashioned S-E-X? Whatever it …

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Let's Get Messy This Summer 15:08

11M ago15:08

15:08

It’s hot girl summer, y’all! That means embracing your true, confident self. Nobody else can be YOU. Bring a care-free authenticity to your relationships this summer and see what happens! – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow the show on Instagram @SituationshitPod Follow me @SoireesInTherapy If you want to work with m…

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Why You Like a Challenge 12:47

12M ago12:47

12:47

This one might make you feel a little called out - and maybe it should! Do you ever find yourself passing up friends or partners who want your attention but pining for people who are unavailable? That's ok! It's really common. Let’s talk about where this behavior comes from and and how we can work on it. – Please rate, review, and share the show wi…

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Bullying in Friendships 9:49

1y ago9:49

9:49

Sometimes when we think of “relationships” we only think of the romantic kind. Remember that everything you’re learning on this podcast and along your self-worth journey can be applied to all other kinds of relationships. Bullying in friendships can be hard to see. It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that to be somebody’s bestie you have to…

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My Self Worth Journey 35:22

1y ago35:22

35:22

For a lot of us, we don’t necessarily learn until later in life that our value doesn’t come from the outside. Especially as women, we’re taught that one of our most desirable skills is people pleasing. I finally stepped away from living for everyone else’s approval and I feel so free. I hope you can relate to this episode and it helps you on your s…

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Why You See Your Worth in Men 17:01

1y ago17:01

17:01

This episode was inspired by a recent coaching session. For a long time I let others determine my worth. If you’re anything like me (and you probably are) you’re waiting for external validation. Let’s put the SELF in self worth, right? Don’t dim yourself or be smaller or change your values in order to be chosen. Assess what you really want and then…

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The Fine Line: Navigating Situationships and Maintaining Your Self Worth - an episode of "The Grace Matrix" with Maria Grace Wolk 29:29

1y ago29:29

29:29

You all, Grace brings out a different side of me. I was a guest on The Grace Matrix podcast and it's a great episode. Of course we talk about situationships. But we also get into the personal experiences that shaped me and caused me to pursue unhealthy relationships. If you think I've shared it all before, buckle up. I get very honest in this inter…

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4 Things Being in Situationships Taught Me About My Needs 18:34

1y ago18:34

18:34

I’m here to share a story, today. After spending ten, maybe eleven years in situations I’m finally in a place where I can see them coming. That wasn’t time wasted, though. By not getting my needs met I actually learned what my needs were. – Please rate, review, and share the show with your friends! Follow the show on Instagram @SituationshitPod Fol…

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Why You Should Go Where You Are Wanted 16:47

1y ago16:47

16:47

Go where you’re wanted. It might sound obvious but it’s not. Start noticing how the people in your life make you feel. Are you fighting for attention? Are you silenced? Maybe it’s time to stop worrying about getting affection from people who are withholding and instead choose to spend time with people who value you. – Please rate, review, and share…

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Learning About Self Worth with Dontea' - an episode of the "Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast" with Anwar White 37:54

1y ago37:54

37:54

Back in season two, episode five, our guest was Anwar White. Anwar is a fantastic dating and relationship coach and has his own podcast called Get Your Guy Coaching. This is actually an episode of his show where I was the guest! We both get personal and share tough times in our pasts where we struggled with low self worth. I hope you walk away from…

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Why You're Really Not Leaving Him 15:30

1+ y ago15:30

15:30

Today I might be coming in a little hot, my loves. Tell me, does this sound like you? You know they’re the ONE but they’re not prioritizing you. They say they’ll call after work but don’t hit you up till 10 p.m. As much as you want to ignore them… you answer. Why? I’m going to drop some truth on you… are you ready? You’re “always available,” like w…

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Why Am I Not Getting My Needs Met? 15:27

1+ y ago15:27

15:27

If you're really great at figuring out what people need, maybe it's because you HAD to get good at it. A lot of us who come from environments where people didn't directly communicate their feelings grew into adults who prioritize the comfort of others. Don't be afraid to speak up. Your needs are just as important as anyone else's! Please rate and r…

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Are You the Always Available Girl? 15:02

1+ y ago15:02

15:02

In the first official episode of Season 4, we dive into a topic that many of us may be familiar with: being the "always available" woman. Being the always available woman means believing that our needs come last. We cancel plans and drop everything for this person. And when they don't reciprocate, it can leave us feeling hurt. Tune in to this episo…

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Tips for Having Your Best Valentine’s Day 17:04

1+ y ago17:04

17:04

Oh Valentine’s Day… It’s a complicated holiday. It’s supposed to be all about love but for a lot of us it brings up anxiety. V-day can make you question whether your relationship is official or not, it can make us insecure about being single, or we can feel pressure to spend a ton of money. In this episode I share some ways that you can make the be…

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Worth Everything Chat 24:25

1+ y ago24:25

24:25

This is a talk I gave as part of my “Worth Everything” program. This eight week program will teach you how to accept yourself and know your worth. Included are video lessons, weekly zoom talks, and an online community to give and receive support from your fellow queens. Visit Dontea.co to learn more and join the waitlist.…

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Stop Calling Your Ex 22:44

1+ y ago22:44

22:44

It's beyond normal to wonder about your ex and even fantasize about reuniting to try again. There are so many moments after you leave a relationship, whether it be a situationship or not, where you often wonder if you made the right choice. Should you go back or keep it where it's at? Sit tight. I'll help you decide. In this episode I share four qu…

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Loving Yourself Unconditionally with Relationship Coach Candice Harper 49:27

1+ y ago49:27

49:27

Today’s guest, Candice Harper, is a Relationship Coach, a Certified/Licensed Hypnotherapist, and a Workshop Facilitator. She teaches singles and couples how to heal from the past and love themselves unconditionally. Join Candice’s free live masterclass to become a “Healthy Man Magnet” Listen to Candice’s podcast Love Life Skills for Leaders In Janu…

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Where Are All the Good Guys? 18:00

1+ y ago18:00

18:00

You might not want to hear this but there are good guys everywhere. In this episode I have 3 tips for getting out of mediocre relationships. Self-worth and happy singledom is the first step to finding a fulfilling relationship and each of my tips were written to help you realize that you truly deserve what you're seeking. Come join me for Single an…

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3 Ways To Regain Self-Trust After Your Situationship Ends 29:16

2y ago29:16

29:16

Hello my sweet babies! Today we’re talking about the emotional fallout from ending a situationship. You did the right thing - good job respecting yourself! But just because your relationship wasn’t defined doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt. In this episode I share three tips to regain your self-trust after it all ends - letting go of the fear that you w…

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5 Ways To Make A Situationship Work, Even If You Want More 18:04

2y ago18:04

18:04

Ok, ok. I know the name of the show makes it sound like there’s no such thing as a good situationship. But that’s not necessarily true, boo. It’s still heaux season for a few more days. There’s nothing wrong with something low-commitment so long as everything is above board. Do what you want, have your fun, just be sure to establish the expectation…

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How To No Longer Live In Pain In Relationships 59:21

2y ago59:21

59:21

Why are we expected to endure pain? In platonic and romantic relationships, physically, and even culturally. Today, Janelle is joining us to talk about how to work with that pain and find joy. A racial equity advocate, mom to three cats (if you listen carefully, you can hear them in the background), and one of my favorite people in the world, Janel…

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Season Three is Here! 2:42

2y ago2:42

2:42

We've had our glow up. We've changed the name from Detox Therapy to Situationsh!t. It's not that the direction of the show has changed so much as I'm learning what my strengths are and what's fun for me to make. This season we're going to have a lot of great conversations with some brilliant people. I also have some exciting news coming that I can'…

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How To Date As An Act Of Self-Care with Dating Coach Lily Womble 45:14

2y ago45:14

45:14

This episode is so fun! Lily and I are podcast soulmates. We even spontaneously break into song! Do yourself a favor and listen to this one today. There are a lot of different professionals and services that can help you find a happy relationship. Everyone’s needs are different and no program can guarantee you’ll find love. However, if you’re looki…

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Dating Differently with Relational Therapist Natalie Fewell 31:41

2y ago31:41

31:41

Natalie Fewell is a relational therapist who is here with one clear message: we can thrive in the wake of breakup and divorce. There is a lot of societal shame around being single and especially around divorce. But there’s no reason anyone should have to feel that way. The end of a relationship is a learning opportunity, a jumping off point. As a t…

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How to Not Focus on the Fairytale: Should I Stay or Go? 16:04

2y ago16:04

16:04

Today’s episode is inspired by another listener question! They ask: “When I think about my past relationships, or even when I am in one, I always think about the good times, and then I get all confused and don’t know if I gave up or am giving up to soon. How will I know?” Things tend to look better in the rearview. We remember the good times and sk…

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How to Ask for Help 14:47

2y ago14:47

14:47

Sometimes when you need a friend the most, it can be the hardest to reach out. There's no reason to suffer alone. Your friends love you and want to give you support and care. Please rate and review if you enjoy the show! / Don’t forget to rate and review! / Please rate, review, and tell your friends! / If you like the show, be a love and leave us a…

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How To Figure Out Who You Are So Others Won't Do It For You 11:58

2+ y ago11:58

11:58

Why is figuring out who you are so important? Well mainly so others don’t impose their own values and truths on you. When we let others lead us without questioning who we are, what we stand for, or what we do not tolerate, we lose ourselves. Take the time to look inside and find a clear sense of your boundaries, expectations, values and desires. Wi…

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