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Spit Or Swallow is a podcast hosted by self-appointed orgasm gap eradicator of the federal republic @hausachocolate who puts the ‘ho’ in wholesome. SOS navigates and explores the world of Sex and Sexuality with no limits. Nothing is too over the top, embarrassing or out of bounds. It’s a journey of liberation, enjoyment and education. A judgement free zone demystifying sex matters where we unlearn harmful ideals, while having fun and gaining practical tips to live your best sex life along th ...
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Marital Sex Isn’t Boring ft. William and Ayo Lawal
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Welcome to another special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast! Today, Hausa Chocolate is joined by talented creatives, William and Ayo Lawal. Together they discuss marriage, infidelity, assumptions and misconceptions about monogamous marriages, Madonna-Whore Complex, sexual safety, contraceptives, keeping sex spicy and so much more. Themes: Lon…
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Are You D!ckmatized or Lost In The Sauce? Ft. Ed Gothboy
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Welcome back to Spit or Swallow, where we dive deep into the juiciest topics around sex, relationships and intimacy. In this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by our favourite guest, amazing journalist, critic and Sex Sensei, Ed Gothboy. Join them as they delve into the concept of "dickmatization," explore the allure of having that unexplainable "…
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Welcome back to another episode of Spit or Swallow! On this special episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by a gender non-conformist Gozie who is a model and creative powerhouse. They share their experience navigating being a minority in Nigeria, shed light on their journey and coming into their own identity while tackling the so…
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Welcome back to Spit or Swallow Podcast! Joining your favourite host Hausa Chocolate today is Licensed Clinical Psychologist Aanu and they discuss trauma and sex. What trauma really means, how it manifests, cause and effect and what healing can look like. Aanu shares her insights on how inclusive therapy can be a game-changer in healing and growth,…
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What’s the difference between love and crack? Today on this special episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Dark Chocolate Amiola and they talk about our favourite chemical reaction in the brain, love. They examine the relationship between sex and love. From the complexities of developing strong emotional attachments to the delicate balance between d…
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Navigating Different Identities In A Heterosexual Marriage ft. Tolu
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On the latest episode of Spit or Swallow your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by Tolu, a married, queer-identifying Nigerian. She shares her becoming story. They talk about her first pride event after moving, navigating queer sexual identities in a heterosexual marriage, discovering community abroad, how relocating changes how a person vi…
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Sex Education (The Lack Thereof) In Nigeria ft. Olori Coitus
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In today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Olori Coitus, a brilliant Sex Educator, Intimacy Director and Public Health Expert. They unpack the exciting world of spreading accurate information on sex in Nigeria's sexually ‘repressed’ society. Olori Coitus shares how she got into Sexual Health, her journey so far, the road blocks she’s experienc…
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Hausa Chocolate is joined by a male stripper extraordinaire, Sugar Ken! Together they dive into the exciting world of stripping! While Sugar Ken might not be giving away free lap dances, he's certainly serving up some piping hot truths! They discuss the highs and lows of stepping into the spotlight, tips for successful marketing and branding in the…
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Divine Desire: Unveiling Eros With An Erotic Goddess ft. Joy
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On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate sits with an erotic goddess, a reiki healer, companion and guide, Joy. They talk about the connection between sex and spirituality, helping men access deeper intimacy and their inner eros. Joy’s journey as a medium and a creator and also exploring unconventional love and relationship styles. Enjoyy! Themes: Spiri…
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Silver Sex ft. Cheron K. Griffin & Mr. Hunni Bunni
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On this amazing episode of the podcast, Hausa Chocolate gets into silver sex with Cheron. K. Griffin an dating concierge, author, matchmaker and relationship coach together with her husband Mr. Hunni Bunni. They discuss her journey transitioning out of purity culture as an ex preacher’s wife, her various marriages, finding herself and true love wit…
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True Romance Is Dead! ft. Luciano & Torera
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Love is in the air! Isn’t it? On this special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast, Hausa Chocolate, Luciano and Torera talk about love, romance and everything Valentine’s Day! What do you do when your situationship airs you on Love Day? They also discuss their hate languages, share funny stories, past experiences and talk about what love means t…
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Sexual Revolution ft. Teso The Star Seed
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On this amazing episode, your favourite host is joined by Teso, a model, writer and podcaster and creative. They discuss their sexual liberation journeys. The impact of visible voices going against the grain. They also talk about partnerships, community and finding alignment into today’s society. Enjoyy Themes: Sexual Liberation, Feminism, SocietyD…
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Mind-Body-Spirit Wellness ft. Oyin Talabi
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On this amazing episode of the pod, Hausa Chocolate gets into holistic wellness with Oyin Talabi. They discuss New Year Resolutions, the Mind-Body-Spirit connection mindful living practices, becoming in tune with one’s self and general tips on improving our mental health and sex lives. Themes: Mindfulness, Meditation, Wellness Don’t forget to rate …
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We Are In An Open Marriage ft. The Play Smith & Venolia
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On this interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Play Smith and his wife Wade who are in an open marriage. They discuss how they met, the easy and hard parts of being in an open marriage, navigating it with friends, family and the dating pool, trust, honesty and so much more! Enjoyy! Themes: Open Relationships, Polyamo…
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Logical Lovers, Intimacy and Size Queens ft. Dr. SID
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Welcome back to another amazing season of the Spit Or Swallow Pod with your favourite host Hausa Chocolate! On today’s slightly chaotic episode, Hausa Chocolate and the multifaceted Dr SID discuss intimacy differences in men and women, how logic and emotion feed love, analyze what makes long term relationships last, sexual liberalism, communication…
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Living in a Post-Label Lagos (ft. Tushar )
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It’s another Season Finale! Thank you so much for sticking with us this season! On this episode, Hausa Chocolate and Tushar talk labels, gender and queer s-x! They have an insightful conversation about what it’s like to be questioning while actively exploring your identity in the tumultuous yet exciting city of Lagos! Themes: Gender, Sexuality, Lab…
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On this episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Nengi Adoki and they discuss going from the streets to the sheets and the messiness that happens in between. They also talk open relationships, cheating, what to do when you’re propositioned by a couple and more! Themes: Casual Sex, Polyamory, Power Dynamics Enjoyy! Don’t forget to rate us and share! St…
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Emotional Safety and Sex (ft. Tayo Bero)
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On this episode Hausa Chocolate holds an insightful conversation about sexual safety with award winning writer and activist , Tayo Bero. they talk about psychological and emotional safety and sex, sexual agency, power dynamics and the radicalisation of pleasure. Themes: Safe Sex, Sexual Agency, Gender Norms Enjoyy Themes: Mental Health, Anxiety, Se…
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The Period (Sex) Episode (ft. Valerie Ekpo)
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On today's important episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by storyteller Valerie Ekpo and the girls talk red! They discuss Periods, PMS, PMDD, and other conditions like PCOS and Endometriosis. They also talk about period sex and period shame. Enjoy! Themes: Periods, Period Sex, PCOS Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connect…
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In The Mood For Sex (ft. Ed Goth Boy)
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On this juicy episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an SOS favorite Ed Goth Boy and they get into a loaded and informative conversation about what gets us in the mood for sex. How media influences the kind of sex we have, they also go into sex playlists and the differences between Ritual and Ego Sex Music. Dive in and enjoy! Themes…
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Erotic Stories and Sexual Fantasies (Ft Lavezzed Out & Ore Badmus)
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On this riveting episode your fave Hausa Chocolate is joined by two Erotic Writers Ore Badmus and sexfluencer Ola AKA Lavezzed Out. They talk about erotica, sex writing and sexual fantasies. They also discuss multipartnered sexual relationships and share some real life and slightly garnished sex stories. Enjoyyy!! Themes: Erotica, Sexual Fantasy, P…
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As mental health awareness month draws to a close your favorite host Hausa Chocolate touches on the nexus between mental health and sex. How they are connected and all moving parts of the same system. She discusses the psychological benefits of a good Sex Life, some sexual dysfunctions and the importance of sexual self-actualization, and more. Enjo…
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“Fellas, Is It Gay?” (ft. Kayode Ani)
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On this exciting episode of the pod, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by queer activist, creative, and writer, Kayode Ani. They dive into a multifaceted discussion about the politics and realities of queerness in Nigeria. Kayode shares his experiences being an activist, they discuss his journey, facing violence as well as the various …
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On today’s episode, your fave host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by visual artist, Alexis and they discuss bad sexual communication during sex. We always go on about ‘communication’ being the bedrock of good sex but what are the wrong ways to do it in and out of the bedroom? Enjoy! Themes: Sexual Communication, Shame, Ghosting Don’t forget to rate us …
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Being A Pornstar In Nigeria (ft. Wunmin Savage)
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On this super interesting episode, your favourite host, Hausa Chocolate, is joined by an Adult Film Star and they take a glimpse into the Nigerian porn industry. Wunmin Savage shares her experiences being a porn actress and navigating the adult content scene in Nigeria. They talk about dealing with the attention, revenue and so much more! Themes Di…
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On today’s episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Lotanna Don and they discuss Oral Sex, its importance, societal and gender attitudes towards giving and receiving oral sex and share some of their experiences. They also discuss tips for better head and Hausa Chocolate whips at some interesting tools so don’t forget to catch the episode on YouTube to…
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This week on the pod Hausa Chocolate is joined by @the_mansu, CEO of HerRyde and they have an insightful conversation about reconciling sex and sexuality with religion. A lot of societal attitudes and views on sex are shaped by religion and interpretations of it, so how do you express yourself sexually when some of your beliefs are inherently suppr…
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Sex Tapes, MMF Threesomes and The Underground Sex-Scene (ft. Folusho OG)
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On this episode, your favorite host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by music consultant Folusho OG and they have a hilarious, informative episode about masturbation, early sex education, MMF threesomes, sexting, sex tapes, and the underground sex scene. Themes Discussed: Erotophobia, Morality, Monogamy Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay connected w…
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Throat Goats, Dirty Sheets and Sexual Communication (ft. Valerie Ike)
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On this week's episode, our delectable host, Hausa Chocolate is joined by TV presenter and fellow podcaster Valerie Ike. They dive into a riveting discussion about sexual communication and all the chaos in between. Why don’t people communicate with their partners easily about sex? How do you express your sexual needs? What happens if you throw up E…
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Bisexual for Sex, Heteroromantic for Love (ft. Coco)
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This week, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Coco and they have a super interesting discussion about the continuum of sexuality and attraction. If a bisexual woman can only have sex with women but will date and marry men could that be homophobia and social conditioning? How much of our preferences are not externally influenced? Tap in to listen to this …
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Sexuality vs Sensuality (ft. Ashley Okoli)
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On this sizzling episode, our self-appointed orgasm gap eradicator is joined by Ashley Okoli where they discuss sexuality and sensuality, objectification, Living confidently as your truest self and so much more! Don't forget to like, subscribe and share! It allows more people to find and enjoy the podcast Themes discussed: Sexualization, Sexuality,…
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The Madonna–Whore complex (ft. Menisms Podcast)
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On today’s episode Hausa Chocolate is joined by Ashley Okoli and they discuss sexuality vs sensuality, how people often use them interchangeably, dealing with preconceived notions and certain types of energy when you’re perceived as a ‘sexual being’. They also touch on authenticity and living confidently as your truest self and much more. Themes Di…
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Discovering Your Sexual Self (As A Man). (ft Anny Roberts)
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Our delectable host, Hausa Chocolate is back and putting the ho in wholesome. On this episode, she’s joined by illustrious artist and photographer Anna Roberts and they discuss the intricacies and nuances of coming into oneself sexually, sexual expectations of men and overall ways to have a more fulfilling sex life. Themes Discussed Stereotypes, Pl…
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Embodied Sexuality, Sensuality and Pleasure (ft. The Pleasure Priest)
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This episode, Our host - The Orgasm Gap Eradicator' and The Pleasure Priest - Two women in the sexual wellness space link up for an exciting episode. They discuss sensuality, sex education, teaching women how to connect with their bodies and how to live a more orgasmic life. And much more! Themes discussed: Sensuality, Orgasms, Sexual Wellness, Sex…
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Sex Lives of, Step-Siblings and Sex Stories (ft RnB Princess)
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On this episode, our host is back for a new season with bigger, badder energy, still putting the ‘ho’ in wholesome and staying sexy while doing it. She is joined by musician and the podcast producer 'RnB Princess, they take a peek into Hausa Chocolate’s DMs, discuss interesting “Sex Lives Of’ submissions and share a few Sex Stories. Themes discusse…
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STDs, STI‘s and other Sexy Time Infections (ft. Dr. Stallion)
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And for our last episode of the season, our host is joined by health professional, Dr. Nosa Jeff Oshodi (a.k.a Dr. Stallion) to discuss sexually transmitted infections, diseases and all other sexy time infections. In this episode, they discuss the distinction between STIs and STDS, unprotected sex, using over-the-counter relief options or self-medi…
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Sexpectations, Stereotypes and Fine Boy Privilege (ft. Eso Dike)
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This week our host is joined by one of the sexiest men in Nollywood, Eso Dike. In this episode, they discuss sexual stereotypes and ‘sexpectations’ of men alongside parental influence and sexual kinks. Eso also shares some tea on his experience as an attractive actor in Nollywood, being sexualized, ‘pretty privilege’ and more. Themes: Stereotypes, …
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On this week’s special solo episode, our host takes us through an in-depth discussion into having better and more enjoyable sex. She dissects popular sexual myths, explores the importance of some key sexual concepts such as consent, communication (when & how), masturbation, performance anxiety, premature ejaculation, and more. She also speaks about…
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Transactional Sex and the Billings Pandemic (ft. SGawD)
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On this episode, our host is joined by multifaceted artiste/rap goddess, SGawD to discuss Transactional Sex and how it differs from Sex Work. They also talk about the ‘Billings’ pandemic, Lagos streets and if there is true romance without finance. Themes discussed: Sex Work, Finances, Relationships, and more. Don’t forget to rate us and share! Stay…
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Age Gaps, Ratchet Fucks & Dependable Fucks (ft. Ed)
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On this episode, our host is joined by Bespoke Designer & Writer and dependable fucks connoisseur, Ed. This fully-packed conversation spanned from Age Gaps in sex & relationships, gender performance and sexuality to dependable and ratchet fucks. We also touch on the primality of sex, your vestigial sex self and how your ultimate orgasm might lie in…
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This week, our host is joined by Enee (artist/creative) and they discuss Asexuality. Together, they dissect the sex life of an Asexual person within the African community and the performative culture of sex due to heteronormativity. Enee also shares her journey of self discovery and experiences amidst under-representation. Themes discussed: Sexuali…
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If You Can’t F**k Your Friends Who Can You F**k (ft. Mene)
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On this week’s episode, our host is joined by Mene (digital creator & entrepreneur) to discuss sexual relationships and friendships. Is having sex with your friends a big deal? Does it change the friendship for the worse or better? They discuss their experiences, preferences and boundaries. They also open the floor to a few men in the room to share…
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Being Over-Sexualized as a ‘Baddie’ (with Yazzavelli)
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On this week’s episode, our host is joined by Yazzavelli - rapper, singer and songwriter. They discuss the over-sexualization of women who are comfortable in their sexuality, being stereotyped when you have a ‘baddie’ persona and their general experiences in a conformist society. Themes discussed: Over-Sexualisation, Nudity, Dressing, Patriachy, an…
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Polyamory, Consensual Non-Monogamy, etc (with Ozzy Etomi)
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On this week’s episode, Hausa Chocolate is joined by Writer and Founding member of the Feminist’s Coalition, Ozzy Etomi! They discuss relationships styles such as Polyamory and Consensual Non-Monogamy and why people would rather cheat than have Open Relationships. They also touch on living your best life amidst family and societal pressures. Don’t …
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Sex With the Lights On/Off (with Tomisin and Malobi)
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On this week’s episode, our host is joined by the girls of the TMT Podcast (Tomisin and Malobi) for an exciting episode on sexual preferences. They discuss sex with or without the lights, wigs, bonnets and the savagery of the Lagos dating scene. Don’t forget to rate us and share! Follow us on Instagram & TikTok: @spitorswallowpod & our host - @haus…
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This week on the Spit or Swallow podcast Hausa Chocolate is joined by Muyideen to discuss birth control! We go over different methods of birth control from pills to the pull-out method etc. We also explore why some people may not opt for any form of birth control and touch on STD’s too. Don't forget to rate us and share! Follow us on Instagram: @sp…
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Relationships, Situationships & Fuck Buddies (with Chi-Chi and Mad Maryam)
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For today's episode Mad Maryam returns with Chi-Chi to discuss relationships with Hausa Chocolate. We talk about everything from situationships, love languages and designing your sex life in a way that works for you. We also share some of our experiences and preferences! Don't forget to rate us and share! Follow us on Instagram: @spitorswallowpod @…
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African Perspectives Of Sex And Sexuality (with Seun Kuti)
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This week on the Spit or Swallow we're joined by music royalty - Seun Kuti! We discuss everything from the African self to how culture/society influence our perspectives on culture, gender roles and sex! Don't forget to rate us and share! Follow us on Instagram: @spitorswallowpod @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more infor…
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This week on the Spit or Swallow podcast Hausa Chocolate is joined by D-truce and Kissu to discuss what exactly good sex is! We share some of our best (and worst) experiences + explore what we think makes up good sex. Don't forget to rate us and share! Follow us on Instagram: @spitorswallowpod @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy …
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For today’s episode The Orgasm Organizer of the Federation @hausachocolate discusses Sexy Time Tools with @seyeay. We discuss the stigma around sex toys, how they are allies not enemies and our experiences with them. Don't forget to rate us and share! Follow us on Instagram: @spitorswallowpod @hausachocolate Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy f…
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