Best Laerke Nielsen Podcasts (2024)

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83. How To Build Chemistry And Connection 13:23

1d ago13:23

13:23

In this episode I share with you why it's a problem to let instant attraction and chemistry be your guiding light in dating. I also share that I have created a free masterclass that teaches you how to facilitate the development of chemistry and deepen the connection already in early dating. The point is to try this out to explore if there is a pote…

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82. Making Friends After 40! Conversation With Friendship Coach, Zayne Kahn 49:31

8d ago49:31

49:31

Friendships are SO important to balance you out emotionally and help you avoid hyper focusing when you are dating. And when inside a relationship it is key to staying true to who you are and not lose or abandon yourself. In this episode I talk to Friendship Coach Zayne Khan about intentionality in meeting new friends, mindset behind meeting friends…

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81. Don't Just Lean Back - Do This As Well! 14:06

15d ago14:06

14:06

This episode is about the misunderstanding that leaning back means that you can just expect a man to take lead without doing anything. This is not how feminine energy works. You might be leaning back when it comes to taking action, taking initiative and taking lead with a man. But you are not supposed to do nothing. Listen to hear how you can shift…

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80. Red Flags, Green Flags - What Is Real? 24:25

23d ago24:25

24:25

In this episode I share with you some of the important red and green flags - signs that a man might or might NOT be a good choice for a committed relationship. There is a lot of confusion around that, and I often hear someone mention a "red flag", that has nothing to do with whether a man could be ready or interested in a commitment, but rather is …

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79. What My Hip Replacement Surgery Reminded Me Of And That Is Relevant For Dating... 17:16

30d ago17:16

17:16

In this episode I share a few reflections and observations with you. Going through a big surgery recently made me think of the challenge of embracing an individual journey, without judging ourselves for not being further ahead. I often hear women talk about how they feel they are behind in their "life agenda" and that they believe they should have …

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78. Texting Anxiety: Conversation With A Listener 24:04

1M ago24:04

24:04

This week I am talking to a listener who is struggling with not getting overly invested early on. Especially the texting part - not sending more than one message for each message he sends and managing the doubt and anxiety that can come up, if we don't hear back from him soon. Being early invested is also a question of time boundaries on phone or v…

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77. Letting The Man Take Lead And The Attraction Grow: Conversation With A Listener 24:33

1M ago24:33

24:33

This episode is a conversation with a listener who want some advice on how to connect with men organically, and how go meet more interesting men online. We talk about non-verbally showing a man that you are interested, the importance of not taking charge of a dating connection, and allowing attraction to be something that can grow in time, while yo…

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76. Learning Dating Skills And Creating A Great Man Funnel - Client Conversation 28:28

2M ago28:28

28:28

This weeks episode is a conversation I had with a client, who managed to create some quite amazing results in dating. She went from never going past date nr 3-4, to have 3-4 dates pr week, several connections that went beyond date nr 5, a man funnel that brings her quality dates every week and meeting a person who right now seems to be a really goo…

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75. From Matching To Dating: Conversation With A Listener 24:14

2M ago24:14

24:14

In this episode, I speak to a listener who has called in with some questions on how to get more dates from the dating apps, when she doesn't see anyone interesting in the apps and conversations seem to not flow easily. We also talk about dating app mindset and meeting people in real life and how to show a man that you are approachable. Want to work…

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74. The Secret Garden 11:51

2M ago11:51

11:51

The one thing that healthy and happy long-term couples have figured out, and that allow them to keep the spark and attraction between them alive, is that they both have a Secret Garden. But what is a Secret Garden and why does it work? And what is even the relevance of knowing about this in dating? This is the topic of this episode. To book a free …

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73. Do You Have Self-Trust? 16:36

2M ago16:36

16:36

In this episode I share my take on self-trust and why it's important in dating and in life in general. You also will hear what it is, that gets in our way of building self-trust, being able to fully rely on ourselves, and that it's never too late to become someone who trusts herself to do what she say she will do. To book a 45 min free consult call…

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72. Navigating Dating When You Want A Child - Client Conversation 27:12

3M ago27:12

27:12

For many single women in their late 30's wanting to have a child can be very stressful and require some big decisions to be made. Because what if you don't meet anyone that matches your standards for a partner and co-parent before it might be too late? Are you going to give up on your dream of having a child or are you going to consider having one …

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71. How To Not Lose Yourself In Dating And Relationships 17:00

3M ago17:00

17:00

Losing yourself or abandoning yourself in a dating connection or long term relationship is very normal. We do this for several reasons and often we only discover when it's too late. In this episode I share with you some of the reasons we do it, what it looks like when you lose yourself and how to prevent it from happening or get back on the track, …

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70. How To Cope With Jealousy 19:08

3M ago19:08

19:08

How do you react if you feel jealous? Do you even allow want to admit to yourself that you feel it, or do you try to suppress it and move on? Most people look at jealousy as something you are not supposed to feel if you have a healthy sense of self-worth. But sometimes we do actually feel it, and its completely normal to feel it on rare occasions. …

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69. A New Perspective On Rejection 12:49

3M ago12:49

12:49

Nobody enjoys being rejected. Not even from a man that they don't see a future with... But in dating rejection is the norm. Its what happens most of the time. Either you deselect the guy or he deselects himself - and it happens either sooner or later - until you meet someone that you want to stay with and who wants to stay with you. In this episode…

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68. Are You Dating Down? 20:31

4M ago20:31

20:31

If you are dating someone for a longer time or starting a relationship with them, even if you know he isn't the one for you, because for one or the other reason, you don't really respect him because you feel he is inferior to you - that is what I call dating down. In this episode I will explain what happens when you do that, and give you an insight…

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67. How To Be Your Own Best Partner 28:34

4M ago28:34

28:34

What does it mean to be your own best partner? And why is it important in dating, relationship and life in general? In this episode I share with you my take on being your own best partner, and I walk you through the 7 elements that I believe are important to master. We attract what we are a match to, so working on yourself is always a good investme…

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66. She Overcame 80% Of Her Dating Anxiety 22:27

4M ago22:27

22:27

In this episode I have a conversation with my client, A, who met a new partner in record time (!) and then experienced a wave of dating/relationship anxiety - fear of losing her newly found love. This kind of anxiety is not at all rare, and many women go through it, when they all of a sudden meet a man who is very different than the ones they knew …

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65. Five Reasons Why You Are Still Single 27:59

4M ago27:59

27:59

In this episode I give you five reasons that can explain why you are still single - even if you are amazing! Listen and see if you recognize some of this, because the good news is that you can change it, as soon as you have the awareness. To book a free call with me click here: https://calendly.com/laerke/45min Comments, feedback or ideas? I would …

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64. Facts About Dating Apps That Might Surprise You 14:01

4M ago14:01

14:01

If you experience only hearing negative stories about the dating app's and people being tricked, ghosted or scammed, this episode is for you. I offer you some mindset tips and my perspective on what it takes to succeed in the apps, and I share with you some interesting data on the real success of the dating apps. If you need to feel inspired and mo…

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63. No More Nice Girl! 17:25

5M ago17:25

17:25

People pleasing, man pleasing, never saying no, always taking care of others needs first and not speaking a word about what YOU need and want - does that ring a bell? If so, it's time to ditch the Nice Girl inside you and start speaking up! Its better for you, your emotional well-being and your future relationship - and it also makes you stand out …

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62. How To Get Over Heartbreak And Know When You Are Ready For Dating Again 22:49

5M ago22:49

22:49

Are you holding yourself back from dating because of fear of being heartbroken (again)? Or are you getting over a breakup and not sure, if you are ready to go back into dating? Then this episode will help you find the answers. I am sharing here how to heal your heart and get over a breakup, not only to survive, but to thrive. I teach you the concep…

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61. Can You Be Too Independent? 17:27

5M ago17:27

17:27

Strong and independent, highly competent, capable and resourceful - you most likely appreciate that in yourself. And you should. Being super independent as a woman is not a problem. But being in the habit of taking care of everything ourselves can lead us to be less open to receiving from a man. And that's the kind of independence that can become a…

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60. How To Become More Securely Attached With Feminine Energy 20:29

5M ago20:29

20:29

Do you feel confused about concepts like feminine energy, polarity and attachment styles, and wonder how to figure it all out, and whether you should be knowledgeable in all of it? Then this episode of will help you get more clarity! Here I explain the different attachment styles and share with you why the shifts in mindset and behaviours that you …

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59. Six Reasons Why You Should Have A Man Funnel! 17:26

6M ago17:26

17:26

Circular dating, rotational dating, having a man funnel, a pipeline or dating in parallel -what comes up for you when you think about dating more than one man at a time…? Do you feel overwhelmed? Or empowered? Do you think of it as a fun way to date or do you think its like cheating...? In this episode I explain what a Man Funnel is and give you si…

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58. Are You In The Wounded Or Empowered Feminine Energy? 27:58

6M ago27:58

27:58

In this episode I share with you the difference between wounded and empowered feminine energy, what it looks like to be acting from one or the other in dating, and how you recognise if you are more in one than the other. You will also learn why it matters, this is not only a question of how you feel about yourself - it makes a huge difference in wh…

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57. How To Let Go Of Attachment In Early Dating 24:16

6M ago24:16

24:16

Do you catch yourself regularly checking if the guy, that you are dating has texted you back? And if you don’t hear from him for a couple of hours, you start worrying that he has lost interest? Do you analyse the way he texts you, and his choice of words and whether he uses smileys or not, to an extent where it starts to feel almost obsessive? And …

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56. ONE Year In The Podcast And New Years Celebrations 24:54

6M ago24:54

24:54

This is the ONE year anniversary of the podcast! I am so grateful for all of you listeners and today I am sharing a few fun facts about the most popular episodes, the listeners locations and how many downloads the podcast had. I am also sharing my free workbook that will help you celebrate your growth in 2023 and set new intentions for your love li…

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55. Best of the Advent Calendar + A Present for YOU! 20:12

7M ago20:12

20:12

In this episode I share with you 12 of the 24 pieces of advice that I created for the Advent Calendar, that I shared on instagram and with my email-subscribers. Its a mix of very tangible, concrete advice that you can use when you are on a date, and powerful mindset tools and shifts that allow you to feel better and more balanced in your dating jou…

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54. Other Peoples (Your Family's) Opinion About You Being (Still) Single (Again) 14:20

7M ago14:20

14:20

Going home for Christmas? Dreading the questions and comments about you still being single - or single again? Or maybe its not even the questions, but more your idea of what they might think about you... In this episode I help you get rid of the mind drama about being asked "Are you seeing someone?" and not feeling comfortable saying "No" or "Kind …

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53. Biological Urgency in Dating - When You Want To Have A Child 22:08

7M ago22:08

22:08

If you are singe and in your late 30's, and you know you want to have a child with your future partner, you might feel a huge pressure to find him before its too late. This can be very stressful and impact your dating life in ways that are not serving you. But how do you manage your thoughts around it so you can get out of this urgency and feel mor…

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52. When To Have Sex... And Other Questions From Listeners 23:25

7M ago23:25

23:25

In this episode I answer three important questions from women in my community: How to prepare on a mindset level for a first date, deciding when physical intimacy is appropriate, and handling feelings of inadequacy after rejection. I also share with you a special Christmas offer, that you can get until 24th December 2023. To sign up for the Christm…

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51. How To Grow Your Self-Worth In Dating 22:00

8M ago22:00

22:00

In this episode I share with you the importance of self-worth and how it influences our dating behaviors and the kind of partner we attract. I explain what self-worth is and how its different from for instance self-confidence. And I give some examples on what it looks like when you lack self-worth and what it looks like when you have a good and str…

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50. Non-Verbal Cues In Dating - How To See If He's In To You! 19:47

8M ago19:47

19:47

In this episode I share with you some ways to decode the non-verbal signals that can show you, if a man is interested in you. I give you 21 cues that can point to the direction that he is in to you, and also offer you ways to play with non-verbal language yourself, if you want to signal back to him. Finally I share a few non-verbal signs to show co…

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49. Three Common Mistakes In Dating And How To Fix Them 16:15

8M ago16:15

16:15

In this episode I share with you some common mistakes that I see women make in dating, how you can know if you are doing them, why they create problems for you, and how to fix them. Are you only attracting men that want casual connections and situationships? Do you find yourself going on a ton of dates that lead nowhere or maybe struggling even goi…

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48. Failing Forwards in Dating 18:01

8M ago18:01

18:01

The number one reason why a lot of people never achieve their biggest dreams in life is fear of failure. And the worst part about that is that it is 100% optional: The only reason people fear failure is because of their thoughts about what failure means. In this episode I will offer you a different perspective on failure and help you see why failur…

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47. How Needs Can Kill Attraction And What To Do Instead 19:49

8M ago19:49

19:49

You get to choose if you want to see your wants as a need or a desire, and in this episode I will share with you why its not a good choice to tell yourself and the man you are dating that you have needs that you want him to fulfill. Instead you want to take back your power and see how you don't need anything from a man, but that you want or desire …

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Episode 96 - How to Manage Multiple Interests Successfully with Joel Bouchard 1:26:14

9M ago1:26:14

1:26:14

Are you wondering whether it will ever be possible to combine not just two, not just three but many of your multiple interests? Then this Episode is for you! Joel Burchard, this week's fast-brained guest, is a doctoral student in psychology, a multi-instrumentalist record producer, author, painter, Army veteran, business leader, and host of the phi…

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46. When The Apps Just Don't Work For You 17:41

9M ago17:41

17:41

You open a profile and everything goes well in the beginning, but then things just seem to fizzle out. You get no new matches, or the men who wants to connect with you, don't interest you and seem out of your criteria. And when you finally see someone interesting, they don't match you back... What are you to do, when the dating apps don't seem to w…

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45. How To Text In The Dating Apps 18:43

9M ago18:43

18:43

How do you initiate a conversation in a dating app when you have never met the person before, and you don't have much information to go from? What if the man you are writing with just gives you a one word answer back? And how do you best go from the initial texting to an actual real life date - or a video date if you want that? This episode is full…

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Episode 95 - Superconnecting through Lego with Dr. Kate Raynes-Goldie 1:33:56

9M ago1:33:56

1:33:56

Hey smart human, did you ever dream about what you wanted to be when you grew up? If, like me, you did, then you probably restricted yourself in what was possible for you. And I'm guessing didn't consider becoming a business & cultural anthropologist who has designed a connecting tool using the power of LEGO serious play... This is exactly the beau…

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44. How To Create An Awesome Dating Profile 18:29

9M ago18:29

18:29

In this episode I share with you what to pay attention to, when you create a dating profile - both when it comes to choosing the right photos - the must haves and the no-go's - and when it comes to writing a text, that makes you stand out. I also give you some tips on what to look for in a man's dating profile. This is the first episode in a mini s…

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Episode 94 - The Overconsumption of Knowledge: When Learning Becomes a Liability 12:52

9M ago12:52

12:52

In this podcast episode, I look at overconsuming knowledge and its detrimental impact on our lives. Because constantly seeking new information without taking the time to process and apply it can lead to overwhelm and a lack of focus. In this digital age, we're blessed with an abundance of information at our fingertips. But, have you ever felt overw…

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43. When You Struggle To Trust A Man 16:09

9M ago16:09

16:09

In this episode I am going to offer you a new perspective on trusting a man, and that is to trust yourself WITH a man. Knowing how to be reliable, consistent and trustworthy with yourself - to make decisions ahead of time and commit to following through on them - this will help you create a safe space for yourself in dating. I will share with you t…

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42. What To Do If A Man Pulls Away 18:08

10M ago18:08

18:08

In this episode I share with you my advice on what to do and not to do in the scenario where a man pulls away in early dating. I give you this advice from two different point of views – the attachment style pov and the feminine energy pov. Is it a good idea to communicate your need for him to reassure you? Or should you text him more to get him to …

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Episode 93 - Boundaries - the Building Blocks for Solid Relationships 20:19

10M ago20:19

20:19

In this podcast episode, I dive into the topic of setting boundaries in relationships . You'll learn what they are (and that, contrary to what some people think, they are NOT universal). Failing to recognize or establish boundaries can result in stress, anger, and even the dissolution of a relationship. In this Episode you'll get practical advice o…

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41. Lost In Expectations 18:39

10M ago18:39

18:39

Do you have many and high expectations in dating and relationships? And does it often lead to disappointment? Or you feeling that the man you are dating does not really care about you... ? This episode is about expectations in dating and relationships. What you can really expect from a partner, and why its freeing for both of you to practice comple…

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Episode 92 - The Power and Joy of Compromise 13:57

10M ago13:57

13:57

In this episode, I explore the significance of compromise in relationships and how it can bring about both power and joy. Contrary to popular belief compromise does NOT mean giving up power or settling for less. Instead, it can actually lead to win-win situations, where both parties feel satisfied and valued. Stop viewing compromises as deal breake…

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40. I Don't Want To Play Games 16:41

10M ago16:41

16:41

Do you feel that choosing on purpose how to show up in feminine energy when you are dating - as opposed to just doing what you feel a "natural" pull towards - would be "playing games"? In this episode I address a concern that I sometimes hear about feminine energy - that it would be "playing games" to let the man take lead or to not be overly avail…

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Episode 91 - The Myths of Attraction with Laerke Nielsen 1:30:47

10M ago1:30:47

1:30:47

In this podcast episode, fast-brained dating coach Laerke Nielsen and I delve into the myths around attraction and offer practical relationship strategies. Laerke challenges the notion of instant attraction, and advocates instead for ‘slow dating’. We look at the dangers of projecting our desires and expectations onto others and touch upon crucial …

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