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The Dildo Whisperer is where people go to get the sex education that their schools refused to give them and their parents were too embarrassed to discuss. This is sex education that is inclusive, inspiring and transformative! Listeners have the opportunity to ask questions, hear sex toy reviews and get insight from some of the top sexperts in the country. Hosted by Romaine Patterson and produced by DNR Studios.
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For more than sixteen years, Derek and Romaine has been the award-winning gay/lesbian duo that has taken North America by storm. Now leaping into the world of podcasts, hosts Derek Hartley and Romaine Patterson continue to entertain, engage and inform like no one else.
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The Dildo Whisperer is joined by the host of the Cookie Jar Podcast this week as they share stories of their time with strippers! It is an all hands on deck with messy tales of debachery. Find out who came in their pants, who wants to sniff underwear, and who gets all of the ladies attention at the gentlemen's club. Send the us your sex and relatio…
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This week Romaine and Ajay get serious with a topic that is not discussed nearly enough. How to have a conversation about disclosing your STI status. It isn't just about having a conversation but knowing what your status is and how to educate yourself and your partner before engaging in a sexual relationship. Send the us your sex and relationship q…
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Have you thought about strapping it on for sex? The Dildo Whisperer schools Ajay on how strap on sex works and what to look out for in the perfect harness! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766…
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Make up sex is great. Or is it? This week Romaine and Ajay discuss make up sex and why we do it. But us it a healthy way to end a fight? Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email u…
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This week the Dildo Whisperer has a surprise for Ajay. The topic is sexual positions and they start by discussing the top 5 sexual positions based on sexual orientation before moving onto a segement that had both Romaine and Ajay laughing. This is an episode you don't want to miss and you just might have a few new sexual positions to try out by the…
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What is an erogenous zone? How does understanding them help your sex life? Learn all about these "sexy spots" and more on this week's episode of the Dildo Whisperer. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 84…
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Anal sex requires some serious thought and preperation to avoid any unwanted shitty situations. Luckily for you the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay discuss how to prep that booty hole for some sexy times ahead! Tune in for tips and step by step instructions on how to prepare for you next back door action. Send the us your sex and relationship questions an…
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The Dildo Whisperer continues to be inspired by the 2024 Paris Summer Olympics. This week Romaine and Ajay discuss what the athletes get up to in their down time. Hint- it's a lot of sex! Find out how the Olympics prepare for all those athletes and all that sex they will be having. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will …
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The 2024 Paris Summer Olympics are just around the corner and the Dildo Whisperer wants to talk about the sexualization of the Olympic athletes. This issue has been gaining attention in recent years and Romaine and Ajay break down a few of the reasons why. Are these athletes with bodies like greek gods being sexually exploited for ratings and money…
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Sharon Johnson and Susan Lambert-Hatem are back! It’s all the 80s TV Ladies dish you want from their many award wins to rewatches of Designing Women and Moonlighting. This episode is just a sample of the great content available every weekday to subscribers on DNRStudios.com. Choose a Derek and Romaine or DNR Plus subscription then download the DNRc…
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How did you lose your virginity? How old were you? Was it special or just okay? This week the Dildo Whisperer tackles the first sexual encounter. She talks with several of her friends about their experiences in order to better understand how each journey is deeply personal. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire …
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The Dildo Whisperer is taking you to the movies but in a way you have never been before! This week Romaine and Ajay sit down to talk all documentaries, short movies, and all the offerings you will find at CineKink 2024 with it's Co-Founder Lisa Vandever. If you are in the NYC area you will for sure want to check out this one of a kind film festival…
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Romaine is inspired by another AskTheDW question. This week she invited her good friend Frank to discuss massage. Together they talk about the professional side and the personal side of why a massage just feels so good. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two wa…
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DNR talk Broadway shows they are excited about. Then Laura Heywood, Broadway Girl NYC is back to talk all things Broadway including the recent Tony Awards and some of the hot shows on Broadway now and coming soon! This episode is just a sample of the great content available every weekday to subscribers on DNRStudios.com. Choose a Derek and Romaine …
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What is the price of sex? This week the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay discuss the many ways that we pay a price for sex. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.c…
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Swing Back To The Garden With Natalie Douglas
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Derek talks safety tips when encountering bears, animals harass DNR at home, Derek explains his love of swing music. Then singer Natalie Douglas talks about her music career and the inspiration for her latest album Back To The Garden. This episode is just a sample of the great content available every weekday to subscribers on DNRStudios.com. Subscr…
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What is Love? That is the question that the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay take on in this week's episode? Join them for an interesting take on what love means and how we express it. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our…
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Colin Jost Pete Davidson ferry to be $34M hotel with two restaurants and six bars, DNR talk charity dreams, 1886 shipwreck Milwaukee found in Lake Michigan following newspaper clippings, DC Park Service chopping down 140 cherry trees including Stumpy to build sea wall to protect Jefferson Memorial, and guest Matt Cullen talks Our Queer Life his doc…
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Want a real pounding unlike any other? The Dildo Whisperer is going to walk you through the wonderful world of sex machines. Learn about how hard and fast sex machines can go, which type might be the right fit for you and why lube is going to cost you! Send us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Di…
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Feel the Rush. The Dildo Whisperer and the boys from the Cookie Jar Podcast sit down to discuss Poppers. They cover how and why people use them and the risks that can be associated with them. Don't use poppers without listening to this episode first. It could save your life! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire…
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Revisiting Elis Regina with Darwin Del Fabro
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Singer and actor Darwin Del Fabro joins Derek and Romaine to discuss their brand new album Revisiting Elis Regina. Together they discuss Darwin’s journey to self discovery about being non-binary and how it was impacted by growing up in Brazil. Plus, learn about Darwin’s role in the LGBTQ slasher film They/Them. This episode is just a sample of the …
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This is going to hurt. Inspired by a recent Dear Dildo Whisperer question Romaine and Ajay are going to expole CBT. Don't know what that is? It stands for cock and ball torture. And now you are either very excited or incredibly scared. Don't stress the Dildo Whisperer is hear to help you understand what it is and what it isn't. But more importantly…
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Have you ever been to a sex toy party? Think Tupperware party but for sex toys! This week the Dildo Whisperer talks about her past experience as a s sex toy party representative and the do's and don't of a sex toy party. Who knows maybe you will be hosting one for your friends soon! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will…
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Universal Studios plans big Florida expansion and that gets DNR talking theme parks, then Jonny McGovern joins the show to talk Drag Race and his new podcast Jonny McGovern is Gay AF. This episode is just a sample of the great content available to subscribers every day on DNRStudios.com. Subscribe now then download the DNRcast app for iPhone and An…
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Who is the Dildo Whisperer? This episode is all about your host Romaine and how she became a sexpert and the host of this podcast. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at A…
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Sexting is as common as testing these days and the Dildo Whisperer wants to have a frank discussion about why we do it and how to do it correctly. Ajay offers some great insight about how the male mind tackles those sexy photos women send. So before you send that sexy message you may want to tune into this episode of the Dildo Whisperer! Send the u…
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Richard Hatem's Very Normal Bookshelf
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What’s in a name? DNR talk nicknames and high school dramas and traumas. Then guest Richard Hatem returns to talk about seeing Derek in LA and his new podcast Richard Hatem’s Paranormal Bookshelf. Thiis episode is just a sample of the great content available every weekday on DNRStudios.com. Subscribe today then download the DNRcast app for iPhone o…
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What is sexual aftercare? Why is it important to maintaining a healthy relationship? The dildo whisperer has a lengthy conversation with Ajay about how he needs to focus on improving his sexual aftercare routine. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to r…
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Myth or Mystery?? What are blue balls and how do they happen? What do you do if you get them? Ajay talks about blue balls with the Dildo Whisperer. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you …
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The Dildo Whisperer sits down with Fiona and Jay two teenage girls to discuss sex education. It is a lively discussion where they explore the differences between public school health classes and those of a private Catholic School. Both of these girls have wildy different perspectives and yet share a lot of the same ideas on who should and shouldn't…
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DNR end up at a mystery hotel, Derek deals with a loose plane and rude passenger, DNR get recognized when they least expect it, Hooker Hotline, Michael in Nashville talks property taxes, Rachel in Rochester deals with Connections, Julia in CA has surprising family history and Derek tries his hand at some unsavory accents. This episode is just a sam…
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This week Romaine and Ajay are joined in studio by a special guest to discuss the pros and cons of the vasectomy. They cover why US men are more adverse to getting them and why they should reconsider. It's a candid conversation about ballsand mens responsibility in reproductive care. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you wil…
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Have you ever found yourself not in the mood for sex? What causes this feeling? What do you do when that mood becomes the norm? This week's episode of the Dildo Whisperer takes a look at ways to turn that mood around to help you get back to having a healthy sexual relationship. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will insp…
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Hot Mex 2024 DNR Cruise Listener Round Table
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Romaine hosts a listener round table on the 2024 Hot Mex Cruise. Find out what the listeners really think of the other callers, the newly updated DNRCast App and DNR. Plus, they discuss what really happened at Romaine’s karaoke on the ship! This episode is just a sample of the great content available live every weekday to DNR subscribers on DNRStud…
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This week the Dildo Whisperer is having a conversation about consent. It is a topic that isn't talked about nearly enough and people often misunderstand what it means to get consent. Romaine and Ajay talk about personal experiences of times when consent was about mental health, personal preference and when the line gets a little blury. This is a di…
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Romaine is joined in studio by the hosts of the Cookie Jar Podcast. This week they are discussing all things nipples. Together they talk about nipple rings, sensory play, sensitive areas on and around the nipple and so much more. Grab your nipple clamps and prepare for some nipple education! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe…
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Derek hosts a special one on one chat with his sister Laura Lux. She is the author of the Glitter and Glass memoir (available now on Amazon) all about her childhood and life including the family drama with their mutual biological father. It’s a new side of the story you haven’t heard and it is full of dished dirt and a lot of laughs. Recorded on th…
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Romaine and Ajay want to hear from you. This episode starts with a plea to the audience. Are you out there? The Dildo Whisperer is ready for some feedback. This week's episode focuses on the beginners guide to bondage. How to talk about he topic with your partner, how to start out without spending all your money and the importance of good clear com…
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While traveling recently the Dildo Whisperer had an encounter with a group of furries. This interaction made Romaine and Ajay take a deeper look into the life of a furry. Together they discuss some of the misconceptions that people have about the Furry community and what they really are all about. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and…
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Earlier this season the Dildo Whisperer educated Ajay on the anatomy of the penis and now it is the vagina's turn. Romaine will quiz Ajay on the parts of the vagina and just wait until you hear what Ajay thinks the bullseye is. This is both a funny and educational episode that will leave you understanding the female body so much better! Send the us…
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What makes the perfect date? This week the dildo whisperer examines that qualities that make a date great or horrible. With Ajay's help Romaine is able to provide useful tips for planning a date that will help your relationship grow. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. …
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The Dildo Whisperer is setting her sights on the upcoming Valentine's Day. On this episode Romaine and Ajay will discuss the origins of this holiday, Romaine will quiz Ajay on his knowledge of the big day and they will help you understand how to pick a great gift for your loved one! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will…
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Mad About Plaid With Pauline Frommer
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DNR talk about a long lost piece of cloth, the new Fire Island coming to the Mediterranean and plans for the tallest building in America in a very unlikely place. Then Pauline Frommer of the world famous Frommer’s Guides joins to talk about their long history supporting the gay community and hot destinations to consider in 2024. This episode is jus…
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Have you ever considered an open relationship? Ajay asked the Dildo Whisperer to examine what makes an open relationship. Are the healthy? Can they hurt a relationship? Together Ajay and Romaine look at the pros and cons of having an open relationship and have an honest conversation that will certainly get you thinking. Send the us your sex and rel…
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An Austrian schoolteacher is fired for being the Orgasm Pope online and that has Romaine hopping mad, then therapist Edward Yaeger joins DNR to talk Love Languages just in time for Valentine’s Day. Join DNR this weekend at the DC Travel & Adventure Show! For more great content, visit DNRStudios.com and subscribe today!…
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Have you every tried a glass sex toy? The Dildo Whisperer breaks down why these toys are super different from all the other toys out there. Plus, she answers your number one question about glass toys, will they break? Learn more about the type of glass used and how it is a body safe choice for your sex needs. Send the us your sex and relationship q…
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Derek and Romaine our heading out on another DNR Cruise but not before they pick their winners for this weekend's Superbowl! Derek and Romaine are joined by Cyd Zeigler from outsports.com for their annual Superbowl game where the winner is decided by which team has the hottest players. Who will they pick to win this year? Tune in to find out. Plus,…
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This week the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay explore a sexual switcheroo, pegging! Also known as bend over boyfriend. Find out what makes this sexual activity so popular among heterosexual couples and why Ajay is scared to try it out. Romaine will explain the positive impacts of this type of play and why more people should give it a try. We are talking t…
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DNR Get Culture With Q. Allan Brocka
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DNR talk about the AFI Top Ten movies including who is an Oscar frontrunner, which ones Derek has seen and what he thinks Romaine should watch, then Eating Out series filmmaker Q. Allan Brocka returns to talk about his latest film Boy Culture: Generation X and how his characters and gay life have changed since the original. This episode is just a s…
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Some say it is a myth, some people say it is pee but what exactly is female ejaculation? The Dildo Whisperer and Ajay take a hard look into female ejaculation and discuss everything you should know about it. Find out where it comes from and why there is often a wet spot on the bed after sex! Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe…
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