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The Fox and the Phoenix

Savannah Hauk, Author & Julie Rubenstein, Style Consultant

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Understanding the Feminine Crossdressing Experience To de-mystify, humanize, and celebrate the crossdressing trans community, providing a positive and realistic understanding through conversation between a crossdresser and a cis-ally.
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The Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast is a series where we have unscripted kink-friendly intimacy coaching session with real people. We get to hear the emotional and interpersonal challenges they are experiencing and explore strategies they can use to overcome them or live with them with minimal suffering. visit AskEzra.info for more information about intimacy coaching or to sign up to be a guest.
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In this episode, Savannah finds herself gushing to Julie about meeting somebody famous. That famous somebody had reached out to Savannah because they feel Savannah is also 'famous' in the community and is the right individual to confide in and get advice about their gender authenticity. How does a person embrace their gender authenticity when they …
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In this episode, Savannah and Julie discuss one of their favorite supporters and friends, Crystal aka 'Jellyfish'. This time around, Crystal shared with Savannah an encounter where she spoke to a cousin who not only admitted that they used to dress up in feminine clothes but also thought they 'were a girl'. Now, thought, through the Word of God, th…
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In this episode, Savannah shares with Julie her experience of having a facial while dressed as Savannah. Not only was Savannah dressed for her first facial, but also traveled to the appointment without any makeup. Afterward, Savannah took a pic of herself after the facial and without makeup, realizing that she still saw Savannah staring back at her…
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In this episode, Savannah tells Julie about two specific events that happened a week apart but included the same life lesson. The first was an author event that Savannah (as Chuck) was a part of. The second was a conversation with one of Chuck's work colleague that included the fact that the coworker found Savannah Hauk on social media and realized…
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In this episode, Savannah asks Judy the question, "Why do women like to wear their partner's clothes? And, why is that okay and MTF crossdressing isn't?" Well, it wasn't that pointed or loaded a question, but it does raise the question of why there are completely common-place and socially accepted manner of quote-unquote crossdressing while those o…
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In this episode, Julie asks Savannah if she wants to chat about that often-misunderstood, a considered-fringed sub-culture called furries (or fur-dom, or the furry lifestyle). Why do people gravitate to the Furry culture? How did it start? What are the benefits and disadvantages within the community? Is it all fetish and sex? All of Julie's questio…
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In this episode, Savannah tells Julie another Keystone story, this time the story of Diane and her battle with catastrophic success. What happens when you've been fighting for your true identity your entire life and you make a mental or written plan to finally take all the steps needed to get there. What happens when you find peace several steps be…
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In this episode, Savannah asks Julie why many gender diverse individuals may feel their wardrobe and style has toned down since they first started their journey. From gaining a measure of growing maturity that comes from a truncated second feminine puberty, to normalizing what was once a bedroom fetish to finding outfits more appropriate for a trip…
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In this episode, Savannah ad Julie read listener responses to a Julie social media post asking about their most memorable euphoric feminine moments. Plenty of ladies replied! Thanks! From that first spinning reveal in a makeup artist's chair to the donning of the wig to complete a feminine persona, to catching the attention of an admirer that might…
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In this episode, Savannah sneaks to the mic to read the first chapter of her new book, 'Gender 101: An A-Z Handbook and Exploration'. Many have asked Savannah about Audible versions of her 'Living with Crossdressing' book series. Now, you can hear the authoress herself read her own words. If you like what you hear, please help support the community…
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This is a set of 5 poems and painting descriptions from the audio version of The Path Through: A Book of Paintings and Poetry on the Subject of Trauma. The book is available in hard copy at amazon at the link below: The Path Through on Amazon Additionally there is an option to purchase a signed copy of the paperback with a custome inscription of yo…
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In this episode, Savannah and Julie discuss a topic that fascinated Savannah from Keystone. Namely, the fact that a young person with trans experience attended Savannah's workshop with the express notion of learning more about what 'crossdressing' means. With Savannah's mind blown, she sits down with Julie to better understand the place of 'crossdr…
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In this episode, Savannah and Julie discuss the stark differences and similarities between men presenting as women and the cis-women they are trying to emulate. For years, each gender diverse MTF person has cultivated what they consider to be their own version of the feminine experience, yet may never truly understand what women have gone through i…
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In this episode, Savannah records from a secret conference center location at the Harrisburg Hilton during the 2024 Keystone Conference, bringing with her a name from the 2023 conference... Panda! Violet, aka "Panda" is the Significant One of her lovely gender diverse partner Catrina. Both of them sit down and tell the story of their journey of ove…
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In this episode, Judy and Savannah discuss the timeless question, "When is it going to stop being about you?!" For every significant one who discovers or is revealed to that their male's propensity to dress enfemme, there is a high percentage of couples who endure the male partner's 'Pink Cloud' and their sudden obsession with all things feminine. …
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In this episode, Savannah returns from the 2024 Keystone Conference in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, to regale Julie with all the wonderful people Savannah met and all the amazing events she participated in. From the decompression of coming down after several days enfemme with other gorgeous women, to connecting with inclusive and accepting fellow conf…
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In this episode, Savannah reads a letter to Julie from Melanie, a CD site administrator, who felt the podding duo missed an important opportunity about a serious matter when discussing Fred 'Bubba' Copeland in episode 162 (Top Secret Dox). Keeping one's feminine identity private--and taking thoughtful and vigilant protective measures--should always…
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In this episode, Savannah and Julie discuss all the ways that embracing one's feminine side can reverse the aging process. From the practical and physical aspects of looking younger to the psychological side of being more in touch with the feminine spirit and all the vigor it can bestow, to regressing to a younger age in order to make up precious f…
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In this episode, Judy and Savannah discuss the following question... "Why does Savannah need to wear heels all the time?". From the want to feel more feminine, distract from large feet, make that booty pop and the tits jut out, to the aura of the overly feminine spirit, Savannah and Judy weigh the pros and cons of wearing only heels. ----- SAVANNAH…
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In this episode, Savannah and Julie do a bit of checking in about books and movies before discussing what it would be like if the crossdressing man's female partner wanted to experience what it would feel like to add a "package bulge" in their boxer briefs. What happens when the heel is on the other foot? Sure, we want to be feminine with our breas…
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In this episode, Savannah brings up to Julie a specific Montana Legislature Senate Bill 458 that aimed to add more concise gender binary language into other existing state laws. As a result, the Two Spirit Society fought back as they felt the bill introduced and passed in October 2023 infringes on their inalienable rights to recognize two-spirit as…
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In this episode, Julie reads Savannah a letter from a former contact to the FoxandHanger.com business. But this letter is not filled with butterflies and rainbows, oh no. Instead, this letter includes a reference to fun crossdressing in times past, a statement that they had abandoned that practice long ago, and the declaration that they were no lon…
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In this episode, Julie and Judy give Savannah the high heel and kick her to the curb in favor of some girl talk between just them cis-girls. They chat about the starts of their own relationship, the altered dynamic of Savannah and Judy when it came Savannah suddenly working with Julie on such a grander scale for the podcast, and so much more! Julie…
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Join Ezra as he shares a big announcement about the future of the Ask Ezra Podcast. We are taking a break from posting new episodes for a little while. Thank you to all the dedicated listeners. Big thanks to all my guests and show supporters. Keep up on developments and upcoming events by following socials Intsagram: @Ask_Ezra_ and Twitter: @HouseO…
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In this episode, Savannah and Julie pull a story direct from social media, where a close friend of the podcast regaled her FaceBook wall with a post about her revealing her feminine side to a more conservative neighbor during a holiday party. What started earlier in the evening as "we should go take in a music event" before the reveal became "Don't…
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In this episode, Julie asks Savannah why men love wearing women's clothes. What is it specifically about the soft and satiny feel of material, the way the clothing compresses and fits on the body, and the styles and colors and varieties that men with feminine spirits re drawn to? Men's clothes are basically simple, boring, and uninspired, while wom…
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Join Ezra and Briana in a very special episode in which Ezra “switches”, taking a turn in the hot seat where they get coaching from Briana. Hear about Ezra’s current challenges with emotional availability, dating while kinky, dating while poly, and looking for a life partner while also not being on the old fashioned relationship escalator. Find out…
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In this episode, Savannah brings on a special guest tp chat with Julie... none other than Crystal, the transwoman formally known as 'Jellyfish'. After a Saturday evening out with the girls (including Leigh Anne), Crystal comes on the show with her origin story, her current journey into transition, her efforts to create safe spaces and supportive co…
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In this episode, Savannah brings the story of Baptist Pastor and local Mayor Fred Copeland to Julie, highlighting the tragic tale of a man targeted for his "behind the scenes" crossdressing and the effects it had on his life after a conservative blog site exposed his behaviors to the public. While Copeland addressed his congregation for what had be…
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Join Ezra as he has a session with Angie of the So You Are Ready To Date Podcast about her experience processing shame and exploring interests. Learn what limitations Angie is facing and how that could be holding her back from processing shame. Additionally we talk about what has already worked for her in her journey to reduce the shame in her life…
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In this episode, Savannah and guest co-host and CD partner Judy have another on-air chat. This time, Savannah asks Judy why she is still sometimes uncomfortable around seeing her Savannah all dolled up. Sure, Chuck is her man... but what are some of the barriers and concerns that still gives Judy pause and hesitation when confronted by the glamour …
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Join Ezra as he chats with Briana McCallum, a fellow coach who specializes in neurodivergent life coaching. Briana shares about her work and about her experience as a survivor of childhood trauma. Hear how her trauma has impacted her intimate relationships in the past, how she has grown, and what work is still left to be done. We also talk about su…
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In this episode, Savannah shares with Julie her first ever experience getting a bikini wax. After months of waxing and having permanent hair removal on other parts of her body, Savannah decided to brave the pain and cross another one of her bucket list items. During the conversation Savannah drops a couple benefits of waxing, from better skin to th…
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In this episode, Savannah and Julie take about their stresses and aches and pains and angsts for the early autumn before getting into the interesting topic of the pros and cons of the labels we use to self-describe our humanity. From the cons of seeing labels for others as established stereotypes and misinformation to the pros of using a label to b…
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Hear from Mike Brown and how he found a way to grow in his ability to let go through his podcast. Hear about his music and how he has come to have a greater sense of autonomy in relationships. We learn about the skills Mike developed through trial and error that has led him to be an exceptional communicator and to take responsibility for his own fe…
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In a new ongoing segment, Savannah's partner, Judy, comes on the podcast to lend her personal experiences when it comes to being in a relationship with a male-to-female crossdresser. In this first episode, Judy reads the third and last part of the letter she wrote several years ago for the first 'Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal' bo…
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In this episode, Savannah and Julie take a stroll down memory lane as they reminisce and indulge in the recollection of their humble beginnings for their friendship, partnership, and podcast co-hosting. Savannah reads the emails between her and Julie, pointing out just how much the initial ideas for collaboration evolved. It all leads to the procla…
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In this episode, Savannah and Julie wish all our feminine sisters a happy Halloween... the crossdressers' Christmas. Or, is it xmas? That would seem to make more sense from a x-dressing perspective wouldn't it? One of our early episodes... episode 9... has been remonstered,... er... um... I mean remastered for your ghoulish and glamourous pleasure!…
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On this episode of the Ask Ezra Podcast we break from the mold and do things a little differently. Master Joshua A.K.A Sister Joshua takes the interviewer seat and leads Ezra through a discussion of integrity and accountability. They discuss when Ezra has been out of accountability and what they are doing to address it. Other topics include the for…
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In this episode, Savannah and Julie discuss what its like to be affected by trauma and how it affects male-to-female crossdressing in both a negative and positive. It has been said that some people escape to their feminine personas because of trauma in their male-centric lives. Some deal with the trauma that comes with societal ignorance and intole…
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Join us as Savannah Hauk returns to the Ask Ezra Podcast for a second session. Savannah was a guest for episode 50 previously and we mostly spoke about her professional accomplishments. In this episode we get more personal with Savannah and discuss the challenges she is experiencing in her current relationship and historically. Learn about the chal…
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In a new ongoing segment, Savannah's partner, Judy, comes on the podcast to lend her personal experiences when it comes to being in a relationship with a male-to-female crossdresser. In this first episode, Judy reads the second part of the letter she wrote several years ago for the first 'Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal' book... ba…
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In this episode, Savannah and Julie discuss a social media post from a beloved listeners who is on a quest to physically meet those people she has befriended online up to now. The post details becomes fuel to discuss meeting people in real life for the first time, aligning schedules, taking precautions, setting expectations, and having compassion a…
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Join Ezra as he speaks with Pup Gideon, a family law attorney by day and a leather pup by night. We talk about the legality of BDSM, how sexuality and lifestyle choices play into divorce and custody and much more. Learn about how Pup Gideon feels like pup play helps him be himself, what is family law, legality of BDSM, what is deviance in the eyes …
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In this episode, Savannah and Julie discuss a letter from a pod listener named Charlotte who asks if the intrepid co-hosts had ever discussed the practice of a male-to-female crossdresser hiding one's femininity under the guise of overt and exaggerated masculinity. From going out for high school football to several tours in the US Navy, the efforts…
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In this episode, both Savannah is excited to share in a celebration with her co-host Julie. A close friend of the podcast, codenamed 'Jellyfish' (if you know, you know), had begun to share their feminine persona with a couple close lifelong friends and close neighbors. Each has been met with love, support, acceptance and shares of their own. Each r…
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Join Christina Carlson as the latest guest of the Ask Ezra Podcast for episode 51! We talk about deconstructing, white supremacy and capitalism in relationships, coming back into relationship with your body, building emotional resilience and emotional self efficacy, making space for human rest and needs, accepting love because you know you can surv…
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In a new ongoing segment, Savannah's partner, Judy, comes on the podcast to lend her personal experiences when it comes to being in a relationship with a male-to-female crossdresser. In this first episode, Judy reads a letter she wrote several years ago for the first 'Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal' book... back in the early days …
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In this episode, both Savannah and Julie return to the podcast mics from their separate travels abroad within the US of A. Savannah went to New York on a work trip and Julie joined her extended family in Aspen for a week of rest and relaxation. Each of them return with very similar stories, regaling each other with unplanned and positive encounters…
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