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TW - Sex talk and compliance
Today we talk more about Compliance and clarify some of the things we talked about in Episode 16. We talk about the boundaries needing to be clear to help prevent sexual compliance and we talk about what getting behaviors are and when they might be good but when they certainly are not good.
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TW - Sex talk and compliance
Today we talk more about Compliance and clarify some of the things we talked about in Episode 16. We talk about the boundaries needing to be clear to help prevent sexual compliance and we talk about what getting behaviors are and when they might be good but when they certainly are not good.
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedTW - Sex Talk Today we discuss a few things that have happened over the last month and people we have talked to. We talk about roomates again, platonic relationships, feeling not good enough and where validity resides for each partner etc.
1 029 - Asexual Relationhips - Not Just A Roomate 1:00:06
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedTW- Sex Talk A Lot In this episode we discuss sexual attraction from the Allosexual to the Asexual as well as addressing how Allosexual partners can better address their partner coming out Asexual and wanting their Allosexul partner to understand them better. We also address the roomate comments that often happen.…
TW - Sex mentioned In this episode we discuss how the holidays have been, the new year and what we plan on doing this year. Jessi also discusses going to a level 1 winter solstice party.
1 027 - Coming Out Asexual: 10 Things I Wish I Knew 1:37:55
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedTW- Sex talk and a small discussion that mentions Self Harm Today we talk about 10 things that an Asexual person may have wished they knew before coming out as Asexual. As well as other ramblings
1 026 - Asexual Relationship: Ethical Non-Monogamy Part 3 1:11:09
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedTW: Sex Talk For Sure This episode we wrap up our 3 part discussion on Ethical Non-Monogamy. We particularly discuss pro's and con's of ENM and what that means and looks like to not only the Allosexual but the Asexual in a relationship.
1 025 - Asexual Relationship: Ethical Non-Monogamy Part 2 1:05:48
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedTW: Sex Talk In this episode, we discuss a couple emails we got, Jessi's new discovery with her self time and then we get into part 2 of Ethical Non-Monogamy and the different flavors that exist in ENM including open relationship, swinging and polyamory.
1 024 - Asexual Relationship: Ethical Non-Monogamy Part 1 1:03:00
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedTW: Sex Talk In this episode, we discuss a couple things going on with our kids and then we get into part 1 of Ethical Non-Monogamy and our history with it. We wanted to share this information before going further into it so that you understand our background with it.
1 023 - Truth, Familiarity and Empathy - 3 Pillars To A Healthy Relationship 1:03:20
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedTW: Sex Talk In this episode we take a look at these 3 particular pillars in a relationship and discuss what happens when there is an imbalance.
-TW: This episode has a lot of sex talk. Like a lot. In this episode we discuss some revelations around sexual intimacy, self pleasure and what that means in our relationship and what we have learned in this process of getting closer together and self discovery.
1 021 - Understanding Without Understanding - Empathy 59:47
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedTW - Some sexual discussion and a scenario where the phrase violated was used as an averse asexual. We have an etsy store https://etsy.com/shop/AlloAndAce In this episode we discuss different forms of empathy in a relationship specifically the difference between Cognitive Empathy and Emotional Empathy and how we as humans need to get away from self preservation / defense and sit for a moment and if we can't emotionally provide empathy, intellectually think about the situation and see if you can provide congitive empathy to get to a place of understanding without understanding.…
TW - General Sex Talk In this Episode, we discuss clarifications from Episode 19 and on top of that, discuss what it looks like to make clear agreements in a relationship especially when it comes to understanding each other better in an asexual relationship but also how that can strengthen communication in your relationship too.…
TW - SEX and Substance Use Look. We get it. Monogamies isn't a word. That's fine. This episode is about both Ethical Non-Monogamy and Ethical Monogamy. Most people don't consider the fact that their monogamous relationship may not be ethical. Who decides that? Well the answer is the both of you. Lately, Jessi has been feeling guilty because she feels like she is forcing celibacy on me and we compare the relationship to the Cost Suck Fallacy and is that the only reason why I am afraid to say I need more? Well, tune in and find out.…
TW - Sex Want to send us a text or voicemail? 1-385-645-3651 Today Jessi wanted to continue her discussion about looking back to few days before realizing she was Asexual and what that looked like. Along with that, realizing the masks that we wear for good or bad and why the sexual persona is such a difficult persona to shed and what that means in a relationship. That can be hard for both the Asexual partner and Allosexual partner.…
1 017 - Further Discussion on Compliance and Getting Behaviors 1:04:45
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedTW - Sex talk and compliance Today we talk more about Compliance and clarify some of the things we talked about in Episode 16. We talk about the boundaries needing to be clear to help prevent sexual compliance and we talk about what getting behaviors are and when they might be good but when they certainly are not good.…
1 016 - Navigating Intimacy - Avoiding Sexual Compliance in Asexual Relationships 1:58:17
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Play Later Play Later Lists Like LikedTW: This whole episode is about SA in the form of Sexual Compliance and Sex We discuss the various forms of asexuality including the level of Favorability or Repulsness of sex and how Sexual Compliance can sneak into the relationship. Importance of Consent and Boundaries as well as societal pressures, and miss-information when it comes to asexuality being psychological or a hormone imbalance. We discuss communication and issues around communication as well as boundaries and how difficult this episode was for Jessi.…
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