Solonge's Story of Resilience: Finding Purpose Through Pain

Baring it All with Rose and Chrystal

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TW: Please be aware that Solonge's story speaks of the loss of her boys (stillborn)
When faced with some of life's toughest battles, how do we find the courage to push through?
In this episode of Baring it All, our remarkable guest, Solonge, a corporate communications specialist, wife, and mother with a heart as wide as the sky, opens up about her harrowing yet uplifting journey. Throughout her life, she has faced many tough battles from a young age, marked by her brother's drug addiction and the loss of her twins, Leo and Cruz at 22 weeks and 4 days ; it is a profound narrative of facing adversity with unwavering strength and grace.
Throughout this episode, Solonge shares her story and invites us into her world of complex family dynamics, intergenerational trauma, and her battles with body image and mental health. Her story transitions from the shock of discovering her brother's secret life to the anguish of her own personal tragedies. Yet, during her struggles, she finds resilience and the transformative power of mindset and helping others - her voice is a beacon for anyone navigating their darkest hours. It explores the depth of maternal bonds, the importance of personal healing, and the embrace of vulnerability as a source of strength.
As Solonge shares her path to recovery and growth, we are reminded of the importance of self-care, boundary-setting, and the beauty of finding purpose in our pain. Solonge inspires us to look within, confront our triggers, and possibly discover our wings to rise above and soar, just as she has. Join us for this raw, intimate, soul-stirring conversation, an ode to the incredible human spirit.
Find more about Solonge on Instagram @simplysolonge
*please note that Solonge’s twins were 22 weeks and 4 days when delivered.
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Chapters

1. Solonge's Story of Resilience: Finding Purpose Through Pain (00:00:00)

2. Family, Trauma, and Resilience (00:00:05)

3. Journey Through Family Struggles (00:13:11)

4. A Journey of Twin Pregnancy Tragedy (00:25:32)

5. Healing After Pregnancy Loss (00:38:40)

6. Overcoming Past Trauma and Growth (00:51:28)

7. Embracing Triggers and Finding Purpose (00:55:55)

8. Transformation Through the Blue Butterfly (01:05:39)