Ep. 180 Abbe Feder: Not to go through anything hard alone if you don't have to
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Join Paulette and Abbe for this conversation on Not to go through anything hard alone if you don't have to
About Abbe:
Abbe Feder (FEED-er) founded InCircle Fertility after emerging on the other side of her all-consuming struggle with infertility and pregnancy loss. Combining professional expertise, industry know-how, and an abundance of empathy and compassion, InCircle Fertility provides coaching to individuals and couples all over the world and wherever they are on their path to parenthood.
Takeaways:
- Infertility can have a significant impact on marriage, causing strain and communication challenges.
- Statistics show that infertility affects a significant number of couples, highlighting the need for support and understanding.
- Different perspectives on family and desires for children can create tension and conflict within a marriage.
- The dilemma of frozen embryos raises legal and emotional considerations that couples must navigate.
- Seeking support from experts can help couples navigate the challenges of infertility and make informed decisions.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Background
01:16 Abbe's Personal Journey
05:15 The Assumption of Easy Pregnancy
07:25 The Impact of Stress on Fertility
09:09 Supporting Clients in the Infertility Journey
12:33 Assessing Physical and Medical Factors
13:09 Balancing Physical, Financial, and Emotional Well-being
14:01 The Emotional and Physical Roller Coaster of Hormone Treatments
17:40 The Need for Control and Surrender in the Infertility Journey
18:46 Infertility and its Impact on Marriage
19:40 Statistics on Infertility
20:10 Communication Challenges
21:24 Different Perspectives on Family
22:25 The Impact on Marriage
23:49 Considering Different Paths
24:02 Options for Frozen Embryos
25:26 Strain on the Marriage
26:23 Seeking Support and Expert Help
27:09 Divorce and Frozen Embryos
29:40 Legal and Emotional Considerations
30:08 Litigation and Privacy Concerns
31:01 Conscious Choices in Marriage
32:27 The Brave New World of Technology
33:25 The Importance of Knowledge and Support
34:02 Contacting and Working with Abbe
34:27 Contacting and Working with Paulette
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